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Baby daddy drama!

Q.   i just got a new boyfriend! i am sooo happy, but im also having a baby that is not his. he knows about the baby and is fine with it, but i feel i am not being fair to him.. i just got out of a bad relationship with the baby daddy, who wants a part ...

A.   2 February 2009: well, i can support him, i have all of that figured out already, thanks for your concern... what i dont know is how i am going to deal with chase and daniel... the baby daddy and my bf. they both want to be in the delivery room with me, chase ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and loosing weight...

Q.   i have a doc, appointment in a few days. it got pushed back because he was out of town for a week, but i have noticed i am loseing weight, im pregnant.... i know this shouldnt be happening, but i am eating like a PIGG!!!!! anyone know wat to do ...

A.   29 January 2009: hey guys, sorry i havent updated you guys lately... i have posted other questions though that might have been part updates... umm update: my baby daddy is not with me i have a fiance who is not the bby daddy i am stressing like a bitch i am ea... (read in full...)

Names for the baby?? Need help!

Q.   alright, i know i ask WAY to many questions, but im like sooo scared right now. i am 7 months pregnant and it is a boy. i was trying to think of names and i can only think of one but its kind of girlie. anyone have any boy names they wanna ...

A.   13 January 2009: "Babes, your the best mummy in the world. Your not dumb for asking questions, you want to do your best, so you go and get information. Don't be scared, don't be worried, your baby will be so proud to know all the things your doing to make him grow ... (read in full...)

Rough crazy sex!! Now I'm torn & in pain

Q.   My boyfriend and I had crazy/rough sex and I ripped really bad two days ago. The worst thing is that where I ripped is directly under the urine flow. It hurts so bad and it is ripped in about three spots. I have delivered two girls vaginally and one ...

A.   10 January 2009: hun, i am sorry... that really sucks!!!!!!!! the only thing i would say is go ask a doc?... (read in full...)

Baby daddy drama!

Q.   i just got a new boyfriend! i am sooo happy, but im also having a baby that is not his. he knows about the baby and is fine with it, but i feel i am not being fair to him.. i just got out of a bad relationship with the baby daddy, who wants a part ...

A.   10 January 2009: "Babies having babies... good God." im not a baby... i might not be mentally ready, but my body is ready, if i was still a baby i wouldnt have been able to get pregnant. Yea i am young, but not to young, my body is ready and i can be ready too... ... (read in full...)

Help!!!! What to do for the best...?

Q.   I am currently now 6 months pregnant and 21 yrs old. During the first 3 months of my pregnancy i felt completely alone. When my partner and i found out i was pregnant he thought i would "take care of the problem" but when he approached me about it, ...

A.   10 January 2009: awww hun... im sorry... im pregant too and my bf left me wen he found out and i know its really hard, but people are telling me, he is a jerk and get over him. i know you probably dont want to cuz you love him and thats how i feel, but its for the ... (read in full...)

Names for the baby?? Need help!

Q.   alright, i know i ask WAY to many questions, but im like sooo scared right now. i am 7 months pregnant and it is a boy. i was trying to think of names and i can only think of one but its kind of girlie. anyone have any boy names they wanna ...

A.   9 January 2009: awww!!!! well considering, im 15, im sure ill have more ?'s ill be back after he is born, i MIGHT post his pic idk... i dont want it all over the internet.. but yea, sorry everyone for being so stupid!... (read in full...)

Names for the baby?? Need help!

Q.   alright, i know i ask WAY to many questions, but im like sooo scared right now. i am 7 months pregnant and it is a boy. i was trying to think of names and i can only think of one but its kind of girlie. anyone have any boy names they wanna ...

A.   8 January 2009: well, thanks for all your help you guys.... idk, i kinda guess i just have to see what he looks like. thanks guys sorry i have such dumb questions..... (read in full...)

Baby daddy drama!

Q.   i just got a new boyfriend! i am sooo happy, but im also having a baby that is not his. he knows about the baby and is fine with it, but i feel i am not being fair to him.. i just got out of a bad relationship with the baby daddy, who wants a part ...

A.   26 December 2008: thanks guys..... and no we kids havent gone mad, we learned what feels good in bed! haha, anyway thanks guys.... the thing is, i dont want the baby daddy in the bbyz life, he is a BAD roll model and i want wats best for my baby... i am putting 9 ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and loosing weight...

Q.   i have a doc, appointment in a few days. it got pushed back because he was out of town for a week, but i have noticed i am loseing weight, im pregnant.... i know this shouldnt be happening, but i am eating like a PIGG!!!!! anyone know wat to do ...

A.   8 November 2008: alright, well i want him to be there when i tell my mom cuz she is WAY calmer about everything when he is around, she really loves him as do i.... so is it better to have my mom with her bf and his dad there all together, or do you think its better ... (read in full...)

Hypothetically speaking: should I have my baby boy circumsized?

Q.   hypathetically speaking, if i were 5 months pregnant, and just found out i was having a boy... Would it be smarter to get him circumsized and why??? if i dont curcumsize him now, can he get it done later in life if he wanted to?...

A.   8 November 2008: thanks for all your help... no im not going to do it... its extra pain and many resources say its better for his sex life, and lets admit.... your sex life is importaint! haha.. so thank you all for your help... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and loosing weight...

Q.   i have a doc, appointment in a few days. it got pushed back because he was out of town for a week, but i have noticed i am loseing weight, im pregnant.... i know this shouldnt be happening, but i am eating like a PIGG!!!!! anyone know wat to do ...

A.   8 November 2008: ha, junk food is all im eating!!!! i hate papia, so no worries.... i just feel like, horrible... she trusted me and left me home for like 9 hours with a guy, so we could have a movie date, and she bought us movies and stuff then went out of her way ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and loosing weight...

Q.   i have a doc, appointment in a few days. it got pushed back because he was out of town for a week, but i have noticed i am loseing weight, im pregnant.... i know this shouldnt be happening, but i am eating like a PIGG!!!!! anyone know wat to do ...

A.   7 November 2008: alright alright, i love my mommy!!! she is amazing, yea she is dumb sumtimes but she does trust me and i guess im just afraid to admit i let her down.... ill tell her tomorrow... at dinner... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and loosing weight...

Q.   i have a doc, appointment in a few days. it got pushed back because he was out of town for a week, but i have noticed i am loseing weight, im pregnant.... i know this shouldnt be happening, but i am eating like a PIGG!!!!! anyone know wat to do ...

A.   7 November 2008: w/e.... i think she is stupid, ne way... yea daddy is with me, he knows but only him and me and my doc. he takes me to the doc, and pays the bills........ any ideas on tellin a mama that her yougest child is havin a bby?... (read in full...)

Why is he acting like this all of the sudden?

Q.   Since we moved into our new house (5 months ago) the sex is different. In a sense it's better (more intense). He's more commanding, like once he was on top and said kiss me but played hard to get which was fun, or another time I was on top and he ...

A.   7 November 2008: i am really not sure... did u move to a new area? or just a new house??? maybe he doesnt like the area... or maybe he is.... idk, but it could just be a guy thing, we moved april 2nd and my brother ever since we moved has been more of a jack ass ... (read in full...)

Anyone have any blow job tips? I want to do it for my boyfriend.

Q.   Hi... Recently I gave my boyfriend a blowjob. This was the first time I ever gave a blowjob to anyone, but I did it because I love him. When I was doing it he took a while to cum and my jaw became so sore, my nose even started running, and my ...

A.   6 November 2008: well, my sister is a porn star, so she gives me tips... she told me-- so im not sure its true-- but she says the most sensitive part is the head of the penis, so if u cant deep throat or you dont want to just use the tip of ur your tounge and make ... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing by leaving the place and not going further with the new girl? Or did I dupe myself?

Q.   I finally broke up with my needy, neurotic girlfriend of six months, and went out to a Halloween party that same night. Next thing you know, I'm talking to this new girl, one who really seems into me (probably because of my costume), asks for my ...

A.   4 November 2008: yea, sorry... i was multi tasking, i ment you shouldnt change your life... like, if you dont love her, and you dont wanna spend the rest of your life with her, chances are.. your not gunna see a lot of her around, so dont change your plans to form ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and loosing weight...

Q.   i have a doc, appointment in a few days. it got pushed back because he was out of town for a week, but i have noticed i am loseing weight, im pregnant.... i know this shouldnt be happening, but i am eating like a PIGG!!!!! anyone know wat to do ...

A.   4 November 2008: nah, my mama thinks im having a growth spirt and thats why i eat a lot...idk how to tell her yet, ill work on it.. thanks guys.... yea im showing A LOT! but idk.. she is a dumb f**k i guess.... just thanks for helpin me guys, im like so happy im ... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing by leaving the place and not going further with the new girl? Or did I dupe myself?

Q.   I finally broke up with my needy, neurotic girlfriend of six months, and went out to a Halloween party that same night. Next thing you know, I'm talking to this new girl, one who really seems into me (probably because of my costume), asks for my ...

A.   3 November 2008: i think it really depends on your relationship.. did it end badly? did you stay friends.?? are you really friends or did u just say that... i think of course it would hurt the girl a lott to see that, but at the same timeif you really weren't into ... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing by leaving the place and not going further with the new girl? Or did I dupe myself?

Q.   I finally broke up with my needy, neurotic girlfriend of six months, and went out to a Halloween party that same night. Next thing you know, I'm talking to this new girl, one who really seems into me (probably because of my costume), asks for my ...

A.   3 November 2008: i think it really depends on your relationship, but ur ex sounds to me like she is using you. My ex, chase did the same thing and after a year of dating him, he dumped me for my best friend. Then wanted me back, and he is a back stabber and i know ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and loosing weight...

Q.   i have a doc, appointment in a few days. it got pushed back because he was out of town for a week, but i have noticed i am loseing weight, im pregnant.... i know this shouldnt be happening, but i am eating like a PIGG!!!!! anyone know wat to do ...

A.   3 November 2008: yes, i am really 15... my bf and i did it for the first time and the condom broke, i know i am really not the smartest, but i would rather talk to random people then my family. I am sorry if i am asking stupid ?'s and wasting your time, but thank ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and loosing weight...

Q.   i have a doc, appointment in a few days. it got pushed back because he was out of town for a week, but i have noticed i am loseing weight, im pregnant.... i know this shouldnt be happening, but i am eating like a PIGG!!!!! anyone know wat to do ...

A.   3 November 2008: yes, i am really 15... my bf and i did it for the first time and the condom broke, i know i am really not the smartest, but i would rather talk to random people then my family. I am sorry if i am asking stupid ?'s and wasting your time, but thank ... (read in full...)

Should I wait for her to make up her mind..is she stringing me along?

Q.   I've just broke up with a girl I've been seeing for around 6 months. We previously broke up 3 months into our relationship, largely caused by too much drink and a lot of baggage on both our parts. We got back together after that but the trust ne...

A.   3 November 2008: well hun, im sorry to say this, but it seems like she is using you as a back up so she wont be single... i would move on and if u were ment to be with her you will meet up later in life... my mom met this guy in 8th grade they dated on and off all ... (read in full...)

Hypothetically speaking: should I have my baby boy circumsized?

Q.   hypathetically speaking, if i were 5 months pregnant, and just found out i was having a boy... Would it be smarter to get him circumsized and why??? if i dont curcumsize him now, can he get it done later in life if he wanted to?...

A.   28 October 2008: thank you guys for answering my ?.... i know he is a boy, and no it wasnt hypathtical it was true, i didnt want people to judge me....... (read in full...)

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