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He cheated but didn't go all the way with her. Should I be okay with this?

Q.   Well ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and around April he cheated on me with a girl.. he didnt go all the way with her. Well i forgave him and we've been fine ever since.. well the last week she text him for the 1st time in ...

A.   28 September 2008: i know how you feel. I've gone through this before and the best thing you could do is to let him know exactly how you feel. If he truly cares about you i doubt he will meet up with her knowing that it's affecting you greatly. If he does meet up with ... (read in full...)

He ejaculated on my hand, I touched myself when it dried. Am I pregnant or am I stressed?

Q.   I have been with my bf for 2 months and i gave him a hand job. he cumed on my hand it dried then i touch the top of my vagina but not near my hole. im missing my period and im really worried im not even a teen yet...

A.   25 September 2008: i dont think you're pregnant. ... (read in full...)

I don't always take the pills at the same hour, what are the chances of pregnancy?

Q.   Hi I have been on the pill for about 8 months now. I just wanted to find out what are my chances of getting pregnant if i take the pill everyday but some days the time may vary - for eg: i normally take the pill at 8:45 pm but if i forget then i ...

A.   25 September 2008: as long as you take it everyday i dont think it will make a difference. just put it next to your bed and you most likely would wake up at the same time [for school or work..etc] so try taking it as soon as you open your eyes... (read in full...)

Did my hymen break by fingering? Is there a way to check?

Q.   I got fingered last night. This morning I I started bleeding, but it stopped so I'm sure it's not my period. As a virgin, I'm asking did my hymen break? Is there any way to check without going to a doctor?...

A.   25 September 2008: if the finger went in deep then yeah...most likely it broke. idk if there is a way to check...i should find out... (read in full...)

I'm hoping to go on a first date soon with someone I met online, any tips please?

Q.   I'm hoping to go on a first date soon with someone I met online and i'm a bit rusty. We haven't actually seen each other face to face yet and i'm worried about there being a dreaded silence period, as i'm fairly shy and I think she is as well. ...

A.   25 September 2008: be careful..you never know who's behind the monitor... (read in full...)

Is it normal for my breasts to be itching me so much?

Q.   I'm a teenage girl of 14 and I was wondering if it was normal to have my tits itchy... I never had sexual relations and I don't know why I've got this problem. Sometimes it's really itchy and I get some blotches. I use some cream and it makes me f...

A.   25 September 2008: yeah they're most likely growing =]... (read in full...)

How to deal with my period (and the unbearable cramps) when I'm at school?? It's even hard to walk and talk to people...

Q.   PLEASE HELP ME!! I don't know what to do when i get my period on a school day. This morning i was having a pretty light period, then when I got to school, like all my nerves went off and my period suddenly turned heavy. During my 1st hour class i...

A.   25 September 2008: i know how you feel. I get horrible pains too and more now since i'm in cross country [track&field] it bothers me a lot. I take aleve [2 tablets] it truly helps alot. Also when you have it dont think too much about it. try to keeep your mind ... (read in full...)

My ex is pregnant with another man's baby, I have a child on the way to another woman, and now my ex wants me back.

Q.   Hello all, Hmm, where do i start I am 34 years old and my ex partner is 24, my partner and i seperated this year in February. We were together for 4 years and had a 2 year old son. We broke up because she says that she has lost the love and feelings...

A.   25 September 2008:  IF you have a family and so does she dont be stupid to leave them for her. w/e happend in the past has to stay there. I think it's a lil too late for her wanting to get back with you. Think bout those who have been there with you and the baby ... (read in full...)

Did my hymen break? Because the day after, my period also started.

Q.   i'm 19years old. i dont know about sex and hymen breaking. my bf wants to see my pussy and want to do fingerring in my hole of pussy but i dont want to do this. and when we meet l only he try to put finger in my pussy but not enter in it, and he ...

A.   25 September 2008: umm im pretty sure it would have hurt but maybe he damaged it a little and that's the reason for the little bleeding... (read in full...)

I have been on birth control for a month and had sex. Could I be pregnant?

Q.   so i had been on yasmin birth control for almost a month i was on my white pills and the last day of my period and my boyfriend and i were having sex and he cumed inside of me,is there any chance that i could be pregnant cause i had to take a blood ...

A.   25 September 2008: Most likely you're not pregnant but not every woman is the same and pills might not be effective. I recommend you used a condom as a backup protection next time you have sexual intercourse just in case... (read in full...)

Had unprotected sex and now...my period is late!

Q.   im seriously confused. ive been havin unprotected sex with my boyfriend and my period is over a week late. im not always regular but im fairly close to the same date most of the time. my mothers keeps on pressuring me because she thinks i might be ...

A.   25 September 2008: If you had unprotected sex it is most likely that you are pregnant. I heard that it is possible to even have bleeding while being pregnant. You need to be careful and my best advice to you is either get a pregnancy test or go to the doctor. Listen ... (read in full...)

Can you get pregnant without having full on intercourse?

Q.   Can you get pregnant without having full on intercourse? I haven't had sex with my boyfriend yet but my waist seems a bit thicker than it used to be... But maybe I'm [hopefully] just being paranoid....

A.   24 September 2008: Apparently...yes you can even though is not common. I'm going through this situation right now. I mean, my per. is to come tomorrow..I PRAY!! i'm still a virgin as in i haven't had sexual intercourse with anybody but me and my bf do fool around. I'm ... (read in full...)

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