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I love her but I keep catching her in lies, and she insists she's telling the truth even when lying right to my face!

Q.   Sorry for the length of this one. Im in love with a girl I have been friends for 5yrs and lovers for 5 months. We were co-workers/friends about 5yrs ago, parted ways, kept in tough and now in love and happy for the most part. Only problem are the ...

A.   8 July 2011: i want to give you an honest opinion as a man, i believe your gf is cheating on you. i do not know if she is cheating on you with this man physically but i do know that she is cheating on you emotionally and respectfully. a woman that respects her ... (read in full...)

What am I trying to convince myself of?

Q.   I need some advice really quick, because i am seeing this guy tomorrow and i think i made a drunken mistake last week! I want to sort out what to do, I don't know whether i should stop things before they go further! Basically he has liked me for...

A.   6 July 2011: I agree with "fatherly advice" it seems you guys are great for each other, and would have a great relationship all the things you mention are the key ingredients to make a great relationship. I believe you guys would make a great couple, but the one ... (read in full...)

I need help writing my final goodbye to my ex fiance so that I can get closure

Q.   i broke up with my ex fiance about a year ago to date and have cut communication for about 5 months now, but i recently found out she was asking about me. She was asking if i was dating and talked to my sister about how much she missed me, and ...

A.   6 July 2011: thank you guys, im glad you have responded to my question it means a whole lot so i will write her a letter soon and explain everything but i will follow your guidelines..... (read in full...)

To threesome or not to threesome...mature answers only please!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years now. Recently, we've hit a few rough patches and I'm trying to spice up and revive our relationship. One of his fantasies is to have a threesome with a woman that neither one of us ...

A.   1 July 2011: i think it will for sure change the relationship for the better or for the worse who knows but it will for sure change the relationship, its like opening pandoras box once it is open you cant close it back up. so i suggest you really really think ... (read in full...)

Am I doing the right thing by cutting him off?

Q.   I'll just jump right into it. I dated this guy. I completely fell head-over-heels for him. In a few short weeks I was infatuated with him. We dated for about a month and a half before breaking up for complicated reasons. He said he wanted m...

A.   1 July 2011: i think you are doing the right thing because he obviously has not shown that he truly loves you and wants to be committed to you. I broke up with my fiance about a year ago and i would have done anything in my power to get that woman back which i ... (read in full...)

After this heart-wrenching break I wonder if I can ever love again

Q.   Well here's my sad story. My ex girlfriend ended things with me about 2 months ago and she has been with a new guy for about the same time as well. She basically left me and started dating this new guy about a week after, which she met while still ...

A.   21 November 2010: hey just stay strong is all that i can say i kind of going thru sumthing like that i moved from chicago to los angeles to be with my ex fiance and a year later she left me we have been broken up for about 6 months i still communicate with her here ... (read in full...)

Telling him about a drunken mistake could cost our future together

Q.   I am 27 years old and been with my partner for nearly 7 years. Last year we were going through a really bad patch and arguing a lot. One night we went out with a few friends and we had all had some drugs and acholol. We have now distanced ourselves ...

A.   9 November 2010: we all make mistakes in life that's why life is a long road that we have to travel and also learn from our mistakes and to never repeat them i am pretty sure u want time to rewind so this would never have happened but it did and it seems like you ... (read in full...)

Torn between my ex and new dude

Q.   I was with my boyfriend for four yrs and we have a 4 yr old son. unfortunately he moved abroad (not by choice)and we were separated for two yrs. In that two yrs, he found a new girlfriend abroad and messed everything up. My heart was broken and I ...

A.   29 October 2010: honestly you have to do what your heart says i know he hurt you a lot but even though he hurt you i believe you and your ex have a lot of history together to try it for at least one last time if for some reason it does not work or he hurts you then ... (read in full...)

My Ex-Fiance left me but I want her back!!!!!

Q.   we were engaged for about 2 years and we were together for 6 years and one day my fiance just told me that she could not be with me anymore because of trust issues. i was devastated i couldn't eat i couldn't sleep i was so depressed i had moved all ...

A.   31 August 2010: Thank Fluffy pie i really appreciate the words of advice and encouragement. well this are going basically steady as for now we still talk everyday and it seems like her guard and wall with me is starting to loosen up shes much her self and loving u ... (read in full...)

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