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| | Hope_123's profile:Hi everyone! =)
I'd like to try and be as much help as I possibly can to people.
I've been through quite a bit and I'm quite good with empathy.
I guess something that I could say is my motto would be:
'You only regret the things in life that you don't do' - Something like, if you do something you wish that you hadn't, you can get over it and move on, but if you don't do something you'll never know what could have been!
If you want to talk to me privately about anything then please feel free and I will get back to you quickly!!
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18 April 2008: Wouldn't it be weird.. If you knew.. About all the things.. I could never say to you.. It's impossible for me.. To see you everyday.. When I know that I feel things.. Which I cannot say. So I think it would be weird.. If you knew.. The...
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I would love advice on how to get my girlfriend back. It's been about 2 weeks since the breakup.
Q. my g/f broke up wit me about 2 weeks ago. we started off to fast i know that. the last 2 mos. been up and down. she said that she does not want a relationship rite now but if she decides to want one she said that it would be me. she told me that i ...
A. 16 July 2008: Sorry I've not got back to you for a while!
How are things now?
From what you last said it sounds like she needs a break. If she loves you and you haen't really contacted her much then she'll contact you eventually. What do they say? 'Absence... (read in full...)
Does my female friend like me back?
Q. I'm a girl, go to an all girls school and I have a crush on one of my female friends. We've recently become closer and that's made me like her even more! I sincerely doubt she likes me too and maybe it's just wishful thinking...but i...
A. 16 July 2008: I think a good way of kind of trying to find out is when you're hanging out some time, just you and her preferably, then just ask if she's ever liked a girl or ask what her views are on homosexuality. You can bring it in by saying something about ... (read in full...)
Is there prejudice against bisexuals?
Q. If it is okay to be bisexual then why do bisexual people have to hide it? Why do our parents scream at us about it?...
A. 1 June 2008: I think that if people are prejudiced against bisexuals then it's because it still involves homosexuality and even though it's not completely homosexual it's still not completely 'normal' as perhaps some people would say, so that's probably why. ... (read in full...)
Do dreams mean anything?
Q. I know there are people out there who spend their whole lies to analyze dreams and do it for a living, but i wanna know from your own experiences, do dreams (in regards to relationships) mean anything... I'm asking cause just last night i had a dr...
A. 1 June 2008: No it's not a stupid question, sometimes dreams show us what we want even if it's not something we think we want. But sometimes I think that dreams can be a way of testing us, like if you like someone but you dream about someone else and begin to ... (read in full...)
Is it illegal for a 15 year old to go out with a 30 year old?
Q. i just wanted some advice really im 15 and going out with a 30year old is it illegal?? ...
A. 30 May 2008: I'm not sure about in your country. In the UK, it's not illegal to go out with someone much older when you are 15, but sex is illegal and the man can be arrested.
xx... (read in full...)
If a relationship shows signs of sexual abuse, and controlling tendencies as early as 2 months, will it only get worse?
Q. If a relationship shows signs of sexual abuse, and controlling tendencies, as early within the first 2 months, does that mean it will only get worst??? is it best to end the relationship now before it gets to bad? ...
A. 30 May 2008: I think that if you are even so much as doubting it and something like sexual abuse and control is involved you should end it as soon as possible. If it goes on much longer then you might be drawn in more because of the control. Often when people ... (read in full...)
Article - Love songs/poems/quotes
Q. Hey everyone this is for all you people out there who want to read poems quotes and love songs !!! you can post any of these things any kind of love quote, song or poem!or things to say to the one you love . *also* heartbroken ones are exce...
A. 30 May 2008: Those are quite nice :) I like lyrics and quotes and things, they're sometimes great at describing how you feel.
Here are some more quotes:
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
Love is like a bar of soap,... (read in full...)
So, do I tell her, risk a very painful let down, or leave it, and let my friend go for it?
Q. Hi, So for months now I've been absolutely madly in love with a girl who I'm very good friends with... She's had a long term boyfriend who's just broken up with her, and I really want to tell her. Two problems: 1. She's way out of my league....
A. 30 May 2008: I think if you want to tell her then you should, keeping the fact that you're in love with someone to yourself is pretty hard, but then being rejected is also pretty hard too! What makes you think that you're out of her league because with love, ... (read in full...)
I would love advice on how to get my girlfriend back. It's been about 2 weeks since the breakup.
Q. my g/f broke up wit me about 2 weeks ago. we started off to fast i know that. the last 2 mos. been up and down. she said that she does not want a relationship rite now but if she decides to want one she said that it would be me. she told me that i ...
A. 30 May 2008: I have to say she is being pretty confusing and giving out mixed signals!
But I think that there is still a possibility that you 2 could end up together, especially if you both still have feelings for each other, but if she starts seeing some... (read in full...)
I love her but my friends think she is ugly, shall I go out with her or leave it?
Q. I love a girl and im 90% sure she fancies me. All my friends are friends with her but they think she is ugly. If i go out with her they will probably take the piss. Shall I go out with her or leave it?...
A. 29 May 2008: The important thing is that you like her! If she likes you too, and you could have a good relationship together and be happy then don't let your friends stand in the way of that - or they're not really very good friends!
Good luck! Keep us upda... (read in full...)
I was wondering if it's okay to give my instructors a 'thank you' card and maybe some chocolate?
Q. Hey, i have jst recently left school and i was particulary friendly with one deparment in my school, i got flute lessons and singing lessons and i would lvoe to get my two instructors a crad saying thanks and prehaps a small chocolate thing? there ...
A. 29 May 2008: Yes of course that's fine! A lot of people give teachers presents when they are leaving as their way of saying thank you. I think it would be nice of you to do that and they would appreciate too, to know that they had helped someone :)
xx Hope xx... (read in full...)
Please help me, I'm still mourning my dog's death, I have exams and I'm not eating! I just feel that I don't care about anything.
Q. Please help me. I feel like I have changed so much, and I dont expect anyone to put up with it, or even care. I dont understand it but recently I just have been feelin that I dont care about anything and I just cant be bothered. And thats not like ...
A. 29 May 2008: I'm sorry to hear about your dog :( - it's not stupid to be miserable about it, I know I would be!
But it sounds to me like you are beginning to get depressed, once you get into this cycle it's difficult to get out of. You should talk to your mum ... (read in full...)
How can I ask my best friend out?
Q. I want to ask my bff out. shes female too. what should i say? ...
A. 29 May 2008: You ought to see how she feels about gay relationships and people first really. If she doesn't like them then by telling her you could wreck your friendship.
Once you know this then you should try and work out if she feels the same way for you.... (read in full...)
A relationship is like building a house!!!
Q. Truth is that its just not a natural phenomena for two humans to have what we call a relationship. So that means its down to management and people skills. Most people don’t possess these skills. They let their emotions drive their decisions a...
A. 29 May 2008: That's a great article well done, and I agree with the metaphor of a relationship being like a house, and those aspects you need to build a good one. And that also explains some marriages, where the boiler stops working and the central heating no ... (read in full...)
How do you know your in love?
Q. How do you feel when your in love? Is it diffrent for everyone? How do you know if someone is the one? I have never been in love so anyone in love please share how you feel about it. Thanks ...
A. 29 May 2008: If you love someone, you'd do anything for them, you'd give your life up for them, you'd throw yourself under a car just so you could see their smile.
Whenever you see them, your heart beats so fast, your palms get sweaty, and nothing else is on y... (read in full...)
We have already talked about everything there is to talk about!! Help please!
Q. I talk 2 my boyfriend on the phone since we started going out.We have been going out 4 four weeks and 2dayz.The 1st week we started going out we had SO much 2 talk about.But now we have those "awkward silences".We have talked about everything there ...
A. 29 May 2008: Haha i like your answer Tremor! The sandwich game sounds like fun! It's a good idea, do things like that, or you could try seeing what your opinions are on 'why are we here' or 'what made the big bang happen?' .. I like questions like that they can ... (read in full...)
I hate feeling this way, I hate how much this man affects me!!
Q. Please, I could really use some help. I am so in love, infatuated, or whatever you want to call it, with one of my teachers, and now i can't sleep because of it. I'm so tired all the time, but I lie awake for hours trying not to think of him, yet ...
A. 29 May 2008: I don't think that it's depression, but it could lead to it if it gets any worse for you.
Do you think it would help if you got a tutor for that subject, that way you might not have the choice to concentrate on him while someone else is there tryi... (read in full...)
Should I ask my (female) ex back out?
Q. Hi. I'm 15, and finally accepted I was gay about 18 months ago after a lot of soul-searching. Last July I fell for one of my mates, and managed to get up the confidence to ask her out. She saif she felt the same way, and we sort of persued a secret ...
A. 29 May 2008: I think if she splits up with her boyfriend that would be a good oppurtunity to talk to her about your relationship again. Your feelings for her must be pretty strong if you still have them after all you've been through! And I don't know if this is ... (read in full...)
Are these signs that he's got the hots for me?
Q. I need to know if a guy i know fancies me or is just being friendly. He tickles me, he'll talk to me loads, we sometimes have text conversations until late at night, but they're quite rare. He'll laugh at my jokes, and he teases me. He has nickn...
A. 29 May 2008: Yeah it sounds to me as though he really likes you - that's great news!! If you like him back then go for it :) !
Good luck, keep us posted!
xx Hope xx... (read in full...)
I fell for one of my best mates. I don't know how to ask her out.
Q. Okay, well I guess I'll start from the beginning... About a month ago, I fell for one of my best mates, also female. I've told her and I think she feels the same way. I would rather not ask her, as I've inquired about her current crush, and she stil...
A. 29 May 2008: Hmmm that's interesting I guess! But there could be more signs, like how does she look at you and how is her body language around you?
Although, by the way she's acting so far and she hasn't changed at all because of it, I don't think asking her ... (read in full...)
I fell for one of my best mates. I don't know how to ask her out.
Q. Okay, well I guess I'll start from the beginning... About a month ago, I fell for one of my best mates, also female. I've told her and I think she feels the same way. I would rather not ask her, as I've inquired about her current crush, and she stil...
A. 28 May 2008: I think you need to be 100% sure that she likes you back before you ask her out or anything, otherwise it might be awkward between the two of you, and that wouldn't be good!
I agree with Abi, it'd be good if she did feel the same way and she made... (read in full...)
I'm a straight guy but turned on by sex thoughts about men-am I gay or Bi?
Q. I am a stright boy, i think, i have a great girlfriend, and love being with her, but recently,i have been having tought of men, i watch gayporn and i get horny and often "wank"as well to it, i have kissed a fella, and think about doing it again, but ...
A. 28 May 2008: It could simply be a phase that you're going through at the moment. But if you say that you are attrcted to women and not men then but still get turned on by gay porn then some part of you could be bi. In either case it's nothing to worry about! ... (read in full...)
Help! I kissed my best friend, am I a lesbian?
Q. right. i recently kissed this girl, my best friend, and it wasnt the first time, we always talk about it and have a laugh but everytime i hear of a boy she has been with i instantly hate them. i dont fancy her, and im sure as hell not a lesbien. ...
A. 28 May 2008: Maybe you have a subconscious crush on her and don't want to. It's quite normal to be confused and things, especially if you think you're not bi/gay and kissed a girl, naturally your mind will be quite confused about the whole thing. When you kissed ... (read in full...)
I would love advice on how to get my girlfriend back. It's been about 2 weeks since the breakup.
Q. my g/f broke up wit me about 2 weeks ago. we started off to fast i know that. the last 2 mos. been up and down. she said that she does not want a relationship rite now but if she decides to want one she said that it would be me. she told me that i ...
A. 27 May 2008: Well i think in that case you should stick with it, especially if she tells her friends that you two ar ejust on a break and still has pictures of you in her room. It just seems like she needs some space to try and figure out how she feels and get ... (read in full...)
Do I mean more to him than a friend? I'm starting to like him...
Q. this guy i like, eally notices the small things about me or about the things im wearing...we are really close friends. but culd it mean more to him...i like him and i actaully am starting to fall inlove with him. he notices things about what i wear ...
A. 27 May 2008: It's possible... or he could just be observant, but like you said that can be unusual! Are there any other signs that he might like you as more than a friend? It's difficult to go on just the clothes thing.
xx Hope xx... (read in full...)
My work colleague often watches me and I recently got caught in a lingering gaze with her. Could she be attracted to me?
Q. I have a colleague at work and am getting very confused by her actions. We are both women of the same age she is single and I am attatched. I really like her and have done for months. She is in charge of the department where i work but is not ...
A. 27 May 2008: Well it sounds quite promising and from what you've said, she could be hiding how she feels a bit. If you are ever in a group or something it'd be good if someone brings up the topic or homosexuality or something and see how she reacts, like if she ... (read in full...)
What is the best way to "come out"?
Q. What's is the best way to be "OUT"? I'm afraid to tell everyone that I am a bisexual? Or worse, a gay? Anyone can help me?...
A. 27 May 2008: If it is worrying you so much about 'coming out', is it really necessary that you do? Maybe you could first just talk to someone you trust about your sexuality, maybe your mum/dad or a good friend.
If you are afraid then maybe you shouldn't tell... (read in full...)
We had an abrupt break up from a long distance relationship...we haven't talked in 3 months...should I call him? I'm confused!!
Q. hello I used to be with this guy that I deeply loved for a year and half. then things started going downhill for the last 6 months and hung on as long as could. I hurt him a lot and then he ended up hurting me back. we finally ended it, abrupt...
A. 27 May 2008: If you still have feelings for him then you should try and call or even if you just want to see how he is. If you call him and he isn't there then I think that that is probably a sign that you weren't meant to talk to him (I believe in things like ... (read in full...)
We keep arguing and she gets really hurt by this...the thing is I don't feel the same about her anymore...should I end it or carry on?
Q. me and my girlfried have been dating for a year and a half. I really love her but for a while we've been having problems. we never had a single fight for almost a year but now we fight all the time because she thinks i dont spend enough time with ...
A. 27 May 2008: I think you should end it or maybe you could take a break from each other for a while? That way you could both hav some space and see how you feel being without each other, but if you feel this way now then there might not be a great chance of it ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 would it be alright for a 20 year old guy to ask me out?
Q. Well I am 17 years old and I am talking to a 19 year old guy who will soon be 20 in a couple of days..at first we were just talking as friends but later we both ended up having feelings towards each other...We haven't hung out or anything like that ...
A. 27 May 2008: No I think that's perfectly fine, and he seems like a nice guy if he's said that he's willing to wait until you are 18 to ask you out officially! When one of my friends was 16 she was seeing someone who was 24 - that was a big age gap!
I woul... (read in full...)
Why does my mouth taste like acid all the time?
Q. Why does my taste taste like acid most of the time? i mean, i like brushing my teeth and using mouthwash..but why do i have a bad breath? even drinking a bottle beverage or beer turns my breath into hell..need help.does it have to do with me remov...
A. 27 May 2008: Yeah i agree with the last post, seeing a doctor would probably be a good idea. Sometimes bad breath is due to a yeast infection in the body like thrush, so it's best to get it checked out I think.
Keep us posted!
xx Hope xx... (read in full...)
Will I find love again? And will I still have feelings for her?
Q. i dated my first love for 3 years and 2 years on and off. will i find love again? and will i always have feelings for her?...
A. 27 May 2008: If you loved her then you will possibly always have those feelings for her inside you, even if you meet someone else, love always stays with you - even if it's not active, it's just.. there.
But of course you can find love again, there will be some... (read in full...)
Should I shave or trim my pubic hair?
Q. I would like to know if I should shave my pubes off or just trim it and if so how often should I shave cause if its too short its itchy and if its to long it gets nasty and itchy so that's what I would like to know...
A. 27 May 2008: If you are uncomfortable with the length then just give them a trim, it's whatever you are happiest with and most comfortable with. If it's itchy when it's short and shaven then don't do that. So I think it would probably be best with just a trim! ... (read in full...)
We haven't had sex yet, but he's such an amazing bf, he's prepared to give me a guilt-free day to explore my bi side!
Q. okay Ive been on this site for quite a long time and I have ALWAYS gotten the advice that helped me through everything. So once again I need your help people!! Ive been with my guy for a year and a half and my life has never been better, heres the ...
A. 27 May 2008: I think that if your boyfriend acts jealous and things with you normally then this could well be his way of testing you. But if he loves you and knows that this is something you really want to do then he is probably just letting you do what he feels ... (read in full...)
I would love advice on how to get my girlfriend back. It's been about 2 weeks since the breakup.
Q. my g/f broke up wit me about 2 weeks ago. we started off to fast i know that. the last 2 mos. been up and down. she said that she does not want a relationship rite now but if she decides to want one she said that it would be me. she told me that i ...
A. 27 May 2008: It doesn't seem as though you would be able to get her back at this moment in time, becuase it looks as though she needs some time to herself. But if she's told you that she still has feelings for you and that she would have another relationship ... (read in full...)
I fancy a boy in my class who is also one of my friends! Advice please?
Q. Dear Aunt Agony i fancy a boy in my class who is also one of my friends, he does not suspect anything and we often make fun of eachother ( in a funny way ) as i am usually too nervous to ask people out as my last relationship went complete...
A. 26 May 2008: It doesn't matter what your friends think, they defintely have no place in telling you who to like, of all the things that friends can influence you over they can't with this. Even you can't influence who it is that you like! Trust me life would be ... (read in full...)
My work colleague often watches me and I recently got caught in a lingering gaze with her. Could she be attracted to me?
Q. I have a colleague at work and am getting very confused by her actions. We are both women of the same age she is single and I am attatched. I really like her and have done for months. She is in charge of the department where i work but is not ...
A. 26 May 2008: Do you think that you would be able to confront her about it? Try and find some way of being alone with her without her having the option to leave, that way you could probably tell better. Are you attracted to her?
This sounds quite comp... (read in full...)
Help... I fancy my friend!!
Q. I fancy my friend but I have no idea to say how i feel towards him... I went out with one of his best friends and that did not go well so I think he may think i might not want another relationship. I know he would never ask me out as we are not the ...
A. 26 May 2008: Do you think that he may like you too? If you think that he doesn't and that it may wreck your friendship then I don't think that telling him would be a good idea.
But if you're sure that you want to then just try talking to him and ask him if he l... (read in full...)
Do you think he is hinting about thinking about getting into a relationship with me?
Q. Hey guys, I was talking to one of my friends who i am really hot for last night. He indicated to me that he was thinking about wanting a relationship. Well he said that he was thinking about getting into a relationship. We also talked about sex and ...
A. 26 May 2008: Ah I see, well if you are close like that then it's very possible that him saying that could be a hint. Just see how it goes I suppose - if he mentions it again like Emivia said, ask him. That would be one way of knowing for sure!
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He said we were back together but is now saying he doesn't know, what shall I do?
Q. ok so im fifteen and i am in love. no lie. trust ive loved this boy for a year now we used to be together and it was the happiest time of my life. recently in the last 4 months or so ive met him every weekend and weve always been really close in the ...
A. 26 May 2008: I think that you should give him a few more days to try and work out what he feels for you. He was drunk when all that happened so maybe he wasn't 100% sure what he was doing, but the chances are if he did those things and said those things whilst ... (read in full...)
Do you think he is hinting about thinking about getting into a relationship with me?
Q. Hey guys, I was talking to one of my friends who i am really hot for last night. He indicated to me that he was thinking about wanting a relationship. Well he said that he was thinking about getting into a relationship. We also talked about sex and ...
A. 26 May 2008: Maybe he just trusts you and sees yuo as a good enough friend to have this conversation with. Although there is also a possibility that he may have been hinting. It's difficult to tell...
Does he flirt with you or seem to like you in any way? It w... (read in full...)
I fancy a boy in my class who is also one of my friends! Advice please?
Q. Dear Aunt Agony i fancy a boy in my class who is also one of my friends, he does not suspect anything and we often make fun of eachother ( in a funny way ) as i am usually too nervous to ask people out as my last relationship went complete...
A. 24 May 2008: Well does he like you back? The making fun of each other in a fun way is usually a sign that you like someone so that's good :)
Just maybe spend more time with him, and go out with him and a few other friends one time, and if you talk to each othe... (read in full...)
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