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The tale of two sisters

Q.   The tale of two sisters; 1st issue Sister T and Sister J live 50 miles apart. Their father sadly passes away. Some months later Sister J phones Sister T and asks what they should do with Dad’s clothes. They agree that they should be cleared a...

A.   10 September 2017: Family dynamics work in strange ways so I don't think Sister B should think of things in right or wrong (also the story is obviously coming from Sister B's viewpoint so maybe a bit slanted) What I would say is that Sister B is obviously tired of ... (read in full...)

I'm having trouble putting an affair partner behind me

Q.   Hello everyone reading. About nine months ago me and a married man whom I had a two year emotional affair with ended completely with a mutual understanding that we could never have a relationship due to the mess we created in his life. When it ...

A.   10 September 2017: The first person who needs your forgiveness is yourself. Things obviously got out of hand but you were the prime mover in them resolving themselves. you have acted admirable in my eyes and you seem to blame no one else but yourself. There is no time ... (read in full...)

She says she will leave him for me, but wont say when!

Q.   I need some advice. I know that what I am about to say isn’t the best situation or the moral thing to get involved in, but it just happens. Now i fell in love and I don’t know what to do. There are so many parts to this story and I will try to keep ...

A.   10 September 2017: Her poor Husband. He obviously loves this harlot of a woman and is doing his best to make her happy. The funny thing is if they did split up and you both got together you would soon be in the role of her now ex. Totally suspicious of her behavior ... (read in full...)

Heartbroken even though I dumped him and now I want him to chase me and get me back

Q.   I need your help folks. I was seeing a guy who was coming out of a marriage. He was single for about 8 months and we started seeing each other. Both of us knew each other locally and we were both surprised when we got to know each other and ...

A.   10 September 2017: I think this all depends on how you broke up with him. He was open with you and I hope you were the same- saying that although you thought alot of him, you felt it wasnt the right time for you both to continue the relationship and that once he was ... (read in full...)

He's the perfect boyfriend .... when his mate isn't around1

Q.   Ive met this guy. he is amazing and sweet and just perfect in every way. HOWEVER.. he has this best friend who has very loose morals. when they are together they drink far too much and take drugs. when my boyfriend is not with him he never does dr...

A.   9 September 2017: I have plenty of friends , some take drugs , some don't, some drink others don't, some are single and others are not- Judging your partner by this one friends actions is a ridiculous comment as I am sure he has a wide variety of people (including ... (read in full...)

My very best friend is cheating on her partner! Do I tell him?

Q.   Please help. She is my very bestfriend for 17 Years. WE See really good with each other. I care for her. I know her very much and everything what she do is open to me. Thats how she trust me. My Problem is, i visited Her 2 months ago. Thats ...

A.   9 September 2017: You say she is your friend but her behaviour obviously appalls you. You have seen the hurt she has caused in her previously relationship and this time it is worse as not only will her soon be husband sufferd but also her son. Not only is cheating ... (read in full...)

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