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Should I be giving my boyfriend another chance after he kissed someone else?

Q.   I'm 16 years old and I have just gotten back together with my ex Tom. We have been dating for about 10 months now, but we have broken up 4 times already (but no longer than 2 weeks). About a month and a half ago, he cheated on me (he kissed anoth...

A.   1 July 2005: This is the perfect age for you to set a precedent for your future love life. How much ARE you willing to take? Looking stupid in front of your friends is not the main issue here. The main issue is deciding how you feel about yourself in the context ... (read in full...)

He's 48, but he says he'll wait two more years, until I turn 18...

Q.   hi...I'm a 15 year old girl who has really strong feelings for a 48 year old man, and I know that he feels the same, as we text and talk to each other every night. He's told me he loves me and I know that I love him. He's told me that if we want to ...

A.   1 July 2005: This man is a pedophile. There's no getting around it. He is not right in the head. You may think he's great, and maybe to you he is, but he is not a normally functioning adult if he desires a relationship with a child. Yeah, you're still a child. ... (read in full...)

This guy doesn't want a relationship, but I'd still like to ask him out. How do I do that?

Q.   I need advice/help on what to do. I probably sound stupid but I think that I am in love with a guy who has said that he doesn't want a relationship right now. We also haven't talked in two or three months. I can't seem to get over him and I am to ...

A.   1 July 2005: I say 'lost' is right to tell you to invite him and some other friends. That way, you can all have a good time and you can maybe get a reading on whether he's interested in you. If he doesn't want a relationship, though, don't push for one. Give him ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend says he "loves" me, but he's not "in love with" me!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 10 months. Two and half of these months has been long distance. Were about 5 hours apart. It has been hard but I believe in him so much and love him so much that I'm willing to do this long distance ...

A.   30 June 2005: You're not gonna like this, but here goes. I think he wants to be single. I know it hurts, but relationships don't always last forever. It could be that he has met someone new in his new town and has realized that he wants to go out with her. May... (read in full...)

Falling for my boyfriend's best friend. Help!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriends for a couple of years now but I have fallen in love with somebody else: his best friend! What do I do? I love his friend but do not think he loves me. Do I just stay with my boyfriend and hope that it is just a passin...

A.   29 June 2005: You say you fell in love with this other guy - did you fall out of love with your bf? Are you in love with them both? Sounds like you have a crush. Crushes are normal in my opinion, even on your bf's best friend. What you probably need to do is to ... (read in full...)

I thought we were happy, but my boyfriend has been spending hundreds of pounds calling and texting another woman...

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I thought we were really happy, but last night when I was trying to read a message from a friend on his mobile I pressed the wrong button and he had naked pictures messages from another girl. ...

A.   29 June 2005: I hate to say this, but something most likely happened. No one can be sure, especially you, because he's proven himself to be deceitful. How are you supposed to believe him? I think you should consider telling him that you will be looking at his ... (read in full...)

Why did my guy get so distant, so suddenly?

Q.   When a man pulls away from you emotionally...what is going on? I was dating a man for a long time. We had a nice relationship but then he suddenly would get cold and distant with me for no reason. It was usually after his ex-girlfriend with whom he ...

A.   28 June 2005: What I am left wondering from your question is this: why would you even think he's a closet abuser? What has he done that would cause you to think that? If the answer is nothing, then you're not being fair. Maybe he is just afraid of being wounded ... (read in full...)

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