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How can I get my dad to change his ways? I need the father I've never had...

Q.   This is about my father.... He and my mum split up when we were really youngand he's gone from woman to woman, none of which i particularly liken for exapmle the first one made me sleep in a cage when I was there an dmy dad was on nights, the second ...

A.   11 April 2008: He's not worth it, he doesn't deserve to even go near you. He's totally failed you as a father. He should be deeply ashamed.... (read in full...)

I've dated a guy for a week now and he is already saying he loves m.!!!!

Q.   I've dated a guy for a week now and he is already saying he loves me. i don't know how anyone can love some one so quickly. im kinda freaking out, he wants me to say it back, but i don't know if i love him, or even want to keep on dating him. what ...

A.   11 April 2008: He's desperate, sorry. Don't feel like you have to say it back, you're not ready yet. Hope everything turns out okay (: x... (read in full...)

I'm bi-sexual and I'm 17, would it be breaking the law if I went with a man much older than me.

Q.   Hi, i am bi-sexual and i'm 17. I want to try sexual stuff with another man, however i do not want a guy my age but a guy a lot older and more experienced - like 35 - 50. Is this ok or am i breaking the law?...

A.   11 April 2008: go ahead and do what you want, if you're 16 it's totally fine... have fun (:... (read in full...)

Smelly vaginal discharge, sore boobs, what does this mean?

Q.   i have a realley smelly vaginal discharge,my boobs are also sore when i lean or touch them,im very worried about the discharge,ive been with my partner for 5 years and have never cheated on him,he would never cheat on me either.. what is this ...

A.   11 April 2008: you could be pregnant actually... that or you have an std... either way, go to your doctors... (:... (read in full...)

Does a woman make a man cum with her body, or does the man make himself cum using her body?

Q.   Hi People, On rare occassions wen me n my boyfriend ahve sex, hes more into it den me n i dnt usual put too much effort into it but he still manages to cum. I was just wondering, when men/boys cum wen having sex wud u say that: The woman m...

A.   11 April 2008: Unlike women, men are almost purely physically turned on. Men are like like bottles of coke... shake it up and wait till it explodes! (: hope this explains x... (read in full...)

Can you love two people at the same time?

Q.   hi Ok well i go out with this amazing boy he means the world to me, and i truly love him and he said he felt the same. We see each other every day at school and we meet at speedway every Thursday. Recently he's been acting really depressed and unh...

A.   11 April 2008: I think you need to set him straight, it is possible to love two people at the same time but this is not fair on you. Give him the option... "me or her" and keep to it don't change it. Tell him that it's one or the other and that if he chooses you ... (read in full...)

Will he get in trouble?

Q.   I am 16 years old. The man that I am in love with is 27. I live in the state of Maine and it said I could be/do anything with anyone over the age of 21 with parental consent. But he is still concerend that he can end up in jail. Can he still go to ...

A.   11 April 2008: If your parents are okay with it i think you'll be okay. Luckily i live in a country where sex is legal at 16 (: maybe you should immigrate to the uk?... (read in full...)

Having a relationship with my dad's friend, should I tell my parents?

Q.   Hi, i am 17 and my dads friend (who is 42) has told me he has had feelings for me for a long time, we have kissed on a few occasions and have been away on a weekend together where we had sex which i really enjoyed. I really like him, but i think ...

A.   11 April 2008: I'd advise you to stay quiet until you're 18. I know sex is legal at 16 but i think your parents might get the wrong idea about this. I think they might see himn as being "dirty". No offence but he's alot older than you and it's slightly suspicious. ... (read in full...)

Anal sex hurts her.. also she wont let me give oral... HELP?!?!?!

Q.   Hey guys, I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now, we have a good sex life, recently we have been trying to have anal sex, but it hurts her too much. How can i make it comfortable for her?? And another question.. she has only let me give...

A.   10 April 2008: Don't make her do something she's not comfotable with. If she does want anal but just can't yet then try some "ass beads" they widen your anus to make room. You can buy them from sex shops but you usually have to be 18 to get them. Hope this ... (read in full...)

Size does matter!! Don't lie to me....can I satisfy her or not?

Q.   okay, im a guy with a 5.3 or 5.4 penis, now, no matter how much i read online that "size does not matter" and "its how you use it", ive come to realize its bullshit now, im 20 years old and every one of my friends has had sex at least 4 times, b...

A.   10 April 2008: It is definately adiquite! It seems the reason you're not getting any is because you have no confidence. 5.4" is around about average! Stop worrying (:... (read in full...)

Hey guys, does masturbation kill your energy or what?

Q.   Masturbation....does it kill your energy guys? I masturbate very often, usually at least once a day.I rarely take breaks for more than a day or two, however I've noticed something funny when I do. I've noticed if I manage to hold off wankin for a ...

A.   10 April 2008: There's a hormone that is relased in the brain which naturally makes men "sleepy" once they've ejaculated. Theory is that it's released because insticts tell "men" to rest before they start all over again. It's like a "i've had sex and now i should ... (read in full...)

Is my penis normal??

Q.   where do you start measuring your penis? mine is 5.5" whenerect is it small or what?? the base of my pubic hair is so itchy.i don't know why but it is only at the left side.what is unprotected sex? and how can i avoid it? at first my ejaculatio...

A.   10 April 2008: Your penis is normal especially as you're still quiet young and you're still growing. I think the reason you're itchy is because your pubic hair is still growing which sometimes can cause a rash, if you're worried go to the doctor or sexual health ... (read in full...)

Since I have become pregnant my partner has gone off sex completely!

Q.   Since I have become pregnant my partner has gone off sex completely, he used to be very loving and affectionate but now looks at me as if I'm one of his mates and he even talks to me differently, I have asked him why he has changed and he says he ...

A.   10 April 2008: It sounds like he has a phobia of pregnant women. Men usually have this fear if they feel like they're going to hurt you or the baby. Also, some men just can't get there head around the possibility of a small person coming out of your special place. ... (read in full...)

I feel like the relationship isnt fun anymore

Q.   Hi. Ive been with my girlfriend for 6months, it started off well, but im not so sure now. She has just turned 17 and i am 20. There are qualities i like about her that are different to my ex, but other qualities im not so keen on. I feel l...

A.   10 April 2008: This is a tricky one... If you love her then i'd stay with her, love doesn't just happen and maybe you were ment to be with each other. Relationships have there ups and downs, i think right now you're on a downer. Have you tried going out together ... (read in full...)

Will my penis size prevent me from getting my wife pregnant?

Q.   I m woried about my penise size it is about 4.2 inches next year i plan to get married and i m worid can i satisfied my life partner and with this size i can make her preganent plz. advised me...

A.   10 April 2008: I think that it's definately possible that you can get your wife pregnant. I think to improve your chances you should have quiet alot of foreplay, this seems to make a guy ejaculate more semen. Hope this helps, and good luck with your wedding (:... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a girl, but not sure how to tell her what I feel, please help.

Q.   Hi there, i don't know, where should i start, this is the first, severe, and disturbing confusion in my life. The thing is there is this girl whom i started spending sometime with, i used to know her in a supermarket where she works, and rece...

A.   9 April 2008: Start with a gentle kiss, then use your tongue slowly and then build up gradually to a hot steamy kiss (;... (read in full...)

Because he didn't hold my hand, kiss or hug me on our first date, does this mean he will only ever be just a friend?

Q.   I went on a first date with a lad from my college. I have only really known him since we started college and he told one of my friends he liked me and has said over the internet that he likes me...so we went to the cinema and talked loads on the way ...

A.   9 April 2008: He sounds shy. I think maybe you should ask him on another date, the cinema is a good place (; and get closer to him. If he doesn't make a move, start cuddling up to him. If he still doesn't make a move, then i think if you like him alot then you ... (read in full...)

Developing Relationship: How do I make the next step?

Q.   So I told this girl that I'm interested in that I had feelings for her after spending the night cuddling together in bed for the first time. For some reason, the next morning I didn't kiss her. She made a move to, but I felt it was too ...

A.   9 April 2008: Well, i know it sounds weird but... buy some new clothes (if you can afford to at the time) and get a new hair cut or aftershave. Then, when you're looking your best... ask her to go out for some lunch. Once you're out with her, be nice, but not too ... (read in full...)

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