I know what I want but I hate that I'm hurting my husband.
Q. Well, I've been writing on this same topic for 3 years now...for background read my other 2 posts... It is now 2009. A lot has changed in my life. I am still very much in love with my soul mate. However, he has now left the state. Before he moved ...
A. 6 August 2009: I have started saving money to make my transition. Honestly, he has become a little unpredictable and I am a little nervous about how he is going to respond. However, I have decided that I'm telling him tonight that the trust is gone on both sides ... (read in full...)
I know what I want but I hate that I'm hurting my husband.
Q. Well, I've been writing on this same topic for 3 years now...for background read my other 2 posts... It is now 2009. A lot has changed in my life. I am still very much in love with my soul mate. However, he has now left the state. Before he moved ...
A. 4 August 2009: He has already started the process, lives in his own place. They had their own problems that had nothing to do with he and I.... (read in full...)
Does his sexual request reflect his level of respect for me?
Q. My new bf and I are having a long distance thing, we see each other every other wkend. We mainly communicate through daily txts. Naturally sometimes our txts turn abit dirty : ) We have told each other our sexual requests for nxt time we meet up....
A. 4 August 2009: No, it has nothing to do with 'respect', it has to do with power. A man's penis is more powerful than his brain. For him to 'shower' you with his semen makes him feel powerful and we all like to feel powerful. Just like a woman being on top is very ... (read in full...)
Could two sexually inactive people pass along an STD?
Q. My fiancee and I are about to get married and have sex for the first time. We are both virgins and both come from a religious background with some pretty strong views on pre-marital sex. Neither of us has been sexually active with anyone beyond ...
A. 4 August 2009: It's possible but not probable. The only thing that I could think that either of you could possibly have is either herpes I (oral) or crabs/pubic lice which CAN be transmitted through an infested toilet seat or on infested bedding. I know someone ... (read in full...)
I know what I want but I hate that I'm hurting my husband.
Q. Well, I've been writing on this same topic for 3 years now...for background read my other 2 posts... It is now 2009. A lot has changed in my life. I am still very much in love with my soul mate. However, he has now left the state. Before he moved ...
A. 4 August 2009: For the record, I didn't involve myself with a 'married' man. I involved myself with a swinging couple and happened to find my soul mate.
and as for the 'tone' of my message darling, it is not vindication I seek, it's making sure that I'm not alon... (read in full...)
My best friend's brother took my virginity AGAINST my will and now I feel so alone and don't know how to handle this...
Q. I really dont know what to do. in march, i went to a party.. everyone got drunk but it was a great night! my best friend's brother is 22 and he is about 6 foot 2 weighs about 18 stone and has muscles bigger than my head. he told me a while ago that ...
A. 4 June 2009: This is not your fault. The guy who did this to you should be hung up and beaten. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE talk to someone. Your mom, your dad, if they aren't someone you trust then call a stranger, hell, call me... I will listen. YOu need to tell ... (read in full...)
I know what I want but I hate that I'm hurting my husband.
Q. Well, I've been writing on this same topic for 3 years now...for background read my other 2 posts... It is now 2009. A lot has changed in my life. I am still very much in love with my soul mate. However, he has now left the state. Before he moved ...
A. 4 June 2009: I find it oddly humorous that the two folks that SLAMMED me are 'anonymous'....ha....... (read in full...)
Which medicine works best for cramps?
Q. Hey, I need some suggestions Whenever I get my period, I tend to get cramps quite often. When it comes, i try so desperately to get rid of them. I've tried Midol, Advil, and Alieve, but the only results i got were that the Advil and Alieve each ...
A. 4 June 2009: I'm sorry to tell you that nothing REALLY works!! The best thing to take is ibuprofen or motrin, they are the same thing so don't take more than 800mg every 8 hours. Try heating pads and if that doesn't work, try a cold compress. Sometimes one or ... (read in full...)
I know what I want but I hate that I'm hurting my husband.
Q. Well, I've been writing on this same topic for 3 years now...for background read my other 2 posts... It is now 2009. A lot has changed in my life. I am still very much in love with my soul mate. However, he has now left the state. Before he moved ...
A. 4 June 2009: Well, so far there has been no one that actually read that HE is the one that says he pushed me into someone elses arms...save EBM...I took full responsibility and he took it away from me because when I told him how I felt he knew that he had caused ... (read in full...)
He's great but when it comes to sex he isn't the best!
Q. Hi all. :) I'm new to this site so bear with me... I'm a 21 year old female. I'm currently dating a 34 male. He's a really great lover and turns me on all the time. It's like I can't get enough of him. But... when it comes to having sex and t...
A. 3 June 2009: Sounds to me like you are the only thing standing in your way. You are self conscious for some reason and you need to find out why. If you can orgasm on your own then the only thing different is that he is in the room...
Just close your eyes and... (read in full...)
Is this normal for a friendship or do you think it's becoming something more?
Q. My best friend says our flirting confuses her :S Were both 19 and both in relationships with two guys. We've been best friends for about 4 years. And we have always had a special connection with each other. We flirt constantly, give each other ...
A. 2 June 2009: Seems to me that it could be something more. There is nothing wrong with being bisexual. You can like guys and still think chicks are hot.
If you think you want to know more then just ask her if shes ever had a bi experience and admit to your cur... (read in full...)
Should I marry my fiance even although I am not in love with him?
Q. Hi, I have been dating my fiance for 1 year and we have just got engaged. He is a very kind, caring and thoughtful guy and would do almost anything for me. I have never been out with anyone who has so wanted to take care of me and thinks of me...
A. 2 June 2009: DON'T DO IT!! It's better to be alone than be with someone that you don't love. As someone said, marriage is hard enough when you are totally insanely in love with someone. But if you just aren't into it...when he leaves the toilet seat up or his ... (read in full...)
Does this mean my hymen isn't there?
Q. hey, im not exactly planning on rushing into sex just yet, im 17, and im proud to still be a virgin, ive been with my boyfriend now for almost 6 months, and im not stupid.. i know sex is going to happen soon, and ive heard most people bleed on their ...
A. 2 June 2009: Losing your hymen does not mean that you won't have pain during sex. I lost my hymen through very very deep 'fingering' because I was also a 'virgin' when i got married. I had done things but never penis/vagina. However, when we had sex for the ... (read in full...)
Is it just a phase that I should wait out to see if my husband becomes all he once was to me? I only have sex with him because it's expected - and love the man I have an affair with. Please advise.
Q. Ok, for background on this, please look up my only other question. I still am in love with my soul mate...the love of my life. He is everything that I want in life. Still, we refuse to leave our spouses for our own selfishness. We have thought abo...
A. 2 June 2009: It is now 2009. A lot has changed in my life. I am still very much in love with my soul mate. However, he has now left the state. Before he moved away, we were separated for a year with him away with his job. We stayed in contact and we know that ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want to do it?
Q. I asked my husband for anal sex. He does not want to do it. WHY?...
A. 17 December 2007: Maybe he doesn't like it. Maybe he thinks it's dirty. Maybe he has a phobia. Maybe he is homophobic and that is what he thinks of with that sexual act. The fact of the matter is, if he doesn't like it it would be like him asking you to do something ... (read in full...)
If I leave my family it will cause hurt...will I regret not being with my soul mate?
Q. Sometimes we find what we are not looking for. My husband and I were in an alternative lifestyle, we were swingers. Well, we have been married for 17 years and had been doing that for 15 of those years. It has always ALWAYS been just fun on the ...
A. 5 June 2007: Well, if any of you care, we are still together in the only sense of the word that we can be, and I still love him with all of my heart. We are still following the 'Love will find a way if we just let it' attitude. We don't intend to intent... (read in full...)
He gave me money for my birthday. Now his mom thinks I'm sponging off him! What should I do?
Q. my partner is away overseas and i have recently had my hours cut at work.he gave me money for my birthday as i was having troubles paying bills. his mother now thinks that i am "sponging" off him. both myself and my partner are hurt over this ...
A. 5 January 2007: There really isn't anything you can do. It's up to your partner. He needs to confront his mother with the words that rhythmandblues said. My money mom, get over it. This is the person in my life right now and they need me. His mother sounds like one ... (read in full...)
Away in Iraq, he grew tired of my constant need for re-assurance and ended it... where do I go from here?
Q. In april of this year I met a guy online who i got chatting to. It wasn't even remotely romantic to begin with and at the time was very into someone else. Usually if i logged off and cut the conversation short i would return to a message saying he ...
A. 5 January 2007: cut your losses, move on. He seems to have commitment issues and you have insecurity issues. Granted, yours seem to be brought on my his actions but you guys mix like water and oil. It just doesn't work.... (read in full...)
Got pregnant. Going to terminate. Should I tell him I had an abortion while he's on holiday... or wait until he returns?
Q. I have just find out I am pregnant. My boyfriend is away on holiday on the other side of the world for another month and I am going to terminate the pregnancy, which I am happy to do. I was wondering whether I should tell him while he is on holiday, ...
A. 5 January 2007: Well, it sounds to me as if you haven't consulted with him or even given him any choice in the matter so why bother with him with it at all. If you aren't going to give him a choice then I wouldn't tell him at all. Personally I think you are being ... (read in full...)
Snooped a look at my hubby's emails and didn't like the flirty messages I found!
Q. My husband left for a 3 day business trip a couple days ago. He was in a hurry to leave and forgot to log off his work email. I sat down at the computer and there it was. My curiosity got the better of me and I peeked. I found that he recently ...
A. 5 January 2007: Are you more worried about the fact that you snooped or the fact that he's flirting with another woman? You have to decide to either take your punishment for snooping and not being trusting and confront him or you have to swallow the knowledge and ... (read in full...)
How do I approach my husband again about this delicate matter?
Q. when my husband and i first talk about anal sex, we both agreed we were not interested. its been about a year now, and i think i want to try. what is the best way to approch him about trying anal sex? ...
A. 5 January 2007: Have you experimented with toys? If you have and you enjoy it then just ask him. Tell him that you know you guys talked about it and weren't interested at that time. But that you have been thinking that you thing you may be interested and want to ... (read in full...)
If I leave my family it will cause hurt...will I regret not being with my soul mate?
Q. Sometimes we find what we are not looking for. My husband and I were in an alternative lifestyle, we were swingers. Well, we have been married for 17 years and had been doing that for 15 of those years. It has always ALWAYS been just fun on the ...
A. 4 January 2007: Malyce?? Weren't you excused?? I could swear that you were. Yep, it's right there in black and white. You were. However, since God appointed you His judge that makes all the difference in the world. NOT!!! You take care of your sins and I will take ... (read in full...)
If I leave my family it will cause hurt...will I regret not being with my soul mate?
Q. Sometimes we find what we are not looking for. My husband and I were in an alternative lifestyle, we were swingers. Well, we have been married for 17 years and had been doing that for 15 of those years. It has always ALWAYS been just fun on the ...
A. 3 January 2007: First of all, thank you to Beentheredonethat. THAT was the kind of answer I needed. Thoroughly thought out by someone who has been there and knows the feelings involved. However, being with this man has changed my course. I don't want to be in the ... (read in full...)
Ladies, I want to try anal sex but tell me...does it hurt??
Q. Girls,Just wanted to know whether anal sex hurts because i wanna try it with my new man!! Does it hurt more than having sex as a virgin?? thanx ...
A. 28 December 2006: Anal hurts if it is done improperly or too fast. You have to be ready for it. Go slow, use fingers or small toys to work your way up to it. There is lube out there made specifically for anal. I recommend the use of that. I personally love anal but ... (read in full...)
I'm only on the bus with him for 5 mins, so how can I get to know him?
Q. Hi everyone, I would be really grateful if anyone can give me some advice. I get the bus to work everyday and on the bus Ive noticed the most gorgeous boy Ive ever seen who I think gets off quite a few stops after me to go to work. Im only on...
A. 28 December 2006: I would just walk over and hand him a piece of paper with my first name, the word coffee?? and my phone number on it. That way if he's available or interested he can call me. If he's not then he won't. But either way, he knows you are!!
That'... (read in full...)
My mom is going to report the vice principle who hit on me - we need to know if it constitutes sexual harassment, though!
Q. hi i posted the question 'my vice principle at school winks at me and says things that make me feel uncomfortable. what should i do?' (13th december 2006). Well anyway my moms going to report it after the festive break but she needs a bit more ...
A. 28 December 2006: I didn't read the original post so I don't know how much he actually has done. If it's just winks and may make a comment here and there is it really harrassment or just something he needs to know is not appropriate??
Have you or you mother a... (read in full...)
If I leave my family it will cause hurt...will I regret not being with my soul mate?
Q. Sometimes we find what we are not looking for. My husband and I were in an alternative lifestyle, we were swingers. Well, we have been married for 17 years and had been doing that for 15 of those years. It has always ALWAYS been just fun on the ...
A. 28 December 2006: Malyce~
You are one strange person and YOU MY DEAR are wrong. You posted double time and didn't wait to see what anyone else had to say in between so you missed my last answer to your question.
Selfish? Me mode? Show me where ANY of this is abou... (read in full...)
If I leave my family it will cause hurt...will I regret not being with my soul mate?
Q. Sometimes we find what we are not looking for. My husband and I were in an alternative lifestyle, we were swingers. Well, we have been married for 17 years and had been doing that for 15 of those years. It has always ALWAYS been just fun on the ...
A. 28 December 2006: Malyce~I truly understand what you mean by that. I thought that I had met so many special people in my life that 'soul mates' covered so much territory. But then, this hit me.
Earlier you said 'hatched from the same egg.' We have had that com... (read in full...)
If I leave my family it will cause hurt...will I regret not being with my soul mate?
Q. Sometimes we find what we are not looking for. My husband and I were in an alternative lifestyle, we were swingers. Well, we have been married for 17 years and had been doing that for 15 of those years. It has always ALWAYS been just fun on the ...
A. 28 December 2006: Malyce, unfortunately I used to feel the same as you. THAT is how I know that 99% of the population does not have the capacity for this. It has to happen to you. If it doesn't then you don't have any clue as to what you are talking about. When that ... (read in full...)
I treat women like royalty...so why can't I hang on to them for long?
Q. Me and my ex broke up 2 months ago, we were together for about a year. i treated her like a queen, paid for everything took her everywhere including a holiday. She told me she loved me. I had never felt this way about anyone before so i replied i ...
A. 27 December 2006: Ok, here's a secret. Girls like boys to not be wimps. Don't ask me every second of every day if I'm ok. If I'm not ok, I will tell you. Treat me like a queen but don't kiss my arse. If I'm being a Queen, then tel me I deserve the moon...If I'm being ... (read in full...)
I'm a middle aged lady... in love with another lady!
Q. I am a female in love with another female but I am not sure how she feels. We are both middle aged. We have the best time together and laugh a lot. She told me she only got married to get away from her step dad and has fallen out of love with her ...
A. 27 December 2006: If you have feelings for her and she's not in love with her husband then tell her. I would definitely approach it as though your friendship is the most important above all else. Just tell her that you love her and that you feel like that love could ... (read in full...)
How many BJ's on average, is average?
Q. How many blow jobs does the average man get per week ? ...
A. 27 December 2006: That is a loaded question really. There are SO many contributing factors here. Is he married, does he date regularly, does his significant other enjoy oral sex? I mean, it's different for everyone. My man gets some amount of oral every time we have ... (read in full...)
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