Any way I can have this baby without going to a hospital?
Q. hi everyone, again.... no i dont know how many of you read my questions, but i know mommyofone, responds to every single one.. anyway!!!!! if you guys didnt already know, i am completely FREAKED out of hospitals, the scent makes me want to pass out ...
A. 22 February 2009: hey... yes i have had my baby... thanks for caring....... (read in full...)
Any way I can have this baby without going to a hospital?
Q. hi everyone, again.... no i dont know how many of you read my questions, but i know mommyofone, responds to every single one.. anyway!!!!! if you guys didnt already know, i am completely FREAKED out of hospitals, the scent makes me want to pass out ...
A. 23 January 2009: uggg.... adsjhfasjlf
i dont really want the bby to come out! i just want it out already...i hate my life... (read in full...)
Any way I can have this baby without going to a hospital?
Q. hi everyone, again.... no i dont know how many of you read my questions, but i know mommyofone, responds to every single one.. anyway!!!!! if you guys didnt already know, i am completely FREAKED out of hospitals, the scent makes me want to pass out ...
A. 22 January 2009: no, staying home was worse, they gave me pills to stop the labor, but still.. there was NOTHING FALSE about those damn cramps.... they are like.. mehhhh yea not really funn! and they freaken strapped my legs up on these black things that hold em ... (read in full...)
Any way I can have this baby without going to a hospital?
Q. hi everyone, again.... no i dont know how many of you read my questions, but i know mommyofone, responds to every single one.. anyway!!!!! if you guys didnt already know, i am completely FREAKED out of hospitals, the scent makes me want to pass out ...
A. 21 January 2009: alright, i just got home, ignore my other post false alarm... but i do have to be at a hospital unless i dont tell my mom, and based on what i felt.... it hurtt!!!!!!!! idk if i can do it.... (read in full...)
Any way I can have this baby without going to a hospital?
Q. hi everyone, again.... no i dont know how many of you read my questions, but i know mommyofone, responds to every single one.. anyway!!!!! if you guys didnt already know, i am completely FREAKED out of hospitals, the scent makes me want to pass out ...
A. 21 January 2009: hey, ummm... i am waiting for my mom right now, and just wanted to update you all because i was on here checking the posts before we go, i think its time, ill up date you all later. my mom is making me go to the damn freakin hospital
updat... (read in full...)
Will I know when my water breaks?
Q. how will i know if my water breaks?? i know this is dumb, but how will i know if my water breaks? my mom told me you will just know, but can you feel it? whats it feel like?? how will i know i didnt just have an accident?...
A. 20 January 2009: alright, thanks for all your help guys... i am gunna talk to my mommy.... ... (read in full...)
Will I know when my water breaks?
Q. how will i know if my water breaks?? i know this is dumb, but how will i know if my water breaks? my mom told me you will just know, but can you feel it? whats it feel like?? how will i know i didnt just have an accident?...
A. 16 January 2009: no i mean his gf had a baby.. like he is a dad, but i mean idk.. he was there when her water broke, and was saying she was screaming and it hurt and idk...... (read in full...)
How do women feel about a foot fetish man?
Q. Hi, I'm 32, male and I have a foot / leg fetish. Not every pair of feet, you'll be relieved to hear, but the first thing I notice in a woman is her feet, shoes, whether she's wearing stockings/tights, etc. I know it sounds weird, but I was wonder...
A. 16 January 2009: awww, that is so cute!!!!
yes, for sure what Ask JenniHearts said, but also, i think its nice that a guy notices, girls spend (well i do) a lot of time picking out shoes, that match there outfits... and all sorts of stuff...
i think its cute w... (read in full...)
Wiped myself and saw small bits of blood... have I lost my virginity?
Q. ok, I kinda had sex (well I'm a virgin or at least I think I am), my boyfriend and I tried to have sex. It hurt so bad but he didn't fully go all the way inside me but it did hurt. I went home and peed, afterwards when I wiped myself I saw small ...
A. 16 January 2009: i totally agree with emporessmystique. I am pregnant and i didnt start feeling sick or weird until like i was a month into it. so again, you didnt say how long ago this was, if its to late for the morning after pill, i would say wait till the end ... (read in full...)
Will I know when my water breaks?
Q. how will i know if my water breaks?? i know this is dumb, but how will i know if my water breaks? my mom told me you will just know, but can you feel it? whats it feel like?? how will i know i didnt just have an accident?...
A. 16 January 2009: my brother said it kind of hurts, almost as if someone stabed you with a knife and as soon as its out it stops hurting and idk if he is just scaring me but im freaking out, and i dont wanna talk to anyone about it.... and he would know cuz he has a ... (read in full...)
Will I know when my water breaks?
Q. how will i know if my water breaks?? i know this is dumb, but how will i know if my water breaks? my mom told me you will just know, but can you feel it? whats it feel like?? how will i know i didnt just have an accident?...
A. 15 January 2009: i did not know that... thank you!! i still have a while but im concerned... thank u... (read in full...)
How do I convince her that 5 years is long enough and we should have sex
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 and a half years now. We've had a healthy relationship except for a period of time a couple years ago when things got rough. Here's the problem: Both of us are 22 and we have never had sex. I've spo...
A. 13 January 2009: well i think if you have talked to her before about it, then she knows you want it, but if she has told you she wants to wait for marriage, then you should respect that too.... (read in full...)
The longer I'm in this marriage, the more I want out
Q. look i got married at 17 ive been with my husband for a year married now.. but it seems the longer im with him the more unhappy i get.. its like i dont wana be with hime i want to move on.. what should i do?...
A. 13 January 2009: i think it sounds like you just need a little time away. Go on a vacation with some girlfriends for a weekend. Get away and see how you feel when you get back.... (read in full...)
Not allowed a boyfriend till 16...
Q. I'm 14 And I've liked this guy for ages, he's been my best friend for two years. And recently he asked me out, we've been going out for about 2 weeks now and our relationship is going great, but there is a problem. My mum won't let me date till I'm...
A. 13 January 2009: i think you should tell your mom. Hun my mom was like that too, and she told me it wasnt that she didnt trust me, it was that she didnt trust herself, and how well she raised me, and we talked and i dated this guy for 11 months, and my grades were ... (read in full...)
We're cousins and we're in love and want to tell our families...
Q. Me and my cousin have been together for 4 years now like we're extremely in love with each other. We want to tell our family but we fear they won't understand and will keep as away from one another. What can we do? Another question. What if he's ...
A. 13 January 2009: I am not here to judge you or anything, but being with a cousin or any family member for that matter is wrong. If you were to have kids it would be called inbreeding and you could have serious problems wrong with your kids. and ESPECIALLY since you ... (read in full...)
Names for the baby?? Need help!
Q. alright, i know i ask WAY to many questions, but im like sooo scared right now. i am 7 months pregnant and it is a boy. i was trying to think of names and i can only think of one but its kind of girlie. anyone have any boy names they wanna ...
A. 13 January 2009: "Babes, your the best mummy in the world. Your not dumb for asking questions, you want to do your best, so you go and get information. Don't be scared, don't be worried, your baby will be so proud to know all the things your doing to make him grow ... (read in full...)
Small boobs and flat butt!!! Need help.
Q. I need this help so badly because my wife is so upset about her small boobs and flat butt. Recent few days she feels like so upset with her figure. She also little bulky. So PLEASE NEED ADVICE for this problem. How she can improve her boobs an...
A. 13 January 2009: Just let her know first off, the only way i know of how to get bigger boobs is get preggo, they fill up with milk and get huge! haha, no i am not sure how she can get bigger boobs or a nicer butt because that is not something you can control. what ... (read in full...)
How can me and my partner see eye to eye more?
Q. Hey guys, it's my first time on here and I need some serious advice, I have been with my man and the father of my children for a long time and we have had a lot of problems, mainly with me and doing things that I should not have been doing in life ...
A. 13 January 2009: bradsbabygirl has a great point. My bby daddy and i arent together in a way either. (but thats a diff reason). the way my sister explained it to me is that guys are like puppies. They want love and attention and they want you to show you care, and ... (read in full...)
15 & prego?
Q. i am 15 and i think i might be prego. i can't tell anyone cuz i know they will all dis-own me and thats a fact i honestly don't know know how this happen ... i just need to know because i haven't had my peroid in like a month or 2 im real scared...
A. 12 January 2009: hun, i am 15 and 7 months pregnant. it happens from sex, darlin. and i have thought i was in the past, because i have missed my period 3 months in a row before, but it was due to stress, try calming down... your best bet is going to a planned ... (read in full...)
14 pregnant don't want to tell my mum!
Q. Ok so i'm 14, and i just found out im pregnant. No body knows yet i definatly don't want to get rid of it but i know my mum she will try and make me if i tell her! And i can't tell my boy friend because i don't know how he will react i'm not sayin ...
A. 12 January 2009: hey hun, i am 15 and about 7 months pregnant now. I was thinking just like you, i didnt wanna tell anyone, but i did tell my bf, and we talked and wat not and i ended up telling my mom, and yes she was disappointed in me, but she wasnt as upset as i ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 10 months has left me saying he doesn't love any more...
Q. I need advice, my boyfriend of 10 months has left me saying he doesn't love any more, I'm 4 months pregnant and my daughter calls him daddy. I just found out he had a one night stand 6 months ago when he was drunk and that destroyed me, I forgave ...
A. 12 January 2009: aww, hunn... we all do care! umm, u are anonymous on here, but message me i would like to tell you something, i just dont feel comfortable saying it in here. if u want.
im sorry about your bf. i dont know wat to do about that. really i am sorry.... (read in full...)
Part of me wants to keep the baby, but my partner want to have an abortion.
Q. Hi im 20 and have recently just found out that im 10weeks pregnant.I have also only been with my partner for 4 months who thinks i should have an abortion. I have always said that i wanted to have a husband and proper home before i have a kid, but ...
A. 12 January 2009: hey, well i am pregnant. i went through the same thing, my bf didnt want me to keep it but i wanted it and honestly it is my body, and im the one going through all the pain so i kept it, and around my 5th month, he decided it was to much to handle ... (read in full...)
What was this wet spot on his pants?
Q. While my boyfriend and I were messing around the other night; like heavy petting and stuff; he got wet down there. It was after he'd been rubbing my boobs for a while, he stopped and just grabbed his dick. All our clothes were still on, he had just ...
A. 12 January 2009: ha, yea thats normal sweetheart. GOOD JOB!!!! but you say he was turned on by how he was touching you, not what you were doing. Now i was watchign oprah with my mom, cuz we do that, and they had a sex segment and they were saying that usually wat ... (read in full...)
His mom is sooooo controlling!!!
Q. Me and my boyfriend are 20 years old and we live with our moms! His mom is controlling and it seems like we can't enjoy our own relationship without her telling us what we can and can't do. I feel like we are in middle school or something... she ...
A. 12 January 2009: ummm... i would just tell his mom u guys broke up or sumthing, and sneak around, you would have more freedom to tell his mom he is going on a guys night out with a few guy friends, and renting a hotel room, or just going back to ur house sounds ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my mom I'm dating?
Q. This is really embarrassing and I really don't know who else to ask. I am a 26 year old man, who because I lost my job had to move back in with my mother. The problem is that mom, now wants to know everything I do, who I hang out with, which is ...
A. 12 January 2009: i think you should tell her, what is she going to do. ur 26! she has no control. ur over 21, and if my son got his first girlfriend, i would be soo happy for him, i would buy him a pack of condoms and give him and his gf the house alone, hahah! then ... (read in full...)
Is she over reacting?
Q. I have been very stress out with planning my wedding, my work and my family life. So sex have the last thing on my mind. My fiance and me haven`t had sex in 3 weeks because I haven`t really been up to it lately. One night my fiance and me were going ...
A. 12 January 2009: yes. i think she is totally over reacting!!!!!!!!!! at the same time, i think you should have at least let her know she looked amazing or how ever you felt she looked, but explained to her, im really stressing out about x,y and z and im not really ... (read in full...)
What age were you when you lost YOUR virginity? (I was 23)
Q. This is kind of an idle question I suppose. I've noticed and been kind of alarmed by a large number of sex questions being asked by kids in the 13-15 year old age range. (It seems awfully young to me.) I'd like to have kids of my own some day ...
A. 12 January 2009: i was raped at age 8, so i guess 8, but the first time i did it after that i was 15. referring to satindesire, there is not any right way to educate people, there are more effective ways, but i dont think my mom taught me a bad way. she said, hey ... (read in full...)
I'm 5 months pregnant and want to know if it is still safe to have sex?
Q. I'm 5 months pregnant and want to know if it is still safe to have sex? ...
A. 12 January 2009: well i am 7 months pregnant, and my doctor told me i was fine to have sex until about 8 months, then i have to be careful because he doesnt want me to induce labour do to my young age or w.e bull crap he says, but at 5 months you should be fine! and ... (read in full...)
She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant... could it be possible she is?
Q. Ok so my gf and I are really scared. A few days ago I rubbed my penis against her vagina. I am 99% sure there wasn't any pre cum on my penis because there has never been before. She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant like feeling sick ...
A. 12 January 2009: of what you described, she could be starting her period, or she could just be how my sister was, and so stressed out that its all in her head. her peeing more often could be her drinking a lot more, or it could be her nervous, when im nervious i ... (read in full...)
Pregnant during period?
Q. im not on my period, but i bled on my bf today during sex(alot to), im pretty sure he had a lil pre cum get on the outter lip of my vagina, but im not bleeding now, but if i am suppose to be on my period and im not bleeding can i still get pregnant?...
A. 12 January 2009: i am not sure if this info is correct, but my older brother was telling me so idk if its true, but he said that if you have sex while on your period, you acctually have a higher chance of pregnancy then if not on your period. to me it doesnt make ... (read in full...)
Baby & Marriage..not sure if I can handle it all
Q. alright, so. i know i posted a question before about the baby daddy and my boyfriend issues, but incase you didnt read that one here is my position: i had a boyfriend (cris) -- not real name i got pregnant (now 7 months) when my bf found ou...
A. 12 January 2009: hey, thanks.. umm chase is 17 (bby daddy) and dennis is 16. ummm here the law is i think, if both of you are at least 16 and pregnant you can get married without parent consent, otherwise you both have to ber 15 with parent consent, so either one ... (read in full...)
Choked during sex...was it wrong of him??
Q. I've been with my overly passionate, subtle and lovely boyfriend for some time now. He's not very spontanous, everything seems like a walk in the park... and almost routine. Last night we had sex. And he started choking me towards the end out of the ...
A. 11 January 2009: ha, hun its ok. Maybe he just wanted some change. A lot of guys get really turned on by choking and biting, and breaking the skin. Maybe before he was holding back, and since you have been together a while maybe he wanted to stop holding back, i ... (read in full...)
What is this white stuff between my legs????
Q. I'm not sure what is wrong with me. Every time I look at my "down below bits" they look fine, but when I rub my finger between my two labia's there is some white stuff that comes off... I'm not sure what it is... I'm thinking it might be dried ...
A. 11 January 2009: Well, if it looks like cottage cheese, in a way... it could just be a yeast infection, and if you go to the doctor they can get you medicine that clears it up, or it could be dead tissues and maybe your just washing down there enough. My first ... (read in full...)
Do you find this anappropriate?
Q. ok, so my boyfriend's sister keeps texting him things like "I wanna be your official girl" and stuff like that, and I told him I thought it was inappropriate, and that I'd appreciate her not texting those things to him. He doesn't agree with me ...
A. 11 January 2009: I think if it's his sister, then they are just being sibilings, I know whenever I have a boyfriend, my brother will text me stuff like that because he thinks it's funny when whoever my bf is with will look through my fone, (well used to) if they are ... (read in full...)
Why can't I sleep?
Q. hey everyone, again.. i know i post these like everynight, but WHY CANT I EVER SLEEP!!!!!!!!! hopefully you have read my other questions and such, but if you haven't. i am 15. i am pregnant. i am having a boy. i am engaged (but nothing more, no ...
A. 11 January 2009: Hey, thanks guys... I do yoga classes as part of my P.E. in school? If that counts, but I usually zone out and dont really follow it cuz my belly gets in the way. I don't really wanna go talk to my doctor, I don't really like asking him questions, ... (read in full...)
Should I restart this relationship up again?
Q. Starting when I was 11 years old and my 2nd cousin was 10 years old, we were a romantically involved with each other. This lasted until I was 16 years old and she was 15 years old. When we I was 11 years old and she was 10 years old, it was just...
A. 11 January 2009: ummm, well i am really happy for you that you are that close with family, but i think its a REALLY bad idea to get sexual with your 2nd cousin... if it was someone not realated to you, i would say go for it, but i do not think you should be gettting ... (read in full...)
1st time sex no blood--he doesn't really believe I was a virgin
Q. When I had sex for the first time I never bled? I don't understand why. I masturbated a few times but like I just used to like rub my clit and stuff. I never put my hands inside my vagina. Before sex, my fiance used to finger me sometimes but I ...
A. 11 January 2009: hey, you know im not really sure what to do about that, the first time i did it, it hurt sooo bad!!!!!!!!!!!!! but i didnt bleed either. so im not sure, sorry hun. maybe not everyone bleeds!... (read in full...)
Afraid to tell my mom I want birth control
Q. hi, so i have a boyfriend. we lost our virginity to each other a while ago. i know we're young and it's illegal blah blah but we were ready.. we're in love and we have sex quite a lot.. well every time we spend the night with each other at least. ...
A. 11 January 2009: hey, well i am 15 and pregnant, and let me tell you, its not something you want! i wasnt on the pill and my mom thought i was a virgin and look wat happend, i know sex without a condom is AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!! ha, but hey if your mom already knows u ... (read in full...)
What to do for easier labor
Q. hey everyone, again... im just chilling out in my room and i cant sleep! everytime i get settled down the bby kickes, or moves or idk, i just cant seem to fall asleep. and it really got me thinking about birth and labor. i know its going to hurt, ...
A. 10 January 2009: well like, another reason i dont want an epidural is cuz i dont do needles very well at all, and the scent of a hospital makes me really feel like im about to pass out, and i think if i have to be in there, and i am going to have to have iv's and ... (read in full...)
Baby & Marriage..not sure if I can handle it all
Q. alright, so. i know i posted a question before about the baby daddy and my boyfriend issues, but incase you didnt read that one here is my position: i had a boyfriend (cris) -- not real name i got pregnant (now 7 months) when my bf found ou...
A. 10 January 2009: thank you country women, umm as far as rhythmandblues2: no my mom isnt going to financailly help me, while i am in school she will watch him, but as soon as im out he is mine, so like my extra activites like guitar and karatee that i do i have to ... (read in full...)
14, possibly pregnant b/f wants me to move..should I?
Q. okay so i am 14 and i might be pregnant!! i told my mom my boyfriend and his parents!!! but know he is movin to phoenix and he wants me to go with him my mom says i am going to ruin my life if i go but for me to do whatever the hell i want and i wa...
A. 10 January 2009: umm, well i am pregant and i wish the daddy was still with me, but that option wasnt open to me. the first thing you need to do is find out 100% if you are pregnant. If you are, you are going to want to keep your options open for as long as you ... (read in full...)
We messed around and did everything but. Now I'm scared!
Q. hi! im 17 and still a virgin but new years morning i was at my boyfriends house and we started messing around we did everything but _____ . after taking both our clothes off i asked him to put a _____ on and he did then began rubbing ...
A. 10 January 2009: i totally agree with both those answers, but also i am pregant and my first 3 tests i took were negative, so your best bet if you are truely scared is see a doctor, i ended up taking aobut 24 tests and 9 of them were negative, so it could be the ... (read in full...)
I don't know what size condoms to buy
Q. How do I know what size condoms to buy? Since the ones we have been using for over a year are too tight for him, Im not sure what size to get.. i didnt even know they sold different sizes! Thanks!...
A. 10 January 2009: ummm, well i would think the BOY would supply them, and he should know his own size, if the ones u use are too tight, buy the next size up, its not for the size length wise, its the thickness.... (read in full...)
Rough crazy sex!! Now I'm torn & in pain
Q. My boyfriend and I had crazy/rough sex and I ripped really bad two days ago. The worst thing is that where I ripped is directly under the urine flow. It hurts so bad and it is ripped in about three spots. I have delivered two girls vaginally and one ...
A. 10 January 2009: hun, i am sorry... that really sucks!!!!!!!! the only thing i would say is go ask a doc?... (read in full...)
Names for the baby?? Need help!
Q. alright, i know i ask WAY to many questions, but im like sooo scared right now. i am 7 months pregnant and it is a boy. i was trying to think of names and i can only think of one but its kind of girlie. anyone have any boy names they wanna ...
A. 9 January 2009: awww!!!! well considering, im 15, im sure ill have more ?'s ill be back after he is born, i MIGHT post his pic idk... i dont want it all over the internet.. but yea, sorry everyone for being so stupid!... (read in full...)
Names for the baby?? Need help!
Q. alright, i know i ask WAY to many questions, but im like sooo scared right now. i am 7 months pregnant and it is a boy. i was trying to think of names and i can only think of one but its kind of girlie. anyone have any boy names they wanna ...
A. 8 January 2009: well, thanks for all your help you guys.... idk, i kinda guess i just have to see what he looks like. thanks guys
sorry i have such dumb questions..... (read in full...)
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