Is changing your appearance a good way to get over someone?
Q. my boyfriend and i spilt up a few days ago, we havent really dicussed it, i just said it was over and that was that, i dont really want to go into details about it, but i had good reasons for it though. i don't want to ever go back, but i have long ...
A. 17 July 2009: Eh not really. I mean, i know a lady at my church whose husband wouldnt let her cut her hair and when he left her for another woman she cut her hair and said "Its time to be me again" ..so i guess its good if its for YOURSELF, not to spite him. If ... (read in full...)
I'm sooooo scared that I've gone down the wrong road.
Q. I've been brought up in a Christan background. I have a lovely family, they do not drink or swear, just a normal loving family. I've been with my fiance for 3 years. I'm sooooo scared that I've gone down the wrong road. Is this what god has ...
A. 12 February 2009: Do not keep company with those who have not faith: for what is there in common between righteousness and evil, or between light and dark? 2 Corinthians 6:14 Being that i have gone down that road, i would suggest that NO Christian does the same. I... (read in full...)
How do I tell her subtly to lay off my man?
Q. ive got a boyfriend and hes so amazing. this other girl we know fancies him and shes just told everybody even though im going out with him. i know he will never go out with her even if he wasnt going out with me. but now that she knows i know shes ...
A. 6 February 2009: Ahhh i know how you feel! Doesnt it get you pissed? Well you just need to be like "Sweetheart,you really need to stop flirting with my boyfriend. Not only is it annoying, but its extremely disrespectful." I'm surprised she even has the nerve to do ... (read in full...)
What can I do to stop myself from constantly bringing up the past with my boyfriend? I
Q. What can i do to stop myself from constantly bringing the past up to my boyfriend? I always look back on our relationship and wonder about stupid stuff. for example, we started going out 2 years ago, and when we first started going out, i can ...
A. 26 January 2009: You need to forgive YOURSELF. The sooner you do that the sooner you wont keep this thought in your head all the time that your not good enough for him now so hes prolly looking elsewhere. Us girls are psychos, we over analize everything. But if you ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance this could work for us again...?
Q. Me and my ex husband were married 6 years and we ended it with a nasty divorce, for the first 5 months after we were enemies, after that we started to get close and closer. It's been almost 4 years and we have never slept together and we have become ...
A. 26 January 2009: Like if this was just another boyfriend i would prolly be like bahhh just move on..but this guy was your HUSBAND. So i dont know, its tricky. You just have to make it clear to him that your no ones second choice, like he cant go "date" other people ... (read in full...)
Period started but could I be preggers?
Q. I've practicually worried myself to death, I had sex on the 11th of this month, it was unprotected. I started my period today. It's only been 6 days, I read up on some forums that girls can still be pregnant, and get their period. How likey is t...
A. 18 January 2009: Take a deep breath.
If its really light and theres just blotches thennn theres a possibility that you could be pregnant. But if its a normal flow your fine.
If your not ready to have a baby then dont have unprotected sex!! Your not ready to bri... (read in full...)
DO you think there is a higher power?
Q. DO you think there is a higher power, that we can use to turn to when our life turns bitter? How can we actually know there is a higher power, if we never actually seen it? How come, some of us can easily believe this higher power thing, and can ...
A. 14 January 2009: http://www.proofthatgodexists.org/
faith is believing in something that you have no evidence for..HOWEVER, there are "proofs" of God. Being a Christian isnt about only turning to God when you need help, would you like it if you had a friend t... (read in full...)
She's saying that my boyfriend and her had sex when they didn't!!!
Q. Basicly my boyfriends ex is telling everyone that they had sex and they didnt even!. (its really out of the blue since they broke up a year ago and plus she has a boyfriend) Ive talked to my boyfriend about his past "relations" with her and it was ...
A. 1 November 2008: omgosh you guys are seriously psychos. Um a lot of websites i use say you have to be 18 and older so i put it for everything..habit..how does that change my question to all of the suden not being trust worthy? Yeahhh im just making up a random ... (read in full...)
She's saying that my boyfriend and her had sex when they didn't!!!
Q. Basicly my boyfriends ex is telling everyone that they had sex and they didnt even!. (its really out of the blue since they broke up a year ago and plus she has a boyfriend) Ive talked to my boyfriend about his past "relations" with her and it was ...
A. 30 October 2008: PLUS..that wasnt there real names..us youngins' arent that stupid:)... (read in full...)
She's saying that my boyfriend and her had sex when they didn't!!!
Q. Basicly my boyfriends ex is telling everyone that they had sex and they didnt even!. (its really out of the blue since they broke up a year ago and plus she has a boyfriend) Ive talked to my boyfriend about his past "relations" with her and it was ...
A. 30 October 2008: ok you guys really suck at advice. people can lie about their age on here, buddy. and i put extra letters in usually to emphasize the word..theres "usually"..but then there is "usuuuuallly"..pronounced in a sarcastic way..sorry if you guys are to ... (read in full...)
She's saying that my boyfriend and her had sex when they didn't!!!
Q. Basicly my boyfriends ex is telling everyone that they had sex and they didnt even!. (its really out of the blue since they broke up a year ago and plus she has a boyfriend) Ive talked to my boyfriend about his past "relations" with her and it was ...
A. 30 October 2008: it was health class and we talk about sex then someone was like "ohh jen didnt pete and holly have sex?" and theree went the argument..and im not mad at her or him for having oral sex. but ususallyyy a girl in my school who has sex at our age is ... (read in full...)
Couldn't he have put it a nicer way other than to say "I don't fancy you!??"
Q. I met someone on holiday and whilst he tried every day to get me into bed I didn't. There was one "girl" on the ship who said to me she thought he used to be a woman because he had such a squeeky voice-I turned off her he didn't understand why-but ...
A. 13 October 2008: guys like that arent gonna put it any kinder..if you dont agree to sleep with him hes gonna think it has to do with his appearence (cause girls DONT have morals or anything.. ;]) so when you "attack" i guess that aspect..hes gonna attack yours so ... (read in full...)
Please give some tips on how to get him to notice me.
Q. Heya, Ok, I need some advice. I really like this guy in my Geography class but I don't know what to do to get him to notice me. He used to sit almost next to me (bar one person), but then some random dude sat their so he could laugh with his mate...
A. 23 September 2008: Lol alright i'll TRYY to help you. What i have done before is to just go...you(from accross the room): Tom!(or whatever his name is) tom: What? you: "Hi..:)" if you do it in a funny way like "Hi..." it will make him be like umm ok lol. But it opens ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend I have a crush on his friend?
Q. I'm dating this wonderful guy, but i think i may be falling for his friend? The guy i'm dating loves me so much and i love him, but i think i'm developing a crush on his friend..is that normal? Like his friend is a pot head but we have a lot of t...
A. 21 September 2008: ohh yeah and plus i even do that with girls..like if i see a girl who is less popular than me or has a weaker personality than me i will try to get her jealous of me. So i really dont understand my reasoning for doing that type of stuff. I have a ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend I have a crush on his friend?
Q. I'm dating this wonderful guy, but i think i may be falling for his friend? The guy i'm dating loves me so much and i love him, but i think i'm developing a crush on his friend..is that normal? Like his friend is a pot head but we have a lot of t...
A. 21 September 2008: My boyfriend and i do tell eachother everything, you may not believe that but we do. He tells me when he thinks a girl is good looking so i dont have to be like "Oh that girls pretty..i wonder if he thinks shes hott" And i do the same for him. And i ... (read in full...)
I'm scared now of what else can come out of the woodwork. How can I deal with this?
Q. A couple of years ago my common law husband and I were not getting along very well. I confronted him about having an affair because he was very rude to me at times, slept in his truck one night instead of coming home, talked constantly about the ...
A. 20 September 2008: The thing is, you shouldnt have to deal with this. If he is the type that is "innocent till proven guilty" then you wont get anything out of him. I dont trust this guy at all and it just seems to be putting a lot of unness. anxiety on you. You dont ... (read in full...)
I just want to know if he actually loved me, or was he playing me?
Q. Did he really love me,? This lad fancied me for a while, well about 3 months b4 i decided to get with him, then like about 1 month in the relationship, i found out he was going to dump me to get back with one of his ex-gf's. i was sad but then he ...
A. 20 September 2008: I hate to say it but that is not love. My boyfriend wouldnt DREAMMMMM of calling me those things. You dont do that to the one you love, actually you dont do it to anyone because thats so disrepectful..esp to a girl. Yeah he played you, DO NOTTTT go ... (read in full...)
He let a strange woman give him a blow job..and he may have gotten an STD! How do we move forward as I don't trust him?.
Q. Hi. My boyfriend of a year and a half started acting strangely and told me his hernia was acting up. The following weekend, we were partying and he broke down and said he had let some strange woman give him a blow job in his truck after a night ...
A. 20 September 2008: Personally i would break up with him. If you are the girl he is dating then he shouldnt need to be having those experiences with anyone besides you. Thats a sketchy character and he can do the whole "i-felt-so-bad-i-had-to-tell-you" thing..but that ... (read in full...)
He got out the lube! Why did he do that?
Q. hi, im a pretty sexually active person and have had sex with several long term partners i was over my current boys last weekend and we were in the mood and all of a sudden he gets out lubricant, ive never used or needed to use it in the past....
A. 20 September 2008: The only way you can find out is by asking him.... (read in full...)
She hasn't spoken to me or returned any of my calls since she found the porn mag!! What can I do?
Q. My girlfriend is an ardent feminist who strongly advocates that all women should be totally independent, financially and otherwise. I agree with her but difficulties have arisen lately. Two weeks ago, she found a Playboy magazine in my room and went ...
A. 15 September 2008: If your dating her, then you shouldnt need to see girls in the way your supposed to when you read those magazines. She should be sufficient and if shes not then you shouldnt be dating her. Its one thing to accidently come across those types of ... (read in full...)
I slept with him hoping we'd get back together, does that work?
Q. I just dont know what to do anymore, i think that im over my ex then i see him with another girl and i fall apart. we broke up more than a year ago but we slept together a while ago and i thought this might mean that we could get back together..I ...
A. 7 September 2008: When your completly over him, you'll be completly ok with seeing him with another girl..so i think your tryyying not to be over him, but you really arent.... (read in full...)
He says he flirts with other girls because he wants them to feel happy. Am I being unreasonable for not believing this?
Q. heya last night i found out that my bf of a month likes to flirt wiv other gals i dont mind this but he likes to flirt alot he tells every gd luking gal he talks to ow gawjus they are he seys its just the way he is he seys he likes to make thm feel ...
A. 7 September 2008: Dont feel down about it, some people just dont seem to click. See it as a good thing because now you know how to spot out boys like that, so when you see them you can run the other way. Boys like that have no personalities and are to immature for a ... (read in full...)
He says he flirts with other girls because he wants them to feel happy. Am I being unreasonable for not believing this?
Q. heya last night i found out that my bf of a month likes to flirt wiv other gals i dont mind this but he likes to flirt alot he tells every gd luking gal he talks to ow gawjus they are he seys its just the way he is he seys he likes to make thm feel ...
A. 5 September 2008: Your not being unreasonable..thats pretty dumb. If he loves you he wouldnt need to give/seek that type of attention from any other girl. Hes probably using you. If they are "gorgeous" then they should already be happy? And having a guy flirt with ... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty for "messing" with a guy who has a girlfriend?
Q. should I feel guilty about messing with a guy who has a girl??? but they are not married????...
A. 2 September 2008: if you know it makes the person who gets cheated on feel like crap..then why cause another woman those same feelings? ... (read in full...)
The reason I forgave my girlfriend's infidelity is because I also cheated on her. Should I tell her?? She says she needs a break.
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3yrs. Weve had our ups and down through the years. I recently found out that she cheated on me by reading a letter in her email account that she wrote to some guy she met and slept with in Los Angeles. T...
A. 2 September 2008: Ok buddy. When you love someone you dont cheat on them. Im speaking to you and her. Your heart wouldnt let you do it and if you love them you want their interests above yours so you doing it to get back just shows where your heart is. This isnt a ... (read in full...)
I'm newlywed and thinking to confront my husband about an inappropriate mail sent to his ex?
Q. I am a newlywed. My husband had left his personal email account open last night, and i read a recent email from an ex girlfriend og his from years ago who he never slept with. He said in the email that he had really wanted to sleep with her, ...
A. 2 September 2008: What the heckk!??!? Nooooo thats so bad. You CANNOT say those types of things when you are inlove with someone and just got married to them.like seriously your heart and soul forbids it. You need to confront him like its your job. I would be SOOOO ... (read in full...)
Unhappily married - do I leave my wife and son to try and be happy?
Q. I have been married for six years and have a son with my wife but I am unhappy. i have recently met a young women and I have got feelings for her that I have never felt before. I dont know what to do. do I leave my wife and son and be happy or do I ...
A. 2 September 2008: First of all..this will devistate your son. Not trying to sound harsh but i know MANY "sons" in that situation who are still hurt even though it was years ago. Im not saying you need to be unhappy for the rest of your life..but your son has to be ... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty for "messing" with a guy who has a girlfriend?
Q. should I feel guilty about messing with a guy who has a girl??? but they are not married????...
A. 2 September 2008: Yes. The fact that you have to ask that question is kinda rediculous. The foundations of a relationship are trust, honesty and communication. Need i mention loyalty? You have now corrupted that. Its morally wrong. So if you didnt feel bad you have ... (read in full...)
Do you think changing my facebook status will prove anything or was it a mistake?
Q. hi all, just started a new relationship with a really nice guy..... the relationship didnt start well i was seeing someone casually which broke off and he flirted with a female friend to make me jealous. i went over his last night and as we...
A. 2 September 2008: Its not a mistake to show people that your in a relationship..which you are in. He cant really get mad cause thats what it is, a relationship. This is really strange though cause you would THINK the guy would be the one to want to have sex and the ... (read in full...)
Is he being trained to play with minds and lie?
Q. He is working as an investigative service agent, i respect him so much. But the question is he's in this job why he's so very good in playing others mind and a very good liar?are they being trained for these? He cheated his wife and also me (i dont ...
A. 2 September 2008: Possibly..my brother does stuff like that and they will never tell you ANYTHING about it. So i guess theres no chance of finding out. But some guys are just very good at being manipulative. Ive dated guys and now that i look back on it i think they ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's personality has changed and I find myself going off him!
Q. Right this might be long so il apologize now! Me and my boyfriend have been together for around 8 months, we never had a honey-mood period, i dont no why we just didnt. when we got togther we argued all of the time but something stopped me endin...
A. 2 September 2008: Next time he is "calm" tell him "I like when your like this..." and so on..I wouldnt break up over this.he just needs to know how serious you are about it. Like you need to tell him that you have thought about ending the relationship over it because ... (read in full...)
My friend had sex with my crush! How should I react now?
Q. You seriously won't believe this : In the past few weeks i was getting quite close to this guy, lets call him "Bob". I say quite close because the 'closest' we ever got was a kiss -but for me that is really intimate, because i'm a little bit gawk...
A. 29 August 2008: What the heckkk???? Some friend she is. Well its good you havent cried because guys like that ARENT worth a drop. and its REALLY good that you only had a crush on him because then you would be hurt sooo much more. The girl is a hoe. Dont talk to ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my friend?
Q. Hi people quick question if you could answer it that'd be so good! Well im 17 and havent really had a bf / sex yet but it doesnt really bother me that much. Me and my male friend whose 18 are soo close and just sit chatting and such in our unde...
A. 29 August 2008: umm thats not good that hes saying that type of stuff while he has a girlfriend..ever hear of the quote "If i'll do it for you, i'll do it to you"? But anyway...Sex is something thats very important and personnally im waiting till marriage...if you ... (read in full...)
Is my sex drive normal?
Q. This isn't exactly a problem, I just wanna know if it's normal or not. Right, I'm 15, almost 16 and I've been having sex for about a year. I was reading some of the questions on this website about how people are loosing their sex drive and ...
A. 28 August 2008: Things like that are normal..your age doesnt really matter on these types of things.its a hormonal thing.... (read in full...)
He only wants to spend time with his friends and not with me!
Q. all my boyfriend wants to do is go out with his friends....he never wants to spend time with me a little while ago my boyfriend thought i cheated on him and he finally gave up and he forgave me for evrything and said sorry for not believing in me ...
A. 21 August 2008: It's a possibility...have you talked to him about it? You cant keep these kind of things to yourself. I would say something along the lines of "It hurts me that whenever we get the chance to hang out you're always with someone else.. and i really ... (read in full...)
Double whammy...I need advice!
Q. I need help,im almost 16 an my boyfriend is almost 14.We dont go to same school anymore but,we reallyyy like eachother, yet we've been a couple for only a week now.And,he wants to have sex with me badly.I'm not sure if i'm ready an if i am ready,i ...
A. 21 August 2008: Yeah if you are doubting it then thats a no no. I'm sixteen as well and its easy at our age to discern which kinda guys are real and fake..hes fake my dear. He wants to brag to all his friends in middle school that he has had sex with a ... (read in full...)
I came home and found my husband in bed with our doctor! What now?
Q. My name is Christina and I am a 30-year-old woman, my husband is 32, and we've been together for 10 years, married for the last 5 out of those 10 years together. I came home from work one night about a week ago to find him in bed with our GP/doct...
A. 21 August 2008: Wow what a scumbag he is! Um no they are "fricken" together cause he is married to you..thats called adultery. Hes REALLY good at keeping those promises. The guy is a dirt bag and im glad you are rid of him. Yeah i don't get why you wouldnt tell ur ... (read in full...)
My husband believed calomnious rumours about me having an affair - should I ask him to give us a second chance after he has presented me to his new woman?
Q. Hey, to cut a long story short I’ll make my situation straight to the point. I'm married 1 kid she's 1 years old, so me and my husband got along like really well no problems or anything, then there came a period of time where one day after the other ...
A. 7 August 2008: That is soooo retarded..i'm sorry you have to deal with other peoples immaturities..first of all, you didnt do anything and we can tell that you didn't, and hopefully karma works out for you and those stupid idiotic liars will get what they deserve. ... (read in full...)
I have sexual feelings towards my cousin...
Q. me and my cousin are the same age (just 4-6 weeks apart) and are really close. Ive been having sexual feelings for her for some time now and i'm not shure whether she has the same. i have thought up a tactic to say someting like -please excuse me if ...
A. 5 August 2008: That is so gross..sorry but there is no way i can see that as ok. The only thing i can think of is have respect for her future husband..she will have to tell him that she once did stuff with her...COUSIN! Why cant you guys stay puree! thats just not ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous and guilty what should I do???
Q. Im sleeping with a married man and Im 14 years old. Ive fallen in love with him but recently he's been really really close to his wife in front of me and i just feel jealous and guilty. help?? what should i do??...
A. 5 August 2008: When i was 14 i was playing sports, going to church and hanging out with friends..im 16 now and um..i still do. Darling, you really got yourself into a BIG mess. If she finds out not only will they get a divorce but your "lover" will be sent to jail ... (read in full...)
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