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The condom split and I did get my period. But could I be pregnant still?

Q.   hi im 18, last sunday (15th july) i had sex with my boyfriend, but the condom split, i started my period yesterday (22nd july) is there any chance i could be pregnant? or does the period show a definate no? please help...

A.   23 July 2007: id pretty much rule out that you are pregnant, the fact you have your period is a huge indication. if it would help to ease your mind buy a pregnancy home test. they are very accurate. all the best... (read in full...)

How do I end my online relationship?

Q.   ano this proberly sounds stupid but i have an online gf and i want to end it because i think we have got to serious, how do i tell her? plz help ...

A.   23 July 2007: just be honest with her. tell her how you are feeling. try not to be nasty in the way you are telling her. hope it goes ok.... (read in full...)

I'd love to open my own hair salon before my time runs out; am I too old? Is this a crazy idea?

Q.   hi there everyone I no this is a relationship advice site but i have a small question... I am currently a receptionist and to be honest i am tired of my job and i am contempating starting my own business. I am 24 and i thinking of going in to the ...

A.   22 July 2007: You're only 24 and so you have plenty of time in life to achieve somehting you truly believe in. I'd say go for it. You're never to old for anything. All the best, hope it works out for you.... (read in full...)

SITE NEWS: Moderators needed!

Q.   Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING -- many moderators drop out after just a couple of weeks so if you're not committed please don't apply! ...

A.   22 July 2007: would be very interested in doin this., i log on daily to check out the questions and to offer my advice. been using this site for about a year now and absolutely love it. let me know if im needed ... (read in full...)

What's wrong with us fat girls?

Q.   Whats wrong with fat gals? Im a fat gal. I take good care of myself. Better than a lot of skinny gals. Why dont i get noticed? My best friend is skinny and she smells ,always have dog hair all over her cloths ,her handr are dirty ,whx do guys like ...

A.   13 July 2007: hi being big myself i also once thought that guys only liked skinny girls. trust me they dont! ive had plenty of guys ask me out on dates and show interest! i guess it depends on maybe ur looking to find someone to much? its a preference ... (read in full...)

I've been seeing a guy but I've been sleeping with his cousin.

Q.   ive been seeing a guy for the past three weeks and hes great and treats me like a princess, but ive been sleeping with his cousinfor the past 2 weeks, this guy is also my best mates boyfriend, i do feel guilty but i think the fear of gettin cought ...

A.   7 July 2007: only u know the true answer to that question. it has to be what u want. there is no point following what u have been told to do as it may not right for you. all the best.... (read in full...)

I'm new to sex... How can I please my man while I'm "on top"? What sort of moves should I be pulling?

Q.   This is embarrasing but I need advice, I am new to the sex life, I have only slept with one man and I still only sleep with him, now when it comes to our love making, he is incredible in bed, he is always on top which i love because he knows how to ...

A.   5 July 2007: when on top, try to lean back and rest ur hands on his knees, and try different paces, goin fast, then slow, then faster. should drive him wild! have fun, experiment.... (read in full...)

Does anal sex hurt?

Q.   me and my boyfriend want to have anal sex does it hurt?...

A.   10 June 2007: no point in lying, yes it hurts, the tip is to be totally relaxed and comfy about what is going to happen! ive tried it twice and yes both times hurt. make sure u have plenty of a waterbased lube. and be honest, if it hurts and u dont want to carry ... (read in full...)

Are tattoos a turn-on or a turn-off for women?

Q.   are tattoos a turnoff for most women? i have one tattoo at the moment, girls don't seem to mind that, but im looking at getting another one on my back, legs and my forearm.... do you think this would be enough to make some girls lose interest...

A.   6 June 2007: it really depends at the end of the day, my view on tatts are they define your character, everyone thinks differently, some think they are hot, some dont. do what you think is best for you, you only live once. a girl should like you for who you ... (read in full...)

Should I get pregnant to keep my cheating boyfriend in my life??

Q.   Ok, i would like views on what you think about a gf getting pregnant on purpose just to keep her bf in her life. I found out that my bf was cheating on me with his ex the entire 2 yrs we've been on and off together. I was so devastated. I didnt wa...

A.   3 June 2007: getting pregnant to keep someone in your life is a certain no no!! for a start if he cheats now what is to stop him doing it again? bringing a baby into an unstable relationship is unfair on everyone. you should sit down and talk to him, if thats ... (read in full...)

I slept with him and then he didn't want to have any more contact with me.

Q.   well theres this boy right...and i met him a few weeks ago and i think iv fallen in love with him? I'm 15 and hes 17 the past week we have became really close and hev kept coming down 2 see me etc..i slept with him the other day and since then he ...

A.   13 May 2007: from what are you saying it sounds as if he was just after sex. you should leave well alone and find someone better. he obviously has no respect for you or he wouldnt have behaved the way he has. hope it works out for you.... (read in full...)

Was I raped?

Q.   is i rape if you wake up to find someone having sex with you?...

A.   8 May 2007: you did not consent to it. plus the fact you werent even awake!! it could be classed as rape!... (read in full...)

Sad

Q.   Yesterday, on May 4, 2007 my friend was killed. She was sitting on a fence at a baseball field when her sister stupidly pushed her over. She landed on her neck and broke her neck. She died at the scene. And now because of her death her twin sister ...

A.   7 May 2007: im sorry for your loss but as you say her sister stupidly pushed her. and yes she will have to live with that last memory for the rest of her life. im sure it wasnt intentional, all you can do is be there for her, im sure she is as upset as you if ... (read in full...)

I've never met his family or many of his friends, do you think he's embarrassed by me?

Q.   I've been in a relationship now for 7 months with my boyfriend. We usually see each other 3 times a week, but lately I've noticed things that are niggling away at me. Firstly in the seven months that we've been together I've only met one of his ...

A.   7 May 2007: i think maybe he has some issues, you should try talking to him to resolve some of the problems or concerns you have. as i always tell my friends, for a relationship to be a good working one you need to be honest from the start. if he doesn't like ... (read in full...)

I have a cousin who is 17 and hotttttt!!! I want to have sex with her!

Q.   hi, i have a cousin she is 17 and hott. i want to have sex with her. when i was 8 we kinda just rubbed and felt each other. I jack off to pictures of her. what do i do? please....

A.   7 May 2007: you do really need to forget about those thoughts. maybe it wud be best to focus ur attention elsewhere. as no good will come of it. also maybe u should get rid of the pics u have of her?? ... (read in full...)

OMG... we didn't use a condom, could I be pregnant!!!???

Q.   my boyfriend and i had sex today and when finished he went to clean up and throw the condom away and he came back and we just laid together in the bed. after a few minutes we started making out and one thing led to another and his penis was inside ...

A.   7 May 2007: the easiest thing to do will be to buy a pregnacy test. from what i say its highly unlikely that you will be pregnant as he was in you for a short time. if you do have concerns about accidently becoming pregnant then maybe you should go toyour ... (read in full...)

My parents are divorcing and I have to wonder...are all marriages bad?

Q.   My parents are starting to go through a divorce at the moment, they're fighting a lot and it kind of upsets me sometimes. But recently I've been wondering, are all marriages bad? Are there people out there in this day and age, where divorce ...

A.   6 May 2007: no not all marriages are bad. my parents are still goin strong after 26 years. its hard work but the rewards are there if u keep at it.... (read in full...)

I told my bf he could take my virginity but now I'm scared! Help!

Q.   Im only 14 And im still a virgin. i told my boyfriend he could take my virginity but now im a little scared to let him take after all i am only 14. i really do like him and wuld do anything for him and i do want him to take my virginity but im not ...

A.   6 May 2007: if you are unsure then dont do it. you need to be 100% sure that your ok with what will happen. have a talk with him and tell him your concerns. and if he is truely a great boyfriend he will be happy to wait until your ready. ... (read in full...)

Should I give him 'head' and would doing this make me his official gf?

Q.   My Boyfriend recently asked me to let him "smash" (have sex). i told him yes. and he started to get more into it. I havent let him yet but i am going too. He asked me the other day if i "sucked dick" and i told him no he asked me would i do it for ...

A.   6 May 2007: if you feel you have to do this for him to be made his girl officially then maybe he is not worth it. you should only do things you feel comfy doin and above all he should have respect for your decisions. stay strong and seriously think about it. ... (read in full...)

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