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She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.

Q.   I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...

A.   12 April 2008: Seriously thanks 2 everyone for their input I appreciate it... (read in full...)

She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.

Q.   I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...

A.   11 April 2008: Ok sorry I mean smart ass answers not perfect. If people respond like that ill do the same. Like I said ill do the right thing so quit whining,I tried to say thanks but obviously nobody cares but they sure are quick to criticize... (read in full...)

She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.

Q.   I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...

A.   11 April 2008: I appreciate those who weren't so judgemental unlike those acting like they r perfect. I got advice from some good people and decided it may be a struggle with old emotions but ill do the right thing. Thanks to those who helped. Even though her ... (read in full...)

She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.

Q.   I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...

A.   11 April 2008: Why r yall so worried if its not yall?... (read in full...)

She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.

Q.   I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...

A.   11 April 2008: I've decided to have sex with her... (read in full...)

She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.

Q.   I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...

A.   11 April 2008: I have made my decision... (read in full...)

I'm undecided - should I give in to my brother's urges and have sex with him?

Q.   My brother trying to seduce me. He's been trying for a long time, from time to time he was making a move on me, but now I think he's serious. When we were in early teens (13-15) we already had a kind of sexual relationship with him - we've been tou...

A.   6 April 2008: Piperr I wouldn't be talking you yourself had sex with family so why don't u get some help,and everyone quit being so judgemental. There's nothng wrong with keeping it in the family. Non related people have birth defects as well maybe not as much ... (read in full...)

I have feeling for my aunt.

Q.   well i have feeling for my aunt i know its not lust i love her and i know its wrong but we both kind of flirt with each other and i was wondering if it would be wrong to seduce her oh also she is almost 30 years older than me but i love her so much...

A.   13 November 2007: people will always judge whats wrong or not etc. If you live based on what "others" say then you will never enjoy lifes beauties. Do what your heart tells you,love islove. i wish you the best and theres nothing wrong with keeping it in the family... (read in full...)

Do friendship and love come together?

Q.   hi, when you fall in love with a freind, and he already loved you for so long, but now his love has gotten less.and you date for a little and he just says that he doesn't wanna ruin your freindship ! what can you do? i love him and he loves me (not...

A.   13 November 2007: well he may love you as a friend and nothing more. Its nothing personal but its best not to force anything cause in the end it wont work out. Hes probably saying he doesnt want to ruin the friendship cause he knows if he doesnt love you in that way ... (read in full...)

Can u marry your second cousin

Q.   can you marry your second cousin?...

A.   13 November 2007: i believe so,depending on your states law.for the mostpart it hink you can. i wish you the best of luck since i too am in that situation=) private message me and ill tell you more. Best of luck... (read in full...)

Should we ignore our culture and just do it??

Q.   Should we say no to our culture and do it? We are related. My grand father's mother is the sister of her grand mother's father. We love each other so much. But it's almost impossible to get married for us because of our relations. ...

A.   12 November 2007: Do it,ive done it. i wish you the best of luck. as long as you truly love each other then whats the harm? all this crap about genes etc. well nobody has perfect genes... (read in full...)

I don't want to be the one to split him and his gf up.

Q.   My friend really likes one of my guy best friends, but he is in a relationship with this girl that neither my friend or I like. I was talking to my guy friend and told him that one of my girl friends liked him. He said if I told him who it was he ...

A.   12 November 2007: Its up to you to tell him. What HE does is HIS choice,not yours. its not your fault he breaks up with her. If you never encourage it etc. of course but he should have the respect for his gf or at least end it cause hes not happy if he isnt. If you ... (read in full...)

Would a man in love chase her and not let her get away.

Q.   Hi there, just wondered if you could offer some friendly advice? I am in love with a man who is recently out of a 15 year relationship. I'm not sure who left who as he is sensitive about it, understandably. He and his ex wife has split their ...

A.   12 November 2007: give him time,hes going through a hard time. well if a woman really loved a man then SHE would chase after him,be careful with the double standard thing... (read in full...)

Why are there double standards when it comes to men and women having sex?

Q.   why is it that if a guy sleeps around hes just being a lad and its alright cos hes having fun, but if a girl sleeps around shes a slag and a slut and dirty... even if she just wants to have fun why is this?...

A.   12 November 2007: coming from a guys point of view,guy or girl i think its stupid and trashy. BUT if you do it in the privacy of your own home or hotel etc. whatever thats your business. we all have our lives and whos to say how we live them? What i think is trashy ... (read in full...)

I'm sleeping with my cousin!

Q.   after a family party i found myself really drunk and alone with my older and good looking cousin. i have always had a crush on him and looked up to him. we get along great considerring the age difference. we ended going back to his place and ...

A.   9 November 2007: Theres nothing wrong with "Keepin' it in the family" im totally for that. If you truly feel he is the one or you love him truly then go for it,yes it may be difficult with family but if you live your life based on what others would say or do then ... (read in full...)

Oh no... I got drunk and had sex with my brother!

Q.   I am twenty nine years old. Last summer my ex husband had the kids away on holidays and I went to stay with my brother for a couple of days. His wife and kids were away. We went to a party and we both drank a lot, when we came home we drank a bottle ...

A.   9 November 2007: Do what you feel is best. I know the decision may be tough especially since you love your brother. I know how you feel,ive gone through a similar situation,try talking to your brother,whether you keep having sex with him or not i wish you the ... (read in full...)

I am committing incest with my cousin and my sister and don't know how to stop

Q.   Im a 21 year old male(just so you know=) me and my cousin who is 24 we have always been close to each other. I always stayed at her house when we were younger and hung out alot not thinking much of it. We would even hold hands in public at times. Of ...

A.   9 November 2007: i answered that in a previous reply,for the last timme,i asked on advice how to stop.(its consensual FYI)... (read in full...)

I am committing incest with my cousin and my sister and don't know how to stop

Q.   Im a 21 year old male(just so you know=) me and my cousin who is 24 we have always been close to each other. I always stayed at her house when we were younger and hung out alot not thinking much of it. We would even hold hands in public at times. Of ...

A.   27 October 2007: thats ture,the taboo factor makes it so exciting but addicting... (read in full...)

I have a sexual relation with my... half brother. Is it wrong, since it doesn't hurt anybody, or should I stop it right away? It's pure lust and we both pursue other relations...

Q.   Somebody please help me, I have a big problem and there is nobody else I can talk to about it. Im very embarrased talking about and i know i will probably be judged.i guess i wouldnt blame anyone for judging me. Anyway, its a long story so here ...

A.   26 October 2007: What you are doing is okay dont worry and let anyone tell you you are sick cause you are not,do what your heart tells you and I wish you the best... (read in full...)

I am committing incest with my cousin and my sister and don't know how to stop

Q.   Im a 21 year old male(just so you know=) me and my cousin who is 24 we have always been close to each other. I always stayed at her house when we were younger and hung out alot not thinking much of it. We would even hold hands in public at times. Of ...

A.   21 October 2007: everything is consensual and my cousin is just manipulative i guess you could say(id rather not say why she wants me to marry the other) but im not here to discuss that i asked for advice on how to stop.... (read in full...)

Girls, would you find it insulting for a boy to ask you out by text?

Q.   this is a question for girls, would you find it insulting if a boy was to ask you out, say to go to the cinema using a text message? and would you be more likely to reject them?...

A.   21 October 2007: i asked someone out like that due tot he fact the person was shy but they said YES and now things are great! Everyone is different just as we all like different foods,etc. so it all depends... (read in full...)

I am committing incest with my cousin and my sister and don't know how to stop

Q.   Im a 21 year old male(just so you know=) me and my cousin who is 24 we have always been close to each other. I always stayed at her house when we were younger and hung out alot not thinking much of it. We would even hold hands in public at times. Of ...

A.   9 October 2007: tot he male reader anonymous, i just developed an attraction for my sister i dont know how. She is involved with someone and has kids but nobody knows about us in that way. You do make a great point because I too have developed an emotional bond ... (read in full...)

I am committing incest with my cousin and my sister and don't know how to stop

Q.   Im a 21 year old male(just so you know=) me and my cousin who is 24 we have always been close to each other. I always stayed at her house when we were younger and hung out alot not thinking much of it. We would even hold hands in public at times. Of ...

A.   9 October 2007: to the anonymous female, Thanks SO MUCH for your advice. Its not all cause of societies views there are other little things here and there BUT I think I have made up my mind,like u said why stop right?=) I do care about them and yeah i guess you can ... (read in full...)

I am in love with my brother and having sex with him

Q.   I am a freshman at the university this year. This is the second year at the university for my brother Steve. Our parents decided to get us a two bedroom apartment for us to share. We have always gotten along really well and its been great. T...

A.   4 October 2007: I think thats SOOOOOO HOT!!! I support you 100% love is love,dont let anyone else tell you different. I find it a turn on when a girl does her brother or is involved with him. i wish you all the luck... (read in full...)

Do I break my heart for him???

Q.   I met a man, years ago, when I was just a kid, if you call 17 a kid, we were flirtatious, mostly innocent....I got my heart wrapped up in him, he was my fantasy, the knight in shining armor on a beautiful white horse. In reality, he was twice my ...

A.   2 October 2007: If you kow hes going to break your heart and you dont want to deal with the pain,etc. just dont pursue anything further. I kow its easier said than done though. If you want to be firends and if you feel that no negative "side effects" would come out ... (read in full...)

I am committing incest with my cousin and my sister and don't know how to stop

Q.   Im a 21 year old male(just so you know=) me and my cousin who is 24 we have always been close to each other. I always stayed at her house when we were younger and hung out alot not thinking much of it. We would even hold hands in public at times. Of ...

A.   1 October 2007: dont worry about it! I make my own choices... (read in full...)

I am committing incest with my cousin and my sister and don't know how to stop

Q.   Im a 21 year old male(just so you know=) me and my cousin who is 24 we have always been close to each other. I always stayed at her house when we were younger and hung out alot not thinking much of it. We would even hold hands in public at times. Of ...

A.   30 September 2007: Take responsibility for my actions? what exactly do u mean? You make it sound harsh. I understand thats their job but cancer isnt a taboo sunject like incest,which is why i dont want to see a therapist about it. Or i should say which is why im ... (read in full...)

I am committing incest with my cousin and my sister and don't know how to stop

Q.   Im a 21 year old male(just so you know=) me and my cousin who is 24 we have always been close to each other. I always stayed at her house when we were younger and hung out alot not thinking much of it. We would even hold hands in public at times. Of ...

A.   29 September 2007: Thank you so much for that information. I truly appreciate all the advice. Im just too embarassed to speak to a therapist or anyone about it. Any other advice? Thinking about it,i see your point,my cousin just wants her own personal satisfaction ... (read in full...)

I am committing incest with my cousin and my sister and don't know how to stop

Q.   Im a 21 year old male(just so you know=) me and my cousin who is 24 we have always been close to each other. I always stayed at her house when we were younger and hung out alot not thinking much of it. We would even hold hands in public at times. Of ...

A.   29 September 2007: to the anonymous female reader Thank You for your response i truly appreciate it. It means alot to me and i will keep you updated.... (read in full...)

I am committing incest with my cousin and my sister and don't know how to stop

Q.   Im a 21 year old male(just so you know=) me and my cousin who is 24 we have always been close to each other. I always stayed at her house when we were younger and hung out alot not thinking much of it. We would even hold hands in public at times. Of ...

A.   29 September 2007: Thank You so much for the reply, i will keep you updated on everything. Thanks for not saying "youre sick" etc. or the typical responses but thanks for wha you wrote i really appreciate it. Ill keep you updated... (read in full...)

Can I recover from incest?

Q.   Can I recover from incest? I would like to recover from the incest that i had with my brother. I Love my fiance and I dont want to lose him. How can i forgive myself, recover from this and keep with my life and keep living without any harm or heal...

A.   22 September 2007: im going through a similar situation. Due to my cousin being "close" to me wehn i was really young now i have struggle getting out of this incest thing i no longer want a part of it but we can only move forward. youll be ok,just dont look back and ... (read in full...)

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