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I think my husband likes my friend

Q.   I think my husband (common law for 11 years; don’t ask why we haven’t gotten married I don’t know either) likes my friend. I noticed when we went on vacation he would suggest her presence where we were gonna be. I don’t doubt her at all, she’s a ...

A.   24 October 2023: Hi, so yeah she never told me anything. So at this point I’m feeling a type of way towards her too. Him and I have not slept in the same room for days now, and as much as it’s hurting I can’t get over it because he just doesn’t give me a good e... (read in full...)

When is enough enough when its family?

Q.   Okay so… . First of all, I live in a 4 bedroom household with 7 people including myself. Me and my husband in one room, my daughter in her own room, my sister and brother in law in the third room and my mother and 7 year old sister in the 4th room....

A.   23 December 2022: Hi, thank you for your advice first of all. My mom only gets assistance for the youngest child, she’s 8. Aside from that we help her with the 8 year old and anything my mom needs. Yeah same thing we thought, she could have gone to the coll... (read in full...)

My mother has always had toxic relationships with men

Q.   My mom has always had toxic relationships. First my dad, she had me and my 3 sisters, he did drugs and sexually abused me as a child. When she left him about a year went by and Then she got with my other sisters dad. Which was very toxic as well, ...

A.   2 March 2022: Hi, so to answer a couple questions, no she’s not on drugs and doesn’t drink. Thank God, I don’t think I could deal with that. My mother can’t work due to being undocumented. She does nails but honestly does not apply herself to make a little si... (read in full...)

My mother has always had toxic relationships with men

Q.   My mom has always had toxic relationships. First my dad, she had me and my 3 sisters, he did drugs and sexually abused me as a child. When she left him about a year went by and Then she got with my other sisters dad. Which was very toxic as well, ...

A.   20 January 2022: Hi, so to answer a couple questions, no she’s not on drugs and doesn’t drink. Thank God, I don’t think I could deal with that. My mother can’t work due to being undocumented. She does nails but honestly does not apply herself to make a little s... (read in full...)

Breaking up and not feeling bad for the other person

Q.   My s/o and I have been together for 9 years. We have a daughter together that’s undergoing chemotherapy for Leukemia. The past 9 years though they have brought me joy have also brought me a lot of pain. He cheats and is always doing things he’s not ...

A.   2 August 2021: Thank you both so much for the advice! I spoke to him already and have decided to move forward with the break up. I need to focus on my daughters treatment and myself. Thank you!... (read in full...)

Do you think he’s basically telling me to leave?

Q.   So last night my S/O and I got into an argument. We were at walmart leaving and our daughter stopped to whine about getting some gumballs so I wasn't paying attention to where I was walking and accidentally bumped into the entrance doors of the ...

A.   18 February 2019: Same thing I thought. We have been together almost 7 years, and I just feel like there’s not much here anymore aside from our daughter. We’re just very much used to each other. I do love him, we’ve grown up with each other and have a beautiful ... (read in full...)

Was I in the wrong to tell her to let my boss know? Is ending our friendship justified?

Q.   So My husband works in the oil field industry and we live 12 hours away from home. We are alone in the state we are in, and have no family close by. In 2017, My husband befriended his coworker and wanted me to meet his coworkers wife so I could have ...

A.   7 January 2019: Thank you both! I appreciate the help. I decided to let it go. Real friends don’t put you in that position.... (read in full...)

My husband asked my permission to flirt on text messages

Q.   My husband loves me a lot, he is extremely extrovert and would be friendly to everyone, but some time back he has been asking me permission to flirt only on text messages, nothing on phone or meeting,he has been honest with me too about his ...

A.   9 August 2018: Respect yourself, if you’re not comfortable with that then tell him. That’s why he’s your husband, it’s the person you can talk to and tell your feelings to. Don’t ever settle for something you don’t like. Him even asking you for permission is wrong ... (read in full...)

My husband asked my permission to flirt on text messages

Q.   My husband loves me a lot, he is extremely extrovert and would be friendly to everyone, but some time back he has been asking me permission to flirt only on text messages, nothing on phone or meeting,he has been honest with me too about his ...

A.   9 August 2018: Respect yourself, if you’re not comfortable with that then tell him. That’s why he’s your husband, it’s the person you can talk to and tell your feelings to. Don’t ever settle for something you don’t like. Him even asking you for permission is wrong ... (read in full...)

I like her but she is a prositute, how can I get her to leave that work?

Q.   Please help me. I have been in hiding wishing there was someone to love me with true heart. I am searching a true and honest woman to be my good friend and possibly marry her if God decide we should be together. I am tired of boy and girl friend ...

A.   11 February 2017: That's her way of paying the bills, want her to quit? I'm guessing you'd have to offer her a stable life where she doesn't have to worry about her bills being paid. If you can support her then by all means take her out of there, if not then you need ... (read in full...)

How can I encourage him to consider discussing with me, and choosing a baby boy's name with me, where we both agree together on the name?

Q.   My husband and I don't live together because we don't have jobs. I live with my mother and she is supporting me financially for the moment. She will also be getting a house for my bf and us to live in as well. I see my bf once a month, we live a...

A.   11 February 2017: I think you have more things to worry about..like getting a job, not letting your mom support you and your bf. With all the respect in the world, don't worry about the baby name, worry about the financial problems you guys will have once the baby ... (read in full...)

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