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I am a woman in my early thirties.
I think what qualifies me is that I love helping people probably because I want to see everyone happy, I cant stand seeing people in pain I always try to find solutions to make them feel comfortable with their situations. I also like being around people socially especially kids are such a joy to spend time with.
All the responses I give are to be used as guidelines not AS-IS while making future decisions. Most of this responses I truly give based on an opinion and lessons learnt from past and present experiences. you are always welcome to pm me if you require my opinion i promise to respond objectively.
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| Latest articles: Is it wise to excuse staying in an unhappy relationship by labeling it ‘Complicated’?
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18 April 2008: So often we fall in love with someone who is not in love with us and chase after them that we fail to notice those who are chasing after us. Relationships are complicated so are we. Have u ever been asked how is it so far with your boyfriend? Are ...
Is all completely fair in love and war?
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18 April 2008: Hello there! Why did someone came up with the words its all fair in love and war? I told my friend my ex-colleague and friend was coming over for supper last Saturday night she said oh really I am so looking forward to meeting him is he married? I...
I don’t know which one is worse space or let’s be friends?
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17 April 2008: Hello there! It starts with: “Baby we need to talk” - “I think I need a space” or “I think we should break-up”, “Don’t worry we can still be friends”……… OUCH! Dumpee “Honey why? I thought we were tight” Baby please!!! I don’t understand cant ...
Take courage and go back to the ring
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10 May 2007: I was in the bus this morning when the two ladies were gossiping about a co-worker who is sleeping with her friend’s husband (who happens to be her boss) behind her back. The other one said “oh that woman is very crazy she thinks living it like that ...
When do you know its time to let go?
No replies yet... 10 May 2007: Few weeks ago a friend of mine found out her fiancée has a child by a girl from his neighborhood and all this were unknown to her, you can imagine the pain she felt, she was and still is heartbroken and perplexed by what the man she loved and ...
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I am afraid to stay in my 13 year relationship but also afraid to leave for a past love - what do I do?
Q. I have been with my husband for over 13 years, married for over 6. We have had many challages but the past 2 years have been extremely difficult. I want children, he does not, this I did not know until after we were married. I have been a devoted, ...
A. 14 February 2007: hi
i think the root of the problem was lack of communication in this marriage, he lived his selfish life and when you were mute about it he thought you were happy, only to find out you were not happy and doesnt have any energy left to make the marr... (read in full...)
Walked in on my girl bonking a guy I know... what should I do now?
Q. Hullos ,it is quite sad that i got my girlfreind cheating on me with another guy whom i happen to know .i found them having sex together so what i did i told the guy to simply dress up an leave the place .There after i was my girl who immediately ...
A. 19 January 2007: Hi there
I am really amazed by your calmness in all this, you seem like a very respectable individual with a lot to offer, but unfortunately things got out of hand. I think u have two options here its either you forgive her or you let her go. Choo... (read in full...)
My fiancee was killed 7 years ago and I can't move on from the loss..any advice?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a major problem and I have no idea how to handle it. My fiance, the love of my life and very best friend was killed in a car accident 7 years ago. Since then I have moved on and have now been with a man that knew my fiancee ...
A. 19 January 2007: hi there
im glad we could help. just remember time and life are the best healers. keep pushing that pain and sadness away and one day you will move past it.
all the best... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me why men are such commitment phobes?
Q. Why do men fear relationships/commitment so much, even if they fall in love? Why can't they just "go with the flow"??...
A. 18 January 2007: hi there
i dont know the answer i do agree with dr pete, but at the same time i will keep my reservations.
one thing i realised about men and women (just an opinion not a fact) is that men are more visionaries in a sense that he knows a woman he... (read in full...)
Meeting this other girl has made me realise how bad my current relationship is!!
Q. Hi, I am in a relationship at the moment and have been for the past 5 years. For the past year or so things haven't been great and my partner has felt very distant and unapproachable. We don't talk as much as we used to and we keep having rows ove...
A. 18 January 2007: hi there
i think what u need to do now is slow down a bit with the new girl the reason is when things are bad in a relationship we usually find an escape route and if it seem more viable than the current environment we are living in obviously we w... (read in full...)
My fiance arranged a meeting for he and I without consulting me first. It seems my opinion doesn't matter. Am I wrong to feel hurt and upset by this?
Q. im currently engaged to my fiance of 4yrs,lately hes been distant,i believed we had a good relationship until the other day when he decided to arrange a meeting and agreed,he consulted me after he`d done this,am i wrong to be hurt and upset that he ...
A. 17 January 2007: i dont think this is a problem, unless he had been arranging a lot of them without consulting u and expects u to be there no matter how u feel or not considering ur other commitments. have u spoken to him about this? what is his say in this? if u ... (read in full...)
My bf is outgoing in social settings and I'm shy and uncomfortable. This makes me feel bad about myself. What can I do?
Q. hi! i'm a shy young lady who loves her boyfriend, but has a problem with jealousy and possessiveness. Even though, I know he means well to me, I still feel suspicious towards him and asking annoying questions. Deep down inside I feel that what he ...
A. 12 January 2007: i agree with kenny, your personalities complement each other, build-up your self esteem, learn to be friendly when around people you dont have to talk much as he is the talker imagine if he was just like you, other couples were gonna be bored with ... (read in full...)
My ex is sleeping w/ me...and others! What if they're not using protection?! And how can I get her back w/ just me?
Q. My Ex Girlfriend and myself r doing great everything going great no problem's where best friends who sleep with each over and it's never werld 1 bit. last night she came up we had something to eat we made love. and everything was going great. ...
A. 12 January 2007: i dont see why you say this is the problem, you made a choice to sleep with her without protection which is really stupid if u ask me (judging from ur detailed post of course) whether or not they are using protection i think its none of your ... (read in full...)
My new guy keeps going on about how great I am but it's making me uncomfortable!
Q. Hey, I like this guy, we get on well, he's hot we're dating... but....he really likes me. This may seem like an odd "problem" but it kinda freaks me out that he's just so open about it. He's always overdramatically going on to people about how great ...
A. 12 January 2007: let me answer this pessimistically although i do wish he was mine, please dont tell my beau i said that. just make sure he is for real, because i know most real guys if not all they are not that complementary. if a compliment was for sale my beau's ... (read in full...)
He's spontaneous...I like things planned ahead of time! Is this just a guy thing?
Q. My boyfriend never seem like he's on top of things. I always see him as not knowing how to prepare things ahead of time. Maybe I'm a bit on the organize side. But I like the idea of knowing what to do next. On the other hand, my boyfriend is a ...
A. 12 January 2007: Hi there
this is the result of different personalities and there is nothing wrong with that. you are more like me, I love budgeting, doing things correctly, make sure if there is enough food for the whole moth, activities for the week are plan... (read in full...)
I can't trust her and I need someone reliable! Should I walk away?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together 6 yrs. 3 months ago she decided to start to flirt with some guy on myspace. It progressed into her playing with herself while she would talk to him on the phone, in my bed. I did some snooping cuz I could tell ...
A. 12 January 2007: Hi there
I think this rship is in big trouble, and her lack of respect for you might be a factor which is being bypassed; I don’t know how u guys settle your differences but it seems as if a lot remain unsaid because she keeps “cheating” and you ... (read in full...)
I want someone I can have a future with-should I break it off with him?
Q. Hey everyone! A very happy new year to you all! I wanted your opinion on this dilemma i'm faced with. I'm 25 and my boyf is 3 yrs n 10 months younger than me. We're very much in love and have been for the last yr n a half. I come from a family wh...
A. 12 January 2007: Happy new year to you
I think your situation is not complicated at all, face your fears and enjoy your life as you live it or live your life as your parents dictate. You are 24 he is 21 nothing wrong with that, you want marriage he wants marr... (read in full...)
I think we're perfect together but she's put us "on a break"... do I wait for her?
Q. Hi thanks in avance for reading. my question is about "time apart". the girl im with wants time apart so she can "figure out things because she in confused, but not confused about me" - whatever that means. weve been together a year and ive treated ...
A. 12 January 2007: Hi there
Love hurts unfortunately. I think your gf is not confused she knows what she wants to do, like u said getting laid and not wanting a serious relationship. I think she wants to explore herself with other guys, u said “you are together 24/7... (read in full...)
He needs time to think-is this just leading up to being dumped?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months. He spent the first few months trying to get back together with his ex who has moved overseas. He then told me he was falling in love with me and things were going great. We see each other al...
A. 12 January 2007: I am happy u guys sorted your issues, but right now i think u must be very careful and watch him closely im not implying snooping or spying i am referring to your confidence in this relationship, so that you can be sure its u he wants, at the end of ... (read in full...)
My BF told me to move on because his parents won't approve of our relationship!
Q. hi everyone, im 23 years and in college. i started dating with my boyfriend about an year ago. i ve a 2 yr old son from my ex. my boyfriend was the one always after me. at first, i didnt take him that seriously. but he just wouldnt let it go. he a...
A. 12 January 2007: crying takes the tension away so cry if u have to u will soon get over it and one day u will cry the tears of joy when u have met someone u have been waiting for.
all the best
jovial... (read in full...)
My ex's grandmother made plans to visit me for a few days! How can I politely tell her no?
Q. Hi cupids Here it goes my ex and I broke it off 3yrs ago we have a son together who turned 9 this year, we had an on/off rship for almost 10yrs during this time I got very close to his family and friends and the same went for him we were hoping t...
A. 12 January 2007: hi
thank you all for all your very thoughtful response, i think i agree with you there stina because if she wants me to be happy she must stop pushing herself on me and start seeing things as they are. i stay with my son and my son is her grea... (read in full...)
Want to start a family but my husband won't participate in the "creation"!
Q. Ok, so here's the deal. I've been happily married for a little over a year now and unfortunately I had some health issues last spring. As of a few months ago, I am happy to report that I have made a full recovery and my doctors have informed my ...
A. 11 January 2007: what caused the illness and what was the impact it was gonna cause if u fall pregnant, so i think if getting pregnant at the time of your illness was dangerous this might be the reason why your husband is not keen to start a family yet. you will ... (read in full...)
He became a sex-machine after he proposed... huh?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been with my BF for 9 years now and I recently hinted that I am now over my cold feet and am ready to get engaged. I just wondered why is it that sex has changed between us since I put that thought in his head?? He is now way ...
A. 11 January 2007: i think emotionally it made a huge difference, he became more comfortable around you, maybe he wasnt sure of the way you felt about him and that caused his predicament which i think it was just insecurity playing tricks on him. so now that u ... (read in full...)
My BF told me to move on because his parents won't approve of our relationship!
Q. hi everyone, im 23 years and in college. i started dating with my boyfriend about an year ago. i ve a 2 yr old son from my ex. my boyfriend was the one always after me. at first, i didnt take him that seriously. but he just wouldnt let it go. he a...
A. 11 January 2007: Hi there
I think you know what to do, let him go you deserve someone who loves you with or without a child. He is just making excuses about his parents, the key to his parents’ acceptance of you, is his love and respect for you they might not like... (read in full...)
Why is he keeping this female he calls a secret from me?
Q. every time my boyfriend received a call or text message from a female, he would tell me, but this one girl would call and text him and he never told me about her. he would even text her while texting me but never mentioned her. he says he doesnt ...
A. 11 January 2007: Not really but will try, I think he is fascinated by the attention she is giving him that’s why he is hiding her because telling yu about it didn’t feel right i.e. he told u he doesn’t know why, how is that possible? Judge for yourself. Tell him how ... (read in full...)
Been together 3 years, have a baby but I am fond of someone else!
Q. Sorry did post b4 but didnt add some details I have a girlfriend i been with for 3 years. we have split up for six month but have been back together for a yr. I love her but i met this girl recently who i have been really fond with. I am only ...
A. 11 January 2007: Hi there
Sometimes in life things happen that we find difficult to live with, unfortunately we need to find a way to survive and also create a safe environment for ourselves. Then what do you do if your past detains you? You fight it with ever... (read in full...)
My GF of 6 years wanted space to sort out her feelings - should I wait for her?
Q. Will we ever be together again?? My gf and I dated for 6 years. We are both 24. Anyways our relationship was good. We were both deeply in love. In the summer she said that she felt like she had drifted apart from me and that if felt like she on...
A. 11 January 2007: Hi there
In a long relationship there are two things that happens as time goes by it is either you grow apart or you grow closer. And I think you guys grew apart so don’t feel bad I know you love her but a rship is a two way if the other wants out ... (read in full...)
After 10 years he told me he loved me but doesn't know if he wants to be a couple after all this time!
Q. dear cupid,a very long story cut short!from the age of 16 i fell for a guy that for the past 16 years has been in my life apart from a gap of 18months when i had another relationship! my problem is weve both had children by other people and neither ...
A. 10 January 2007: i think u need to take things very slowly here, in my opinion i dont know why he need to find a permenant place before he answers the question as simple as that. lets say he does love you and these things cant be sorted where do you stand? have u ... (read in full...)
My sex drive has disappeared since I found out he was cheating... will it ever return?
Q. My current boyfriend and I have been together for 3 1/2 years now. I've never felt more complete or safe with anyone but him my entire life. I could say I trusted him 100%. A 1 1/2 into the relationship, I found out that he had been cheating on ...
A. 10 January 2007: i agree with reebe, it will return but firstly u need to forgive him completely, and also forgive yourself in the process because the reason why you cant really feel "anything" its because of the hurt and betrayal you went thru and still going thru, ... (read in full...)
He has different sized nipples and it's turning me off!
Q. My boyfriend has a really small nipple on one side and a huge one on the other. theres almost a 2 cm difference! its a major turn off what should i do?...
A. 10 January 2007: wow what a question iam sorry to sound rude but why dont you just chisel them in order to obtain the same size? and you are still very young to be looking at your boyfriend's nipples. anyway dont worry at your age is normal to feel that way because ... (read in full...)
After 2 years together she wants a break! Do I get over her or keep hoping?
Q. hello there , im 18 years old and i spent christmas in wales with my mum. my gf lives back in england and got very upset about it. I get back from walea after new years and then she came over and spent the day with me, it went fine and i loved...
A. 10 January 2007: you seem like a very patient young man but anyway get over her, i dont think hoping will help, you tried all you can and it didnt work, you are still young to tie yourself with someone who doesnt know whether she is coming or going, i mean she seem ... (read in full...)
What is the point to relationships if they always end in tragedy?
Q. I'm 20 and might be starting to date women. You'll probably notice the "might be". The reason why is that I would like to have a relationship with a women, yet everywhere I look it just ends in catastrophe. People getting divorces, people having ...
A. 10 January 2007: i agree with the others. love is the strangest thing one can not fathom, even though sometimes it can hurt and you will swear never to go back, funny enough you still find yourself back in the game tougher than ever. loving like you have never been ... (read in full...)
I am afraid to stay in my 13 year relationship but also afraid to leave for a past love - what do I do?
Q. I have been with my husband for over 13 years, married for over 6. We have had many challages but the past 2 years have been extremely difficult. I want children, he does not, this I did not know until after we were married. I have been a devoted, ...
A. 10 January 2007: hi there
i was never married so i really dont know the easy way out, but i have an opinion or theory i can share with you.
i truly believe you are very unhappy in your marriege your whole post highlighted that so many times and its good that you... (read in full...)
Together 5 months but I don't know what kind of conversations to have with her!
Q. hi, well ive had a girlfriend for like 5 months, i really like her but i feel really awkward i dont know what to talk to her about. plz help. thanks...
A. 10 January 2007: i agree with the other aunt, also try to understand her personality she might be the introvert and conservative type, i like calling them "headlines people" u ask them how was their day and the answer is "fine" nothing more nothing less until u come ... (read in full...)
We are engaged, but after our last row I feel I deserve better. I don't want to regret this decision!
Q. I have been with my fiancé 5 year and engaged for 2 and due to get married this summer. We have alway got on really well, never lived together but started building a house which is nearly complete. We don't row much but when we do I alway's se...
A. 9 January 2007: i think the fact that you are having doubts is a serious concern no matter how much u guys love each other, what will be the point of getting married in a few mths time and seperate the next hour? you spent 5yrs with him and i think u guys got ... (read in full...)
i like hi and his gf cheats on him...should I express my true feelings to him?
Q. I'll admit that I've had a crappy relationship. I've been hurt and now I think I'm ready to go out in the dating scene. But, I have feelings for this one guy. He's actually my friend. He was there for me when my ex and I broke up and I clung to him ...
A. 8 January 2007: like i said give yourself sometime apart from him and help this thing with his gf sorted so that history doesnt repeat itself and this time u will have lost a good friend in the process. i understand ur feelings might be genuine but under the ... (read in full...)
I love him, but not the sex. How do I get him to try new things?
Q. what do you do if sex is bad but you love him?? yet he wont try anything new? ...
A. 8 January 2007: communication, compromise, communication, compromise communication, if that doesnt work dump him or starve yourself. remember a rship is two way, all parties have to be satisfied in all areas if one is not the other has to go all the way to make the ... (read in full...)
We slept together, so would a relationship work at this point?
Q. Dear Cupids, At the weekend I slept with quite a lovely guy. We don't know each other we met and I went back to his. In the morning he was lovely and we got on really well spending all morning in bed together. He dropped me home. He didn't have ...
A. 8 January 2007: remember you are the only one with the number he doesnt have yours, so the only way to find out is aking him for that drink but just be careful how you do it because it might turn out to him it was just a night stand so dont be disappointed if the ... (read in full...)
He needs time to think-is this just leading up to being dumped?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months. He spent the first few months trying to get back together with his ex who has moved overseas. He then told me he was falling in love with me and things were going great. We see each other al...
A. 8 January 2007: Hi there
Question: are u sure they did break it off? Because his behaviour is very dodgy if u ask me. U don’t disappear from your partner when ex is in town, something is not right.
Unless he is confused and torn between you and his ex, lets say... (read in full...)
He lies, he calls me names, he threatens me and it's like I am not important to him! What can I do? (Long)
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I love him with all of my heart and soul but he hurts me so much! He is always lying to me. He says he won't do drugs and then he goes out with his friend and does them, he never answers my calls ...
A. 8 January 2007: I don’t know how old u are but judging by the coversion you guys are still very young. I think you just need to leave jonathan and let him live his life, let him learn his lessons he is uncontrollable and not ready to commit being 20 doesn’t mean he ... (read in full...)
i like hi and his gf cheats on him...should I express my true feelings to him?
Q. I'll admit that I've had a crappy relationship. I've been hurt and now I think I'm ready to go out in the dating scene. But, I have feelings for this one guy. He's actually my friend. He was there for me when my ex and I broke up and I clung to him ...
A. 8 January 2007: Hi there
I think the first step is to be a friend to him, his gf is cheating and you are aware of that and yet you call yourself his friend, what type of friendship is that? Yeah you said you like him are you sure you do? Or is just the exci... (read in full...)
he kissed me goodnight on the cheek! Does that mean he's "not" interested?
Q. hey Meet this guy and he is so sweet was the perfect gentlemen during the date, but l was so shy and quite and they where very quite moments during the date, but opened up as the date was coming to an end, but when he dropped me off he shook my ...
A. 8 January 2007: i think this is the sweetest guy ever, this days to end a date like this is very rare i dont know why most people if not all dont enjoy a once used to be very special peck on the cheek after a date anymore, i really missed that and often i have to ... (read in full...)
I have trouble trusting bf's.. so I'm paranoid about my current guy. What should I do?
Q. I have always had a problem in past relationships with being paranoid and have had trouble trusting boyfrineds. I have been with my boyfriend a year now and have never had problems trusting him, mainly as he has never done anything to break that ...
A. 8 January 2007: hi there
I think in a situation like this where your insecurities is playing tricks on you, you need to let go of this needy feeling, if his word is not enough for you then u simply don’t trust him and honestly if he is not playing around he will... (read in full...)
Do I tell him about my two kids?
Q. i am 35 years old woman i have 2 kids from both diffirent father,why is that happen well its a long story.but for sure i have a reason for that.im not bad'im honest and sincere person,things happen,happen you know'but i am not that looking bad, but ...
A. 8 January 2007: i think now is the right time for you to tell him about your angels, omitting this type of information is very dangerous because u might find that at the later stage u have grown to like him too and u dont know how he will react if you tell him ... (read in full...)
I feel I'm only second best in my man's life. I feel he'll never see things for what they could be. What should I do?
Q. i have been seeing a guy on and off for about 10 years.he says he loves me and i care a lot about him.but he thinks i should be happy with things the way they are.he lives with a woman they share nothing together but the home they made many years ...
A. 8 January 2007: okay someone might say go to church u will meet some fine brothers, and one would say go to upmarket bars u will find fine eligible brothers who are ready to settle, one might say involve yourself in some charities or community upliftment programmes ... (read in full...)
Disatisfied with life. (long but worth it)
Q. I am so confused about my marriage and lost dream, I can't focus on anything else! But, to warn you, I have cheated, my husband knows and he calls me a "classic bored housewife", even though I a very-well educated and have tried to resume studies ...
A. 8 January 2007: i am so glad you are starting to accept he has moved on. you need that to give yourself a peace of mind, you deserve so much better in life and happiness too.
all the best
Jovila... (read in full...)
My bf proposed, but then I had a dream about my ex. I can't get it out of my head - any ideas what this could mean?
Q. a dream is really playing on my mind. Right now i am very happy in a relationship of 3yrs - and my partner has recently proposed and everything is wonderful. My ex boyfriend of almost 5 years left for someone else 3 and 1/2 yrs ago, I am over him ...
A. 5 January 2007: i agree this is your subconcious mind playing tricks on you, maybe is just some unresolved feelings you still had, but not to worry it was just a dream, also try to find it in your heart to forgive yourself maybe u blamed yourself when your ex left ... (read in full...)
I feel I'm only second best in my man's life. I feel he'll never see things for what they could be. What should I do?
Q. i have been seeing a guy on and off for about 10 years.he says he loves me and i care a lot about him.but he thinks i should be happy with things the way they are.he lives with a woman they share nothing together but the home they made many years ...
A. 5 January 2007: i think telling him to go away will be the best decision you can ever make, he is totally unavailable emotionally as well, look for someone who will love you and be there for you, someone with the qualities you desire, do not repeat the same mistake ... (read in full...)
Disatisfied with life. (long but worth it)
Q. I am so confused about my marriage and lost dream, I can't focus on anything else! But, to warn you, I have cheated, my husband knows and he calls me a "classic bored housewife", even though I a very-well educated and have tried to resume studies ...
A. 3 January 2007: i am so sorry i dont know what happened to me i just snapped and felt so much guilty afterwards,unfortunately once u send a post u cant undo, i just didnt want u to dwell on that pain, i know i cant relate but i can imagine how u feel. its true i ... (read in full...)
Disatisfied with life. (long but worth it)
Q. I am so confused about my marriage and lost dream, I can't focus on anything else! But, to warn you, I have cheated, my husband knows and he calls me a "classic bored housewife", even though I a very-well educated and have tried to resume studies ...
A. 21 December 2006: now i see why the poor guy called the police, u are extremly rude and unkind with ur words. i hope one day u will change and start appreciating what u have and not insult and pushes people who cares about u away. we responded because we cared and ... (read in full...)
Disatisfied with life. (long but worth it)
Q. I am so confused about my marriage and lost dream, I can't focus on anything else! But, to warn you, I have cheated, my husband knows and he calls me a "classic bored housewife", even though I a very-well educated and have tried to resume studies ...
A. 21 December 2006: now i see why the poor guy called the police, u are extremly rude and unkind with ur words. i hope one day u will change and start appreciating what u have and not insult and pushes people who cares about u away. we responded because we cared and ... (read in full...)
Disatisfied with life. (long but worth it)
Q. I am so confused about my marriage and lost dream, I can't focus on anything else! But, to warn you, I have cheated, my husband knows and he calls me a "classic bored housewife", even though I a very-well educated and have tried to resume studies ...
A. 20 December 2006: why do u ask for advice but yet u are so negative and unwilling to change? i think ur anger is already finishing u, if that uk guy was really mocking u and pretends to be ur friend? right now u are giving him all the satisfaction. if he is heartless ... (read in full...)
Disatisfied with life. (long but worth it)
Q. I am so confused about my marriage and lost dream, I can't focus on anything else! But, to warn you, I have cheated, my husband knows and he calls me a "classic bored housewife", even though I a very-well educated and have tried to resume studies ...
A. 20 December 2006: Hello there
I am very sorry for everything that went wrong in your life, I realized what u have is a very serious condition which need a professional like dagwood said. However I will try to give answers where I can it might not what u were real... (read in full...)
My fiancee was killed 7 years ago and I can't move on from the loss..any advice?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a major problem and I have no idea how to handle it. My fiance, the love of my life and very best friend was killed in a car accident 7 years ago. Since then I have moved on and have now been with a man that knew my fiancee ...
A. 13 November 2006: hello,
I am sorry about ur fiancé. I think u need to start believing that u have moved past that as healing comes from within, u need to allow urself to grief as much as u can it is good for u and it is the best therapy in the whole universe. Do n... (read in full...)
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