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I'm 8 months pregnant, will having intercourse hurt my baby?

Q.   I'm 8 months pregnant, and me and my husbund still want to have sex, but find it hard what can we do to make it easier? Will it hurt the baby or am i just being silly?...

A.   14 April 2008: hey sex is great for you when you are pregnant relax and enjoy what you can now coz there isnt much of it after the baby is born lol hope you have fun and a very healthy baby good luck xxx... (read in full...)

Where do we go to for abortion advice?

Q.   well me and my girlfriend had unprotected sed right and now abit ago right and no she keeps feeling sick and and pissing all the time bu shes on the pill as well so we just took a test the other day and it sed she wont but she ant cum on her period ...

A.   13 April 2008: bpas is a very good place and you dont need to go to the doctor to be refured first, its very private and its nhs for your nearest one look it up on google.... (read in full...)

I hit my pregnant girlfriend and now she is ignoring me! I feel awful...

Q.   I hit my girlfriend and she is 5 months pregnant i feel bad and everthing but she is ignoring me and i dont get. I said sorry she was winding me up and i hit her i really need to see what can i do please help i feel awful. PLZ HELP?! she is alot ...

A.   13 April 2008: Best thing you can do mate is leave her alone and go seek help, sorry just wont cut it, if you have hit her and dont see the wrong in it or why her parents hate you then you deffo have somthing wrong and need to seek help. Please leave this girl ... (read in full...)

I might be pregnant and I don't know what to do, please help me!!

Q.   Okay, I am only 13 years old and I recently had unprotected sex. My period was about a week before the sexual intercourse. And i'm so stressed because i'm bleeding unregularly and i'm afraid that i might be pregnant or even worse have a STD. It...

A.   13 April 2008: Please please go to your doctor you dont need to be having babies at your age trust me ive been there but i did leave it to late befor telling anyone at least talk to your doc or go to an advice center and as for std's please use a condom all the ... (read in full...)

My mother let my BF live and sleep with me since I was 14, two years later I am pregnant. How to tell her?

Q.   how do i tell my mom i am prego at 16, should she already see this coming since my boyfriend lives with us and my boyfriend sleeps with me, does she want me to have a baby since she let him live with me since i was 14...

A.   13 April 2008: yes she should have seen this coming and if she was going to let him sleep with you she should have atleast put you on the pill but thats not to say that its all her fault as, if you was old enough to understand how to have sex you should have been ... (read in full...)

Why did he turn his caller ID off twice? This awakens my trust issues from the past...

Q.   Hi everyone, im really fed up with my boyfriend. H e was out with his friends fri night and he rang me today his phone was on private number. This also happened another time after he was on a night with the boys. With is number being off, i find ...

A.   13 April 2008: if he loves you than he wont be messing the main part of a relationship is trust if you dont have that then maybe its time to move on and im sorry to say if that get away with it once then thay are more likley to do it again. give um an inch and ... (read in full...)

I want him to tell his ex about us., whereas he says he doesn't want to hurt her. Should I be suspicious?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend now for 4 months. He was with someone when we met but finished their relationship to be with me. His ex now has been texting him daily, and he has been replying. After a secret quick inspection of his phone I found out ...

A.   13 April 2008: I dont think you really need an anwser to this question, if you feel that he is messing you around and you dont trust him then whats the point in carrying on with this relationship, as for him telling her maybe he is being honest with you and is ... (read in full...)

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