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I suffer from depression when I'm on my period

Q.   hi, i suffer from depression when i'm on my period i should be going the doctors some time next week about it but what is there to stop it? i don't want to go on anti-depressents as i only have it when i go on my period any advice? thanks ...

A.   19 August 2008: Well tbh darling so do i! Every women hates being on there periods because it just makes you feel so down and upset and you just want to curl up in a ball and never come out, yes i get that feeling too. The only things i can suggest is getting ... (read in full...)

She has 75 guys in her address book... And I just hate to share her with any of them!

Q.   Some one please help... I have a small problem with sharing. My girlfriend and I have been friends for many years and have always wanted to date but something has always stopped us (distance being one factor). We are together now and are extremel...

A.   4 January 2006: You shoudnt stop her from being friends with other boys. But i understand you get a bit jelous and you dont want to share her. Your the one shes with arent you? Dont you have any girl mates? ... (read in full...)

Her parents are really strict, so should I just lie low or stand up and speak to them about her?

Q.   Hi there I am 15 years old and there is this girl that is younger than me by one year. We don't go to the same school but we really like each other - I mean really! So her parents are strict with her having a boyfriend. What should I do? Should...

A.   4 January 2006: I know what your going through! A friend of mine has been through the same with her parents and boyfriend. I think you should ask her if you can meet her parents and tell them that you really like her and one year age gap is absolutly nothing! If h... (read in full...)

Don't know if the age gap of 4 years is too much, and I don't know if I should tell my parents!

Q.   Hey people, I don't know if you can help, but here goes. I am going out with this really amazing guy but there an age gap. I'm 16 and he's 20. Does that matter to parents, because my mum, dad and sister wont let me date because I am the clever o...

A.   4 January 2006: If you really like this boy then the age difference doesnt matter! There are some couples out there who are more than 20 years older than the other! Yes i think you should tell your parents, and yes your parents will be concerened about the age ... (read in full...)

Does my willy have too much skin? What will my MSN love think?

Q.   Hi, i've just turned 14 (december) and have met this girl through over mates of mine. I havn't seen her in person yet but she wants to meet up soon. Many girls on msn have said i look "fit" but this girl says she "loves" me. But the only thing is...

A.   4 January 2006: Nobody's perfect! everybody has parts of there bodies they dont like, If your worried what girls will think, it shouldnt even matter to them if they like you but if your really worried about it, go and see a doctor about it. Dont be embarressed or ... (read in full...)

What do I do with my life when my boyfriend leaves "to find himself"?

Q.   My boyfriend just decided finally that he is going to go away for a year, basically to find himself. It's a facility that is going to help him and stuff, but i dont know what to do.. We've been together for almost 4 months, i know its not long but i ...

A.   15 September 2005: When a guy goes away for a while to "find himself" he is not sure about some things, This is very awkward and theres nothing you can do. When he comes back he will have made his mind up. If he leaves then im sorry but he isnt going to change his ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is beautiful, but she doesn't believe me when I tell her that!

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost a year and a half. We live together in a beautiful apartment, I have a great job, I don't hit her or mess with her head in any way. I always tell her how beautiful I think she is. She doesn't ...

A.   15 September 2005: The truth is all girls are like that, even me! if a guy tells me i'm beautiful i tell them the shut up! I no its hard for you to understand, but she knows that you love her and she loves you! there no need for counceling at all! When a girl look... (read in full...)

As soon as I sleep with a woman, I'm turned off...

Q.   Help! I've slept with 100's of women and I start off really liking them but as soon as I sleep with them that's it. I'm completely turned off. Is there something wrong with me? Why can't I form a serious relationship with one of them??...

A.   15 September 2005: When you meet a women you should get to know them first, that way you might not be turned off by them, and also enjoy it more. There is nothing wrong with you at all! This happens all the time. Hope everything works out good. ... (read in full...)

The battle between my culture and my education makes it hard to interact with women!

Q.   Dear Cupid, My values and traditions are making me negative about myself. I am 22 yrs. old guy and have been brought up in a society where there is a strict boundary between men and women. Men and Women cannot be friends or talk honestly unless ...

A.   15 September 2005: What i suggest is you forget about your tradition and move on. You are 22 years old, are you really going to grow old knowing you have never had a girlfriend? Watch some movies with romance and just think to your self how nice it would be to actully ... (read in full...)

I hate our long-distance relationship and the way my girlfriend behaves, but when we're together... things are great!

Q.   Do I end my long-distance relationship of 4 years because of our different views? First, I should provide some background. My girlfriend and I met via a website for people with contractable diseases. As such, we share something in common that I da...

A.   15 September 2005: I can see you are very confused and misrible with your relationship. You say shes spending an awful lot of time with her ex boyfriends, there is a good chance she is, but you cant be tou sure. Give it another month or two before making your final ... (read in full...)

My girl didn't seem to care about me, until there was a chance I'd go out with someone else!

Q.   I was recently seeing a girl for about 2 months. I went on holiday and when I came back she seemed different. After a lot of chasing on my part she said she didn't want to be with me. This was about a month ago now but the other weekend she found ...

A.   14 September 2005: Its obvios she still has some feeling for you, because she doesnt want you to be with anyone else. But if i was you i would move on, maybe hard but its the right thing to do. But you will have to find out if she realy is seeing somone else. But i ... (read in full...)

Worried my big sister's new MSN contact I chatted to will turn stalker!

Q.   hi, im 14 years old and i dont chat in chat rooms or msn very much but my big sis does. her and i share an msn account bcoz we usually know the ppl we both talk 2. but i went on msn yesterday and there was a new contact, a 22 yr old guy from london ...

A.   14 September 2005: You must tell your sister right now! This could be dangorous. she might well be angry but she will only be agry because shes scared, atlest if she knows, she will be a bit more carfull, also if you do see him you must stay with an adult or somone ... (read in full...)

Mum and my husband were having sex! I feel sick!

Q.   I am 21 and my new husband is 23. We have been married for 2 weeks now. I came home from work one day to find my husband in bed with my mother kissing and having sex! I can't face either of them and feel sick to the stomach after finding out th...

A.   14 September 2005: Get rid of him! he is no good! either he just wasnt getting enough from you, or he is attracted to your mum, either way you must confront both of them right now, see what they has to say for themselfs, he sound like a cheating scum! How dare he use ... (read in full...)

Plenty of sex with my boyfriend, but no orgasms while we're at it. What's wrong?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for two years. I have never achieved an orgasm during sex. He has made me orgasm using his hands and usually after sex he will "finish me off". This is always nice but lately I've been feeling a bit turned off and fed ...

A.   14 September 2005: This is very common, many girls cant get orgasms and can only argasm using vibrators, others can only orgasm when he touches you. My advice is, before you have sex, get him to make you really horny and then have sex, that way you will have beter ... (read in full...)

Am I being paranoid after my dream about my sometimes violent fiancee?

Q.   i am about to get married and last night I had a dream that i was confronted by a woman who had sexual relations with my fiance recently. I know it is my subconscious going crazy but it has brought up issues from our lengthy relationship where many ...

A.   7 September 2005: No you are not being paranoid! You are right to be concerent and worried, all of his friends cheat, he comes from a family were cheating is normal, you are definatly right to be worried, you are about to get married, you love him, he loves you, but ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend cries... And cries... And cries...

Q.   i think my girlfrend crys too much, i want to have more sympathy but i find it hard. I realised that my sympathy ran out when she was crying because she was ill and she 'dident have time to be ill'. Surely no one has time to be ill? and crying will ...

A.   7 September 2005: It sound like your girlfriend is very emotional, has she always been? if she hasnt then its obvious that she needs you the most right now, has anything happened in her life? is that why shes so emotional. My advise is to just be there for her, ... (read in full...)

The boy I want now has other girls that he "loves", besides me!

Q.   Help, I'm going crazy! There is this boy. I like him, I really really like him, he makes me feel like no other person has ever the feeling is indescribable, I think it's love. I went out with him once, but we split up because he fancied another g...

A.   5 September 2005: it sound to me like hes trying to wind you up, i understand your feelings for him, but if this boy says he loves you and he loves other girls, he doesnt know what love is, he may well have feeling for you but maybe hes worried you dont like him, or ... (read in full...)

I can't stop thinking about him, but he's 43!

Q.   I am 15 and I am in love with a 43 year old man. I don't really know him that well, but I do know that he is really nice and kind. I find myself thinking about him nearlly all the time. What should I do?...

A.   5 September 2005: age can somtimes be difficult, but are you sure you actully love him, love is a very strong word and if you dont know him well you may just be attracted to him, but if your sure its love, talk to your parents about it or somone you know well, but if ... (read in full...)

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