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I stumbled across this website. I am not sure how to be honest, but I am here now. I am still living life and if what I have lived through can help others I may be inclined to offer my two pennies.
I am an American Expat living in Europe. I would like to think of myself as a rational free thinker or Pearlist (Physical Evidence and Reasoned Logic) and happen not believe in any form of a god/goddess. I hope I can help and do good for this community as it seems a very good outlet for people.
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Could I be pregnant from sperm on his fingers?
Q. Ok I gave my 1st blow job yesterday and my boyfriend went down on me, My question is, even though after he came, he wiped it all off his hands b4 fingering me, could I still get pregnant? My friends think im paranoid because its my 1st time, but if ...
A. 26 May 2008: Yes you can. It happened to my cousin so I know for definate this can happen. Woman dont even need full penetration to become pregnant and alot of girls get pregnant just by heavy petting. Get the morning after pill.... (read in full...)
My wife says she thinks about the man she had an emotional affair with, when we are together. I feel used!?
Q. I am married fo 8 years and was a virgin when I married, My wife also said that even though she had affairs there was no physical etc. Now after 8 years she says that she thinks about the guy and his physical when she is physical with me and her ...
A. 26 May 2008: It sounds like yor wife is curious about other men and may feel she has missed out by just having one partner. It is perfectly natural for this to happen for someone who has only ever had 1 sexual partner.
Perhaps spicing your love life will rek... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant or overreacting?
Q. Ok, I've been taking Ortho Tri Cyclen Lo for over 2 years and my periods have been like clock work. I usually start Wednesday and go until the following Monday. I have also been sexually active with my boyfriend. Last week, I started 2 days ...
A. 26 May 2008: The body can work like clock work, but even still is subject to change and there is no real explenation. Periods can suddenly stop being normal one month and then go back the next.
It would be best thought to get a pregnancy test to put your min... (read in full...)
I had anal sex and I'm bleeding
Q. hi im 14 almost 15 ive been with this boy 1 year 5 months and i really love him but today i had anal sex with him unprotected for my first time it hurt a bit and he stopped but i noticed that there was like some bleeding and he cummed in me too and ...
A. 26 May 2008: He probably tore your anal skin. This just happens. Normally when the anal canal is not relaxed enough for the penis to penetrate or the area was too dry and the skin will tear.If you can imagine uninflated ballons sticking together and then trying ... (read in full...)
Does this dream mean anything?
Q. This may seem like an awkward question but here goes, last night I had a dream that I was making out with a girl but she wasn't my girlfriend, it was my best friend I've known for 6 years, and I used to like her before I met my girlfriend. Can ...
A. 26 May 2008: Honestly it just probably is inner feelings you have towards you friend. Not really sexual in nature just probably shows you care deeply.
As adult we no longer have an innocent notion of love(family love) to people who aren't in our family a... (read in full...)
Is it a sin to be gay?
Q. I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...
A. 25 May 2008: Susan Strict,
This is the bible. Everything in it is open to interpretation. Its a 2000 year old piece of crap I cant believe anyone would actually believe in or follow or should even care about what it says. I have read this thing cover to cover... (read in full...)
Can I save our relationship??
Q. Ive been with my boyf for 4 years today. We moved in together last Sept, and starting planning to build our house, discussed having a baby, getting married... we were so happy and content. About a month ago, he went quiet. He was working really long...
A. 25 May 2008: Hello, Twinkletoes.
I was in a relationship for 4 years with an ex. We were contemplating buying a house and planning a future, but to be honest I felt something was just wrong. Not that there was anything wong with my partner. He was perfectl... (read in full...)
Is it a sin to be gay?
Q. I'm not too sure how many people will answer this question but I'm going to give it a try .... does it say anywhere in the bible that it's a sin to be gay? if it does what exactly does it say ?? I think I'm bi and that's why I'm asking .... ...
A. 25 May 2008: If you believe in bible then you may wanna open the "good book" to Leviticus 18:22
"Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination."
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I chicken out.
Q. Well my boyfriend has the deal with me one of these days we both will take turns on being naked for atleast an hour. Well i want to really i do but i am afraid i will chicken out. how can i not be such a scared cat?...
A. 7 November 2007: Well when the moment is right it sweeps over you and you will not chicken out.
If you, how ever, still feel unready dont let him push you and do not feel obligated to do anything. I am sure you know this and just want to make him happy but this... (read in full...)
Was my wife overly promiscuous or fairly normal before we got together?
Q. Was my wife overly promiscuous or fairly normal before we got together?? During High School she had sex with 3 guys. 2 of them were boyfriends and one was a friend who she had a crush on. She had sex a total of 4 times in high school. A few weeks be...
A. 20 September 2007: What would you have done any differently if she had of said yes? And I happen to Agree with Penta that she may not have wanted to tell you. She may have felt ashamed and if anything you lied to her to get your self deserved "truth". You alr... (read in full...)
My husband is in the military. I want to join the military but I have an allergy to eggs. I'm pulling my hair out as I've wanted this so long. Should I just try to join anyway??
Q. Sorry my question doesn't have much if anything to do with relationships, but thanks for reading. I've been feeling really frustrated. Right now I am just starting college, but it's not what I want. I have wanted to join the military since I was 15 ...
A. 3 September 2007: If they discount you to an allergy to egg thats very odd. I would say try out for it anyways. They may already cater for this kind of allergy and if you believe they will already discount you, what is there to lose? The military also pays for your... (read in full...)
I'm drifting away from my family because they hate my guy that's 29. I'm 17. What should I do??
Q. Ive been seeing this man for nearly 2 years now, but my family hate him because hes older than me, im 17 and hes 29. He has been nothing but nice to me since we met, but ive been slowly drifting away from my family, and i dont want that to happen, ...
A. 2 September 2007: My cousin was 14 when she started dating her boyfriend who was 10 yars older than her. I can remember how my parents and hers were pretty outraged, but after she turned 20 they couldn't care less anymore and have gotten used to him being with her.
... (read in full...)
How can I convince my sister in law to have sex with me?
Q. Q. I am married for the last thirteen years but I am in love with my younger sister-in-law for the last eleven years. I always fantisize about her during sex with my wife. I have an obssessive compulsive disorder about her. I told her that I wanted ...
A. 2 September 2007: It will be as barren as you make it. You either learn to appreciate the things you have or feel pitty for yourself. Its your choice how you live it.... (read in full...)
How can I convince my sister in law to have sex with me?
Q. Q. I am married for the last thirteen years but I am in love with my younger sister-in-law for the last eleven years. I always fantisize about her during sex with my wife. I have an obssessive compulsive disorder about her. I told her that I wanted ...
A. 31 August 2007: Muz the Anon who stated that you two deserve eachother is an expression in our part of the world which is a form of insult. Meaning you two are so low in character you should be together. Your wife is an unblievable woman who, for some reason,... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he's cheating on me when he lives 40 minutes away?
Q. Hi I am currently in a relationship and he lives about 40 minutes away from me. We get to see each other about once a week and speak by text quite frequently. We have just booked a trip away together and he tells me he likes me all the time but I ...
A. 31 August 2007: I live 2 hours away from my partner he used to live in Sweden while i lived in Ireland. No matter how far away they are some women never find out and some just know when their men act different. You would have to ask yourself is your feeling ... (read in full...)
WHY do people masturbate?
Q. Hi this may sound really stupid but its always been something i'd like to know the answer to. Why do people, both men and women masturbate? Are there any particular reason why they do it? I have before and i've never known why mainly just because i ...
A. 31 August 2007: Men and woman masterbate because it feels good as many have said before me, makes you feel "happy" as others have said and people may not have a partner and they have an urge or build up of sexual desire.
But I do it mainly as a tool to "unwind"... (read in full...)
It feels very much as if I am being kept in limbo or maybe he is playing mindgames with me? How can a person go from being very attentive to nothing?
Q. Can anybody shed some light please...? I split with my boyfriend just over a week ago, I ended the relationship 'stupidly' due to my insecurities and trust issues, I love him and believe he loves me, he ignored all my attempts at making up with h...
A. 31 August 2007: You have hurt him deeply. I dont think you realise what you have actually done to this guy that you want him to respond to your needs after breaking up with him. He obviously cared for you a great deal. He went from being very attentive to nothing ... (read in full...)
I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend on a daily basis, as many times as possible, but it is even better when she is on her period and I insist that she sits on my face...
Q. hello my name is vince and I am curious to know whether anybody else out there believes in vampires, I believe I am of this origin. I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend on a daily basis, as many times as possible, but it is even better when ...
A. 31 August 2007: If you are being honest, there are alot of people who do believe in vampirism in many different forms. Some think it to be spiritual others more literal to blood drinkers.
There are websites dedicated to such beliefs and their communities. I woul... (read in full...)
I think my guy likes his ex still. I want to break up with him but I dont think he's taking me seriously??
Q. hi stright to the point am i his rebound??? well ive been with my man for a year and a few months and well, he went thru a bad break up with his gf of like 9 months and she treated him real bad, i knew her. me and him where friends but i kn...
A. 31 August 2007: That is a hell of a story. The important thing is you know what it is you want you just want to know how to go about it. It is very simple. You end it.
You call him and ask him to meet you. Make sure the place is a private quiet place with not... (read in full...)
How can I convince my sister in law to have sex with me?
Q. Q. I am married for the last thirteen years but I am in love with my younger sister-in-law for the last eleven years. I always fantisize about her during sex with my wife. I have an obssessive compulsive disorder about her. I told her that I wanted ...
A. 31 August 2007: I refrained from commenting on this particular question to firstly think more clearly. When i first read it i was morally outraged and in that state no help to you at all because my answer would be full of emotion. What I have to say is pretty mu... (read in full...)
I like 2 lads but don't think im pretty enough for them. what should i do?
Q. hii, well i like 2 guys that are sort of friends.. but i dont think either of them like me because im not very pretty and im sort ..fat. im quite shy too but i want a boyfriend and the are really god boys! what should i do/? thnx for your time...
A. 29 August 2007: A real man will like you for who you are and in the end wont care how heavy you are. A man who loves his woman will love her body aswell. Flaws and all.
As for these two boys you like you may find that they may like you as friend or they they the... (read in full...)
Every now and then I feel like I still love my jerky ex boyfriend! Why?
Q. i went out with this guy for 2 years and i truely thought it was love. anyways he constantly would lie and hurt me, one night it got too much and about 2 months later i started going out with a guy ive known my whole life and we have always had a th...
A. 28 August 2007: Its completely normal to feel that way even if the relationship was bad. You spent two years with someone and you gave them your heart and you spent a good majority of the time caring about this person. This just doesn't switch off for most people. ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for boys to stare at other girls while out with their fiancees?
Q. Is it normal for guys to stare at girls while out with their fiancees? I understand that looking or glancing at someone of the opposite sex once in a while is natural, but my fiance just stares at girl for more than a few seconds while he is right ...
A. 27 August 2007: Honestly, I dont put up with it. It just human nature. To me it just will happen so I dont bother getting annoyed about it. I have looked sometimes stared at men when I was with my partner and vise versa. If your comfortable with yourself and ... (read in full...)
My fiancee becomes mad at me, screams, offends. I didn't deserve it, what should I have done?
Q. My fiancee and I flew out to a diff city for a weekend. We were out walking out in public, while sitting on a bus stop he rips out the map that I was looking at since we were lost. So, I told him he can wait till Im done looking at, but he ...
A. 27 August 2007: If this is the first time I would stand my ground and show that this is not to be tolerated even if he has apologised. He needs to learn early on (Now) that he cannot do this to you. I cannot say leave him at this stage because I do not know him.... (read in full...)
In a casual relation with my ex; does he think I didn't trust him, am I wasting time?
Q. I have been having a casual relationship with my ex (from three years ago) for just over a month. He is 25 and I am 24. He wants to keep it quiet and have some fun as fuck buddies (knowing that I love him and want more eventually) and see how thin...
A. 27 August 2007: You sound like a very intelegent person and i am sure you already know the answer to that question. You are dealing with a commitaphobe who he himself doesn't know what he wants. You truely care for him and thats the only thing keeping you ther... (read in full...)
Is it normal for boys to stare at other girls while out with their fiancees?
Q. Is it normal for guys to stare at girls while out with their fiancees? I understand that looking or glancing at someone of the opposite sex once in a while is natural, but my fiance just stares at girl for more than a few seconds while he is right ...
A. 27 August 2007: Unfortunately all men do it. They cant stop it even if they wanted to. It is a natural thing that happens and we as women just have to accept it rather then get hurt by it.
They dont mean to hurt us but just like anyone anything that is attracti... (read in full...)
Scared she'll tell people about my circumcised penis!
Q. I am a 15 year old male and circumcised, me and my friend want to have sex for fun but im scared she will tell everyone about my penis please help?...
A. 27 August 2007: What's wrong with having a circumcised penis? I am a woman and to be honest I would prefer a circumcised one, but that's a personal preference. Honestly it makes no difference. Secondly, If you have to worry about this you're either too you... (read in full...)
I do love her, just not as much as the other girl (who lives far away) and am worried that it is a mistake not marrying my number one choice.
Q. I need your advice. I love two women, one I love more than the other and think we are more compatible and she is my soul mate, but she is not available to fully commit to me. The other one is putting pressure on me to marry her and said that she ...
A. 27 August 2007: Yep, I have to agree with Redshoes. Even if this girl is married if you can't stay faithful to your fiance now, you never will. I am not saying though that you have no will power. I am just saying with your fiance in question you lack enough resp... (read in full...)
I do love her, just not as much as the other girl (who lives far away) and am worried that it is a mistake not marrying my number one choice.
Q. I need your advice. I love two women, one I love more than the other and think we are more compatible and she is my soul mate, but she is not available to fully commit to me. The other one is putting pressure on me to marry her and said that she ...
A. 20 August 2007: That is a major tough one.
You might have to ask yourself what are the pros and cons of your situation. ask yourself the following questions...
1. Will you stay faithful to your wife to be?
2. Can you see yourself in 5 years time 10 years ... (read in full...)
I am unable to let him go, why can't I move on and dump him? I want to but I can't go a day without texting or ringing him?
Q. I am a thirty year old single mother who has been dating a man for the past five years. He has cheated on me three times that I know of and I keep taking him back. I am unable to let him go, why can't I move on and dump him? I want to but I can't ...
A. 20 August 2007: I would say its purely psychological. I assume you feel you can do no better? I would say that this man you are with has, over the past five years, steadily chipped away at your confidance and you may feel dependant on him because he may have ... (read in full...)
I'm muslim, she's buddhist - her parents don't accept our relationship!
Q. i am a muslim and my girlfriend is a buddhist. we love each other truly. but her parents are not accepting our relationship and does not want it to continue. what should i do?...
A. 24 July 2007: I do apologies I read wrong. But the point is still the same. Continue with the relationship and let her tell her parents were she stands with you. They should get to know you and see how happy you can make her.
As before eventually with time the... (read in full...)
I'm muslim, she's buddhist - her parents don't accept our relationship!
Q. i am a muslim and my girlfriend is a buddhist. we love each other truly. but her parents are not accepting our relationship and does not want it to continue. what should i do?...
A. 24 July 2007: This is excatly why I dont believe in Religion and why it causes more harm than good in todays world.
I would say you are old enough to know what you want and you obviously do not mind that her beliefs differ from your own. I would say continue... (read in full...)
I don't believe in God or the bible (at all) and my family disapproves... sometimes I feel like pretending!
Q. Hello Everyone, My problem is a rather delicate one. I come from a family that is generally very close and we love eachother very much. My problem is that I do not believe in their God(they are Jahovas Witness). In fact I do not believe in any f...
A. 7 June 2007: Thank you everyone that has replied. My grandmother has basically ignored what I have said and is currently on speaking and hugging terms with me again, but I can tell its going to come around again where I am going to have to remind her. I tr... (read in full...)
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