Did I answer her question wrong?
Q. Hi, I have been seeing someone for around 3 months everything is going great and im starting to really like her, however the other day she asked my if ive ever had a one night stand and immediately got up and left afterwards, I answered honestly and ...
A. 13 October 2022: Ok so you have been dating her for around 3 months which is fairly early days, but long enough where you can get away with asking these type of questions.
Maybe she really likes you, maybe she see's a future with you and is just interest... (read in full...)
Did I answer her question wrong?
Q. Hi, I have been seeing someone for around 3 months everything is going great and im starting to really like her, however the other day she asked my if ive ever had a one night stand and immediately got up and left afterwards, I answered honestly and ...
A. 13 October 2022: test... (read in full...)
I use enemas to help please myself.does anyone else?
Q. I have used an enema to enhance masturbation since I was a boy. They have been as good as or better than sex with my wife because when I masturbate I just have to please myself. With a wife I wanted to please her too. Am I the only one that does ...
A. 12 October 2022: Seems like a lot of time and effort, just to reach an orgasm. ... (read in full...)
In a long distance relationship and I just found out that my gf is pregnant by another man!
Q. Hello I'm in a long distance relationship (like across the country) and today I learned from a friend of my girlfriend that she is pregnant by another man. I confronted my girlfriend and she admitted that she screwed up a few months ago and w...
A. 9 October 2022: I am assuming here that she is going to keep the baby and go through with the pregnancy. I think there are going to be to many complications here.
For a start she was unfaithful, slept with someone else resulting in her becoming pregnant... (read in full...)
Can anyone please help me figure out what's going on with this guy?
Q. I'm 33 and single. I've known guy for the last 10 years from way back when we were studying. Although we were never friends, we knew people who were common to us. He was always very polite and civil and might I add, a good 10 years older. He added ...
A. 9 October 2022: I think that the deal with this guy is that he is an odd ball, and i think it was a mistake unblocking him and looking him up.
You blocked him because he was flirty and creepy, normally leopards don't change their spots, and you have found ou... (read in full...)
An old friend who has a crush on me has resurfaced
Q. Hi, I recently turned 40 years old. I dated a guy (not a relationship) way back when I was a teen. We ultimately did not work, but while we were seeing each other we were kind of close. We would fall asleep on the phone together etc. ty...
A. 4 October 2022: This all sound rather obsessive and creepy. It is very odd that he can't let things go after all this time, and turning up at your Mums house is worrying to say the least, and being drunk, assuming he was driving is even more worrying.
Maybe... (read in full...)
My husband has a crush on a younger woman
Q. Husband crushing on a younger female friend of ours. A few months ago I thought my husband was making inappropriate comments when under the influence of alcohol to our friend,also when her relationship was braking up my husband appeared way to ...
A. 4 October 2022: I agree with Honeypie, she is not the problem, your husband is.
He could nip this is the bud and put a stop to this in a polite calm way and that would be the end of it. But he is not doing any thing because he likes the attention from a younger ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is disgusted by my arousal
Q. My girlfriend of one year who is fifteen year old feel disgusted when i have a boner. I get boner when i am around her and when she touch me even though she said she is not ready for sex. Is it wrong to have boner as she always tell me and that i am ...
A. 2 October 2022: Of course she is disgusted by it, she is still a child, and you are a grown adult, and these conversations should not be happening with her.
Either wait a few years for her to mature and keep conversations around sex off limits, or go out and ... (read in full...)
My online African boyfriend keeps asking me for money
Q. Hello I met a man online. We talked for several months then he began asking me for money. He's from Africa, he said he's poor. I felt bad and sent him 20.00 for some food. Now there is always some issue. He needs for food, for transportation, ...
A. 2 October 2022: Many posts have come through DC similar to this one. Unfortunately you have fallen victim to a scam, you are not the first person this has happened to, and by no means the last.
As soon as he asked for money that should have sent alarm bells ri... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is unnecessarily blunt
Q. My boyfriend is so blunt to speak that he talk whatever he wants without thinking. It's so hurtful some time . No doubt he is loyalbut he has controlling behaviour like I want to do jobs he said ok u can do but at the same time he said there will be ...
A. 28 September 2022: I don't know how long you have been together with him, but he is certainly displaying some red flags here, enough to make most people walk away.
At the end of the day he is your boyfriend not your husband, if you are both contemplating marriage... (read in full...)
I developed a crush on him but he wants to remain friends
Q. around 5 months ago i got talking to someone who i recognised, as he is a school friend of my siblings. i had never spoke to him before but just recognised him and started speaking to him, just outside a nightclub where we had both been I thought...
A. 28 September 2022: I don't think you should message him and tell him how you feel, I think that you should save yourself from future heartache and abolish contact with him, delete/block him and get on with your life.
It will not benefit you in any way by sharing ... (read in full...)
I'm a bored, married woman and I'm attracted to someone
Q. There is no justification for what I'm about to say so feel free to give me a piece of your mind . I'm a bored 38 year old married woman, mother to a 6 year old . I have an amazing husband and no problems in my marital life. The only problem is ...
A. 25 September 2022: I agree with Honeypie, you sound like a teenager, not a married woman in your 30's.
I think you need a reality check, you are married, you have a child, you have a family life which as we all know is not always sunshine and rainbows, but equally ... (read in full...)
When is enough enough in regards to cheating
Q. A man I met once last summer got in touch with me a week ago. He wanted to meet for sex again, we are both married. He had got in touch earlier this summer and said about meeting up and I agreed then didn’t hear from him until now. He said it ...
A. 23 September 2022: Your right, I have to agree with you this is puerile and very childish at your age.
You are both in the wrong here, you are married, he is married, and you both committed infidelity and cheated on your partners.
Having problems in a ma... (read in full...)
Big question how to get over someone
Q. How do you get over someone? So I’m not even allowed to be sad as we were never official but for past 4yrs I’ve been sleeping with this guy (yes judge me) I was lonely and it became a regular thing dinner and drinks staying over one or two times...
A. 23 September 2022: I know it does not feel like it now but time is the healer of all things and you will get over this.
You wanted commitment, which is understandable, but he backed off. This just says he was not the person for you. Although it does not feel lik... (read in full...)
Boyfriend cant stay hard
Q. Hi, new here so thanks in advance. Been with BF 15mths and he reckons to love me.kind , generous but proper sex does not happen and why am I asking cos really I'm sure the problem is Stella Artois!! However he hardly snogs me now and and I rarely ...
A. 20 September 2022: None of this is down to you, the problems lay with him and he needs to man up and address these issues.
There could be a myriad of reasons that could be causing his dysfunction, and alcohol is certainly a contributing factor, as is watching... (read in full...)
Should I continue this FWB?
Q. I dated this guy for a couple months 5 years ago...I really liked him but he had alot of stuff going on at home so he broke it off, about a year ago we matched again on this dating site and we have been seeing eachother ever since. He recently told ...
A. 20 September 2022: I think that your friends are totally right and i think that you should take their advice on board.
I think that you should cut contact with him, wish him well and then block him and move on with your life and meet someone that you can actually... (read in full...)
Great husband but sex life lacking
Q. I'm 10 months into a marriage where my husband is great in every way. Except, we don't have a good sex life. He has a physical condition and is also addicted to masturbation. I'm really frustrated with this overall. It infuriates me when he has e...
A. 20 September 2022: You have only been married for 10 months and already there are issues that need addressing, there are red flags here that i feel should not be happening so early on into a marriage.
I am assuming that you knew him for quite some time before y... (read in full...)
My boyfriend still speaks to his ex
Q. Background context; my boyfriend has told me he still occasionally speaks to his ex girlfriend via social media. They broke up nearly 3 years ago, mostly due to the distance (she’s Canadian, he lives in the UK). Although it was quite a volatile ...
A. 13 July 2022: In my opinion there is absolutely no reason whatsoever for him to still be in contact with his ex, especially as it was volatile, and it was three years ago.
Exe's are ex's for a reason, and unless he has things of a financial nature to sort out... (read in full...)
I am not sure if I am ready to see him
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm dating this boy Christian Bristol and we've been dating for almost 7 months and he's been telling me that he'll see me after he's done getting his truck fixed and he's also told me that he can't wait to see me. I don't know if I'...
A. 13 July 2022: I think that all you can be is brutally honest and tell him that you are not ready to see him yet, I am sure he will understand.
Its still early days in your relationship, and in all honesty you really know nothing about him at all, only what he ... (read in full...)
My husband treats me badly
Q. Dear cupid I'm married for 5 years, not from the same country as my husband. My parents live in different country, I have no friends and no family here my husband treats me v badly, yells at me for tiny things or get irritated at me for small...
A. 6 July 2022: I am sorry that you are going through this, it must be very difficult being in a foreign land and feel like you have no-where to go.
I know you say that your family won't accept you, but have you at least tried to talk to them and let them kno... (read in full...)
Friend making things awkward
Q. My friend keeps putting me in awkward situations and I’m not sure if she’s doing it on purpose or not… Let me give you some examples.. The first incident was 3 months ago we went out shopping - she found this fancy scarve that she liked. It ...
A. 17 June 2022: I think she is what you call tight, yes she is on decent money but by the sounds of it she does not like to part with it. We all know people like this, I always say these people have short arms and deep pockets.
You call her a friend, but a fr... (read in full...)
This new guy told me about his 'crazy' former FWB
Q. Hello, I've been talking to this man for months and we both like each other's. However, he never talked about taking the relationship to the next level, although he spends hours with me talking non stop, watch a movie together, and I do feel the...
A. 10 June 2022: In all fairness you started it with telling him about the guy at work who was flirting with you and that you reported.
Maybe as you mentioned this, and you possibly thought it was the right thing to do to get it out there, maybe he thought ... (read in full...)
My husband left me for our son in law
Q. I just learnt that my husband of 42 years has left me for our son-in-law who is 36. That's a 36-year age gap!! I feel angry and betrayed and am worrying about the future. We had a good marriage and I had no suspicions he was even hav...
A. 9 June 2022: Testing123... (read in full...)
Husband left me for another woman, then I began seeing a colleague
Q. Firstly, I’ll try keep this brief. I know I will probably (quite rightly) get a lot of stick for this but as I can’t really share with anyone I thought this would be as safe as anywhere as there may be people who have been in my situation. ...
A. 9 June 2022: I'm not going to kick you while you are down, that is not what we are here to do here at DC, we are only here to offer sound advice.
Your husband of many years left you for another woman, he was to weak to voice how he really felt. I feel tha... (read in full...)
My brother threatens
Q. When i visit and stay at my mums house shes 75 to spend time with her, my brother whos 50, who lives there starts arguments about anything and calls me names and just bullies me. he threatens me and says to get out the house and he will throw me ...
A. 9 June 2022: It sounds to me like your brother has got some sort of disorder and requires some professional help.
Are a lot of these outbursts drink related?. Or has something happened in the past that he is very bitter about?.
Like you say its not his ... (read in full...)
I've fallen out of love... but he wants to fix things. What can I do?
Q. Hello there, This is a long story but I'm gonna try and make it as short as possible. My husband and I have been married for 10 years now and we've had our ups and downs, but we've always managed to get through them. We moved to a new country 8 ...
A. 9 June 2022: Its sounds like after the big argument that you had things just have not been the same, despite you both trying. It does not matter how hard to you try to repair things if you don't have the feelings there anymore its almost pointless continuing on. ... (read in full...)
Can't get out of this relationship with a married man
Q. Please don’t reiterate how stupid I was to not see the signs, not know the obvious - I did see some signs, some uneasy feelings, but I chose to ignore them. I was able to find an excuse for everything. And now I can’t get out. We met two year...
A. 8 June 2022: I am not going to tell you how silly you were, or that you should have seen the signs, what is done is done, after all we can't unscramble scrambled eggs can we.
What I will say is that as soon as you found out he was married that was the mome... (read in full...)
My friend's wife tricked me via online dating
Q. Hi there. Been online dating now and then 3-4 times over the past 5 years, it's been very hit and miss, until recently. Only 3-4 times it worked out, relationships were short-term but I was OK with that. I wasn't there for hookup culture. I met a g...
A. 8 June 2022: I confused and perplexed about your post to say the least.
What were her intentions?. Who could possible know because its hardly even funny is it. I dread to think why someone would go to these lenths and organisation to do this, not to mention ... (read in full...)
My beloved dog died recently
Q. My Red British Fox Lab (aka my dog) died last Saturday at 13 years old after a short illness (three weeks). Her name was Rouge. When my previous dogs died, I knew it was coming for months so when they did die, I was almost relief that it was over...
A. 8 June 2022: Unfortunately this is all part and parcel of having pets, its so difficult when we lose them.
Being a dog lover myself I know how attached we become to them and how painful it is when we don't have them anymore.
You gave her the best life th... (read in full...)
Moved in with boyfriend and struggling to adjust
Q. Hey all, As the title suggests, I have recently moved in with boyfriend the other week and I am just really struggling to adapt to it. I lived with my parents, paid them money every month for keep's money but I have always been really independ...
A. 8 June 2022: Moving in with someone is a big step, and there are always compromises and changes to be adapted to.
In this case your life has become more difficult, while his still stays the same.
Surely he can see that you are getting up really early, ge... (read in full...)
Since having sex I've barely heard from him
Q. I am very confused. Something like this happened to me for a first time. I dated a guy for about one month and then we met on Sunday evening for dinner and then ended having sex at his place. As tomorrow was Monday and we live in about an hour ...
A. 8 June 2022: I don't think I would be investing to much time and energy into this relationship, which quite frankly is still very much in its infancy, and you really know nothing about him at all.
There are a lot of maybe's here, maybe he is just a bad text... (read in full...)
Why does husband want marriage to be humdrum
Q. Hiya. Newlywed here. Only been married for 3 weeks now. Had a great wedding. Small but intimate. Just family, eight close friends of mine, four friends of my husband, that's it. Not even been on honeymoon yet and still in that warm glow. No ...
A. 6 June 2022: It is a strange thing to say I must admit, especially at the beginning of a marriage.
I guess potentially you have known him for nearly 20 years so i guess you are both very settled together.
I don't think I would be too concerned about ... (read in full...)
My wifes affair with my best friend
Q. Yesterday was D-day for me. I'm so broken. My wife has been sexting for 2 months w/my best friend (who is married) and they arranged to meet twice in a parking lot to have sex in the last month. They started using Instagram msg discretely to ...
A. 6 June 2022: I sorry that you are going through this, I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you.
I think that once the trust barrier has been broken in a relationship its very difficult to come back from. If you did take her back do you feel that you... (read in full...)
Shes pregnant with my husbands baby
Q. I left my husband May 28th. He confessed to having an affair with a co-worker for the past 7 months.She's now pregnant with his baby. I think I am still in shock. There's just so much to wrap my head around. My husband is 46 we've been married ...
A. 6 June 2022: I am sorry that you are going through this, it can't be easy, especially after 17 years of marriage.
I think for me this would be a deal breaker as well. He has had an affair, cheated and lied to you, and had unprotected intercourse with someone ... (read in full...)
Is it a friendship thing?
Q. I met a girl a few months ago. Work colleagues (dating is allowed where I work). We exchanged numbers and started talking. She seemed to really like me. One night about a month ago, while out, we kissed. But that was the only time it's happened. She ...
A. 6 June 2022: Its impossible to say what her intentions are, she may very well like you, but equally she just might want some company for her long trip, and she feels like she knows you well.
I do know one thing though, after the 4 day trip and spending... (read in full...)
What to do about my crush
Q. So, ages ago I had a HUGE crush on a girl who would shop at my store. I never pursued it cause she was with someone at the time. We kept in touch, but off and on. Recently her close friend started working with me. I asked how was she and she said ...
A. 5 June 2022: It sounds like she likes you, otherwise i feel she would not have asked her friend if you still work there.
You kept in touch with her on and off so i assume you still have her contact details, why don't you just send a casual text to break th... (read in full...)
Husband missed daughters bdsy because he went drinking
Q. Hi there. Asking for advice on this situation. It was my daughter's 6th birthday on Wednesday and we were meant to have a small party but my husband missed it. The reason? He and my dad went on a bar crawl and ended up coming home so drunk he ...
A. 5 June 2022: You say this was a one off incident, maybe it would be different if it was happening all the time.
Sounds like he needs a stern talking too, maybe wait till you have calmed down a bit and not so angry.
And yes he has got some making up to do.... (read in full...)
I don't want to be the girl who dates a married man
Q. Hello there. I've had problems on dating sites, people wanting me only for sex or ghosting me. Guys send me explicit messages or they ghost me. But then, about six months ago, I met this guy via OKCupid who seemed to be everything I wanted; he was...
A. 5 June 2022: He should have divulged this fact to you at the start of the relationship with you, instead he kept it to himself for 6 months, OP this is a huge red flag.
You are not the bad guy here, he is. You met him off of a dating site, then six months d... (read in full...)
Husband slept with his best friend on our wedding day for cash
Q. Hi there. Been married for 25 years now, anniversary coming up in November. 23rd November was the day we got married! I'm a Canadian who's been in London for 28 years now in total. I love my new adopted home city, but still keep in contact ...
A. 5 June 2022: I can see why your upset, who wouldn't be, divulging the fact that he slept with someone else for money, on your wedding day of all days.
He was unfaithful on the most special day of your life, and its taken him 25 years to divulge this fact to ... (read in full...)
Disappointed in friends behavior
Q. This is my fault to a certain level but I feel disappointed in my friend and her boyfriend. A friend of mine (let’s call her Kate) last month did me a big favor (not financial). In order to thank her I told her I’d take out to dinner and ...
A. 27 May 2022: I think that you were thrown into this situation at the last minute. You were under the impression that you were just treating your friend to a meal, not her partner as well.
It seems like he just came along for a free meal which is why neither ... (read in full...)
Why a guy would move in with his close friend jYust to provide emotional support
Q. Hi there. Newlywed who's only been married for a month and got a problem I can't solve. My new husband moved out a week ago, and moved in with his friend. His friend's wife left him for another man and moved in with the other guy who she'd been d...
A. 27 May 2022: This is really odd behaviour, and there is no way that you would ever be the bad guy as you have absolutely done nothing wrong at all.
I am kind of leaning towards it being a excuse to get out or leave this marriage. There are many ways to provi... (read in full...)
I seen my ex's new partner cheating. Do I tell her?
Q. So I've never done anything like this before. I find myself in an unbelievable situation, and I'm really looking for an unbiased point of view from people who don't know me. So, basically I was with my ex partner for as long as I can remember. I ...
A. 26 May 2022: I agree with Honeypie, Unless you have concrete proof i would stay out of it and not say anything.
If you verbally inform her of what you saw she won't believe you, and when she confronts him he will of course deny everything.
This will not... (read in full...)
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