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What qualifies you to help people?

I've been through a lot and i know how it is to be alone through things.

What makes you tick?

Hm, the trials i have been through have definitely made me who i am and Ive found a pretty good balance in life through those(: The only way i got through it though was through Christ, without him i would have been completely lost.

What's your relationship status?

I am in a very healthy relationship with a stable man who respects me and treats me right and knows how to live life. I'm so grateful(:

Want advice? ill try my best to answer(:

My attraction to my wife has been lost, and now I can't get this other woman out of my thoughts.

Q.   I have been with my wife for about 9 years now and our relationship was very fulfilling until my wife had consistently put on weight. It has been an issue and she has attempted to try and loose weight but only stays motivated for a couple weeks and ...

A.   13 January 2010: I agree with Angzw. Telling her isn't helping because having one child alone is a headache. After the second i would give her time to heal, recoup and then set up a babysitter with family, like a mom or a sister so she feels comfortable and then ... (read in full...)

Friends don't accept that we are together

Q.   So I have been dating this guy who is 2 years younger than me I am 16 and he is 14 its all been going good between us but still after 6 months, people wont accept that we are together. this makes it hard as I cant do things with my friends and him, ...

A.   13 January 2010: Tell them to accept that you are together and are going to stay that way to there face and let them know that true friends don't judge and are there no matter. If they cant accept that you are happy with him, then they are not true friends. True ... (read in full...)

Brothers or Lovers?

Q.   A few months ago I met a friend on the internet who introduced me to a friend of his. We started off as cyber brothers, and I won't bore you with the details but we're now very much in love and have even said that when he's 18 he wants to move over ...

A.   13 January 2010: Your 13? You have a wayyys to grow up hon. Trust me, i was very much like you in ways and i thought i was madly in love with a guy who was 18. I look back being older and shake my head cause i was crazy because my standards now, and my standards ... (read in full...)

Should I Choose Between My Boyfriend And Family?

Q.   I am almost 20 years old, and female. When I was 16, I began dating a boy who was 18 and lived in California. I'm from Texas. We spent a lot of time with each other despite the fact we lived so far away from each other. I flew to see him and he flew ...

A.   13 January 2010: Education and family are very very important things in your life. He should be supporting you in those two things. You need to communicate EVERYTHING with him. How you feel, what you want, how you two as a couple can achieve it, but your happiness ... (read in full...)

My attraction to my wife has been lost, and now I can't get this other woman out of my thoughts.

Q.   I have been with my wife for about 9 years now and our relationship was very fulfilling until my wife had consistently put on weight. It has been an issue and she has attempted to try and loose weight but only stays motivated for a couple weeks and ...

A.   12 January 2010: Honestly I think that what you did was wrong. Once a woman has had a baby it is much harder for her to loose weight then a man and I don't think men realize that. She deserves the truth. The worst thing she has done is get fat and u decide that ... (read in full...)

I don't want him to get bored with me. How can we spice up our sex life?

Q.   I'm finally in a relationship after 4 years. I decided just to take y'alls advice and just let my hurt and frustration, from my ex's cheating on me, go and now i think i've found someone i feel that i can trust 100% and i'm quite happy... Howe...

A.   11 January 2010: All i can say is that he shouldn't want you for sex hon, he should want you for the person that you are. If he gets "bored" of you because all he wants is sex, then honestly, you can do way better and shouldn't even be in the relationship at all. ... (read in full...)

I smell trouble from my mum's boyfriend!

Q.   My mother's boyfriend came back to live with us after a couple years (yes, years) of taking care of his sick mother. Today, my mother had already left for work, and it was just me and him in the house. He came down for breakfast and sat uncomfor...

A.   11 January 2010: REPORT HIM! Ive been in a very very similar situation, and luckily my mom believed me. I would honestly bring it back up with your mom and if she still doesn't believe you, ask her if it takes him Raping you to believe you? That should wake her ... (read in full...)

First time sex for both of us and now I'm pregnant!

Q.   I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. Several weeks ago he and I had sex for the first time (both of our first times as well) it wasn't planned, it hurt like hell, it didn't last that long, and now I'm pregnant. My dad found out and now he hates me because ...

A.   11 January 2010: I'm really sorry that this has happened to you, but you do have to realize that sex is for making babies, and should have been a little smarter about it. Whats done is done now though. As for your dad, he is probably still in shock, i would gi... (read in full...)

How, exactly do you know you love someone? I mean the real, solid, deep love?

Q.   This'll probably sound stupid and I'm sure it's been asked before, but how is it exactly that you know you love someone? I mean real, solid, deep love. I believe deep down that I love my boyfriend, and I want to tell him - but I also don't want ...

A.   11 January 2010: I think everybody asks that question. I know i do all the time. I was told that its when you want to Provide and Protect someone. It isn't a feeling that you get because if you have been in a long relationship, those feelings develop into something ... (read in full...)

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