I'm having trouble with my boyfriend's ex wife! Is he taking me for granted through all this?
Q. hi ive a really off the wall problem, ive been in a relationship for quite a while but have ran into alot of problems. frist my boy friend just got a divorce from hes wife. i didnt know he was married when i frist met him, he said he was li...
A. 22 July 2008: leave him for your own sake. get out of this situation and call the police on the crazy wife! No futher contact with anyone involved would be good ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend talks to her ex on a daily basis! Should I be concerned?
Q. I have never been the jealous type but iI am getting concerned with my girlfreind who, talks with her ex husband on a daily basis, she says that they want eo remain friends, but to remain friends do they really have to talk with each other everyday? ...
A. 22 July 2008: confront her about this. show her the message that you have put on here and hopefully she will come to her senses. I used to lie in the same house as my ex but i didn't talk to him every day. I avoided him truth be told. But i didn't want to stay ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's strange off and on behavior is distrubing to me, what can I do about it?
Q. I'm in lovew with this guy, i'm pretty sure he doenst like me and i don't know if i can cope any more, last week we went camping and the whole week we were pretty much together constaantly and we had a great time, lots of laughter and flirting...
A. 22 July 2008: he only likes to be with you when you're on your own. If you can take hjim to one side and ask whats going on. ... (read in full...)
I need so much help! Depression, moving, bf problems....
Q. ive just been diagnosed as severly deppressed and my boyfriend is being really off with me and i have no idea why. im supposed to be moving about 500miles away to live with other relatives but he doesnt know and i dont know how to tell him. ive been...
A. 22 July 2008: he's expecting a 4th child with his ex? And you want to stay with him? YOu don't need someone like this. Depression is hard enough to beat without someone else dragging you down. Move away to your relatives and sever all contact with him. Your ... (read in full...)
I've just found out his passwords - do I sneak a peak at his emails?
Q. I'm having another moral crisis in my relationship, and dont know what to do... I've known my boyfriend for aboutfour years, we've been in a relationship for nearly two. Basically at Christmas last year I saw he had messaged one of his ex girlfrie...
A. 22 July 2008: don't look at his emails just ask if he has been in contact with exs. Tell him that it makes you very uncomfortable and that you want him to stop flirting with them and saying that he misses them. You shouldn't have to ask this really anywaay. ... (read in full...)
Health question about teen boy masterbation...
Q. today i was masturbating and nothing happened except clear stuff came out. what happened?...
A. 22 July 2008: If it looked white you had your first orgasm by the sounds of it.... (read in full...)
We've had a complicated over cautious relationship - what do I do now?
Q. Hi, the more opinions the better please, this one has me stumped! I started seeing a guy around mid April, we were boyfriend/girlfriend but keeping it quite casual as I'd just come ut of a long relationshipo and he's often busy with work and is ...
A. 22 July 2008: call him instead of texting him. Arrange to meet up. How low are youy to break up via text that you couldn't call him or do it face to face?... (read in full...)
What advice do I give to my friend about her boyfriend?
Q. My friends boyfriend is messing her around - they got together a year ago, they've had their arguments, like all couples, and they've broken up more times than I care to think!! Two Thursdays ago she said he dumped her because she was, in his words ...
A. 22 July 2008: there's no advice you can give her really. She will learn from her mistakes in her own time. ... (read in full...)
He gone cold because I was ill and couldn't see him. What do I do?
Q. Okay, Well Im 15, dating this 16 year old guy. My first time dating, hes been in previous relationships and I haven't. I had an accident and I wasn't able to leave the house for 6 weeks. Over those 6 weeks, things started getting a LITTLE w...
A. 22 July 2008: dump him. he's not worth the time and effort. He didn't come to see you when you were stuck at home and he didn't even hug you and ignored you when he did see you! ... (read in full...)
Struggling to know what to do about this girl who's in love with her ex...
Q. Hi Doc Love My name is andrew - I'm 36 years of age - divorced and have been single now for 4 years. In that time I have one 18 month relationship and have dated quite a lot of woman ( when I mean dated - what I mean is that I have taken a lot...
A. 22 July 2008: You poor guy! Most women would kill for a guy like you. Give her some time to allow her head to clear up a bit. Remember she left her ex and for a reason as well. Also give her a bit of space as well. She's a doctor as you say so she's a very busy ... (read in full...)
A messy story... Should I stay friends with her or cut her off cold-turkey?
Q. OK heres my question...i dated this girl along time ago named gin..gin's best friend Anna, who was also my best friend hooked us up. Somewhere along the way, Ann fell deeply in love with me and didnt want me to date her friend anymore but me being ...
A. 22 July 2008: You obviously love her. Ask her what she wants and wether you 2 getting together was a way at getting back at you, you (excuse the expression) filling a gap in her life or whether she genuinely wanted to be with you. If its the st 2 cut her off cold ... (read in full...)
He won't sleep in the same bed as me... do I dump him or hope it's a phase?
Q. my boyfriend never shows me any affection. he used to costantly during the first few months; it was almost too much affection. But now I feel ignored all of the time. We sit together on the couch with a foot between us, and unless I initiate it, ...
A. 22 July 2008: Ask him whats wrong. Do you know if there's anything stressful going on in his life? If he won't answer threaten to leave him as you can't put up with his antics (or lack of them) any more... (read in full...)
Biology question - can you get pregnant from this?
Q. can you get pregnant if he fingered you and his finger had cum on it but the morning after you got your period, and then.. while you were on your period u had sex? ...
A. 22 July 2008: very uinlikely. Wait until your next period. If it arrives your not pregnant. If it doesn't do a test. Also next time regardless of if you're on your period or nopt use protection.... (read in full...)
He's all over the place! Can we work this out?
Q. My ex and I broke up almost a month and half ago after being together for a year and a half.for the last 3 or 4 weeks we had still been sleeping together and he still seemed concerned about my life. Last night he came over like usually and we had ...
A. 22 July 2008: this guy is really insecure. Stop sleeping with him and decide on what you want. Do you want him back or not. Its not fair to have sex with him if you don't as this is giving him false hope and also making you a whore. ... (read in full...)
I'm getting fed up with my sister's ex. What do I do?
Q. My guy friend and his girlfriend (my sister) broke up (a month ago) because she cheated on him with his best friend (their not friends anymore). He has been driving me crazy by calling ahead to ask my sister is here. If she is he'll make up reason ...
A. 22 July 2008: tell him to grow up. Don't avoid places where him and your sister are if you 2 are friends. he will destroy your friendship if he doesn't face your sister. Its not fauir to put you in the middle of this. Outright tell him all this and hopefully he ... (read in full...)
Will masturbating stop me from having kids when I grow up?
Q. does masturabatng stop me from having kids when i grow up ...
A. 22 July 2008: no.... (read in full...)
How much time do I give him to sort out his mid-life crisis?
Q. What is a wife to do when husband doesnt know what he wants. Believe he is going through midlife crisis. Whats time to think things through can tell me he loves me some of the time not all the time. Says he doesnt want me to give up on him and that ...
A. 22 July 2008: as much time as he needs. Do you love him? if yes then help him through by being there for him. If not then don't put him through a lie and leave him.
If you do love him I would suggest you try marriage councelling and also he may need to see a... (read in full...)
If I watch gay porn and heterosexual porn, am I gay? How can I stop thinking about boys?
Q. hi am i gay if i watch both kinds of porn or does it happen to any person and how can i stop im confused and is there anything ican do to stop thinking of boys thank you...
A. 22 July 2008: Even if you are gay there's nothing to be ashamed of. I'm guessing your age isd what the name bit says. At that age most guys are confused as they get hard ons around guys and girls. It doesn't mean anything. Which type of porn got you all hot and ... (read in full...)
He doesn't seem to make the effort, and then gets angry when I don't. Why?
Q. Hi y'all! I've been on and off with this guy for a while now,he tells my friends that he likes me and i see it too. However, he never makes it a point to get to me and gets angry when i take long to contact him. Why? Can anyone tell me? ...
A. 22 July 2008: coz he's a twat... (read in full...)
Is he genuine about having a relationship or does he just want something from me?
Q. Ok, so Im a girl, Im 15 and my problem is with a boy, who is 18. Ive known this boy, lets called him "Josh" for little over two years now and we are really, really good friends. We text each other all the time, enjoy each others company and have ...
A. 22 July 2008: Maybe he is being genuine. By all means have a relationship with him but don't do anything that you don't want to or are not legal to do. IE sex. If he keeps pressuring you for sex leave him but if not and he genuinely think he loves you then see ... (read in full...)
I had a fight with one of my friends 6 months ago, and now everyone has dropped me like a rock. I don't have anyone.
Q. A few months ago, I got into a fight with one of my friends. It was our first...and last fight. I started arguing with her because I was bringing up the fact that I was feeling ignored and replaced by this other girl (who is a real jerk by the way). ...
A. 22 July 2008: and you call these "people" friends? Better to drift than have these bitches turn on you for no reason. I know what its like. I had an argument with my best friend because she started dating my brother. We argued then everyone else in the group ... (read in full...)
He's giving me all the right signals he likes me, but I can't figure out if he actually does?
Q. I'm a little confused as to whether this guy likes me as a friend or more than a friend! I've known him for quite some time, he was my first boyfriend's best friend (when I was 14). We haven't seen each other for a very long time, we didn't stay i...
A. 21 July 2008: i thi9nk he is interested in you but as you say he's taken Ask him if he's interested (the worst that will happen is he'll say no). Its up to you what you do if the answers yes but if the answers no at least its a load off youre mind... (read in full...)
Will I be cheapening myself if I suggest a weekend away with him?
Q. I had a birthday card from someone I met on holiday. We didnt have any sex on holiday because I was unwell etc etc and also I wanted to hold back. We have e mailed a few times jsut as friends. Do you think it would be ok if I e maield him and...
A. 21 July 2008: Are you in a relationship? If not go for it. Just ask him if he fancies a weekend away just the 2 of you. You don't have to have a dirty weekend if you get cold feet. You could just spend some time together getting to know each other. The worst ... (read in full...)
He's been talking to another woman. What do we do?
Q. I am 56 air hostess divorced living with my man 46 for two years we have not made love he says he loves me and that i am his best friend then i found his mobile phone bill a number on it was used alot late at night and when i was away ...
A. 21 July 2008: do you really want to put yourself through this? Even though he's been sneaking behind your back and you haven't had sex in 2 years you still want to be with him. Why? So you've been together 14 years. ig deal. What would you do if thae same ... (read in full...)
I want to look more feminine for my boyfriend (but I HATE pink). Any advice?
Q. Hi. I want to look more feminine for my boyfriend but I don't know how. I'm 22 so i should know but I don't. Usually I wear jeans and t shirts sometimes a skirt but I look really fat and horrible and don't feel at all girly. I'm a size 14/16 and ...
A. 21 July 2008: i don't wanna excite him just look nice for him for a change. I have tried every make up imaginable including mineral but theyt don't like me at all. The reason I hide my boobs is they're naturaly huge! 36f! I hate the fact they're that big. When I ... (read in full...)
I want to look more feminine for my boyfriend (but I HATE pink). Any advice?
Q. Hi. I want to look more feminine for my boyfriend but I don't know how. I'm 22 so i should know but I don't. Usually I wear jeans and t shirts sometimes a skirt but I look really fat and horrible and don't feel at all girly. I'm a size 14/16 and ...
A. 21 July 2008: a agree with uncle phil oldersister. Sorry... (read in full...)
I want to look more feminine for my boyfriend (but I HATE pink). Any advice?
Q. Hi. I want to look more feminine for my boyfriend but I don't know how. I'm 22 so i should know but I don't. Usually I wear jeans and t shirts sometimes a skirt but I look really fat and horrible and don't feel at all girly. I'm a size 14/16 and ...
A. 21 July 2008: cheers guys. I'll give it a go. Yes he fell in love with a tomboy but every girl likes to be a bit girly now and then. I've never had the urge to actually try and look pretty before. Saying that i've never been with anybody worth the effort really. ... (read in full...)
How can I hint to my friend that I feel... depressed?
Q. i have been kinda depressed lately about the way my body looks. i think my friend kinda knows but not really. how can i let her know im depressed without her realy knowing? if you know what i mean lol......
A. 21 July 2008: I'm guessing you're a teenager so not being happpy with your body is perfectly normal. She probably thinks the same about hers. Unfortunately there's nothing you can do to stop this unless it is serious depression. If you think you're a little ... (read in full...)
How can I hint to my friend that I feel... depressed?
Q. i have been kinda depressed lately about the way my body looks. i think my friend kinda knows but not really. how can i let her know im depressed without her realy knowing? if you know what i mean lol......
A. 21 July 2008: I'm guessing you're a teenager so not being happpy with your body is perfectly normal. She probably thinks the same about hers. Unfortunately there's nothing you can do to stop this unless it is serious depression. If you think you're a little ... (read in full...)
She keeps helping her ex. Things can't go on like this forever.
Q. uhm... hey to all! need some advice again.. im with this girl. we are now together say for 2 months now. i took her virginaty.. we are really close. because when had sex it was the first for both of us!anyway her ex... he keeps on texting her and ...
A. 21 July 2008: just tell her how uncomfortable it makes you feel. She probably doesn't even realise. If you're watching something or doing something together and he texts, take her phone off of her and just kiss her. Or when she calls ask her loudly enough so he ... (read in full...)
When I shave down below I get a rash. How can I stop it happening?
Q. When i shave Below i get a sort of shaving rash, but their squeezy! Is this normal what can i do 2 stop it!? x...
A. 21 July 2008: 1 it is normal.
2 stop it by not shaving and letting it grow.
3 trim it with scissors or clippers.
4 DON'T wax.... (read in full...)
Can trust be rebuilt? I want to forgive and forget...
Q. How do you rebuild trust? Infact can trust be rebuilt? My boyfriend broke up with me about a year ago, he told me he had feelings for his ex. Two months later he came back and told me he was sorry but he had made a mistake. It took me a long time to ...
A. 21 July 2008: councelling is all you can do.... (read in full...)
My period is late, does this mean I am pregnant?
Q. I'm two weeks late for my periods. does this mean that i'm pregnant. i've been having something similar to what i normaly see just after my periods...
A. 21 July 2008: the only way you can tell is to do a pregnancy test. Don't look online for an answer as a computer can't do a chemical test for hormones. If its negative and your "period" is still iregular go to you doctors ... (read in full...)
How do I show a guy that his actions are insensitive and upsetting without appearing nagging and annoying?
Q. hey there. i was just wondering how do i show a guy that his actions are insensitive and upsetting without appearing nagging and annoying, i've tried the silent treatment or purposely pulling away from him, but it didn't work, cause it ended up with ...
A. 21 July 2008: outright tell him that he's being insensitive and upsetting. Be strong and don't cuddle him back no matter how hard it is to give in. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has driven me to depression. What do I do now?
Q. Do you think that I should stay with my boyfriend even though I have found out how insensitive he is towards my feelings? 3 Years ago I had an abortion, which he knew about to my ex. We are now trying for a child and since we are going on ...
A. 21 July 2008: Leave him. If you don't think he loves u and is using u for money just leave him. My ex was like that. He would say horrible things that made me feel like shgit. Then say he would change and never did. Don't put up with his crap. Is his name chris ... (read in full...)
I've caught him in a lie, but by snooping... should I confront him?
Q. Hello, My boyfriend and i have been together for about 10 months now, we fell in love, and totally trust each other. Now he promised me he doesnt email other girls on myspace and other social network sites, but the other day he had logged-...
A. 15 July 2008: Ask him again if he has emailed other girls. If he says no then confront him as he can't even be bothered to be honest. Don't say that you logged him in but that the computer automatically did it (it does happen). That way he can't have a go for ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has driven me to depression. What do I do now?
Q. Do you think that I should stay with my boyfriend even though I have found out how insensitive he is towards my feelings? 3 Years ago I had an abortion, which he knew about to my ex. We are now trying for a child and since we are going on ...
A. 15 July 2008: I think he sounds a lot like my ex. I now suffer from serious depression because of him. He ignored all of my feelings that I had. My dad died a few months bvefore I got together with him but he wouldn't let me talk to him about it. He turned it ... (read in full...)
How did you meet your partner?
Q. Hi everyone, I've had a lot on my mind today so to lighten the mood I wanted to find out somthing dreamy. You see, every guy I have ever been with I have met after a big night at a party or the pub/club. Im not an alco or anything I just like (well ...
A. 15 July 2008: I started a new job in a vodafone call centre and needed some help so I put my hand up.I noticed this guy walking over with a purple hair styled into a proper mohawk and we started chatting. I thought he was with someone else as he was annoying her ... (read in full...)
Unconventional solution for love triangles - could it work?
Q. To keep it short,I am 23 and I like two guys. I love my boyfriend(one year older), we're together for over 2 years and we are living together for one year now. But one year ago I met the other guy (3 years younger), we became very good friends, we ...
A. 15 July 2008: choose one and stay faithful to the one you choose. Its the only way to be happy. ... (read in full...)
Gut-wrenching attraction to another man - what do I do?
Q. I have been married for a year and have a 3 yr old son to my husband, I cant say that I have loved him since we have had our son, he is dificult, lazy and agressive and totally dependent on me, like a child. I work very hard in a very high pressured ...
A. 15 July 2008: talk to your husband if you want to save your marriage. Mariage councelling may be an option for this. If not divorce him and then see where it goes with this new guy. But don't keep your husband as a fall back. This is unfair to both of you and ... (read in full...)
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