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I read about sex all the time but actually doing it terrifies me!

Q.   I am a virgin at 21. Am I a freak? I read erotic fiction books, own several toys and think about sex all the time but actually doing it terrifies me!please help....

A.   19 February 2009: I'm 25 and still a virgin, and if you ask me, I'll be for a long, long time. I'm just not comfortable about having sex, and in spite of whatever stupid pressure I might experience, why would I do something I'm not comfortable with? ... (read in full...)

I'm seriously considering getting a hysterectomy...

Q.   I have a question that may offend some people, for which I'm sorry, I just feel like I can't ask anyone I know, because they'll judge me. I'm a 16 year old female, and started my periods when I was 12. Every month, I get such extreme stomach ...

A.   19 February 2009: My mother never EVER wanted children... but then she had me... aged almost 40. Obviously, people can change their mind. You could have a child until you're around 45 maximum, you have almost thirty years to change your mind. Hysterectomy is ... (read in full...)

Where can we go outdoors?

Q.   I know it says 13-15 but I am 17 I thought you had to be a certain age to join this. Me n my boyfriend do a few sexual things but not sex as yet. We have only fingered and wanked. How do I really drive him crazy outside as we cnt be indoors because ...

A.   19 February 2009: Can't you book a room in a B and B or something? you could use it during the day. Also, if I remember correctly from when I was your age, best friends are brilliant at lying about your staying at their house overnight. ... (read in full...)

Is she making me into a pedophile if she lied about her age?

Q.   Ok, so I met this girl (from this site actually) and we have hit it off, and we are in a relationship, despite the fact we live hundreds of miles away form each other. I'm 19 and coming 20 in a few months. Her profile said she was '13-15'. Which I...

A.   19 February 2009:  You're not a paedophile. It's hard to judge someone's age from online comments, particularly if that girl is quite mature. She could be 19 in her head, in spite of being 12 (if she's five years younger than her 17 year old ex, she's 12, not ... (read in full...)

What can a 25 year old female do to meet guys?

Q.   Okay, I know you guys are going to be like "boy, her life is soooo sad" and I'll be the first one to agree with you. That's why I'm hoping people could offer me tips on what to do. I am a 25 virgin. I have only had one "technical" boyfriend and th...

A.   9 February 2009: I'm a 25 year old virgin too but am, somehow, proud of it. Isn't life strange? ;.)... (read in full...)

After 14 years he doesn't want to finalize the divorce with his ex, I don't understand him?

Q.   We have a great relationship and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I don't like giving him an ultimatium, I never do but maybe this time he needs this. He told me finalizing his divorce of 18 years ago is really not that importan...

A.   7 February 2009:  My mother was in a similar situation with her first husband. When she was a teen, she was friends with a number of people, you know the way you have a group of friends you always hang around with. There was about ten of them and they adored ... (read in full...)

Daughter's friend raped by her grandfather

Q.   My daughter aged 17 has just told me how her close friendship with another girl gradually ended. The two former friends are in separate 6th forms, my daughter in a college, her former friend in the local sixth form attached to the local high school, ...

A.   29 January 2009:  I think you should tell, and probably the sooner the better, before the girl turns 18. If her parents and her church don't take responsability as responsible adults should, then someone should do something about it and fast. But it is a ... (read in full...)

I love my teacher.

Q.   I'm 16 and my teacher's 44. I have a feeling that he might like me too. I know it's a big age difference, but I can't help it. He's in here. *points to heart* I can never tell if he's flirting with me or not. When he sits next to me, he's ...

A.   12 November 2008:  Hi I'd like to answer all these posts from a slightly different perspective, that of a teacher, which I am! I am a very young teacher, still studying at college part time in certain subjects and teaching others I'm proficient at in schoo... (read in full...)

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