I faint sometimes when having sex
Q. i some times faint when having sex, due to my penis. it doesnt happen too often. some women don't know wot to do. i heav tried all sorts of creams and listen to many ideas. i do yoga and lots of sportss, and it never happens then. does it hurt ...
A. 29 August 2015: If your penis is really large, you may not have enough blood for it and your brain when erect!
Also, check your blood pressure......... (read in full...)
We are having problems having sex and not sure why
Q. My boyfriend and I have just started having sex and experiencing difficulties. We have both had partners in the past so were not new to this. We have been seeing each other for just over a month and have had sex four times now. First time we had sex ...
A. 29 August 2015: Is he a latent diabetic? That condition can affect a man's ability either to achieve or maintain an erection. His GP can check quickly and easily with a urine sample.
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What are some good revision strategies?
Q. I really want to take my education seriously now. I want to revise a lot more maths but I always find myself getting distracted or bored and I end up just sitting there staring at the book or something! I NEED to stop doing that! Does anyone know ...
A. 25 August 2015: It's called "displacement activity", what you are doing - look it up!
You aren't buckling down to revising/practising maths because you find it boring and it's a solitary activity. Can you not find a like-minded friend to work with you - and I mean... (read in full...)
Should I give away my virginity to an online stranger?
Q. I have been holding out long enough. I am tired of dating guys that as of lately has led to nowhere (trust, I know when to exit the relationship-if you called that). I'm managing to stay focused on my career. Just received a promotion last week. Not ...
A. 24 August 2015: You would be hard pressed to find ANYONE genuine on Craig's List! Most are scammers; those that aren't, are players.
You are in no way old to retain your virginity - my personal experience includes a 42-year-old.
I suggest that you ease your fru... (read in full...)
My manager's crush makes him act inappropriately. Should I film him and send it to his supervisor and wife?
Q. Has anyone ever cringed at their Manager, I work in retail and My Married should I add Store Manager has such an obvious crush on a customer. A young women around late 20s comes in every other day and my Manager, makes no secret he is checking her ...
A. 24 August 2015: MYOFB!!
If anybody had the right to complain it is the customer and as you say she shops there frequently it seems she likes the attention - her blushing also gives you a clue.....
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I feel guilty after masturbating and having an orgasm is this normal?
Q. I'm a virgin, I've been masturbating for years, but I just recently had my first orgasm. I was happy and giddy and everything they say you SHOULD feel just after an orgasm, but hours later, I became very guilty, scared, and sad, and I still am (the ...
A. 22 August 2015: Are you kidding? You are to be congratulated for hitting gold after all that time trying!
It's perfectly normal and totally what our bodies are designed for. You should be aware that the clitoris has only one fuction - to give pleasure; it has no o... (read in full...)
Should I get breast implants because my boyfriend wants me to?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to get breast implants, and I don't know how I feel about it. I am naturally very flat chested, an A cup. I've never really liked having small breasts but as I've gotten older I've learned to accept it. My boyfriend wa...
A. 20 August 2015: IF you decide on breast augmentation, do it for YOU and nobody else - it's your body. Please remember that all operations carry risk.
Personally, I like ALL breasts and the only thing that matters to me is that my partner gets pleasure from what... (read in full...)
Should I go ahead or should I remain a virgin?
Q. Hello agony aunts. I just came out of a 1 year relationship and honestly isn't looking for a rebound. I met an attractive and likeable guy after. I like him, he claims to like me, I don't care. The thing is I am a virgin and never had sex with my ex ...
A. 17 August 2015: I have personal experience of a 42-year-old virgin. It did not inhibit her in any way and achieved full satifaction, so YOU are deffo within your "use-by" date!
For goodness sake take note of the great advice given on here and wait until you find... (read in full...)
I want to tell my cousin I am in love with her. But what should I do?
Q. I am in love with my cousin , she is my mother sister daughter. I afraid to tell her I am not sure she love me. i'm afraid to tell her because we're so close to each other and i don't want to ruin this if she told she doesn't love me back . I a...
A. 15 August 2015: In the UK your relationship is perfectly legal; I imagine it would also be fair dinkum in Oz?
Why? Well, the key point here is that recent research (actually, now quite well established rather than new) has shown that there is no greater like... (read in full...)
Our drunken fumbles don't mean as much to me as our friendship! I need to tell her
Q. My best friend and I are both bi. Me perhaps more so although I was much later coming out. The night I told her, she jumped me and we kissed for a long time but never spoke of it again. In the past 3 years this has continued to happen every few ...
A. 13 August 2015: Could you get her to join DC and let her see this?... (read in full...)
Why do most guys like big boobs so much?
Q. Why do most men (especially guys my age...) like big boobs so much? As I see it, it's just extra fat! And last time I checked, for men, too much fat is bad. I have small breasts and feel so inadequate. Breasts are so "out there" (unlike a penis - ...
A. 12 August 2015: I'm not a teenager any more (sad face!), so maybe that is one reason why I am not size-obsessed like younger men - after all, I would hate to be judged on the size of my penis.
I like ALL boobs, regardless of size; all that matters to me is that... (read in full...)
I have a LDR boyfriend. So why am I thinking of this new co-worker who is a player, with an aura of reckless confidence and crude?
Q. I'm with my boyfriend for a year and love him very much. I would never do anything to hurt him. And I always say "don't do things you're not prepared to be honest about". The base of our relationship is trust, deep emotional intimacy, mental compa...
A. 12 August 2015: You see him as a challenge - I bet you are competitive?... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to be concerned or feel hurt? Photos of a women are still on his phone
Q. So recently I saw several pictures of a girl (most likely an ex girlfriend) in my boyfriends phone by accident while I was bored and browsed through the photos we took together. He was asleep next to me when this happened. One picture seems to...
A. 11 August 2015: Any man should know that ANY woman will look!
So, if he wanted to keep those pictures and keep them secret/private, he should have downloaded them to a password-protected folder on his computer!
OP, don't have any more "accidents"......
Richard... (read in full...)
I think I'm on the untrustworthy woman from college's target list to be friends and don't want to be, so what can I do?
Q. There is a woman who lives very near to where I do and goes to the same college as me who I do not trust and don't want to be friends with but she has what I think is a 'strategy' of being absolutely charming to everyone, usually with her own goals ...
A. 10 August 2015: Is she stealing your work; i.e. plagiarising?
There are ways of dealing with this and most college professors now have software programmes to detect it, so it may be worth speaking to them.
If not as blatant as that, can you not include a delibera... (read in full...)
I accidentally walked in on my elderly mother masturbating and don't know how to feel about this
Q. Hi - this is going to be a strange topic - but I am in my 40s and have just walked in on my mum (who is in her late 70s) masterbating at her house in the middle of the day. We were all sat in the garden when I looked up and saw my mum had gone ind...
A. 9 August 2015: There is NO problem here - a wank a day keeps stress at bay!... (read in full...)
Falling in love with a girl at work, she texts that she loves me but then says she doesn't mean anything by it??
Q. I am a female an I am falling so in love with this girl I work with! Lately we have started texting an she will always say I love you an An send emojis with hearts when she hugs me I feel like I just melt I feel like it's pretty clear she feels the ...
A. 6 August 2015: Good advice to tread carefully from the others on here. All I would add is that you might try leaving some lesbian literature - not necessarily porn - open on your desk "by accident" when she comes to see you.
If she is straight, she may well make... (read in full...)
How can I convince my girlfriend that my sexual needs do matter?
Q. In college I had a friend named "Jon." He was a stage actor and while he was not conventionally handsome he was a leading man in the style of Gérard Depardieu. He was a decent guy and he had a lot a women interested in him at various points. ...
A. 5 August 2015: Do you think she will suddenly be more amenable to your needs once you are married?
I will get flamed for this, but let me quote the old joke....
Q) What is the finest known killer of a woman's sexual desires?
A) Wedding cake!
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One drunken kiss--do I tell my fiance?
Q. Hi everyone. Please give me some advice guys on this dilemma I face, I cant talk to anyone in real life about this, so you guys are my only hope. So my fiance and I are together six years, engaged four. We got engaged very young, and we were dealing ...
A. 1 August 2015: As everyone else has said, this is a non-issue. A YEAR ago, for heaven's sake! How many people do you know who act perfectly reasonably, responsibly and in character when Brahms and Liszt? You were inebriated, feeling rather rejected and unloved ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend claims he is still on a dating app just to make friends?
Q. So I've been seeing this guy and we have met loads of times, been on plenty of dates, ive met his family and stayed at his and are now dating for about two months and ive noticed hes still on the dating app... which i find insulting.. but he says ...
A. 23 July 2015: I believe in Father Christmas, the Tooth Fairy and every word that politicians say........ (read in full...)
My partner won't cum
Q. Me and my partner are 43. he has problems with cumming. I have never been able to get him off with oral, hand jobs have made him cum occasionally, he will never cum with me on top during intercourse. more recently he can only cum when we have sex ...
A. 22 July 2015: Thank you, OP, for confirming that I was NOT being insensitive or trying to persuade you to engage in sexual activities that were anathema to you, as the anonymous respondent on here said.
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My partner won't cum
Q. Me and my partner are 43. he has problems with cumming. I have never been able to get him off with oral, hand jobs have made him cum occasionally, he will never cum with me on top during intercourse. more recently he can only cum when we have sex ...
A. 21 July 2015: You may not like this suggestion, but have you tried anal? It may be that the tighter hole will give him the "feeling" that he needs - but for hygiene reasons, always use a condom if you do decide to try it.
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My boyfriend is constantly talking about how gorgeous other women are and I find it very hurtful
Q. Hi, Just wanted to see what other people say about this: I seem to meet guys, two now that I'd really fallen for, one I dated for a few months last year but had to leave the relationship for various reasons, but the one of the biggest reasons ...
A. 19 July 2015: Ugh! Have these men no sense of how to behave towards women? I would have expected that along with age came wisdom, but clearly not. Men are visual creatures, yes - nature designed us that way and ladies do exploit that fact - but it behoves ... (read in full...)
I don't want to cheat on my husband but don't know how long I can go being unsatisfied
Q. So basically for the past 2 weeks or so I've been extremely horny. Like to the point that I think I might cheat on my husband if given the opportunity. I also gave myself my first orgasm ever last night. I am not being satisfied by my husband at the ...
A. 19 July 2015: I am a new "Uncle" on here, so I'm not sure exactly what is allowed in terms of a response, but I recommend a quick fix in the way of a masturbatury exercise. Other than that, long-term, I agree with the other aunties that you need to have a prop... (read in full...)
He lied to me. I am so angry with him, yet can you love and hate someone at the same time?
Q. Six months ago, I was going out with a guy. We were both sixteen. His ex also made me feel very uncomfortable as she still liked him and kept making jibes over us. This guy has had a string of girlfriends but he was my first boyfriend. I tho...
A. 19 July 2015: Men lie until they grow up - and sometimes even after they do! You have had early experience of this fact, unfortunately, but as WiseOwl says, you will recover from it. As a Course Director in charge of the pastoral care of mainly teenaged boys,... (read in full...)
How can I modify girl on top position to make it more comfortable for me?
Q. Hi guys. I've been in a relationship with this guy for about six months and we have been having sex regularly for the last few months. And yes it is amazing. My only issue is that when I'm on top I can't seem to hold him in and my legs cramp ea...
A. 17 July 2015: Lurking in the deeper, darker recesses of my memory I am sure that Cosmo did a guide to more positions and techniques than the Kama Sutra! The problem is finding it; maybe Google will help?
Ok, I looked for you - take your pick from these entr... (read in full...)
Due to have sex tomorrow, should I just accept that he likes me?
Q. Okay. I'll try and keep this short and sweet. I'm 18 years old and I am a size 14 in the UK, however in some shops I am a size 12. Size 14 in the UK is now considered as plus size (even though I have no idea why) so technically I am classed as a ...
A. 17 July 2015: Ok, men generally don't understand dress sizes, but I have been privileged enough to have slept with women of all sizes and each and every one was a delight. I never judged, I simply appreciated.
In other words, as long as the connection is ther... (read in full...)
If a husband finds out his wife lied about multiple sexual partners, how should he deal with it?
Q. If a husband who was virgin before marriage finds out his wife had multiple sexual partners and hook ups before marriage and lied about it, then how should the husband deal with it?...
A. 17 July 2015: Indian culture is, I suspect, a little different from ours in the UK, but do you feel cheated? Presumably she is faithful to you now? WE would accept that what went before is irrelevant to our current relationships and not look back into the past.
W... (read in full...)
How can I possibly start fun and interesting conversations with my boyfriend?
Q. Hi, So I'm in a relationship and we both seem to be in it for the long term. We used to be super awkward around each other and didn't know what to say. We've gotten a lot better at talking and coming up with conversation but right now we are...
A. 17 July 2015: I teach photography, so obviously I am biased, but why don't you photograph each other? No need for naughty pictures (unless you both want to), and the camera in your phone will do to syart with if you don't have anything better.
Go online to the ... (read in full...)
Is something wrong with me? I don't seem able to have an orgasm
Q. Dear Cupid, I think there is something wrong with me. I am a girl, 17 years old. I do not orgasm. EVER. I had a boyfriend who touched me and I touch myself too. But I never seem to orgasm. I used to watch porn. The porn watching started when I was ...
A. 17 July 2015: Visit Clitical.com, it's a website run by women, for women and deals with all sorts of sexual issues, including masturbation techniques.... (read in full...)
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