Should I end my it with my cybersex buddy ?
Q. Hello Dear cupid , I have a issue..... I have a pen pal in another country he is in the U.K. And I'm in the USA we met on Instagram it started out friendly but gradually got flirty and sexual we are both really attracted to each other and have ...
A. 21 June 2017: he might have a wife or a gf or might just want to cut the sex talk off for your own good , he knowing that it is not in your best intrest to keep it up , it was good for a bit , and now is time to move on , same goes for you ,
he might still be h... (read in full...)
I'm being bullied. How do I stand up to these girls?
Q. I had an argument with this girl, let's call her Nelly. It was about 2 months ago now. When we were arguing I told her to "peice out" in other words go away. Now every time I walk past her in school, her and her friend always shout at me "peice out ...
A. 21 June 2017: have you a phone if so set it to record , then you have something to go on then if it is a good school they will want to nip this in the bud ,... (read in full...)
I think my wife cheated on me
Q. Hi people, I have been married for over 3 years now and I believe my wife cheated on me. I am usually an entrepreneur, I make enough in the first quarter to be able to pay for the rest of the year. I suddenly wanted a more abundant life so...
A. 21 June 2017: what has this to do with your question " I am usually an entrepreneur, I make enough in the first quarter to be able to pay for the rest of the year"
you make this shoud like it is realy big that she can use a towel " I came home one day to my wi... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriends best friend trying to break us up? Should the relationship be put after his best friend?
Q. So this is a bit of a long story so I do apologise in advance. Back in December my boyfriend broke up with his ex girlfriend, then on a drunken evening on New Year's Eve he slept with his best friend, that was all it was to him. We are all part of a ...
A. 21 June 2017: there is things that jump out to me one is that you say she made it hard for him to kiss you, heis a big boy why would it be hard for him to kiss his gf , the second is that the two of you keep her around even though you know she would jump into ... (read in full...)
What goes through a man's head when he sees his wife having sex with another man?
Q. To make it short my husband and I are into guys joining us for sex . But husband has always joined for sex until recently when at a party when a black guy paid attention to me more than normal. So at husbands request I invited him home for a ...
A. 19 June 2017: i agree with the people that said talk to him and ask him , you don't say if he has sex while you watched him , or if he has sex with the other men , soi can't say if it was the way that he just did not want to have sex with him , he mght be anty ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend dumped me because she thinks I watch porn
Q. Long story short my girlfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me cause she thinks I'm lying to her about not watching porn. It's rediculous if you saw how beautiful she was you'd understand. We've been exploring our sexuality together and I went o...
A. 19 June 2017: she is using the porn as why she is braking up with you , she might not be happy with where the relationship is going and she might be not into the new sex acts you are trying out with her , to me an outsider it looks as the real communication has ... (read in full...)
Why did he give up his trip with the boys?
Q. My boyfriend turned down a golf trip with the guys next weekend. It's out of town and they go every year. He said it's because he knows I worry and he doesn't want to upset me. In the past I have given him grief. Many of the guys go to strip club...
A. 19 June 2017: he clearly does not want to give you the opening to go over the top again like the last time , he does not want to rock the boat , you might feel it would be good for the two of you to keep up doing what you did before , but he is happy with a quite ... (read in full...)
Has my boyfriend gone too far? He says its just porn but I've found him on swinger sites, looking up ex's
Q. Has my boyfriend of 8 years gone too far? I have recently found my bf has been watching porn. He knows I don't like this but I could have got over that. But I have also found he has been on swinger sites, sites with a list of girls to date, his find...
A. 16 June 2017: looks like he has falling into the trap of thinking that what he see in porn is real and looking for other women to see if he still can "pull a bird"
does he talk about your sex life , does he talk about spicing things up , or is he saying noth... (read in full...)
Who could this strange woman be who showed up asking questions about me?
Q. Can anyone help me make sense of this situation? I live in a house. I rent the downstairs portion. My landlord who owns the home told me that this morning a woman knocked on his door asking questions about me. I was not home at the time. She ...
A. 16 June 2017: i think he did not make up the story as he does not want you running away with out paying , as for this woman have no ides ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but can't get my ex out of my head
Q. I've been with my current girlfriend for 2 years. I love her to pieces but I can't get my ex out of my head. I miss her and want to talk to her again. She had been upset about me for a long time but she may have gotten over me. I've ways loved her. ...
A. 15 June 2017: you went into the new relationship too fast , you need time to get your head right ,... (read in full...)
Recently diagnosed with HSV-1 and HSV-2, he tested himself and results were negative??
Q. So I have a few concerns about my current situation. To begin, I was having low back pain for about 5 months and I finally decided to go to the doctor to try to get it checked and maybe some relief medication. While I was there my PCP also did ...
A. 15 June 2017: he has gone sorry to say , he is just chatting with you at what he thinks is a safe distance , it is time to think about yourself , i know what it is like when your down and the people you thought were your friends run away , so much so i even ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure that I want to return to my husband. He can become abusive and violent
Q. I am currently separated from my husband as he is staying with his family abroad due to family matters. My husband can have an extremely bad temper and I have always been scared of him and nervous around him and not the happy person I used to be be...
A. 15 June 2017: don't do it , don't even dream of doing it , I have someone that did that and she had a hard job to get back from there , and has to live the rest of her life ahide ... (read in full...)
The way he answered a question..wouldn't he have said if he had a girlfriend?
Q. MEN what does this mean? one day my crush had came late 2 pick me up and I said you're late and he said traffic, laughing and I said I hope you don't use that excuse on your girlfriend. he said nothing, he just laughed and smiled....and I smiled and ...
A. 15 June 2017: i don't know , it could be that he has a gf but has feelings for you , it could be he has a gf but would like a bit on the side with you , he on the other hand could be shy and not want to say he has not a gf and is intrested in you , often the best ... (read in full...)
How do I tell a good friend that I don't like him romantically?
Q. So..I have a guyfriend whom I've known for over 5 years. He once told me in the past he liked me but I didnt feel the same way. I never did. He texted he likes me and wants a response. How should I say I don't like him romantically. He's a good ...
A. 15 June 2017: thell him what you told us , you don't need to make a long rigmaroll , keep it like you did here short and sweet , that we wish to keep him friendship and not get into a romantic relationship with him ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with a break up that I know in the end was for the best?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 and a half years broke up with me the other day and I honestly feel like I won't ever get over him. I still love him so much. It scares me to think that I may never find someone who I love that much again. Although I miss him, I ...
A. 14 June 2017: a brake up is the same as a deadt of a loved one , you have to go through all the stages , i know this is the last thing you will want to be told but with time the pain will become less ... (read in full...)
Worried he will drop me if I don't go further
Q. I am 14 and i have been in this relationship with this boy we have been dating for 3 months and i really like him. The thing is normally we would shift and kiss and all that but he said that he wants to top me this means to take off my shirt and ...
A. 14 June 2017: if he is around your age , he most likly is trying to prove to his mates that he can top you ynd even more , he is just intrested in proving that he is as good as his friends ,
I complement you on how clever you are at you age that you can see thro... (read in full...)
Why would a man decide, at the last moment, to not use a condom in this way?
Q. my partner and i was about to have sex and he went to get a condom. When he got it he was playing with the packaging for a few seconds and put the condom to the side. why? After having sex he started to play with that condom again before putti...
A. 14 June 2017: a guy like that needs to be told that you have an std, then he might think twice before he plays that game , ... (read in full...)
Do I stand my ground or make up with my mother?
Q. Hi folks. I'm in a bit of a predicament at the moment. I have my child's christening coming up this week and haven't invited my mother. Now I know that sounds awful but here's why (sorry for the essay) Basically all our lives my mum...
A. 13 June 2017: i agree fully with honeypie , and if I had her I would want her to go to a dr and never let her or any of the people that abused you and your sister near your kids , the only thing I find strange is if she had to be pumped out she would have not ... (read in full...)
Why am I so stuck on social media?
Q. Hello everyone About two years ago I used to hang out with a group of girls that weren't that great - they were gossip fueled - vain - and all they cared about is showing off and getting married. For two years I fell into that hole - I started...
A. 13 June 2017: you have been falling into the trap of believing what you see on things like facebook. The crap you read there about people has nothing to do with them. The ones that say their life is bright and everything is going for them are trying to prove to... (read in full...)
I'm married but cheating with my old flame and I'm hopelessly in love
Q. I went to a reunion and as soon as I stood in front of my old flame I knew. I hadn't thought of him in 40 years. I'm happily married and live a plush life. He never married. Even though we live in Different states we've been together twice And...
A. 13 June 2017: you get to see the best side ot this man and he sees the best side in you. You don't seem to want to throw what you have got in the air. To just to live what was a romance you lived in some 40 years before. It was good at the time but you hav... (read in full...)
How can I end my feelings of regret
Q. Hi aunts. I was in a relationship for six months which he ended two months ago now. I fell in love, we both did and shared a special connection. However he ended it after we had a problem between us that kept surfacing in that I am very tactile and ...
A. 13 June 2017: It takes time to get back to where you should be, when you love someone and they don't love you the same way. You gave your all he was not into it the same way and he does not want to build the same thing at this time. Some men put their job an... (read in full...)
I didn't cheat so why do I have crabs and my husband?
Q. I'm married I found crab louse on me I'm not Committing adultery my husband doesn't have any of those things on his body how can that be?...
A. 13 June 2017: I would think the most likly would be if you have being away and the bed you used was not cleaned after the last user ,... (read in full...)
My partner is falling for his ex and although I know I should end things I love him!
Q. I've been in my relationship now for almost 6 years and engaged for 2 of those years. (No date for marriage due to both of us being at risk of redundancy) and over 5 years ago we had a problem with my partners work colleague. To give a little ba...
A. 13 June 2017: Your love for him is not enough. He has to love you as well. If you are open to this other woman then all is not there for you. As the others have said walk away and find someone who is worth spending time with. It will not be easy for you at f... (read in full...)
I'm 20, she's 16. I'd like to hear people's thoughts
Q. I am 20 years old and a girl that I like a lot is 16. We met each other and started talking after het parents gave my number to her. The really like me and we get along quite well. The only thing that is scary to me is the age difference, and I ...
A. 13 June 2017: You must be very lucky that her parents passed your number on to her, it is more normal for parents to fight off all boys that even look at their 16 year old. If she it interested in you and wants you as a friend and you her then I would sa... (read in full...)
Six years together and she doesn't want to commit
Q. My girlfriend of six years can’t commit. She doesn’t want to be tied down. She lives in my house but only pays towards the services – gas, electricity etc. She pays nothing towards household items but does buy some of the food. I can’t get her ...
A. 13 June 2017: She is using you. She might even be happy in what she has got . You're her sugar daddy and not more than a FWB. If she has no costs what is she doing with her wages? She will soon have the money to buy her own house , then it is goodbye to you ,... (read in full...)
I'm married and have fallen for a married friend. Do I pursue this?
Q. I am 29 years old. Im maried in 2010 with 2 kids (3 and 5). I met my wife when i was 15 and have been with her ever since. I have never cheated on her or even talked to another woman inappropriately. But the other day we were hanging out with some ...
A. 12 June 2017: I was told once by a boss " don't dirty on your doorstep " this woman is a friend so is her husband , doing anything with her would be like strapping a bomb to your self and set it off, just madness , you need to work on what you have ... (read in full...)
Scared my marriage is failing because of him
Q. Hi everyone! Could do with some advice please as I am scared for my marriage. I have been married for 2 years, together 6. I have a 6 month old and 2 step children and the lovely husband. Everyone dotes on my daughter and she is our everythi...
A. 12 June 2017: i am all for working things out , but the man you have talked about I can't see what makes him a the lovely husband, he is not able for his job , he does not help around the home , and he does not talk to you and even give you the odd kiss , what ... (read in full...)
I thought I put him in the friendzone but does he like me more?
Q. Ok, I have become good friends with a guy I met through work. We have known each other for about 6 months now. When we first became friends I wasn't looking for a relationship and it seemed as if he wasn't either,as he said so. I told him not to ...
A. 12 June 2017: he might be thinking FWB AND miss reading what you are up for , you can stay friends with him , but if he trys anything put a stop to it the same way as you would with someone that is being to close to you at work , you can be friends without ... (read in full...)
I'm married but cheating with my old flame and I'm hopelessly in love
Q. I went to a reunion and as soon as I stood in front of my old flame I knew. I hadn't thought of him in 40 years. I'm happily married and live a plush life. He never married. Even though we live in Different states we've been together twice And...
A. 12 June 2017: can't compare a husband that has being with you through the good and bad stuff life has given you over the last how many years. He see you every day. You and he have stopped making that extra effort in every day life. To a guy that you are like... (read in full...)
Why am I so stuck on social media?
Q. Hello everyone About two years ago I used to hang out with a group of girls that weren't that great - they were gossip fueled - vain - and all they cared about is showing off and getting married. For two years I fell into that hole - I started...
A. 12 June 2017: Forums and social media can be like a drug , you need to get your fix every chance you get , the first thing you do when you get up is go on or every free moment you get , if you can't live with out it for a day your on the social media drug, I ... (read in full...)
Despite what he says I feel I'm not good enough for him. Should I feel this way?
Q. hi everyone, i have recently got into a new relationship with a really nice man and he pays me a lot of nice compliments telling me i am beautiful, intelligent etc. except i don't feel that i am and i feel insecure about things. the thing is i am 43 ...
A. 12 June 2017: He is not looking to take over your world. He wants a woman that brings his happiness is all the things you offer. He does not care if you had a job. It is not another worker he is looking for. If he were he might give you the job as you might be ... (read in full...)
What can I do? How should I handle this? Her sexual past and her ex who was her FWB are issues that are making me feel insecure.
Q. Ok so me and my gf have been going out for about 8 months. And I've been struggling with her sexual past a lot recently. She's slept with about 10 people before me, they were all ons apart from one friends with benefits she had just before we start...
A. 11 June 2017: You did say that she had all this experience over a very short time and then you found each other so you could look on the other side of things and see that you brought stability into her life. Before you judge her if you did time for a crime does ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on how to gain the attention of this gorgeous Turkish girl when I return to Turkey for another vacation?
Q. Hi people I'm a college student from France. So I want to share my story with you all and hopefully find a solution. A couple friends and I went on vacation to Turkey 2 weeks ago, and I met this gorgeous Turkish girl. I've never seen anything li...
A. 11 June 2017: maybe it is the old romantic in me and i gave 5 years after the girl and in the end wone her over , and it was wroth every bit of it , i think you know what to do and I agree it does look that she is worth the try , and french men have a rep in the ... (read in full...)
He says he wants to be friends but to be patient. Is he playing games with me?
Q. When I was 22, I was in a very serious relationship. After his father died, he broke up with me. We didnt speak for a number of years. We both married other people, and had children. We found each other again, I was divorced, he was happily married, ...
A. 11 June 2017: are you open to a relationship with a person or is it just that if you work things out you would be happy to have one with this man , you don't say how old his kids are if they are young he would not want to pull them away from what is home for ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on how to gain the attention of this gorgeous Turkish girl when I return to Turkey for another vacation?
Q. Hi people I'm a college student from France. So I want to share my story with you all and hopefully find a solution. A couple friends and I went on vacation to Turkey 2 weeks ago, and I met this gorgeous Turkish girl. I've never seen anything li...
A. 11 June 2017: I think your going no where with it , she has not responded to your message , she most likly thinks your just intrested in a holiday romance , so you have to think about many things like as if your a mind reader as you don't know if she would ever ... (read in full...)
Feeling un-easy about my gf going on cruise. Am I going to be cheated on during the cruise?
Q. My girlfriend of 6 months is going on a cruise with her family for a week here soon, I am just kinda of un-easy because of all the stories I've heard about what happens on cruises. I'm her first ever bf and she's never given me a reason to suspect ...
A. 10 June 2017: you will not get cheated on she is going just for a few days with her family. This is normal things for family to do , from what you say she is a quiet girl and it is just your mind starting to play on you you have a great girl and would do best ... (read in full...)
He has Mommy issues 2. Should I move on? Or wait for him?
Q. I was with this guy for about a couple of months, we met on a dating site..he has Mommy issues, he is in his 30s amd his mom lives with him but they constantly fight she belittles him and he just takes iy because she has no where else to go.. He end...
A. 10 June 2017: i think you are right no point in it , and you don't want to ever end up with the 2 of them and you living in the same place , you are doing right to move on ... (read in full...)
What's the best thing to do? I have a crush on a hot co-worker
Q. Well, I have a crush on coworker, but she is dating another co-worker and has a kid with him. She asked me if I think her boyfriend would cheat on her. I told her "no, I didn't think so". She supposed to come over and hang out, but Im not going to ...
A. 10 June 2017: if she is in some type relationship it is best to stay work mates, she might want you as a shoulder to cry on or just to talk about her bf and where she see it going with him , and that is not the best place for you if you are starting to have ... (read in full...)
What can I do? How should I handle this? Her sexual past and her ex who was her FWB are issues that are making me feel insecure.
Q. Ok so me and my gf have been going out for about 8 months. And I've been struggling with her sexual past a lot recently. She's slept with about 10 people before me, they were all ons apart from one friends with benefits she had just before we start...
A. 10 June 2017: first off sex is not dirty , and what goes on between 2 consenting people should stay between them , and i was a virgin for much longer than you but i know my wife was not, and was raped, but i don't know much more than that and it makes no ... (read in full...)
I know my friend's boyfriend is cheating on her but my boyfriend says I can't tell her
Q. Hi; I have a boyfriend who I love dearly and me and him are good friends with another couple who we go out with and see a lot. I am very good friends with the girl of the couple and he is very good friends with the boy of the couple although...
A. 10 June 2017: would you like to be told if it was your bf that was doing this behind your back ?
what type friend am i if I know this about you and don't tell you ?
if this girl finds out from another person and finds out you know all along how will she react to... (read in full...)
Male FWB wants me to finger him and I don't want this. Am I being over sensitive?
Q. I just got into a casual fling type relationship with a guy at uni, he's in his final year and leaving this summer so its only for a few months. We haven't had sex yet but have been making out etc. When we were making out last night with undies ...
A. 10 June 2017: this guy you're with talks about the girls he uses , he is a user when he told you about the other girl with a rep , you say your in a FWB with this guy and you seem to be open to moving on to a sex-friend relationship, while not knowing anything... (read in full...)
| *udgedick's friends
These are mutual friends, so *udgedick has
added them and they have added *udgedick!
|
