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Absolutly head over heels for my girl, but I know she's been cheating. What should I do?

Q.   Ladies any advice will do. Well here it goes well i'm a male in my 20's who for the last 2 years have been in a realanship on and OFF. I'm madly in luv with this girl, the problem is that she walks in and out of my life 4 the last two years. I know ...

A.   18 June 2007: Do the right thing honey, leave her for a moment and have sometime alone!! i believe that she's not ready for a serious commitment that you're offering, this girl still wants to enjoy being single. no matter how much you love her, if she dosent ... (read in full...)

How do I get my ex back ? He said that I have abused him for too long.

Q.   I did not get any responses to help me in my torture at the moment! So, posting another cry for help! Thanks for your patience and time to read again! How do I get my ex back ? He said that I have abused him for too long and that he was OUT of i...

A.   18 June 2007: Its very obvious that he still wants you! he just had a little time alone to settle things out between the two of you, you said you want him back, and he also show feedbacks, so dont wait forever!! talk to him NOW say you still want him your pride ... (read in full...)

What are some complications that can arise from anal sex?

Q.   What makes gay anal sex good? Some people say that its very sore and in some cases has its complications. What are the complications, and what do you do to make it good? I know this is graphic, or where could I find out about these things. Like ...

A.   18 June 2007: my proffesor in college who taught us about sex education, told us that you can acquire some infection from anal sex, because your anus is a habitat for disease causing microorganisms in your body, it is not good for both people involved, so dont ... (read in full...)

I want to start a conversation with this guy I like on Myspace, how do I start it off?

Q.   All my life I've been attracted to slim/slender men. Well, then I met this guy named Alan. His height is 6'2, and he's not chubby at all, just has a little bit extra baggage. He plays volleyball and basketball in school. I don't understand, I am...

A.   18 June 2007: give him a compliment like,, "ur great at basketball".. "nice game" and stuff,,, but also try to approach him personally, that capures most boys attention. ... (read in full...)

19 and got prenant, my boyfriend was so excited... I miscarried but now I'm pregnant again he hates the idea! (+ my mom has kicked me out)

Q.   I am having a hard time right now and I really don't know where to turn. I an 19 years old and was with my boyfriend for a little over a year when I found out I was pregnant. He already has a 4 year old son and I thought from the start he wouldn't ...

A.   18 June 2007: Sad to hear that honey, but no matter how complicated your situation is, the best thing that you can do is to keep the baby, shes all you've got, about your boyfriend, perhaps he's also having hard time to recover from what happened on your first ... (read in full...)

We both want to kiss eachother but we're both to scared to make the first move!

Q.   There is a guy I like. He is friends with a friend of mine. He has been known to get around a bit in the past but apparently around me he is shy and nervous. He wants to kiss me, I want to kiss him but neither of us can make the first move. His ...

A.   18 June 2007: haha, try to talk about the whole kissing thing, express your point and let him explain his, and when the conversarion is at its peak, both of you should do it! But in other sense, you should do nothing, its more romantic if it just happen ... (read in full...)

I have an atypical male problem... I want the perfect mate

Q.   I have a typical male problem in that i want to commit to my girl but only if a list of criterias are met... like "she doesn't control me, she is not too clingy, possessive, is tolerant of my mistakes when i am careless about her, gives me my own ...

A.   18 June 2007: nobody is perfect honey, if you keep on searching you will end up with nothing, learn to accept people the way they are and dont ever try to change your partner to fit on your qualifications because that destroys the essence of love.. start by ... (read in full...)

I'm fine with her socialising but I get so jealous when she talks to this one guy.

Q.   I have a real issue. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 4 months now. I'm fine with her socializing with everyone else except for this 1 kid. He's 1 of my mates from school, and for some reason, whenever they're together, I just get so so ...

A.   18 June 2007: a little jealousy is healthy but too much of it will kill your relationship, its normal for you to feel jealous because you have a strong feelings for your girlfriend, but if both of you are arguing for that matter, its time for you to reflect, ask ... (read in full...)

Obsessed with taking my wife's 17 year old sister to bed!

Q.   I am happily married,,my wife is 26yrs old and I am 46.The problem is that I have this obsession with my wife's sister,,she is 17yrs old I want to take her to bed and she seems to have feelings for me as well.What do I do?...

A.   18 June 2007: you said you are happily married, right? so dont risk your relationship with your wife and dont ever interchange LOVE for LUST, we all do feel the attraction for the opposite sex but you should know your limitations, this is only a test for you and ... (read in full...)

I like him but he keeps pressuring me for sex! Should I dump him?

Q.   hey i am 13 years old and same with me boyfriend. on the very first night he kept asking me to do bj's with him and made me feel very uncomfortable. I confronted him about it and he said that he was sorry, but he keeps asking me to like take showers ...

A.   18 June 2007: D-U-M-P him honey!! he's not even worth it, if sex is his basis of love, then dump him! you deserve a better one, if he only likes you for that reason it means that he does not respect you enough, look for somebody who will love you unconditionally.... (read in full...)

He doesnt come home. Should I kick him to the curb?

Q.   Should i stay with my boyfriend the father of our new born son? He cheated on me right after our son was born. There are nights he does not come home. But i dont feel as we have given it all we have, as he does not see a problem or try to change. Am ...

A.   18 June 2007: uh oh, sorry to here that, you know, men are polygamous by nature, no matter how hard they try it, they just cant resist it! but on your condition, its time for you to tell him that the situation is bothering you, talk to him! its the best solution, ... (read in full...)

I am only 11, but I am two months pregant!

Q.   (ok my original profile thing iz batman but i did something and made a new profile) alright well i am 11 and now 2 monthes pregnant! im really scared cuz me and my boyfriend r both ganna need to take care of this child 2gether and im still liv...

A.   18 June 2007: oh, that's tough! at a very young age with a huge responsibility huh? i do agree that parenting is one of the hardest part of life, specially to YOU! in your case, you definately have to develop the sense of maturity, ur still a baby carrying ... (read in full...)

I'm scared of losing his friendship forever but I can't be around him while he is with her.

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up just over 3 months ago now. We were together nearly 4 years and before we got together we were best friends for 6 years. It has been the worst 3 months for me and I'm still not over him even a little bit. I loved him so ...

A.   18 June 2007: That's tough! you know, it'a very hard to stay friends at that condition, if you're disgusted about your situation, feel free not to be involved anymore, i know it's hard, but it's a good start, have some self respect, make them feel that their not ... (read in full...)

He broke up with me for someone else, how do I get on with my life?

Q.   My relationship with my fiance has recently come to an end, a big shock to me but not to him supposedly. He proposed at Christmas, wedding booked for next July. His initial reason for our break up was that he didn't know what he wanted, then it was ...

A.   18 June 2007: you can start by pointing your attention on certain stuff that will make you feel great, you could travel for sometime and have a little reflection on yourself, remember that the first step of moving on is acceptance, accept the fact that he's gone, ... (read in full...)

Was he using me all the way through our relationship?? I have so many questions to ask him but I'm too scared! Help!

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up about 6 months ago after being together for 6 months, but I can't stop thinking about him. I'm 17 and he is 20. I lost my virignity to him after being together for 2 months, it felt right at the time and I don't regret it ...

A.   17 June 2007: you're too young, you deserve someone better who would love you unconditionally, respect yourself and all the good things will follow, your life shouldnt revolve around his.... (read in full...)

We're engaged but found out he cheated on me 9 months ago. Do I confront him?

Q.   what should i do? me and my boyfriend have been going out for 11 months and were engaged now. i found out today that he cheated on me 9 months ago. should i forget about the hole cheating or confront him about it and if i should what should i do?...

A.   17 June 2007: confront him! though yeah its hard its the best thing you could do, the secret of a healthy relationship is a proper communication, give him another chance, but if he react violently and denied it, that's the time that you should broke up with him, ... (read in full...)

Her parents will send her away if I contact her!

Q.   How can i convince her parents im not a bad guy without getting her in any trouble. when i asked her out her parents said we couldnt date or even be friends because of the problems i have had in the past at school. we have still been talking and we ...

A.   17 June 2007: Show your face infront of her parents, tell them that you have a clear intention to their daughter, and if they object just prove yourself! believe me that's impressive, my suitor did that and my dad was like stunned!... (read in full...)

People judge us, but we are happy!

Q.   Hi I am from the Caribbean. I am a 32yr old African Origin woman that is in a relationship with a 61 yr old White French man. My parents hate our relationship. People make fun of us and stare at us. I am a hard working woman, I have a nor...

A.   17 June 2007: You love him, right? and youre happy, right? just seek for the benefit of your relationship and dont mind those people who talk behind your back, they tend to do that because they are not happy with their lives and they are jealous of what you have! ... (read in full...)

Does my sister like me MORE than a sister should?

Q.   So, I want to know if a girl likes me. We get on, and can talk about relationships. she does not seem uncomfortable in me mentioning sex, and has on one occasion watched porn with me and my male friends. Also, she does not seem to be uncomfortable...

A.   17 June 2007: So, that freaks you out? well, yeah it's unusual for a girl to do that, but you must consider that people has their own way of thinking, if that's youre sisters action towards you then deal with it! sometimes boys misinterprets feminine actions, ... (read in full...)

Whats a good way to tell someone youre in love with them?

Q.   Whats a good way to tell someone you're in love with them? thanks x...

A.   17 June 2007: You dont always have to speak the word "i love you", your actions speak louder than words, your mere presence is the best way for them to realize that they are important to you, then love will take place in an instant, it will develop to the higher ... (read in full...)

Texted him to tell him I liked him. Now he's not replied! What should I do?

Q.   Ok im like sixteen and i like this guy hes fourteen, we hooked up at a party a couple of weeks ago and ya, I just told him that i like him in a text message, and he didn't reply.. my friend said that he's amybe just shy or something? any ideas? coz ...

A.   17 June 2007: believe it or not ive been in the same exact situation, but guest what? ive came up with a nice realization! it is obvious that this guy was not interested in you so why deal with it? if you're problem is you're embarrassed coz you told him about ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend having trouble getting it up because of stress.

Q.   i know that my boyfriend is always very stressed, and very worried about things that have nothing to do with sex, and on top of those worries he feels pressure to make it good for me. becuase of all this he can only get a semi an cant get hard or ...

A.   17 June 2007: sex is always not a basis of love, i can see that you truly love your husband and you're upset on what is happening between the both of you in bed. The most important thing that you can do is to stay with him at this moments, your presence is very ... (read in full...)

Tried to start a family for 8 months without succeeding. What should we do?

Q.   my boyfriend and i are trying to have a baby. weve been trying for about 8 months now and it still hasnt worked. what could help or what should i do?...

A.   17 June 2007: just be patient, everything has a reason, perhaps this situation is only a challenge given by god for both of you to test your love,understanding, and faith. focus youselves more on the preparation, besides, 8 months is a very short time to be a ... (read in full...)

Ex boyfriend made me and my lovely guy break up. Now, after 2 years, we've met up again and he's with another woman! He says he'll be with me soon... Should I wait for him?

Q.   I met this older guy a couple of years ago and we just kinda clicked and started going out but as i had just broken up with my husband we started things slowly, after about 6 months my ex-partner found out and started making our lifes hell with ...

A.   17 June 2007: if i were you i wouldnt wait for him anymore, i can see that you are such a wonderful person whose only mistake is to fall in love with the wrong man, no matter how you love him you have to seek for the benefit of yourself, respect yourself first, ... (read in full...)

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