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Born in the fifties and a teenager in the 60's! I saw many bands, including THE SMALL FACES, which i was in their fan club, Family, Free, Kinks, etc. Hence, kinky boots for the name, which i owned several pairs of all colours and lengths to go with the minis, of course. I have had a very checkered past to say the least. Three kids and three relationships, need i say more. I have had loads of experience in most things and just want to help others get through the turnstile of life now. I have a wicked sense of humour and love cats.
that is all i can think of right now, but i will update it in the future, cos i have loads to tell you all.
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I am having a hard time deciding which month to get married...
Q. Hello, my name is Ashley I am having a hard time deciding when to get married. I am engaged and in love. I am having a hard time deciding what month to get married. I'm think Between March, April or May. My birthday is in April and his is in Ma...
A. 29 November 2008: Why not go for June, it will be a lot warmer, depending on where you live and you will both of had your birthdays. My birthday is in March, but it can be really cold and even snowy where i live, so it is up to you, let me know your decision. take ... (read in full...)
Does having sex in a car mean the couple is desperate for sex?
Q. Is having oral sex/having sex/making out in a car seems that the couple is desperate for sex?? how many times per week (having sex) is healthy for a relationship?...
A. 26 November 2008: It can add an excitment to a relationship so there is nothing bad or kinky about it, so dont worry. Each couple is different, just have sex when the mood arrives and dont try to keep up with other people. Its up to you.... (read in full...)
I feel rejected even although we live in the same house...
Q. I have a loving husband but whenever we get into an argument he raises his voice, verbally abuses me and then it's the silent treatment but he acts as if nothing has happened. I feel very rejected as we live in the same house and we just pass each ...
A. 26 November 2008: Talking is the only way to solve problems, but hey if he wont talk then what are you supposed to do, but you cannot go on like this. I was married to a wife beater for years and he used to put me through hell with the silent treatment, so i cannot ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's parents found out that we've been having sex and want us to stop...
Q. My girlfriend's parents found out that we've been having sex and want us to stop, neither me or her want to stop and it's not like we have sex like crazy, it's just like once a week. Should we follow them? or continue to do it behind their backs? ...
A. 26 November 2008: If you are both over 16 then it isnt up to your parents to stop you. Make sure you dont end up getting her pregnant ande they will have lots to shout about and you will need their help in the future, so be careful.... (read in full...)
Internet cheating
Q. My boyfriend of three and a half years has cheated on me over the internet before. Several times. I have asked that he absolutely not use Instant Messenger for that very reason. He promised that he wasn't using IM at all. Recently, I found out that ...
A. 26 November 2008: I think you need to talk to him and ask him outright just what the hell he is doing, if you dont like something then you have a right to let him know. If he says he is stopped then he hasnt, then this is deceitful, confront him and talk it over.... (read in full...)
We just broke up and I'm feeling depressed... what should I do?
Q. I've just broken up with my girlfriend of 5 months but during this time the relationship was very serious. Today I received a text saying she wasn't ready for a relationship and we were over. I've tried to meet her and phone her but she's just ...
A. 25 November 2008: I dont like text messages and they shouldnt be used for something as important as breaking up, text her back and ask if you can meet and finish properly face to face, this isnt right. If not, then move on, but do take each day as it comes, and i ... (read in full...)
I hacked into his email account... how do I tell him?
Q. ok so my boyfriend went to another state for thanksgiving with his family and he started acting weird he wouldnt call me and when I called, one night his brother answered and sang and hung up.... then I called back, he answered and I heard a girl in ...
A. 25 November 2008: Personally, you need to calm down and stop doing these things, he does have a right to privacy, so stop it. I wouldnt tell him what i had done if that was me, how will he know, and if he finds out he will certainly dump you if he has any brains, ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be a dad!
Q. I don't want to become a dad at 15 years old but I what to have sex with my girlfriend, we both want to but we don't want kids yet, what do I do....
A. 25 November 2008: Be responsible and wait until you are over 16 and always wear a condom. dont rely on the woman to take the protection because you can still pick up an sexually transmitted disease. Wear a condom and be sensible and have fun, but when you are old ... (read in full...)
So ladies, hairy chest or not?
Q. So ladies, hairy chest or not? Im like Steve Carrell hairy, is that too much? I would prefer answers from high school and college girls, as that is my age. Thanks....
A. 24 November 2008: I like both, it is the person not the chest i am interested in. A good personality and a good genuine,honest person for me everytime, who makes me laugh and who is my friend first and partner next. ... (read in full...)
My sister's loser boyfriend tried to kiss me and now she's ignoring me!
Q. My sister (she's 17 and im 15) has this loser boyfriend (age 18). Well he tried to kiss me (I tried to stop him so but didnt work it). She caught us broke up with him. She wont talk to me or be in the room as me. Shes pretty much ignoring me. I ...
A. 22 November 2008: Just stick by your word and dont change it to get your sister back. Dont put up with any crap, and let her know that you are there for her when she finally wakes up from this love induced sleep and realises the truth, but until then, keep away and ... (read in full...)
How many years of a sexless marriage should be enough for divorce?
Q. After years of sexless marriage, is there a hope that sex will come alive again, or is it over forever? How many years of no sexual desire from my husband should be enough for divorce? Or most marriages will end up with no sex? I wonder so much, wh...
A. 22 November 2008: How many years are you talking about, i put up with 4 before i moved out, but it is up to the individual and why is there no sex? More info please.... (read in full...)
Any remedies for stretch marks and wrinkles on the stomach after two kids?
Q. I was wondering if anyone knew a really good remedy for stretch marks and wrinkles on the stomach. I had 2 kids and am left with a prune belly. Please someone help me. This is not exactly a sex questions but due to my self-esteem because of it, I'm ...
A. 22 November 2008: I bought some bio oil and it made them appear lighter, but i have had three kids and nothing takes them away, that was why i told my daughter to put the creams and oils on regular and try and prevent them.... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and cannot relax for my first time ! I don't know what to do..=(
Q. well..hum me and my boyfriend actually didn't have sex..The thing is that i cannot relax and i contract...=/ I don't know what to do..=(...
A. 22 November 2008: Much too young, is this a genuine question?... (read in full...)
Every time I try to leave him he always makes me feel sorry for him.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we broke up about 4 times and it's always the same reason because he drinks too much, I have lost a lot of feelings for him, I really can't stand him any more!!!! Every time I leave him he comes crying b...
A. 21 November 2008: dont listen to this sorry excuse of a bloke, he is playing a nasty and dangerous game with you. The next time he does this lock him out of your life for good and dont listen to his crap. He isnt for you/move on.... (read in full...)
Do you think I'm cut out to be her boyfriend?
Q. Just wondering if I have anything to worry about here, I don't think I do. I've started a thing with a girl and things are going great, but I can't help but to feel a bit selfconscious. You see, I'm a somewhat out of shape white guy, and all ...
A. 19 November 2008: Stop your worrying now, enjoy just what you have. We all have a past, and she is with your because she wants to be. We can all over analyse things and then become insecure, so stop this now, and relax and enjoy it.
take carexx... (read in full...)
He's telling me I'm hopeless in the bedroom!!!!
Q. My boyfriend has a very high sex drive, and is now saying I have to improve our sex life or he will end the relationship. (basically he told me he doesn't enjoy having sex with me.. I need to get into it more and seem like I'm enjoying it) I would ...
A. 19 November 2008: What a pig! Sorry, but i have to agree with the other aunts, sex has to be enjoyed by both and not ordered by one! You have a life too and i think i would be planning it without him!
get rid.
xx... (read in full...)
I'm dating an older man but falling for his son who's my age.
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a few months who's alot older than me. Recently I've been spending alot of time with his son who is my age. I've found myself developing feelings for him but don't know what to do....
A. 18 November 2008: I go with Irish on this one, dont go there, you will just end up causing pain and grief and could alienate yourself from both of them. Remember blood is thicker than water, and he is his dad. You shouldnt cheat, full stop. Listen to what Irish has ... (read in full...)
My brothers are driving me insane!
Q. My brothers are driving me insane. I (im 27) have two older brothers. Well one of them decided to cheat on his girlfriend (call him David) she threw him out. David lived with our other brother, Jeremey (not he's real name). David slept with Jerem...
A. 18 November 2008: Boot your brother out and tell him to stand on his own two feet, he got himself into this mess, so stop clearing up after him and get rid before he comes between you and your bloke. ... (read in full...)
A question about WATER!
Q. Quick question My mum told me it's bad to drink different types of water in the same day - i.e Evian and Caladonian. I was just wondering if this is true and if so what are the side effects??...
A. 17 November 2008: Load of Pish! Sorry but your mum got it wrong this time, plenty of water is good for you.... (read in full...)
What's happening to this world?!
Q. What's happening to this world? Every time I'm here everyone is talking about sex, even 10-11 year olds, what happened to childhood? I didn't even know what sex meant when I was 10, there must be something to do, I can't take seeing some girls ...
A. 17 November 2008: I have felt this way for a long time, the world has gone mad, and ordinary values have long gone, but we have to do our best and give them the best possible answers that we can muster up.
take care... (read in full...)
I love my husband, but since having our children, I've lost my sex drive. Please help.
Q. I am a 27 yr old mother of 2 awesome boys (5 and 2). Since having my kids i have lost my sex drive. This problem is ruining my life and my 8 yr relationship with my husband. I feel really bad because he thinks that i do not love him or am not attr...
A. 17 November 2008: I lots 3 stone nearly 4 years ago. My way was to dance. Put your favourite dance music on whenever you can and dance away to it. cut out the crap food, no more biscuits, cakes etc and dont finish off the food that the kids leave, bin it. It doesnt ... (read in full...)
Best aftershaves and perfumes???
Q. Hello, quick question. Girls, which (if any) (fairly cheap) colognes do you like the best? Guys, what do you think is best? I know it's not going to suddenly make all the girls in my school attracted to me, but I like to smell good. It creates a ...
A. 17 November 2008: soap and water, girls like to smell a guy who is clean and not draped in cheap horrible over the top crap.... (read in full...)
I love my husband, but since having our children, I've lost my sex drive. Please help.
Q. I am a 27 yr old mother of 2 awesome boys (5 and 2). Since having my kids i have lost my sex drive. This problem is ruining my life and my 8 yr relationship with my husband. I feel really bad because he thinks that i do not love him or am not attr...
A. 17 November 2008: Do you spend any time without the kids? Maybe you just need some you and him time and rediscover each other. book up and go to a hotel for a night or two and just lavish yourselves. Put the kids out of your head and have a dirty weekend, get some ... (read in full...)
We've been having an afair for 12 years and now he is gone. What do I do?
Q. well here goes i am new on here. I had in affair for 12 years im married he has a live in girlfriend with the same woman for 12 years. the affair came so stressful i did everything i could to hold on to him. Well he started to make up excuses with ...
A. 17 November 2008: I wont put you down, but i do feel so sorry for you. You know you were in the wrong, but affairs are always hard to let go of. You burn inside and when you know you shouldnt go back for more, you do and then you get burned some more. But please dont ... (read in full...)
Should I I let the best thing that has ever happened to me disappear or should I tell him how I feel?
Q. I finished with my boyfriend in in July. We had been going out for 6 months and I loved him soo much. I was soo happy with him because he would do anything for me. He meant the world to me but then we started to argue and then my grandad died and ...
A. 13 November 2008: No just walk away. You didnt want him before so why should he leave his new gf and come with you? Dont be a bitch and hold your head up high and walk away and meet someone else. He is happy, and i bet he wasnt when you finished. Just let well alone ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend that I want jewery for Christmas?
Q. Dear Cupid, I don't know how to tell my boyfriend i want jewelry for christmas. he's asked me but i don't know what to say. from what to say what to say?...
A. 13 November 2008: It is supposed to be the thought that counts.... (read in full...)
I met a man online, he says that he loves me but at times he just switches off.
Q. I met this man via chatting..He is a scorpio by the way. After some days he proposed his love for me stating that he meant it by his heart n soul n is just waiting for my reply. We exchanged numbers n got to know each other well n after some days I ...
A. 13 November 2008: You met someone on line and he says he loves you, how weird is that, have you actually met him? This virtual stuff gives me the creep, you need to switch off the computer, go out with your mates and have a good night out and meet a real life bloke, ... (read in full...)
Should I call or text him? I want us to be friends.
Q. ive broken up with my boyfriend of over a year for various reasons. mainly the fact that i felt more like we we friends. he also did things that were strange, like calling me from a private number, and lied to me at the start of our relationship...
A. 13 November 2008: If you feel you need to text then do so but make it brief and to the point. Just say something like 'i would like us to stay friends in the future'. But dont go over the top or he could read into it, but it is nice to stay in touch.
take care
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I've lost my sex drive... what can I do?
Q. I am 53, and in the last month I have lost my sex drive. What can I do?...
A. 13 November 2008: Why dont you pop along and have a check up with your doctor and tell them how you feel, it could be something simple or deep rooted but you are a young bloke and this should got on a lot longer than this. Have you had any family upsets, do you have ... (read in full...)
Why did my friend betray my trust?
Q. I am so annoyed right now and need advice. Do you think it is ok for a so called best friend (a guy) to tell my other girl friend about the night me and him came close to sleeping together?? I am so upset about the fact he told her ALL of the ...
A. 9 November 2008: Talk to this person and let him know just how you feel, he betrayed a trust, and once you tell him, decide if you want to be friends in the future, you have to have 100% trust in someone and it has been broken. I would tell them.... (read in full...)
How can I stop him interfering in my life?
Q. my story my ex husband and I got divorced after his mulitples affairs , we have a four year old daughter, he is always making me feel like I cant have a life and uses our daughter against me every chance he gets. I want to move on but every chance...
A. 9 November 2008: You need to get strong over this one. You say he had affairs, so what right does he have to talk to you in such a way. Tell him straight that you are not listening, you are doing the best for your child and your life has nothing to do with him now ... (read in full...)
I've thinking about my life and I don't really know what I want anymore and it's scaring me.
Q. I've always been the type that likes to set big goals and work for them. Lately I've thinking about my life and I don't really know what I want anymore. It's scaring me. I'm upset and I can't imagine what would make me unupset. Seriously, if a genie ...
A. 9 November 2008: How old are YOU? We all go through these times in our lives, and i call them the 'adjusting stages', we question who we are, where we are going, etc, and never really come up with the answers, so stop beating yourself up, it happens to everyone. I ... (read in full...)
Did his sister spill my secret?
Q. ok i have this guy friend and we have been friends 4 three years. one night i get a text from his sister asking if i would ever go out with him and i trusted her not to tell him. i dont know if she did so i missed school that day but when i got back ...
A. 7 November 2008: Try not to get worried or paranoid, just be careful in future who you put your faith and trust in. How old are you?
take care
xx... (read in full...)
When will he just open his eyes and see that I am there?!
Q. I am aware this is a repost but I would like some more points of view... There's this guy I have liked for the past year or so but I have never said anything as he told one of our mutual friends that he didn't like me in that way. And I wasn't off...
A. 7 November 2008: Well, we can never force people to like or even love us that is for sure, so if i was you i would move on and cut your loses. You probably have had a lucky escape and the man of your dreams hasnt entered you life yet. You take care and i am sure you ... (read in full...)
Can a person 20 or 30 years older fancy someone who is 16-20 years old?
Q. Hey guys, I have one question for you. Do you think it's possible that somebody who is much older than you (20 or 30 years) fancys a girl who is 16-20 years old? Especially if that somebody is in position of power (like for example boss, teacher,...
A. 7 November 2008: I never ever put anything into the age gap thing, it is only a number, my friend is married to a bloke 21 years older than her, and they love each other, so what is the problem. dont let anyone put you off if you want to be with someone.
take ... (read in full...)
I know he's stringing me along but I'm in love with him...
Q. How do I get over him?? I am in love with a man who I know is just stringing me along! - We are not together as he already has a girlfriend - but he rings me from time to time(usually when he needs something - obviously to keep me keen)and I alway...
A. 7 November 2008: This can happen to anyone of any age, i know i have been there. The trick is to do your best to ignore him. change your phone numbers, and dont be there for him. He is playing a game and a one that you will never win. How can this man make you melt? ... (read in full...)
How old is TOO old?
Q. Hey, I have just turned 17 and the guy is 32 and has a gf. background I have started to fancy this guy that drinks in the pub that I work at. It all started when we were talking one night and he asked for my number, I gave it to him thinking tha...
A. 7 November 2008: You are so clever and astute for your age.
1. You did the right thing by saying NO.
2. Age is just a number and should never be taken seriously, so date any age, dont worry about the age thing, it is up to you.
3. Yes, i do think you like... (read in full...)
My mate still thinks there is something there between my ex and I. What do you think?
Q. Hi all at cupid, I'm mega confused at the moment, My ex broke up with me to get back with his ex gf the mother of his child, but he keeps talking to me on the phone, when I see him he flirts with me like we are still in a relationship, one of my ...
A. 7 November 2008: I think this guy likes to play games and messing with peoples heads, stop giving him any attention, ignore him and meet someone of your own, He has gone back to his ex, what do you want now, to have your nose rubbed in it. Get a life and meet ... (read in full...)
I asked her out a week ago and she hasn't answered yet!
Q. I broke up with my g/f 2 years ago and we both moved on. But recently I have started to want her again and whenever I hang out with her she acts like she likes me too. The only problem is that when I asked her out a week ago she didn't answer and ...
A. 7 November 2008: I think she has already answered, by not getting in touch, she doesnt want to know, so move on and meet someone else. You cannot make someone be with you, want you or even love you, so no pressure and take things easy. If it is meant to be then she ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend just told me that he was gay before he knew me...
Q. Hii there. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 and a half years. We love each other to pieces. But the other day he sat me down and said that he wanted to get something off his chest. He told me that before he knew me he was openly ...
A. 7 November 2008: He has been open and honest about and you should respect him for that. It was before you two got together, is he likely to want the blokes back in his life, say going back to being gay, or bisexual. Have a good long talk to him, but dont hang him ... (read in full...)
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