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Can anyone help me with my doubts about counselors?

Q.   Can someone please enlighten me? I am very skeptical about the role of counselors in helping with marriage problems. Several people in reply to my posts have suggested seeing a counselor to get things out in the open and get answers to quest...

A.   16 February 2010: I'm actually in full agreement with you. People on this often recommend counselling for everything from low self esteem to marriage problems. Having looked into the qualifications needed to become one I have to say I'm even less convinced now. T... (read in full...)

I want to please my girlfriend more, should I buy her a vibrator?

Q.   Hey, I want to buy my girlfriend a vibrator for this Valentine's Day. I want to please her in different ways; kisses, caressing, massaging her breasts, going down on her, penetration, etc. And, well, now I wanna buy her a vibrator for a change. ...

A.   9 February 2010: I got my wife the hitachi magic wand (from Sex & the City) and she loves it! So much so that we had to replace the first one (named Mr. Big) with a second one (Big 2) about a year later. Not exactly the most 'romantic' vibrator but the wife lov... (read in full...)

Since I've fallen pregnant he seems disinterested in me...

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been going for two years strong, until a few months ago when we found out that I was pregnant. Ever since I told him he has been very distant towards me, flirting with other girls, focussing souly on his looks and nightclubs, ...

A.   8 February 2010: Silly question perhaps but I take it that when you discussed the pregnancy with him he wanted to keep the child? I'm sure this is the case but I feel I had to ask since your post makes no reference of such a discussion with him. If he said th... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and we want to have a baby

Q.   People are telling me i'm Crazy ! Im 15 and planning to have a baby ? My boyfriend and i been together for about 1 year and Two Months. He tells me he Loves me and he will never Leave me.We been having intercourse since we meet. Now we both want to ...

A.   6 February 2010: Childish and selfish. Don't do this!... (read in full...)

My wife no longer trusts me over online conversations with my landlady.

Q.   Hello there, I'd really appreciate your advise/help on my situation. Here's my story... I'm 29 and my gf/wife is 32, we live together now for about 2 and a half years, the relationship is going on about 3years now. We got married last m...

A.   5 February 2010: Right, having just spent the past 10 min imagining what would happen if I were in your situation with my wife. It doesn't stand thinking of! I have to say you're wife is letting you off easy if you haven't had at least a couple of books thrown a... (read in full...)

Boyfriend constantly observes my eating habits and makes me feel bad about my weight!

Q.   hi I was looking for some advice. My Fiance and I have been together 10mths. He is a great guy. the problem is that I am a bigger girl and he is skinny and tall. he wants to help me lose weight and not have any health problems down the road, but he ...

A.   4 February 2010: I've had a similar problem (not regarding weight - my wife is a tiny size 4) and it's just a big difference in how men and women see things. At the start of my marriage my wife would come to me with a problem. I would listen intently and because ... (read in full...)

I so much WANT to believe in God!

Q.   Hello there! Im going thru some rough patches.... I really feel I want to believe in God, and build faith. But I'm not sure how to. Those who believe... do they have answered prayers, or some sort of a sign, what proves that someone really listens? ...

A.   3 February 2010: Well it's a nice enough thing to believe in but if you want my advice you're better off forgetting about all that silliness and doing something constructive with your life. Rather than putting your faith in a fairy-tale try believing in yourself... (read in full...)

I waited 3 months for a dinner reservation in a top restaurant and my bf has just cancelled out. Is it ok to take another man to not miss out on the dining experience?

Q.   A while back I booked a table at the supposedly best restaurant in the UK and it took me 3 months and a cancellation to get in. My b/f has known about it for weeks and how excited I am about it. Today he texts me to say that the mother of his child ...

A.   3 February 2010: I have to disagree with the other answers here. Naturally he would want to see his son but if it's nothing special like a school play that he's promised to go to I can't think of any reason why he couldn't reschedule for another week. I don't th... (read in full...)

How do I get over the anger I feel towards my parents?

Q.   I just turned 30 and I'm still hurting from anger at my parents, and I'll always struggle with that anger. In my heart of hearts, I feel certain that they didn't want me and that they don't love me. I don't want to have to bear their surname ...

A.   31 January 2010: I've just read through your entire post and thought it was quite well worded for a thirteen year old. I was even going to offer words of encouragement and support until I re-read the top part with your age. For gods sake woman GROW UP!! What an... (read in full...)

Average time to propose to your girlfriend?

Q.   For anyone who could possibly know... What's the average amount of time it takes before guys propose to their girlfriends?...

A.   21 January 2010: 9 months for me... (read in full...)

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