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Do I have any rights at work? They keep putting me on nights!

Q.   im working in an arcade, its a temp job and im on a zero hour contract but they been giving me at least 30 hrs a week. they said when i went for the job i be on days and up to 8pm sometimes which is fine but lately i been having to work nites which ...

A.   8 May 2013: Have you tried citizens advice bureaux? They should be able to help. Look for their number in the yellow pages where you'll find lots of useful helplines you can try too. Also try the job centre/Dwp. Even if you're not claiming benefits, they can ... (read in full...)

Do I have any rights at work? They keep putting me on nights!

Q.   im working in an arcade, its a temp job and im on a zero hour contract but they been giving me at least 30 hrs a week. they said when i went for the job i be on days and up to 8pm sometimes which is fine but lately i been having to work nites which ...

A.   7 May 2013: I don't know the set up you have at work e.g are there union reps or workers representatives? It's worth speaking to someone neutral at work and that you trust about this. Once you have facts and more info, you can approach a manager about shifts. ... (read in full...)

What do you think? Is this slightly older guy at work just trying to be nice?

Q.   I just want to know if he's just trying to be friendly. There's this guy at work, he's a bit older than myself. I've noticed him around the office but never thought much of it. He sits a few rows in front now and everytime he goes back to his seat...

A.   6 May 2013: He likes you...definitely! Frequent looks/stares and them smiling are positive signs that he likes you. Just because he's older, doesn't mean he's different to any other guy. I've dated older guys before and found they're pretty obvious and ... (read in full...)

My daughter is missing my ex after our break up. What should I do?

Q.   Hey everyone, I was dating a woman for about 6 years,she was wonderful and took care of my daughter as her own!my daughter instantly bonded with her,she used to help my daughter with homework,take her shopping..my daughter would go to her for anyt...

A.   6 May 2013: This is an unfortunate and complicated situation. Your ex is not your daughter's biological mother. So she does not have to see your daughter and vice versa unless you agree to it. What happens when you start seeing someone new and your daughter ... (read in full...)

As much as I love my friends, I feel like I am the only one who always gets left out and even ignored sometimes.

Q.   I'm going to try and make this as short as I can. As much as I love my friends, I feel like I am the only one who always gets left out and even ignored sometimes. They will all make plans or hang out or all be online chatting and doing stuff...

A.   3 May 2013: I'm sorry to hear this. As someone who's going through friendship problems too, I do sympathise with you. If you have not fallen out/had a fight with your friends, then it's safe to say it's nothing you've done or them. Sounds like they have their ... (read in full...)

It's as if I want friends but I'm afraid to be hurt

Q.   m female, in my late 20's, attractive, intelligent,confident, well dressed and I have great hygiene. I have no problems meeting new people and being in large groups. I find interacting with other people easy. I don't suffer from any social ...

A.   2 May 2013: Minnie73. Thanks soooo much for your post. We ARE going through very similar stuff friends wise. Your post made me smile and I felt a strong connection with your story. At least i'm not alone. The other posters identified what i felt was maybe why i ... (read in full...)

Is he too busy with work, school and raising a child? Because right now I feel ignored by my boyfriend.

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for several months. We live about 30 miles from each other and used to see each other 2-3 times a week and we would communicate daily through text. Right now I have not seen him in two weeks and only hear fr...

A.   2 May 2013: I take it your boyfriends a single dad? If so, he may genuinely be busy but explaining this to you would be nice. I'm not a parent myself but know of people who've dated single parents. Their kids come first...always and you're somewhere on the... (read in full...)

Do you think I'm making a mistake? Is it stupid to marry a twice divorced man?

Q.   I am nearly 30 and I want to marry a man who is 46. My parents are opposed to the match because he is much older than I am, belongs to a different country and race and primarily because he is twice divorced and is a train driver in the UK. On the...

A.   2 May 2013: it does'nt matter what race, religion etc he is. What is important is his relationship history. Try to ignore negative comments from the people around you. This r/ship is about you and him. The age difference is not that big. At 30 you have alot of ... (read in full...)

Is it worth it to have friends? I don't feel like I have any true friends

Q.   Hey everyone. I know this is a stupid question to ask but is it worth it to have friends? Maybe someone can help me out here. I feel like throughout my teenage years I have been mistreated by a lot of people I considered my friends. I'm alw...

A.   1 May 2013: Friends are important. It's nice to have someone to hang out with, talk to etc I know how you're feeling as i'm in a similar situation myself. Only difference is, i get dropped/dumped by my so called friends. This has been going on for years and i'm ... (read in full...)

Is it worth it to have friends? I don't feel like I have any true friends

Q.   Hey everyone. I know this is a stupid question to ask but is it worth it to have friends? Maybe someone can help me out here. I feel like throughout my teenage years I have been mistreated by a lot of people I considered my friends. I'm alw...

A.   1 May 2013: Friends are important. It's nice to have someone to hang out with, talk to etc I know how you're feeling as i'm in a similar situation myself. Only difference is, i get dropped/dumped by my so called friends. This has been going on for years and i'm ... (read in full...)

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