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What's love to him?

Q.   How do younger guys see relationships? I'm 17 and I'm dating a 15 year old guy over the internet. I know, it's silly, and to some, disgusting. But I used to LDR date a LONG time ago, and I quit after I realized how much trust you need to have, an...

A.   11 September 2010: When I first read LDR I stopped, honey LDRs are nothing but trouble, take that from a guy with experience. First he can lie and cover things up, he may not even be 'him'. Second he can already have a girlfriend and not tell you about it. Third how ... (read in full...)

I'm having trouble having an orgasm!

Q.   Okay I really need some help with this because quite frankly its driving me nuts :( i have been having sex for a good number of years, and never really bothered much to consider my own pleasure. Sex has always been pretty standard for me, have had ...

A.   11 September 2010: Well I can't say I'm a woman, lol, but it's perfectly normal, female orgasms are way let's say harder than male orgasms. It will people really intense/painful but in the end, you'll go nuts on pleasure, or even gush some squirt. Just hang in there ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend hugs other guys

Q.   Ok, so basically my girlfriend hugs other guys. And quite frankly i wouldn't care as long as she didnt do it in front of me or told me about. But there's the problem, she does just that. I have told her numerous times that i don't like it,but she ...

A.   11 September 2010: Agreed with LLindy87, what if later your wife hugs some house guests, what you punch em in the face? A hug is a hug nothing to be picky about.... (read in full...)

Was this really cheap, or am I being too hard on myself?

Q.   I'm married and met a guy few months back at a party and we danced together while drunk.We flirted a little, he gave me compliments and said your husband is lucky man etc.Later that night we hungout with a group of people.I was drunk and asked him ...

A.   10 September 2010: You're being hard on yourself. Good job you stopped and even told your husband about it, few women do that. Don't feel guilty, but remember to never do that. (The drunk part where it could end to a painful experience.) Cheers and good luck. -... (read in full...)

Who do I pick? The 13 year old? Or the 16 year old?

Q.   Hi, I'm 14 and there are 2 different girls that I like and have questions about. There is a 16 year old she has a car and she wants to have sex with me. Should I? But there is a 13 year old almost 14 and I really like her and she really likes me. We ...

A.   10 September 2010: Agreed with tennisstar88, you ain't 'in love' man you have a crush, and you are too young to have sex. I know you get all pissed about it you wanna speed it up. Don't rush it! One little mistake would fuck up your days for the rest of your life. You ... (read in full...)

Shaving down there...

Q.   Basically,I have been in a relationship for 3 years and my boyfriend always requested i shaved down there.....now that i am single i am wondering is this a normal thing and what do most other people do? thanks:)...

A.   24 August 2010: Well to me I don't mind a little hair, but heck I don't want a rain forest. Trimming it would be best, as well, shaving would be sometimes painful, itchy etc...... (read in full...)

She gave him a hand job but said it wasn't cheating

Q.   I have been married for eight years now, recently my wife found this guy at work, she felt sorry for him, so she moves him into our apartment, so he can heal from an operation on his shoulder. Well let me back up, before he moved in he was stay...

A.   15 August 2010: My dear friend, did she bang your head with a pan or what?! Are you outa your mind!? She sees a guy sure, talks with him, sure they can be friends, but stays at his place, and a night together. 1st Warning!! HE'S AT YOUR HOME! WTF!!?!? AND ALL T... (read in full...)

Is squirting is normal?

Q.   so i lack of sex with hubby, and i use a dildo. Today i have used my dildo and for the very first time i have had a orgasm squirt, is that normal, is guys attracted to females squirting, where does it come from and what is it. How can you squirt?...

A.   15 July 2010: Don't worry it's normal, it's a hard and strong stimulation (sometimes of the G-spot) that makes the vulva squirt a fluid (Not piss). It's like semen for the male (the liquid not the sperm) but squirt is female. Some guys are attracted to it, like ... (read in full...)

Tormented by girlfriend's sexual past

Q.   hi guys. i know this has been throughly discussed here before.. i already researched about it and read almost all of the responses to the queries. and honestly it helped a lot. i have a girlfriend now who i love very much. i really adore her and ...

A.   15 July 2010: Well pal I got one thing to say: Deal with it. Mopin' around ain't gonna make her a virgin again :\ So you got to accept it, we all got dark pasts. If you love her for who she is, man up and deal with it.... (read in full...)

After finally convincing my boyfriend to marry me, I'M now the one having second thoughts!

Q.   I am a woman who likes to live life according to plans. I had my next year all planned out and my heart set on it working out as so. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years. We just graduated from college and I have one year before ...

A.   15 July 2010: The irony went and got tough. Well you went too ahead, do you WANT to marry him or are you planning to? Ask yourself, do you love the guy? Do you want to marry him and spend the rest of your life with him? Your question isn't for us to answ... (read in full...)

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