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Are sex stories just as bad as looking at porn ?

Q.   I know that a lot of women are uncomfortable about their partner looking at porn, but is men reading sex stories just as bad?...

A.   9 August 2006: yeah its just like reading porn so stop it before she stop you meaning drop you completely son! --------------smooches-----------... (read in full...)

Is it possible to still get pregnant if you dont have any mishaps with a condom ?

Q.   My period is 3 weeks late and this is unusual for me. I've had all the symptoms of 'coming on' for about 2 weeks now (sore boobs, needing the toilet 24/7 and being really moody etc) but still no period!! My boyfriend thinks I might be pregnan...

A.   9 August 2006: yeah girl i mean maybe you should go see a doctor this could be a good thing okay a little bundle of joy so start a binder of all the things you need to do! --------------smooches... (read in full...)

What does our gay tomfoolery mean?

Q.   I went out with my mate today both 18 and had a really good day together we fool around but are not gay !! We went back to his house and drank loads way too much, didnt know what we were doing really - then all of a suddon we were in bed to...

A.   9 August 2006: you are gay because not even somebody who drank all the liquor in the world would do something like that so confess to your friend! --------------smooches... (read in full...)

We're friends and I want more. So does he, I think, but it's so awkward!

Q.   I've known this boy, *James*, for nearly three years now and we've been very flirty in the past but nothing serious. But for the past year I've really fancied James and I dont know how he feels about me because he's always giving me mixed messages. ...

A.   9 August 2006: well dont confront him with your feelings again you seen how it went the first time so just be yourself around if you hug him and you really exhale slowly then girl you in love and you need to tell him! -------smooches... (read in full...)

His ex-wife doesn't want their daughters to mix with my family!

Q.   Hi, I need some advice please regarding my partners situation with his family. The story is this, we have been together now for three years, living together for two, we are 56 and 54 he has two girls 26 and 22 i have four sons 35 33 32 and 26 he ...

A.   8 August 2006: who cares what she doesnt want he is your man now and you can do what you want?... (read in full...)

We got back together on the condition that she would not see or speak to this man again... Now I find she's been emailing and texting!

Q.   A few months ago me and my partner split. It was over her being interested in another man. We got back together and I told her she was never to see or speak to this person again. I have recently discovered she has not only been emailing and texting ...

A.   8 August 2006: dump her and move on she cant be trusted at all!... (read in full...)

Where do guys MOST like to be kissed? ("tops only"!)

Q.   Where do guys like to be kissed. I want to know, tell what is the best place. (anything NOT below the belt?) and also how do guys like to be kissed?...

A.   8 August 2006: they liked to be french kissed and in the mouth or ear... (read in full...)

My boyfriend goes into chat rooms to get to know other women, sex-wise!

Q.   my boyfriends been blatently lieing to me for the 2 years we have been together. he goes in to chat rooms trying to get to know other women intimatley. Every time i catch hin he'll just change his name or move to another sight, he has secret emails ...

A.   8 August 2006: let him go and move on he is crazy and you dont need him you can get someone better! -------------------smooches... (read in full...)

He puts other people first... And complains that I'm suffocating him!

Q.   I'm still confused about my ex. I wrote about a week ago to say that I have been back with my ex now for about 3 weeks and it's really not getting any better. It's as though he really doesn't want to be around me. My life style seems to be too ...

A.   8 August 2006: you should tell him that you dont wanna be together but he can still see his son! ---------smooches... (read in full...)

My girlfriend thinks she is fat!

Q.   My girlfriend thinks she is fat. She really isn't though. Her weight comes from all of her muscle from dancing for 20 years. I have noticed that since she started her diet, that she has been pretty distant. I want to help her, but I don't know what ...

A.   8 August 2006: look i think that you should go the gym with her and cook for her let her know you dont care if she gains a midget or a mountain you love her forever! ---------smooche_-... (read in full...)

He only ever says he loves me after I say I first!

Q.   I don't know if it's just me or what, but should I be worried if when the only time my boyfriend tells me he loves me is after I say it first (like when we're leaving: Me: I love you. Him: I love you too.) and that's like the only time he'll say ...

A.   8 August 2006: well girl if you only hear him say it after you then heres what you do when you leave make him think hes missing something no nookie or cookies from the cookie jar un til he starts saying it to you first! ________smooches______________... (read in full...)

He cant see the problem so I left him... Is this the right thing to have done ?

Q.   hello. i need advice about my relationship.. the problem is my partner and i have been together over 3 years now and i so far our families have'nt met i have invited his daughters to visit several to meet with mine but so far without success.. there ...

A.   8 August 2006: well girl you did the right thing by leaving him cause it seems like he is still in love with his ex.... (read in full...)

Having dreams about my boyfriend's ex......why!!??

Q.   I keep having dreams about my boyfriends ex. I don't understand why this is. Some dreams I'm nice to her, some dreams I'm hurting her. It's way too weird for me. I DON'T want to dream about her, I've never even met her. I've seen her and pictures of ...

A.   8 August 2006: you may be obessed with it so you need to call her have lunch and get it out of your system! -------smooches... (read in full...)

Do I stay or go? We have been violent with each other...

Q.   i have been with my partner for 7 yrs, 3 of them living together, in those 3 yrs he has hit me twice while drunk as i hit him first. he is a good provider but lately i think i should go, he was verbally abusesive the other day while i was defending ...

A.   8 August 2006: grab your kids get your stuff and leave!... (read in full...)

Can anyone explain why he couldn't get hard enough?

Q.   My boyfriend and I tried to have sex for the first time a few days ago, but he couldn't get hard enough? He hadn't been drinking or anything and i am really worried that it's something to do with me. I know he can get an erection because he has d...

A.   8 August 2006: its nothing to do with you just watch porno with him and dress up naughty and that should work! ----------smooches... (read in full...)

He's been chattin about our sex life...

Q.   i brokeup with boyfriend but we are back togther now but my friends told me that when were brokeup he told his friend that he had sex when we were togther i was in a vacation last year with my familly and he came for me and he told his friend that ...

A.   8 August 2006: let him go because any man that lies about his sex life does not want you so say good bye ! call him up and tell him tonight is the night wear something sexy and then get him all hot and bothered make him to take off his close blind fold him take ... (read in full...)

Should I stay over my ex's house?

Q.   I'm still speaking to my ex boyfriend and we've decided to remain friends but now, he's inviting me to spend the night at his house. I'm so confused, I don't know what to do. Part of me wants to stay because he's going through a rough time right ...

A.   8 August 2006: look you are just torn in between the two but you know what you would be a fool if you would go spend the night tell him you are sseing someone move on with your life sweetie hes the past a man aint nothing but a tool you got to know when to take ... (read in full...)

My wife has a problem with me seeing my sick mom!

Q.   Hi, I hope you will be able to help me on this: We have got married few months ago, good thing is I made it so clear about my commitments towards my mother right before we get married and she agreed. Since marriege I have accommodated so many req...

A.   8 August 2006: did you ever think that your mother doesnt really like your wife do me a favor and watch the movie "monster in law" and then you wil;l get a good perspective of things also if youre wife just doesnt want you to see your sick mother than get a ... (read in full...)

Worried about my girlfriend's past rape... Is she still a virgin? Should it be forgotten?

Q.   My girlfriend was raped when she was younger, disturbingly by her own brother, does that mean that she lost her virginity to him. I can't stop thinking about it, it fills me up with hatred and it don't make me feel very good, it really bothers me. ...

A.   8 August 2006: tlak to her about it move to another state or town with her and you know you love her because if you didnt you wouldnt care so much about this and you know what if she doesnt move then you need to just take care of business and you know what take ... (read in full...)

Feeling insecure...feeling fat...help me not feel so many things!

Q.   Okay, i'm going to explain this more clear so people won't get confused, sorry. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 months. SOMETIMES when i'm not with him i can't wait to be with him in his arms but *sometimes* after awhile of hanging out ...

A.   8 August 2006: girl its normal youre justin love and you dont know if he loves you thats why you are so insecure go to the gym and excercise and try to tell him and see what he says try to spend sometime with him but not all the timeso its normal!... (read in full...)

Having mixed feelings for my man!

Q.   Do you think maybe sometimes i have mixed feelings for my boyfriend of almost 2 months is because he treats me so good and i'm not used to it because sometimes when he does something wrong which is hardly ever or isn't holding me 24/7 i love it just ...

A.   8 August 2006: girl do not live with him because your relationship will end all you have to do is look at it like this your love is a battle a relationship where no one wins you say that you love him you have to try to make it work. so go to a therapist to let out ... (read in full...)

I married a dead lady...are there drugs for this sort of thing!

Q.   Dear cupid Please try to help me.Im 41 years old my wife is also 41. We have been together 21 years.I was her first.Her sex drive is dead. All you here about is men with problems what about the ladies?There is like no stress in our lives.She has ...

A.   8 August 2006: well let me tell you talk to her and tell her you are never happy with your sex life then try to get her to do a little forplay like dress up like a naughty nurse frenchmaid and tell her to dress up in corsets if she doesnt get with it file for a ... (read in full...)

Sex questions for you!

Q.   Ok, so i've been sexually active for about 3 weeks now, and i've been having LOTS of sex. I have a couple of questions that i hope can be answered, sorry if i seem naive or if some of it's a bit graphic. Ok, so i'm on the pill but we used condoms ...

A.   8 August 2006: look girl use trogan condoms they last and they dont hurt and girl look go with him to have a hiv test std test and you take a pregfanacy test doing it without a condom is very dangerous and you could get your self into a lot of trouble and thats ... (read in full...)

I'm 18, he's 25. We've known each other three years, and I'm thinking of giving him a try. Will it work?

Q.   Hi, I just had a quick question. I met this guy when I was 15 and he was 22 (don't worry, nothing happened). We've stayed friends for three years. Now I'm 18 and he's 25. I've had a crush on him since I first met him, and now I can finally a...

A.   8 August 2006: well, you cant help your feelings and you can try it but dont be suprised if he start talking about settling down and children because you know he is still older than you but you are the legal age so what you should do is talk to him and review your ... (read in full...)

He wants an open relationship!

Q.   We've got over a massive age difference (I'm 18, he's 33) and have been going out for 6 months. Soon, however, he is moving to another country and believes this should be an open relationship. I don't think I can deal with that. We love each o...

A.   8 August 2006: look let him go if he moves to another country and if you come to vist him or he comes to vist you he could probably have aids another country means another style of sex so tell him good writtens and goodbye! ---------- smooches... (read in full...)

I'm nearly 16 and he's 22, is that too much of a gap?

Q.   I like this 22 year old man and i am turning 16 soon.. is that too much of an age difference and how do i explain it to my parents?...

A.   8 August 2006: girl, yeah that is a huge age difference and that is illegal and he could go to jail because in the united staes that is called rape even if he didntt touch you and tell your parents i dont think so they would probably kill him themselves.... (read in full...)

Am I still a virgin after my drunken half-sex?

Q.   ok well, one night i got really drunk and before i knew know it, this guy and i go from kissing to him trying to have sex with me. it was my first time being in this type of situation and he started to go in until i complained of the pain and ...

A.   8 August 2006: not really if you were aware of the situation then youre practically not really a virgin unless you didnt tell anyone then you still are according to you and the girl sex handbook... (read in full...)

His mum said to mine he chases anyone in a skirt!

Q.   where do i start - i went out with this boy for a week. he broke up with me and text me and said i dont think it will work. i only see him weekends and chat with him once in a while on the phone. His mum said to mine he chases anyone in a skir...

A.   8 August 2006: no it wont work girl he is using you to get with other women he is flaunting you in front of every body heres what you do you tell him to meet you somewhere where there is a big crowd then you get loud and tell him to stop stolking you and he will ... (read in full...)

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