She is coming back earlier now.
Q. Hey all, My situation is in more detail here if you feel like a read. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-had-the-girl-i-had-always-day.html Anyway, to cut a long story short my ex left me before she went home for the summer holidays. She is ...
A. 23 August 2007: Hey thnks for the advice so far,
She is coming back to start further studies at university, I think she mentioned she was coming back earlier becuase the start of term date was'nt confirmed before she left, this is what I presume anyway, i coul... (read in full...)
Why is my ex bf calling me and talking about these other women?
Q. Hoping someone can help me figure this out. My boyfriend ended the relationship bacause he met someone else. I felt bad but have moved on, I think. We split a couple of months ago. He called me out of the blue a week ago...just to chat. I was ...
A. 23 August 2007: Hey,
Perhaps he is trying to make you jealous in the hope you might want to get back together?... (read in full...)
He wakes up and reads porn like it's the newspaper and masterbates...what can I do?
Q. my boyfriend gets up in the mornings before me sometimes i do wake up to find him reading porn stories like its the sunday paper and masterbating i dont want to but i get mad because i would rather him come wake me so that i can please him i need to ...
A. 23 August 2007: Hey, When i wake up in the morning is whn i find myself really horny, probably its the same with your man, it sounds stupid but perhaps he does'nt want to wake you up and hassle you just to get him off. I know I would feel a bit guilty if i woke... (read in full...)
What men find so interesting about spending hour after hour, night after night, at the pub?
Q. Hi. This is one for the men really. My female friend asked me what men find so interesting about spending hour after hour, night after night, at the pub? Are they looking for opportunities to be unfaithful? Perhaps some guys could answer this ...
A. 21 August 2007: Hey,
Now I'm not the type to go to the pub every night either but being a guy I thought I might as well give my penny's worth.
I have friends who are similar, after work its straight to the pub. I think its just a form of escape and a cha... (read in full...)
She wants to stay friends.
Q. Hey all. I'm back from holiday with a rather dramatic turn of events, as usual. (I copied this from an update on another question. I just wanted a fresh point of view from the other aunts) On the 2nd day of my holiday, she text me, asking how I...
A. 20 August 2007: Hey Andy,
Flower girl makes a very very good point but being in a similar situation I know how hard it is to not think about making contact especially when they initiate it.
Now for a ramble, I've never really understood this 'stay friends' t... (read in full...)
How do I give a wonderful BJ?
Q. guys in the world out there tell me how to give a wonderful blow job when i've never done it before....
A. 17 August 2007: watch some porn and copy the 'pro's' :P... (read in full...)
I don't wanna lose friendship with him, does anybody know what I should do?
Q. Right okay me and my boyfriend split up about 3 months ago.. prior to this I had told him I loved him a few times.. (I didn't) well we broke up and stayed friends. Now I get a new boyfriend he screams and shouts at me so I turned round and said Y...
A. 17 August 2007:
I think perhaps he felt betrayed that you had got over him quickly and got a new boyfriend, this is of course not your fault everyone is different in recovering from breaking up.
Having just come out of a relationship I can imagine what your ex... (read in full...)
I had the girl I had always day dreamt about and then she left me...
Q. Hey all, I met a girl at the start of university on my course, we had small talk in lectures whenever we crossed paths and I instantly liked her, I remember seeing and empty chair next to her and not daring to sit in it! So anyway I just ca...
A. 15 August 2007: hey thanks for your advice strawberries and Danielepew. Just to add somthing else, I asked her before she left if she would have broken up with me if she didnt have to go home for the summer, and she said no! That just adds to my confusion.... (read in full...)
Can anybody help me get over this?
Q. Hi everybody. *If you don't know my situation yet, consult my profile; I've written everything in the "about me" section* Today, I'm just wondering if there is anyway/anything that can help me start accepting that things are over? Because I really...
A. 6 August 2007: Hey man only me, All those things you mention are EXACTLY what i'm thinking about me and my ex at the moment!!! I keep picturing her happily continuing with life, not even giving me a thought. It drives me crazy to think she is looking or will mee... (read in full...)
She contacted me to ask if I was ok if she slept in the same bed as her male friend. I said NO and she got mad! Was I right?
Q. Hi everyone. I'd like to share a little story with you of something that may of been the final nail in the coffin of my serious, long distance relationship of 2 years and 13 separate meetings. Some of you may remember that my ex was booked to go...
A. 4 August 2007: Hey andy,
I think it was good of your ex to ask, imagine you'd found out later and she had'nt have said anything - surely that would have been worse. The fact she asked meant she knew this might upset you and knew she meant a lot to you.
So d... (read in full...)
Need perspective on what to do about this other long distance girl I still like.
Q. Hello everyone. Things finally seem to be settling down a little, at long last. It's been over a month since my long distance girlfriend of 2 years split with me, and I feel a little easier about the situation right now. We are still in cont...
A. 2 August 2007: Hey Andy, Glad to hear your feeling a little more at ease. My advice would be if you dont feel ready or have doubts about starting a new relationship, then it probably isnt the right time. I would'nt go leaping into anything new. I'm reminded of ... (read in full...)
After a week of no contact she texted me! Now I feel I have a little control, but how do I handle it?
Q. Hi, only me again. Just wanted to repost my recent update as a question, because there has been some development with my situation: (Also, quickly for those of you who don't know me: I was in a long distance relationship of 240 miles for 2 ...
A. 27 July 2007: Hey,
Doh! No need to apologise, when it comes to love and relationships I've found that its sometimes hard to think straight half the time, you do things you know are a bad idea in the back of your head - but you do them anyway! Thats the effect g... (read in full...)
After a week of no contact she texted me! Now I feel I have a little control, but how do I handle it?
Q. Hi, only me again. Just wanted to repost my recent update as a question, because there has been some development with my situation: (Also, quickly for those of you who don't know me: I was in a long distance relationship of 240 miles for 2 ...
A. 26 July 2007: Heya me again. Well if it was me in that situation (wish it was :P) I would contact her maybe monday (no drunkard ringing over the weekend confessing your eternal love!) and just have a casual chat, you know, how are you? what you get up to over t... (read in full...)
Is not contacting her the best thing? Its making me miserable and ruining any chance we had left!
Q. Tomorrow marks 1 month since my long distance, 2 year relationship was officially called off by my partner, who couldn't handle the distance anymore. I've been very up and down throughout the past month, feeling fairly possitive highs, to lying on ...
A. 24 July 2007: Hey Andy
I think I remember your post from before.
It is also one month on saturday since my ex broke it off with me. Much like you I have had my ups and downs. I know exactly how you feel, i desperatly miss my girl too and would do anything to ... (read in full...)
Could she have forgotten about me so easily and quickly?
Q. Hi, me again! As you know my 2 year, long distance relationship ended almost 4 weeks ago when she decided she couldn't cope anymore... I don't know if it really feels like 4 weeks ago... It feels like such a long time ago in some ways, and in other...
A. 22 July 2007: Hey, I'm in the same boat at the moment! I know what you mean when you say it seems a long time ago, and in other ways it seems like yesturday. My mood is doing the same - one minute i'm ok then the next i just want to cry! I feel exactly the ... (read in full...)
He hasn't updated his internet profile status from 'single' to 'in a relationship'
Q. hiya what do you think it means if a guy you are seeing calls himself "single" on a internet profile thing eg facebook/myspace. He has been on it recently but has not updated his relationship status though lots of people know he is seeing someone/...
A. 21 July 2007: Hey,
When I was going out with my ex I didnt bother changing my facebook or myspace profile to 'in a relationship'. I would'nt read too much into this, i still deeply cared about her and would have never cheated. I guess I just didnt want to anno... (read in full...)
Is sharing a kiss with another guy and liking him really telling me my current relationship isnt working? Any views?
Q. I shared a drunken kiss with my boyfriends work colleague. We both have partners although he hasnt been with his long, we have txt each other and agree we both find each other physically attractive and enjoy each others company. We are both in ...
A. 20 July 2007: Hey,
Its not wrong, just because you are in a relationship does'nt mean you wont find other people attractive...HOWEVER....acting on them IS wrong - you are in a commited realationship, I'm sure you would'nt to hear your boyfriend had been kiss... (read in full...)
He admitted he wasn't happy and he left me! I am devastated! Please help?
Q. Hi, i hope someone can help me. My boyfriend of about 9 months has just spit up with me. I know we argued a bit, and had been doing so quite alot recently but I really thought we were perfect for each other. We had so much in common and just had ...
A. 17 July 2007: Hey, I'm in the same situation with a girl, one day she turned round and said it was over - just like that. I know exactly how you feel, she really is the first and last thing i think of every day. Even the smell of her perfume if someone else is ... (read in full...)
I broke up with my ex and expected him to try to win me back. He didnt, but I miss him now.
Q. I broke up with my Ex a few months ago when i ended it. He ended it first but then changed his mind after a few weeks of absence and no phone calls. He said at the time that he was ready to give the relationship another try but the thing is it ...
A. 16 July 2007: Hey , You didnt mention the reason you broke up exactly but I think people are somtimes all to eager to throw away potential for a relationship. You mention graduation, i presume from university, I too have just graduated and I know this part of ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me just before summer break and I miss her terribly
Q. Hey all, I was with my ex for about 3 months but have known her since the start of uni (we have now both just graduated). She broke up with me before the summer holidays out of the blue, its been almost 3 weeks since the day she left and I still mi...
A. 13 July 2007: Hey thanks for the advice all,
What I did'nt mention is that she is coming back when the summer is over (start september), she will be living in the same place.
Its leaving me hanging because i still think there might be a chance that we coul... (read in full...)
We dated, she left. We dated, she left. Now she's started speaking to me, but she's backing off again!! I'm so confused!!
Q. Hey! Sorry for such a long post. But I really need some advice. The problem I’m having is to do with my ex girlfriend. We were together for around 4 months, and split up 6 months ago. It wasn’t my choice and was the last thing I wanted, as I had ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey,
I'm in a similar situation right now, my ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago out of the blue, and only the day before we were on the phone and everything seemed ok.
We have not spoken since. I know how you feel, I think about her all the time, fi... (read in full...)
We broke up and she says she needs space and that I shouldn't contact her... It all happened so quickly!
Q. Hey, I know this is a typical question but her goes. I broke up with my ex 2 weeks ago, it was the day before she was to fly home for the summer holidays - we have just graduated from uni. The night before she was due to fly she told me she need...
A. 10 July 2007: Thanks for the advice,
I'm finding it hard to move on, i rarely find girls that i would consider having a relationship with so its very hard for me.
The thing is, how can she suddenly change her mind about me? We spoke about the distance thing be... (read in full...)
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