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| | *opeful Romantic's profile:I am in a great relationship with a guy who is good to me, successful, positive, supportive, and simply fun to be around. I try to make him happy and feel special in return.
Communication is the key to every relationship as everyone surely knows and we are pretty good at that. Every day is not perfect and little things get to me sometiems, I try to get over them.
Relationships are hard because we all want everything to be perfect and they're not. It seems so easy to just break up when one is mad when what we really need to do is sit back, think about it, calm down, and analyze the situation.
I only hope that I can help a couple of people with the lessons that I have learned. I love to give advice as well as receive it. Funny how I can be of help to others with their problems, but I in turn need advice from others to help me with my problems, so we are here to help each other out, which is why this site is so wonderful! |
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Her dream could affect her answer
Q. ummm i like this one girl and i always hang out with her after school and well everytime that i'm near her it kills me that i can't tell her how i feel because well i dont know how she would respond to it since her dream is to go to Japan one day ...
A. 19 September 2008: It's been almost a year, did you ever tell her how you feel? I hope so. :) ... (read in full...)
I feel my life is going nowhere, for as long as we're at his dad's!
Q. I lived with my boyfriend for a little over a year and then we moved out and moved into his dads house to try and save money to buy a house. Well, times got tough and we haven't been able to really save any money because his business was not gene...
A. 19 September 2008: PS - BTW, I agree w/ the anonymous writer - I also do not think that parents should depend on or ask their children for money. When I was a kid I used to always joke around & tell my parents that when I become a millionair I will give them a big ... (read in full...)
I feel my life is going nowhere, for as long as we're at his dad's!
Q. I lived with my boyfriend for a little over a year and then we moved out and moved into his dads house to try and save money to buy a house. Well, times got tough and we haven't been able to really save any money because his business was not gene...
A. 18 September 2008: Thank all of you who gave advice on my current situation.
Last night I had a talk with my boyfriend and his dad after they had sat down together and went over numbers... his dad has decided to sell the house and wants no money from his son. I will... (read in full...)
I feel my life is going nowhere, for as long as we're at his dad's!
Q. I lived with my boyfriend for a little over a year and then we moved out and moved into his dads house to try and save money to buy a house. Well, times got tough and we haven't been able to really save any money because his business was not gene...
A. 17 September 2008: A better way to ask the question I am trying to get answered is... if you're a guy, with a girl for two+ years, what would you say to her if she told you she didn't want you to give your favorite family member money to help them out? ... (read in full...)
He thinks this is not normal,is it true?
Q. I am a very happily married woman,both of us are still in mad,passionate love after 10 years.On a recent trip to a strip club which was my idea,my husband found out that he is not attracted to any of those beautiful and sexy women.This discovery has ...
A. 17 September 2008: I think it is completely fine that he is not attracted to strippers and you should feel flattered! (I am NOT attracted to male strippers) ... any how, I believe that if you are married and in love with your partner (as the two of you are) then you ... (read in full...)
I feel my life is going nowhere, for as long as we're at his dad's!
Q. I lived with my boyfriend for a little over a year and then we moved out and moved into his dads house to try and save money to buy a house. Well, times got tough and we haven't been able to really save any money because his business was not gene...
A. 17 September 2008: It sounds so easy to get out until I really think about it. I am living in a city where I do not get paid enough to have my own place in a decent neighborhood. If I did get my own place, I could only afford somewhere in the ghetto where it would be ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to get her past relationships out of my mind, and it's driving me crazy!
Q. Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 months. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginit...
A. 17 September 2008: Do not leave her for the feelings you are having! First of all, you are very lucky that you both lost your virginity together in the first place. That is very hard to find! You are probably just jealous that she has kissed more people than you have, ... (read in full...)
Did I miss a small window of opportunity with her?
Q. Hello to all! A young lady(29) applied for a job at a small school I run a few days ago. The job is about 5 hours but during the interview there seemed to be an instant attraction between us. She asked me if I was married and when I said ...
A. 17 September 2008: Maybe she was interested... maybe she was at the time considering breaking up with her boyfriend, but hoping she could find someone to help get him out of her thoughts and maybe she considered you to be the one that could do that for her.
Has she ... (read in full...)
Should I get my dolls out of the dumpster and break my promise or leave them?...
Q. I am a serious packrat and can never get rid of anything. At my old apartment I had the spare bedroom full of Cabbage Patch Dolls and stuffed animals that I had accumulated. When I moved in with my boyfriend I agreed to downsize once we had settled ...
A. 17 September 2008: I hope you got them out of the dumpster, photographed them and sold them on e-bay. I know a lot of adults frown on other adults that like toys. My boyfriend has lots of toys, but he puts them all up in his studio and they look cool there. (you know ... (read in full...)
I don't know where to start seeking help about my bf's problems. Please read and advise?
Q. I'm writing to ask for some advice, I don't know if this is the right place to go but I don't know where to start. It's to do with my boyfriend, Jack. I'll give a summary of why we're looking for help. Jack grew up in a pretty unstable upb...
A. 16 September 2008: There is so much I want to say to you I don't know where to start. First of all, my ex was a severe alcoholic and I dated him for 2 years strait. I would wake up to the sound of ice hitting the glass as he poured his first drink of Scotch every ... (read in full...)
What are some examples of playful banter?
Q. what is some examples of playful banter? i ask this because this girl that i like alot says the playful banter is a huge turn on. i dont want to ask her what it means because then i would sound like an idiot. please help me...
A. 16 September 2008: I am not sure that I hear this term very often, but I think it basically means flirt. She wants you to "kid" around with her - make playful, flirty jokes. Tell her how nice she looks, tell her that when you hear a love song, it reminds you of her. ... (read in full...)
He ignores me when he's around his friends. Is this typical for guys?
Q. My boyfriend seems to ignore me when we are around his friends. When we are around my friends he treats me exactly the way I want to be treated, but when we are around his friends, I feel so ignored. I get jealous when I see his friends showing ...
A. 5 February 2008: Then what would you do?... (read in full...)
I can''t be around him because he doesn't respect me....should I just ignore him or tell him??
Q. Last night I talked to my ex that I was in the process of reuniting with and dating again and I had said that I looked at his myspace and was pretty offended that he had all these pretty new girls as his top friends when I knew he barely knew ...
A. 4 December 2007: First of all, I believe that people can change, but not that fast. He hasn't changed to be the man that you want him to be.
As for the girls being the top ten on his myspace, well that is to make you jealous and to make you think that he may be t... (read in full...)
My bf met up with his ex , he said nothing happened, but she told me she wants him back, what can I do?
Q. Before I had a profile I wrote anonymously about the fact that my boyfriend is still friends w/ his ex and I found out that he went to eat lunch w/ her two days after my birthday, which he did not tell me about because he didn't think it was ...
A. 20 November 2007: First of all I wish to thank all of you for your input and advise!
I do have an update ... last night, my boyfriend brought home to me the 3 page email she sent to him to let me read it. In the letter she swore on her sons life that she was tell... (read in full...)
Does this mean he is about to pop the question?
Q. Hey Guys and Girls I have a story to share with you today. My name is Heather by the way I am 23 and in a relationship. Here's the story. I am dating this wonderful guy long distance now for six weeks he is 16 years old his name is Jaime West...
A. 12 November 2007: Did he ask you in person or on the phone and what did you say? ... (read in full...)
Sex is very sacred for my people and not be done without love or at young age. My bf broke these rules. I can't get over his sexual past.
Q. Hi, I'm 20 years old and had my first kiss and sex when i was 18 years old.he told me he's like me. and waiting for the right time, right girl, we didnt even rush things and waited for the "moment" to come. we lasted for 2 years with that guy. b...
A. 8 November 2007: I have found that couples stay happiest together when they do not talk about past relationships. ... (read in full...)
I love my fiance but the ex that abused me emotionally returned and brought back memories. How to erase him for good?
Q. Ten Months ago, I had a break down, Depression n my ex of 2 years dumped me over msn for a girl he worked with, he emotionally abused me for two years that we wos together for. Recently he admitted he still had feelings for me, I don't have any ...
A. 8 November 2007: Either let him talk to him or don't, but if you don't, I suggest stop answering his phone calls. That's what I do w/ my ex... no matter how many times he calls, I just do not answer and I erase his voicemails. He will eventually start calling less ... (read in full...)
I am devistated with the prospect of losing him.
Q. I've been with my boy friend for 10 months. He was very clear from the start that he didn't want an open relationship, even though I have had some with my exes in the past, and that he wouldn't tolerate me sleeping with another guy. I accep...
A. 8 November 2007: Ten months is not a long time ... and he is already cheating on you?!?! Once a cheater always a cheater.
I feel I can say this because 8 out of 10 of my boyfriends cheated on me and I gave them all a second chance and they all cheated a second and ... (read in full...)
Her dream could affect her answer
Q. ummm i like this one girl and i always hang out with her after school and well everytime that i'm near her it kills me that i can't tell her how i feel because well i dont know how she would respond to it since her dream is to go to Japan one day ...
A. 8 November 2007: Consider the fact that maybe she wants to go there because she doesn't have anyone to love her where she is now ... or so she may think.
If you don't tell her, she will never know and you will never know if you could have had that kind of chan... (read in full...)
Hints as to tell someone is attracted to you
Q. How can you tell if someone is interested in you......as in more than just mates??? What should a person lookout for??? Please offer any serious contributions......
A. 8 November 2007: If he doesn't approach you, you can tell by noticing if he stares at you a lot. If he stares at you a lot and doesn't approach you, that is because he is either shy or one of his friends like you and he doesn't want to step on any one's toes.
I... (read in full...)
I don't know why I feel this way
Q. ok strange thing..... me and my wife have been together since we were 16 and i've always known she has never masurbated because i've asked her outright but honesty couldn't believe her at first but did eventually. Well she was away on this trip with ...
A. 7 November 2007: She sounds like a very faithful, honest woman. She needs to understand the fact that almost every body does this, even married people. Maybe let her know that if she is away on another trip that you don't mind her doing that, but if she gets the ... (read in full...)
There's no room downstairs, is there something wrong with me?
Q. hey guys! i have a problem and i know u've heard it all before but.. my vagina is far to tight for sex, no matter how relaxed i am, i've read other peoples answers to this problem (e.g. relax, take it slow etc) and i've tried it all, ive even tried ...
A. 7 November 2007: I would suggest trying some lubrication such as KY Jelly. Put some on him and you. That should help!... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about it, it's eating me up
Q. I have been going with my boyfriend for ten months, its had major ups and major downs and sometimes i question why i`m with him, but i couldnt bare to leave him and see him with somebody else, recently i learned that his ex girlfriend was a virgin ...
A. 7 November 2007: First of all, he is with you and not her. If he wanted her, he probably could have had her and never would have gotten with you. So lift your chin up, you have that going for you! If you think she is prettier than you, then you are probably just ... (read in full...)
Does this mean he is about to pop the question?
Q. Hey Guys and Girls I have a story to share with you today. My name is Heather by the way I am 23 and in a relationship. Here's the story. I am dating this wonderful guy long distance now for six weeks he is 16 years old his name is Jaime West...
A. 6 November 2007: I don't think he is about to pop the question, I think he was just being cute. I don't really know of any body that pops the question after only 6 weeks. ... (read in full...)
I want them to treat me like an adult and not like a child.
Q. I'm 20 years old, I still live with my parents and I just went threw a really hard time, I just lost my baby and I kinda don't want to spend a lot of time at home because I was really ready for him and had everything set up for him. Anyways, my mom ...
A. 6 November 2007: I am sorry for your loss. I don't wish that on any body! Your mom is being so strict on you because you still live with her. I hate to tell you this, but no matter how old you are, if you are living under your parents roof, they will always be the ... (read in full...)
She gets drunk and treats me like a king, but sobers up and treats me like a peasant!
Q. People; I am a seriously and totally confused guy. Im a 29 year old guy, and i am totally and utterly in love with a woman 10 years older. I have no issue with the age difference at all. We do enjoy each others company and talk regulary and hav...
A. 6 November 2007: It sounds like you could be buying her love. Don't get me wrong, women love gifts, but if you are one of those wonderful guys that like to buy the gifts, try not to do it right off the bat. Wait till you know the girl loves you as much as you love ... (read in full...)
We've come a long, long way together...
Q. ...through the hard times and the good. This is the story of my One and I, we've come through so much and it makes our bond stronger and stronger. I posted my picture up on a date-and-rate website when I was just 14. I was hugely insecure i...
A. 2 November 2007: You sound happy, but I fear for your future. I once was thought I was in love with a guy I had known since I was 12 and we always had a long distance relationship. When I was almost through with college he informed me that he got a girl pregnant, ... (read in full...)
I love my fiance but the ex that abused me emotionally returned and brought back memories. How to erase him for good?
Q. Ten Months ago, I had a break down, Depression n my ex of 2 years dumped me over msn for a girl he worked with, he emotionally abused me for two years that we wos together for. Recently he admitted he still had feelings for me, I don't have any ...
A. 2 November 2007: I think about my ex a lot too even though he mentally abused me (as well) and I was the one who broke up with him!
When I get to thinking about him, feeling sorry for him, or even think I miss him, I just sit there and think REALLY hard about al... (read in full...)
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