I don't think he wants a divorce but he wants his freedom
Q. My husband left me for another women but came back. He was with her for 18 months. I was devastated and profoundly affected. Our marriage wasn't perfect but we had been together for 22 years. We both had a hand in it but I never would hav betrayed ...
A. 22 June 2017: Yes it takes a strong person to get a divorce and even a stronger one to not fall into the trap of pulling the other one down and using the kids as tools in a game of tic for tac. All you said in your second post I agree with , and yes it is hard ... (read in full...)
Male FWB wants me to finger him and I don't want this. Am I being over sensitive?
Q. I just got into a casual fling type relationship with a guy at uni, he's in his final year and leaving this summer so its only for a few months. We haven't had sex yet but have been making out etc. When we were making out last night with undies ...
A. 10 June 2017: this guy you're with talks about the girls he uses , he is a user when he told you about the other girl with a rep , you say your in a FWB with this guy and you seem to be open to moving on to a sex-friend relationship, while not knowing anything... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't seem to care that it's our 5th anniversary
Q. It's our 5th wedding anniversary today. My husband is on a business trip. He is due back this weekend, which is when we will be celebrating by going to dinner and the theatre and then staying at a hotel in the city. However, last night I sent him...
A. 9 June 2017: be carefull in how you let your thoughts go now , I see some people will say he was with a lover or even a escort , but he might just have being at a bar with the guys after there meeting ,
I know many things are starting to enter your mind now ... (read in full...)
My husband and I are struggling to move on. Any suggestions on how we can resolve this?
Q. Hi. I am a married mom mid thirties. My husband and I have been together for 20 years, married for 13 years. We have 5 children together. We have had a wonderful marriage up until recent. Back in Feb 2015 my husband started to receive texts fr...
A. 8 June 2017: I wish I would take away your pain , but as you said in the start you and your husband are struggling andI hope you can find the way out , the more you ask for details on when how and why and the more he is telling you is ont realy helping as i ... (read in full...)
I have fallen in love with my FWB and feel I just may regret it. Am I being gullible ?
Q. I had fallen in love with my fwb and wanted more but he was not ready to formalize an already existing relationship. we are already acting like a real couple...so why not just acknowledge it. this was four months of being lovers( sex was ...
A. 8 June 2017: i thing the two of you need to sit down and talk about what you want now and then where you see yourselfs in five years or ten , bought of you are lying to yourself in calling this a FWB , you two jumped on the FWB band wagon and acted this new ... (read in full...)
My husband and I are struggling to move on. Any suggestions on how we can resolve this?
Q. Hi. I am a married mom mid thirties. My husband and I have been together for 20 years, married for 13 years. We have 5 children together. We have had a wonderful marriage up until recent. Back in Feb 2015 my husband started to receive texts fr...
A. 7 June 2017: best thing you could do is unfriend her on facebook , and try to get back to just the 2 of you , what she did was not right keep the record of her pm to your husband just in case she ever goes to use this against your husband , he made some ... (read in full...)
I met a very genuine guy, but could this be too good to be true?
Q. Hi! I'm currently a in college, and have recently gotten out of a relationship about five months ago. He was my first relationship and first love, as we talked for months over the summer before I entered college. He was very respectful and we did ...
A. 7 June 2017: sounds like he is good for you , don't look too much into things i all is well enjoy , hope all stays going that way for you , it is all any of us look for , ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is always calling me names. What should I do?
Q. I'm girl who is 19 years old I'm not in school I have a daughter who is 1years now I live with my boyfriend.He is always angry he is calling me by names what should I do? ...
A. 7 June 2017: i think when you asked your mind is thinking of getting out , and that would be the right thing to do for you and most of all the child , as in is not a good place for a child to grow up , ... (read in full...)
My husband had an affair a couple of years ago. Should I write to the woman and ask some questions?
Q. my husband had an affair a couple years ago, he says it is over but I have my doubts. She does not live near us anymore. I want to write her a letter and ask her if he has called her or written her a letter. If he has what has he told her, did he...
A. 6 June 2017: What makes you think you will get a response from her? Or that you can trust her in any way ? That is the worst in taking back a guy who had an affair. You give the rest of your time looking for the next time he will do it again ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my fiance how I came up with the name for our unborn daughter?
Q. Hi guys So I am 29, engaged and pregnant. To be honest life couldn't be better right now. My summer wedding is around the corner and everything's great. Here's my question. Me and my fiance are having a girl and have come up with the best n...
A. 6 June 2017: Does the ex know about the name you had picked for a baby from when you lived with him? What could happen if he happens to ever say anything to your babys dad if you have not said anything to him first? The name should have went with the ex and g... (read in full...)
I'm not in love with my husband. Do I tell the man that I do love my feelings just to get it off my chest?
Q. I am married to a wonderful man, and have two teenage children. But I was never in love with my husband. About 10 years ago I became very close to my doctor,he was unmarried, we never told each other how we felt but I know we both knew. I feel in ...
A. 6 June 2017: I take it that you have not had an affair with your DR? So you don't know realy if things would be good with him or not. However you are living with a man you don't fully love. Firstly I would think you to be fair to your husband need to get thing... (read in full...)
Why do I miss him so much now?
Q. I dated a guy for around 6 months altogether. The first three months were perfect, absolutely perfect and we were so well suited, it was literally as if he was my clone too, we were so matchy matchy. I became depressed at the end of the three mo...
A. 6 June 2017: because you're still trying to get over your depression, and at the same time get over a break up , take your time think of yourself first and your health. If you can go to a DR for help if you're not happy with that DR get another. You will k... (read in full...)
I need advice on how to handle this, please? My life is turning into a sitcom
Q. I'm sure a lot of you will probably think I'm being silly. I've tried talking to myself about this, and I've realized that I'm not mad/jealous because I don't want him anymore, I'm just annoyed. I married my ex-husband A (he's 33) in 2013, we wer...
A. 6 June 2017: It is time for your ex to go live his life some where other than in your house. He is your ex and while it is nice to see people who break up stay friends, hanging around. What is he hanging around for? Does he still want you or is he using you t... (read in full...)
Is my perfectionist boyfriend overly critical of my looks? Or am I oversensitive?
Q. My bf used to think my looks were perfect. But he seems to put me down lately. Like he doesn't like a birth mark on my nose. I can't control that. He tells me that my body is perfect for a woman my age but that I am not 20 anymore. He sa...
A. 6 June 2017: I can't help but feel sorry for him , he is with you for more than just your looks , you ask if this dress looks nice on you and if he tells you it is not you are not happy , if your boobs look like they are hanging down in a dress you might need to ... (read in full...)
He used to like me, tells people he doesn't like me, but does he?
Q. I'm 15 and talking to this guy I've had a crush on for this whole year. He used to like me but doesn't anymore apparently. I was out with friends the other night and when they were picking me up at my house the guy I like said I looked hot asf, my ...
A. 5 June 2017: He gets a high on being able to have girls running after him , he is a danger to you as he shows others what should be private. He is the type that posts photos or other things of their gf on the net. The type stuff you don't want everyone... (read in full...)
I want to end our 3 year relationship its unhealthy and toxic but I don't want to hurt her
Q. Hi, I have been with my girlfiend for over three years since we were 15. The relationship has taken a massive downward spiral over the past few months and I have had doubts about this relationship for around 6 months. She has done many tihings that ...
A. 5 June 2017: as honeypie said exam out of the way first. If you think it is best , tell her you need to think about just them and you. Have no time until they are over to make any plans. Then when they are over, clean break. ... (read in full...)
Is it bad to be 17 (nearly 18) and never had a BF but have had sex? Will that be an issue in the future?
Q. Hi, is it bad to be 17 (soon 18) and never had a boyfriend, but have had sex? I've had guys attracted to me lots in the past (not trying to sound self-centred just being honest), but I've never let things escalate with them because I wanted t...
A. 5 June 2017: If you're happy you did it good for you , will it make a difference in your life to come? No it should not , not any different from if you had being with a bf for a time or if you had 5 bf. What is important is safe sex between consenting p... (read in full...)
I don't think he wants a divorce but he wants his freedom
Q. My husband left me for another women but came back. He was with her for 18 months. I was devastated and profoundly affected. Our marriage wasn't perfect but we had been together for 22 years. We both had a hand in it but I never would hav betrayed ...
A. 5 June 2017: Unless you are happy with an open marraige, then get out when you can. He looks as if he wants to keep you on side. As if he gets a divorce, being the one that cheated, he would stand to pay more. So he is happy to have his family life and ... (read in full...)
I went away with my boyfriend but now that we're back home, I feel like he's tired of me
Q. My boyfriend and I went away on a mini vacation for four days together. We both had such a fun time. It's a drag to be back home to be honest. On the car ride back, my boyfriend was feeling down because the trip was coming to an end. I felt down ...
A. 5 June 2017: i think he is very grown up and given you and him space , not trying to fill your life with just him , it is a good thing for you and him to have others and other intrests , after 4 days of sex he is doing good to give you space ... (read in full...)
I did not choose the dress my boyfriend loved. Did I make a mistake?
Q. Hi. I took my boyfriend shopping. He is one of the rare guys who enjoys shopping with his girlfriend. He likes to help me find clothes and watches me as I try them on and always gives me his honest opinion. Yesterday we were out shopping...
A. 5 June 2017: You paid for it, and it was for you to wear and at your sisters wedding, so it was right that you had the last say. I can't say if the black dress was better than the other , does he ever want to see you in a dress that is sexy? He might be on... (read in full...)
Why would a man of his age want to have an affair with a much younger woman?
Q. I am married and now having an affair with a man who told me he 70, but I did abackground check and hes 82!! My guess is he did not want to reveal his real age because I would have said no way. I really like him. I just think it's strange that a ...
A. 4 June 2017: Can I ask you what can an 82 yo bring to an affair. Can he still have a sexual affair at that age ? I would say as for your qestion, he might be no different from a young guy in looking for sweetness from a woman , his wife might not offer what... (read in full...)
How should I approach my parents and family about introducing my Bf to them? Especially as he's 10 years older than me?
Q. Hello, I am 22 years old and in a relationship with a guy ten years older than myself and have been for almost 4 years. My parents have never really objected to me having a partner however them and older members of the family have always told ...
A. 4 June 2017: my first thought is , Better to be an old mans darling than a young mans slave, how does this man feel about the fact that you never got him to meet with your family before now , if I was you I would phone mother and tell her that you wish to bring ... (read in full...)
He asked my friend and now me. Is it OK?
Q. Hello, Please I need some advice. There is this guy asking me out. We met at my sister's wedding. I like him too. It turned out that he had asked my best friend out some months back but she said she was not interested. I asked my friend about ...
A. 4 June 2017: when you find out what was behind the idea of your friend calling him you will know if she is a friend or not. If you like this guy go on 1 date if you wish to go on other dates with him after that do as you wish. There is nothing stopping... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't want to move abroad
Q. We've been dating for only a few months, our first month I told her I have a dream to move to another country and she said "Yeah if you go we'd break up because I wouldn't leave my family behind!" We decided to stay together but recently a few d...
A. 3 June 2017: if you want to move , then don't get into a relationship with someone that does not have the same mind about it , she told you at first so if it was that imporatent to you you should have got out then , you ware wrong in thinking she would change ... (read in full...)
What should I do? My boyfriend got blind drunk and cheated on me.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months and everything has literally been perfect, he's treated me so well tells me he loves me every single day and how much I mean to him and that he's completely infatuated with me. However I foun...
A. 3 June 2017: crap about he can't think of what happened , he can but does not want to tell you the facts , and why should he unless you are into the kinkey stuff , he was not that drunk it is al ways easy to say i got drunk , and I think you don't have the right ... (read in full...)
I cheated and had a one night stand!
Q. Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She honestly is the love of my life and I am very happy with her and would do anything for her. Unfortunately, I made a terrible mistake a couple of nights ago , had way too many drinks (which I know ...
A. 3 June 2017: If I was her I would not want to know , I am only talking for myself , you need to stop thinking it was the drink , if you had that much drink you could not have got it up , they say something like 75% of men cheat and 50% of women , but they also ... (read in full...)
Did he cheat? If not, what is this all about?
Q. Hi. I am in long distance relation with a guy, I live in Germany in the north and he is down in Munich. We sometimes dont see each other as much as we would like because work is so hectic for both of us and we have to coordinate holidays with our ...
A. 2 June 2017: I go along with whan aunt honesty said , and just like to ask if when you had the other woman on the phone did you ask her any thing more to help you in finding out what line of work she is in or why he would have her phone no ? I don't know w... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend?
Q. My best friend started dating a girl from our college. But I've had 3some with that girl before. Should I tell him this?...
A. 1 June 2017: don't , it was before they got together , and do you think she is dirty because she had a 3some with you and are you not in the same case , what makes her not worth being his gf and you worth being his friend ... (read in full...)
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