Is this woman after my husband?
Q. Does it sound like this woman is after my spouse? My husband started a new job and seemed to become friendly and close to a woman I will call Kathy. They would discuss their personal issues ( our martial) ( her relationship issues). She would ca...
A. 30 July 2017: Part of me thinks she and you husband are made for each other, and you should look for a divorce from him,
He played games with her at work, then he backed off after getting her worked up, a case of harvesting what you sow,
You put up wi... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's brother won't allow kids in his home
Q. My boyfriend and I are 26 years old. My boyfriend has a brother that is 24 years old and I have a brother that is 14 years old. The problem is that my boyfriend's brother will not let my brother visit his house due to his age. My boyfriend's b...
A. 30 July 2017: When I started reading this post I built an image of a man with a red room filled with cooled beer of his favorite brand protected with chains and locks,
By the time I got to the end and see your example of a pool party I thought this BF's bro... (read in full...)
He changed his mind about getting married so who keeps the ring?
Q. A few weeks ago my ex fiancé basically told me that he didn't want to get married then he told me he was no longer in love with me. Then a few weeks later he basically tells me I'm in love with you but your not my soulmate. I was annoyed and I do...
A. 30 July 2017: First off value of the ring now is very little, as it is a second-hand ring, it is up to you what you do with it, as far as the law goes I don't know, I would think if he wants it back by the law he would have to officially ask you for it back ... (read in full...)
Is this woman after my husband?
Q. Does it sound like this woman is after my spouse? My husband started a new job and seemed to become friendly and close to a woman I will call Kathy. They would discuss their personal issues ( our martial) ( her relationship issues). She would ca...
A. 29 July 2017: I hope you have copied that Facebook harassment, keep it for a long time, this woman is nuts, your husband is standing with you and is not doing anything to draw her, but she is the type that does not take no,
what must she have put in that har... (read in full...)
How should I handle these 2 cliquey co-workers without it turning into a situation?
Q. Please help me with this work situation. If you had a 2 works colleagues (younger 24 and 29) who did not say hi to you,(you say hi to them, to be polite) but they say hi to others do you keep trying? or speak when needed... to be profes...
A. 29 July 2017: THE work place is full of people that want to get up higher and all they can see is the way to the top, Some people are just ignorant and what about them,
IN France as you come into work you must go around and give a check to check to everyone... (read in full...)
My boyfriend masterbated to porn next to me while I was sleeping
Q. Hello, so I woke up next to my boyfriend yesterday and noticed porn in his history, I was confused so I asked him why he had porn in his history and he said he fapped last night. I asked him if he did it right next to me and he said yes!!!! Is it ...
A. 29 July 2017: He could not sleep so he looked at porn you were asleep and did not let him know if it was ok to wake you up in the middle of the night if he wants to relieve himself in the hope he can get back to sleep,
Women are known to read romantic books li... (read in full...)
My boyfriend tells me that he's over his ex so why are they following each other on instagram?
Q. HEY!!!! I've been dating this guy for six months and I was looking on Instagram and found his ex-girlfriend's page. Her page is public. When I looked at all her pictures he liked almost all of the recent ones. Him and I are not friends on ...
A. 29 July 2017: Yes I see that you have picked up the same meaning of crazy as I and most men, but maybe he gave her good reason to be crazy or jealous,
Many men make the same mistake and think they have a god given right to say "I would give it to her" and othe... (read in full...)
I'm straight so why do gay women always hit on me? Am I giving off some kind of vibes?
Q. now a lot of women hit on me...why I don't know, I am straight....anyway here's my issue so i needed 2 use another coworkers comp so I found one which was unfortunately by my freaky coworker and she just said 2 me, so you are going be my cute desk ...
A. 29 July 2017: This woman might be strong enough to not have to hide her lesbian side, and when she said so your be my cute desk buddy and smiled does not say she was hitting on you and if she was it is because you don't have lesbian or bisexual stamped on your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is dealing with the loss of his brother. He's blaming me and shutting me out
Q. My boyfriend recently lost his brother to suicide 6 weeks ago. For the first 4 weeks I tried to support him and his family as much as I could. Then 2 weeks ago he turned and started to blame me for what happened and told me he wished I was dead. He ...
A. 29 July 2017: Losing a brother like this can be very hard and bring strange things out in people, they lash out at someone, I have a friend from Scotland that has been through the same and it turned him into a sad bitter man that sees himself as having the right ... (read in full...)
How can I cope with seeing a co-worker that I was involved with?
Q. Hi, I recently was involved with a man at work however it hasn't worked out as I planned :-( . We never had sex , just hugs, kisses and loved each other's company. We have had an amazing time together and I really thought he cared about me. He used ...
A. 29 July 2017: Bonjour, First of all, you don't need to take that type harassment from this other woman, She is often calling you harassing even though you have cut off seeing this man, You did nothing wrong only fell in love with a man that told you he was... (read in full...)
I'm dating a guy who's rather pushy and doesn't want to compromise on even the smallest of things
Q. There's this guy I have been dating and he is overall wonderful. However, he's done things here and there that has shown me that maybe he can't really compromise. Once, we went dancing at a restaurant with a live band. We had a great time had s...
A. 28 July 2017: The condom thing is a big no no to me, any man that can not respect a woman in that way is not a man, I would expect better from a 16-year-old, he is twice that,
the other things would be ok until they become too many at any one time, then it ... (read in full...)
I'm hurting terribly after a break up. Any advice on how to feel better?
Q. Hi everyone, I was involved with a guy for about a year. It didn't work out because he couldn't commit to me and last week I found out he'd actually been in love with someone else when he met me. I made the decision last week to cut contac...
A. 28 July 2017: time for your Girl friends, take your mind off him, make an effort to fill the blank spot, join a local help group where you can give others your help can experience, this way you get to feel good helping others have been dealt a different hand ... (read in full...)
My husband is trying to bully, control, manipulate and isolate me! Help!
Q. I have recently got married again and gradully my husband is imposing boundaries and when i challenge these he becomes incredibly angry to the point of screaming, telling me i'm stupin and running down my friends and family. He is now tell8ng me my ...
A. 28 July 2017: Sorry for you, You need to do some packing, for him or for you , If I was you I would sleep with a friend tonight, and take it from there, ... (read in full...)
Do tell her to put family before anything else?
Q. I am 19,n really want to give my sort of step mom some good advice caz shes been askin my opinion. You see we are like best friends, shes been there for me for 5 yrs.She married her 1st boyfriend right outa high school, is now devorised n has been ...
A. 28 July 2017: IS is hard for us to respond to someone that is giving their story and letting out the other side, as you would imagine if we could do Gerry Springer on it and get the two sides to fight it out here, it might change the story from the story we get ... (read in full...)
I think my girlfriend might be in touch with her ex but I am afraid to bring it up
Q. i have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now, Trust is something that is always earned, and unfortunately she has lied to me a few times, so i really have a difficult time sometimes when situations don't feel right or i get the feeling shes ...
A. 28 July 2017: You are together with 3 years, At some time you found out she went somewhere that she felt she could not tell you because she did not know in what way you would react, I am not passing any judgment on you or her in this, as for 1 don't know where ... (read in full...)
Why won't he play with me and not himself
Q. Boyfriend of 1 year who is 33 and I am 29 . He masturbates in bed next to me when he thinks I am asleep or if I am awake he quickly goes to the bathroom. Once he does the deed, then he will say sweet things oh i miss you, oh i love you. We have sex ...
A. 28 July 2017: Confusing? " We don't live with each other yet, just see each other on weekdays and weekends " Instead of I getting into all the thing about him skipping off to the bathroom for a quick handjob, he might have preconceived ideas and think women ... (read in full...)
He makes faces when I talk about men I have dated. Is he jealous?
Q. If I mention the names of men who I admire or have dated, my co-worker always makes this scrunched up face like he smelled a nasty poopie. I don't constantly talk about other guys. Does this mean he is jealous? He also stares at me when he thinks ...
A. 28 July 2017: DO you like him, Do you want to start a relationship with him keeping in mind that he is a co-worker, Can you see it being a worth while risk, Yes by what you say he has you on his mind quite a bit, but you don't know what is going through hi... (read in full...)
I think my girlfriend might be in touch with her ex but I am afraid to bring it up
Q. i have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now, Trust is something that is always earned, and unfortunately she has lied to me a few times, so i really have a difficult time sometimes when situations don't feel right or i get the feeling shes ...
A. 28 July 2017: Confusing? You say " Trust is something that is always earned, and unfortunately she has lied to me a few times" Were these big lies or little lies or was it about things you have on right to be asking in the first place, As an outsider I would say, ... (read in full...)
Is it too late to contact my ex? I shouldn't have let him go
Q. Hi,just ended two year relationship, he was nice first but soon As he knew I fell in love, he changed became a jerk, I broke up with a guy, to be with him, a six month relationship, now he was so different, he treated me so special, I didn't know ...
A. 26 July 2017: I agree with Denizen as if he was as good as you say now you would not have split up, does this man still talk to you?
we don't know him so all you can do is make some contact with him and see if he is open to a new start, some of us get soft as ... (read in full...)
How is the best way to deal with social media and ex partners?
Q. My partner and i separated about 4 weeks ago. We had been together 4 years. The break up was horrible. He called me one day at work told me he cheated on me then dumped me...i was in shock because i had no idea anything was wrong.im still hurting. ...
A. 26 July 2017: I take a little time every now and again to go through my so called friend's list weed out the ones I WANT TO DUMP,
It is up to you if an ex is no longer a friend block him and the sooner you do it the better, some block their ex once he is out and ... (read in full...)
Mother in law caused trouble
Q. I am looking for advice into relation to my partners mother who has caused a great big argument turning up uninvited at our home, okay it shouldn't be a big deal but it actually was, To cut a long story short she lives 5 minutes from our house, I...
A. 26 July 2017: She lives 5 minutes from YOUR house, So expect to bump into her often, What happened the day before you went holidays is a result of your man forgetting or might have put off telling you as he knows that things are bad between you, His mother h... (read in full...)
How to untangle this 'nightmare'?
Q. I've been married for almost a year now and I feel like I'm trapped in a nightmare. When something goes wrong, he never wants to sit down and talk about things. He becomes angry and defensive which leads us to nowhere. When I suggest solutions, he ...
A. 26 July 2017: I think for some reason the two of you are happy at putting up with each other, he thinks you're wrong and he might be right as you even all most saying your becoming like him, he goes to talk about you to others instead of talking to you, there is ... (read in full...)
Should I end things with him? Or just go with the flow?
Q. Thank you for for your hellp. ... not sure what to do at this point regarding my situation but any suggestions will help. What happened is that I've known this guy at work for about 4 years and we've talked as co-workers/friends all this time in ...
A. 25 July 2017: he is the lowest of the low, he turned a work friendship into using you when his GF was expecting his baby, WHY is his not living with her? Did you know about he having a GF before you went over to his place if so you need to take some of the... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend being wise and protecting himself? Or is there more to the story?
Q. My boyfriend and I have a very happy relationship, we spend a lot of our time together, we go out, stay in, and we have a lot of sex and we're very affectionate towards one another. We are in the process of selling our houses separately and buying ...
A. 25 July 2017: sloppy endings come from sloppy ways of doing things, I think he is right in you getting the loose ends set out in the start of anything, in that way you know where each stand, he does not dought your love he does not see him self-running off with ... (read in full...)
My married lover has been conflicted lately. What is next?
Q. Hi. I'm not looking to be judged. I am just looking for some good, sound advice as this situation is not one you can discuss openly. And as happy as it can be, it can also be difficult and very painful. I am not sure how to address this. I hope you ...
A. 25 July 2017: I normally read what the other Aunts respond but for some reason this time I am making a point in not before I GIVE YOU what ever it is I am going to say. My points are just random points from what I have taking in of what you typed, I understa... (read in full...)
I'm very puzzled by my boyfriend's giantess fetish. Can someone explain?
Q. Hello, i'm very open about porn and sexual things and nothing really phases me, however I found out my boyfriend has a foot fetish, it's not something that really did it for me, but seeing how turned on he gets by using my feet etc, i'm starting to ...
A. 25 July 2017: Every day is a school day, and life holds new things for us all the time, many of us don't even know if we have a fetish or not as our fetish can be popular and be excepted as normal sex life, all I can say is if you love each other and it does not ... (read in full...)
Which expression is more of a compliment?
Q. I'm just wanting opinions on the difference between the terms of "amazing woman" - "awesome chicky" and "chicky babe". For example, is there certain levels of intimacy involved in calling a girl this when you are interested, if you are interested? ...
A. 25 July 2017: Amazing woman is the only one I would have ever used, and I can use that about many women, there is even one woman on this site that I think of as an amazing woman but would not tell her, as I don't think she needs to know the respect I hold her in, ... (read in full...)
He's fun but I'm feeling used
Q. Hi everyone. This divorced - with - 2 - kids guy I met described himself as financially comfortable but I am always paying and he says he 'would pay if he could/ will pay next time/when a big deal comes through? When I asked whether he would...
A. 25 July 2017: An old one this one, If YOU FEEL USED you more than likely are been used, he might be fun but it is not much fun if you feel used, In olden times the man paid because the woman had to buy an expensive dress, but we have moved on from there and w... (read in full...)
Why do men that are in relationships watch porn so much?
Q. Hi I was online the other day and porn popped up that my boyfriend had been watching ive caught him a few times watching porn but he said he only watches it about once amonth and I dont think thats true I think he watches it way more. I feel like im ...
A. 25 July 2017: I bet it was free porn, you get loads of it and if he looked at one thing and is silly enough to think it is really free and not know that these people track his PC and even know where his mouse is at any time ready to post a pop-up. Men are into... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been texting a past hook up!
Q. I have been dating this guy for a few months now and we are crazy about each other. We have been exclusive for a while, but I saw the other day that he has been texting with a girl he has hooked up with before. They have been friends for 10 years, ...
A. 24 July 2017: your relationship is still new and it must be a little unstable yet that you feel the need to make him give up an old friend, be careful of doing that as it can drive a wedge between you two, you might have an old friend and you would not like being ... (read in full...)
Married woman flirts with me on and off. Why?
Q. So there's this female that I noticed when I started taking the train to work a little over a year ago. At the very beginning I noticed that she kept looking my way, even if I haven't looked at her I noticed through peripherals her glance. Anyway ...
A. 23 July 2017: what is she doing that makes you think it is flirting, and not just being friendly with someone she crosses all most every day, Is this why people think it is imposable for men and women to be just friends,
She thinking of your name is not thin... (read in full...)
Is this woman trying to break up our marriage? She claims my husband cheated with her
Q. My husband and i have been married for 8 years with 3 Kids and pregnant at the moment. I have never caught him cheating. But my Brother exgirlfriend told my Brother that she went out my husband and they had sex. Then my husband gave her money. When ...
A. 23 July 2017: There is too much here say in all this, define cheating in your own head, is it your husband giving her money to help her out at some time in the past, is not, unless she is trying to say she is a whore, No matter what her story is and no matter... (read in full...)
Friend will not take any ownership for problems in our friendship. What should I do?
Q. Good morning This is such a neat site and I get answers from around the world which is cool. My issue involves a ten year old friendship. I have had bumps in the road with this friendship in the past but we have worked it out but as of late the c...
A. 23 July 2017: This to me is like been told about a fight you had with someone, and as I am only getting one side of the story I find myself asking what would be her side of the story,
I would say to forget about the story as you said you don't need the dram... (read in full...)
Not enough 'me' time in seven year relationship
Q. My fiancé and I have been on and off for seven years. I love him to the moon and back. we have lots in common and I enjoy doing almost everything with him, yet sometimes I need some...my time...and he gets really upset/angry even. He texts me ...
A. 23 July 2017: My Dear Woman, you say he is your fiancé and that it has being on and off, nothing wrong with that just you did not say off for what time, and I will come back to that later, as I see in what you posted that this man is immature, insecure and ... (read in full...)
Was he just being an ex, and was he using me?
Q. Hi thanks for reading guys I need advice. On wed me and my ex spend the night together, we went for a meal a few drinks and was best night we ever had, he was so loving told me he can't imagine his life without me. Was incredible met some of his ...
A. 23 July 2017: Maybe I am just not switched on today or I am living in another world but you said you went out to dinner with your ex (nothing wrong with that, as you said it was the best night you ever spent with him, as you said you met some of his work friends ... (read in full...)
Have I missed my chance to find a man, settle down and have a family?
Q. What do you do if you want to find someone to share your life with and get married so much that your heart hurts, but you are in your thirties and feel like you missed your chance? I've had lousy luck with guys all of my life. All I want is to...
A. 23 July 2017: I have no idea where you're from but by the way, you described it I would love to have grown up there, 1/90 HOT GIRLS if I ever fall out with my wife I want to move to where you're from, even if AT THAT TIME I AM 70. I am not going to give yo... (read in full...)
How do I help my boyfriend sort himself out?
Q. My boyfriend had a really bad relationship with this girl before me and left him with some mental scars and we were totally fine until he got drunk and texted some random girl stupid stuff but they weren't that bad. Now he's apologised loads and I ...
A. 19 July 2017: I am all for people working on things to make them work, but there is a time that it is just too much work, He seems to be making a habit of using excuses to not take responsibility for when he is wrong, you have to know if he has depression you can ... (read in full...)
Engaged but I've seen someone new
Q. I am engaged to a man whom I have been in a mostly happy relationship for 9 years. He cheated on me three years in with someone at work but we got over it. We are now engaged and the wedding is next year. My problem is, I'm absolutely obses...
A. 19 July 2017: he cheated once 6 years ago and it is still being dragged up, So you never got over that
The one where you say you're mostly happy in your relationship is saying you're not really in love anymore and looking for love somewhere else.
End this ... (read in full...)
I don't want to panic in the future about oral sex performed on me, advice please?
Q. Hi I'm an 18 y/o girl and lost my virginity earlier this year. It was great, and the foreplay was even better, except as he was kissing his way down there I was pulling him back up. I told him I wasn't comfortable with him going down on me, like I ...
A. 19 July 2017: As the others said so I don't have to go over it again, just like to point out don't believe what you see in advertising that you need to wash with ph balanced products to get clean, a load of bull just clean water is best, would you like to suck a ... (read in full...)
Can't understand what kind of relationship I'm in
Q. I have known my friend for over a year. He has been doing little things. 1: Can you be out by a certain time? 2: I have my own place but still living with him. 3: He said he wanted to tell me something but then stops and pauses and says never mi...
A. 19 July 2017: I don't understand when you say you have your own place but still living with him and that you have to be out by a certain time.
Are you 24/7 or not have you at least a drawer in his place with your undies in or does his place look like you don'... (read in full...)
Should I allow her more space in my arrangements?
Q. I am a lady who likes ladies. I have been toying with the idea of moving across the country to a particular city for awhile and have a good friend there. Through an online dating site, I have been speaking with a lady from this city who seems great, ...
A. 18 July 2017: I also say to keep your independence, book into your own lodgements, by all means, keep in contact with her, She might be rethinking her offer, not that she has anything against you but she might be thinking of the one, not knowing you and if you ... (read in full...)
Why has he not met me yet?
Q. There's this guy I like.... so he keeps making plans to meet me then goes quiet for the before and day of. Why, does he not really like me? Does he really like me and is nervous? We seem to get on well over text and phone and social medi...
A. 17 July 2017: I agree with Honeypie here and just would like to know if you know where this guy lives, I mean really know, The Internet is a great place for people THAT ARE SAD AND BORED to make up whole lives and live in this land of make believe,
this ... (read in full...)
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