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Hi, I am a 44 year old married woman. I have had some relationship difficulties in my time so I think I may be able to help some people with my answers. I work full time in a very stressful job but I hope I can afford you my time if and when needed.

How do I start to trust my husband again? Or how do I start to put all this to the back of my mind?

Q.   I discovered my husband was using chat lines for sexual reasons. He was chatting to various women about sex and looking at their photos. He even bought a webcam! I know this side of things was pure fantasy (I've asked advice from male colleagues) ...

A.   10 August 2011: Thank you all so much for the replies, I have listened to what you have said. At the moment leaving my husband does not seem like an option, this is my second marriage and I know I didn't work very hard at keeping the first one going (I didn't fancy ... (read in full...)

Husband caught playing "sexual chicken" now what?

Q.   I've been married to my husband for over a year. Two months ago I found a sexually explicit text on his phone (I wasn't snooping, it displayed the text when I plugged his phone in the charger. You can bet I snooped after that, though). It was from a ...

A.   10 August 2011: I am so sorry that you are going through this turmoil. Like you, I am going through a similar situation myself, the difference only is that my husband has been texting a girl he met online and who lives a long way away, she is much younger than him ... (read in full...)

Long distance bf, hooked-up, nothing since, what to do??

Q.   Hi Me and my bf of 2 years were in LDR for the past 1 year. Recently i came back to my place and we hooked up yesterday. We did have sex for the first time in 1 year and it was great. He said a lot of romantic things like he never met a girl like ...

A.   10 August 2011: Try not to contact him again! For the next few hours or couple of days at least! Then if you still haven't heard from him send him a text just to say that you enjoyed getting together, try not to sound 'needy' and try not to let any anger come ... (read in full...)

I've already given him the usual presents. Can you help with special occasion present ideas?

Q.   I need gift ideas for my boyfriend for four upcoming events between now and next summer. 1.) Christmas 2.) Valentines Day 3.) His 18th Birthday (valentines day and his birthday are 2 days apart and for his birthday i was thinking of buying him 1...

A.   10 August 2011: You could buy him the 18 gifts, but make sure they are not too expensive! You could do a little 'treasure hunt' with them, giving him clues on where to find the next gift. you'd have to make sure that the places you left the gifts were secure and ... (read in full...)

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