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Can anybody help with baby names??

Q.   I need some suggestions on baby names. I`m due at the end of the month and its a boy! I want something different but not CRAZY different! HELP!...

A.   6 March 2007: ~Aidan (irish) small fiery one ~Quinlan (irish) strong ~Xavier (arabic) Bright ~Zachariah (jewish) jehovah's remembrance ~Vaughn (old welsh) small one ~Isaiah (hebrew) The lord is my saviour ~mateo (spanish) matthew ~Mereki (Australian ... (read in full...)

Still a virgin at 18 and I'm masturbating to porn sites! I need sex! What can I do?

Q.   I am a virgin at 18 and i am having strong sexual urges. my boyfriend is in another country and i see him next year. I am now into ponographic sites and masturbating. I need sex. what to do?...

A.   2 October 2006: How long have you been with your boyfriend? How serious is it? Maybe you could consider organising a romantic holiday and going to see him? Or maybe he could come back and see you for a weekend? I guess it depends on how far away you are from each ... (read in full...)

My GF broke up with me today and I just can't get her out of my head...

Q.   My gf broke up with me today, at first i went all hyper and in an almost sarcastic mood, but now ive been drinking lots of gin, and taken about 8 paracetamol, and ive also been crying loads, and everything i look at reminds me of her. I cant even ...

A.   12 September 2006: For one you need to stop taking the paracetamol unless you want to find yourself in hospital with liver failer. Paracetamol is a very dangerous drug when taken incorrectly as it won't kill you today it will kill you in a week when your liver fails, ... (read in full...)

How can I keep Thrush at bay!!?

Q.   Hi, This is a bit of an embarrasing problem, but I need help on how to get Thrush banished from my life! I get frequent bouts of it... My sexual health is okay ive been checked out.. I just seem to get rid of thrush and then a week later get...

A.   18 August 2006: Hi i don't know if you have tried this before. But it is certainly worth giving it a go. Go to your local health shop or chemist and get some accidophilus, this helps restore the natural flora in your digestive tract and vagina, take this ... (read in full...)

Men have Viagra..anything out there for women?

Q.   Dear cupid What is on the market to enhance a womens sex drive? Men have viagra.What about women?Is it hormone shots.I have herd of some creams.There has to be something out there.Men have a high level of testosterone can women take it to?I simply ...

A.   10 August 2006: Not knowing what your ages are this is only a guess. Is it possible that your wife is going through menopause? Has she always been not interested or is it only recently? If it is menopause that can reduce a womens sex drive and sometimes cause the ... (read in full...)

I'm having periods but I'm worried that I'm pregnant

Q.   iv just turned 14 but wen i was 13 i went out with this boy and i had unprotected sex with him at least 4 times and he came inside me cos he assumed i was on the pill but i wasnt i cant remember this was about 3/4 months ago i am getting periods ...

A.   28 July 2006: sorry to disappoint maxsteel86 but you have no idea what your talking about. I don't think a man should go around giving advice about periods when you have never even experienced one. When you are pregnant it is possible to still have your period, ... (read in full...)

I'm having periods but I'm worried that I'm pregnant

Q.   iv just turned 14 but wen i was 13 i went out with this boy and i had unprotected sex with him at least 4 times and he came inside me cos he assumed i was on the pill but i wasnt i cant remember this was about 3/4 months ago i am getting periods ...

A.   26 July 2006: I'm sorry but what tacobell5 has said is incorrect it is possible to be pregnant and still have your period. Some women continue to have there period the whole way through there pregnancy. I was one of them. Please go to a chemist and get a ... (read in full...)

Could unprotected sex make my GF's urine smell?

Q.   My girlfriend told me that her urine smells bad up to 4 days after we have unprotected sex. She told me that there is something wrong with me, but I am in great health. What should I do?...

A.   19 July 2006: 1 would say at a guess that your girlfriend has a urinary tract infection (UTI) this has nothing to do with you giving her anything. they are fairly common in women especially after sex. she may have other symptoms such as burning when she urinates ... (read in full...)

Advice from those people having affairs please.

Q.   hello..a question to those of you having affairs(come on you know you're out there)i have begun an affair but have no intention of leaving my husband for my lover and neither does my lover want or expect me to. we are both happy about this decision ...

A.   19 July 2006: Coming from the other side where my partner had an affair behind my back, i personally think you need to grow up and sort yourself out. The only person your thinking about is yourself. Your happy! every thought about how your poor husband would feel ... (read in full...)

Love bites! Are they dirty?

Q.   Are love bites dirty and just for tarts? ...

A.   15 July 2006: I don't think they are at all dirty. Go for it if you want to give or recieve love bites that's your choice. They only thing that i would say is do them on parts of the body that aren't in full view of everyone else. Let them be a special private ... (read in full...)

Kissed someone else and felt terrible, so why do I keep giggling when we talk it about it?

Q.   I cheated on my long term bf last Sat and just didn't realise I was kissing another bloke cuz I was really drunk. But as soon as I realised, I pushed the bloke away and ran off crying cuz I couldn't believe I had done it. I told my bf the next...

A.   12 July 2006: I'm the same, it's something that is very hard to control. I have a really bad habit that i smile at people when the tell me bad news. Even when i'm really upset or feel sorry for that person. i can't seem to help it, no matter how hard i try. it ... (read in full...)

Parenting advice needed!

Q.   Hi, I've had a prior questions about my bf working too much and breaking promises. Well, now I need some parenting advice. I have a 2 month old daughter who was a preemie and she gets a lot of colic. Can someone please tell me what I can use other ...

A.   4 July 2006: Hi, i've been there. if i was you i'd go and visit your doctor or GP. my daughter had really bad colic and used to cry for hours, after a bit of investigation we discovered that she actually had reflux, and was continuasly bringing up her milk. With ... (read in full...)

We want to be together forever! Will it happen?

Q.   Okay, I'm 14 and I've been dating this guy for only 2 months and I lost my virginity to him. I want to be with him for the rest of my life and he wants the same but considering im only 14 do you think this will happen? I love him so much and I wa...

A.   26 June 2006: Hey i no it feels like he is the love of your life but your still really young and you will change alot as you grow up. i remember my boyfriend and i at 14 telling each other that we would be together forever and nothing would break us up. as you ... (read in full...)

I am happily married but I have feelings for someone else!

Q.   hi my name is ben and my question is I have been very happily married for 6 years and have known my wife for 8 years and we have a son together, but in the past month I have noticed that I have developed feelings for another women, she is madly in ...

A.   11 June 2006: I can tell you know that the only reason you feel this way is because its new. Remember how you felt about your wife when you first got together. Theres always passion at the beginning of a relationship, and over time that passion fades. You can't ... (read in full...)

He's too weak to leave his ex, but he wants me too!

Q.   I am seeing a man who still lives with his ex partner. He says he loves me and wants to be with me but says is too weak to tell his ex partner and could we still see each other. I am not sure whether I can handle this all the time and get frustrat...

A.   11 June 2006: do you honestly believe that he is living with his 'ex'? He's probably still with her and hes seeing you on the side. I bet she doesn't even know you exist. He probably tells her regularly that she's the only one and that he loves her. Get out of ... (read in full...)

Worried that I got her pregnant last night

Q.   Last night I had sex with a lady who I've known for a while, She's on the pill, I also withdrew, I am now so worried I got her pregnant, Am I just being overtly paranoid? I'm worried sick!...

A.   15 May 2006: I seriously doubt that she would be pregnant unless she has been taking the pill incorrectly. maybe next time you should think about using extra protection. If anything you should be worried about STD's, you should think about getting tested, and ... (read in full...)

The sex life has dried up..do I leave or just have an affair on her?

Q.   help me i am married. have been for ten years have two children 2 and 5 we have a ok marriage the normal ups and downs but the sex life has dried up so help what can i do. i feel like leaving her or having an affair...

A.   30 April 2006: Its scum like you that make me lose all faith in men. The second your sex life slows down all you think about is going and finding someone else. Shame on you. If you honestly loved your wife it wouldn't matter what your sex life was like. Has it ... (read in full...)

Am I missing out by not having an orgasm every time I have sex?

Q.   Hey, this sounds stupid but I want to know whether every girl gets orgasms when having sex, because I think I'm missing out! And I'm worried it's not normal... Please write back asap!x...

A.   17 April 2006: Hey don't worry you are normal. Not many women are lucky enough to orgasim during sex. A lot of women go through life without ever having an orgasm. Some women find the only way the achieve orgasim is through mastrubation or through direct ... (read in full...)

My wife has left me, saying I scare the kids when I'm drunk! I want her to know I won't do it again...

Q.   My wife is talking about leaving me. It has happened a few times lately and last Friday was the final straw. She says that when I've had too much to drink (which I don't realise) I'm turning very nasty and scaring the kids. Please help me to ...

A.   17 April 2006: You need to prove to her that you can be trusted again. Maybe try getting some counselling or join an AA group. Even though you don't drink often when you do you are obviously an angry agressive drunk. That needs to stop, and that means you need to ... (read in full...)

What can I do about a... smell?

Q.   My vagina always smells fishy. What can I do to stop the smell? I'm too embarrassed to do stuff with boys because of this! Help!...

A.   17 April 2006: It sounds to me like you have a candida (or thrush) infection. go and visit you local pharmacist, you can either get a cream of pessary which you use internally or there is now a one off oral thrush capsule that you take and should start to clear it ... (read in full...)

What's the best time of day to take my birth control pill?

Q.   Hi, I just began taking birth control and I began taking it at eleven in the morning because that's when I have a break in my classes, so I've done that for one week consistently, but now I was thinking maybe it would be best to take it right before ...

A.   12 March 2006: HI it does not matter what time you take your pill as long as you take it at the same time everyday. it will only not work if you miss a day. if you are on the combined pill then it will be fine to swap from taking it at 11 am to 10pm as this pill ... (read in full...)

Married, but seperated, now in love with a married man!

Q.   I am a married woman, but separated from my husband. I have stupidly fallen deeply in love with a married man. We spend as much time together as possible, not sexually we just love being together. He says that he loves me and I have replied those ...

A.   4 March 2006: you sure your not the girl that MY husband is having the affair with. cause this sounds like the story ive heard. if you are believe me he doesn't love you.... (read in full...)

We took time out last year, now a text message I snooped at on his phone makes me doubt him!

Q.   i don't know what to think or do?!? my boyfriend and i have just celebrated our 6th yearly aniversay and i know he loves me very much. we run two businesses together and are renovating a flat together. we had some problems last year and he took ...

A.   3 March 2006: Get out now. believe me i had my boyfriend of 5 years and the father of my daughter do the same thing. Hiding his phone, sneaky msgs, disappering for hours. in the end he was cheating on me. had been for 6 months. all along he swore that he loved me ... (read in full...)

Is this post-natal depression, or something else?

Q.   This isn't really about relationships as such. I think I may be suffering from post natal depression. Are there any signs I should be looking out for? I got really bad baby blues when my baby was 4 days old. I wanted my partner with me but he was ...

A.   11 February 2006: hi i think that you should go and talk to your community health nurse or your doctor. Don't be embarressed and think your a bad mother its perfectly normal. I had post natal depression but was to scared to admit it. I put off telling anyone until my ... (read in full...)

My home pregnancy tests come back negative, but I have all these symptoms...

Q.   Hiya, I really need some help. Lately my stomach has gotten bigger and bigger. I kept getting headaches of an evening and constant backache (I have never had either of these before). I need to go to the bathroom like all the time, I feel nauseous ...

A.   11 February 2006: HI having been pregnant before i really don't think that you are pregnant. If this is your first child then you would probably not start showing until about 4 months also back pain usually occurs later on in the pregnancy. If you were far enough ... (read in full...)

I'm young, studying law and have my whole life ahead of me. But all I want is a baby!

Q.   I need some advice - I'm going mad! I'm 18 years old and I am at university studying law. I have a great family, loads of friends and a great boyfriend. But I really want a baby!! I've wanted one on and off since I was 13 and now I really want to...

A.   22 December 2005: i no how you feel. I was 19 when i feel pregnant with my now 20 month old daughter. My partner of 5 years and i made the decision that we where ready and stable enough. As much as i love my daughter and wouldnt give up for anything i sometimes wish ... (read in full...)

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