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Worried my girlfriend is pregnant

Q.   you see my girlfriend turns 18 on May first while i turn 17 in August. We have been together for about 2 years and couldn't be happier. We are planning on moving in together when she turns 18.(her parents aren't exactly happy with our ...

A.   11 April 2009: ok so it turns out that it was just a false alarm for some reason she was like 5 days late on her period and now we know she isn't pregnant and now we are going to be going in the next few weeks to get her the depo shot that lasts for about 3 months ... (read in full...)

Worried my girlfriend is pregnant

Q.   you see my girlfriend turns 18 on May first while i turn 17 in August. We have been together for about 2 years and couldn't be happier. We are planning on moving in together when she turns 18.(her parents aren't exactly happy with our ...

A.   10 April 2009: Well this morning she started her period so i guess shes not pregnant, only about a week late. I'd like to thank everybody who helped me.... (read in full...)

Worried my girlfriend is pregnant

Q.   you see my girlfriend turns 18 on May first while i turn 17 in August. We have been together for about 2 years and couldn't be happier. We are planning on moving in together when she turns 18.(her parents aren't exactly happy with our ...

A.   10 April 2009: Well as it is if i every eat out its from the value menu personally ive been living of about 2 cups of cup o' noodles a day which is really quite cheap. Well we've got about 2 months or so to clearly think about all of our options and make the... (read in full...)

Worried my girlfriend is pregnant

Q.   you see my girlfriend turns 18 on May first while i turn 17 in August. We have been together for about 2 years and couldn't be happier. We are planning on moving in together when she turns 18.(her parents aren't exactly happy with our ...

A.   10 April 2009: If it wasnt for the money issue we would like nothing more than having a child... (read in full...)

Worried my girlfriend is pregnant

Q.   you see my girlfriend turns 18 on May first while i turn 17 in August. We have been together for about 2 years and couldn't be happier. We are planning on moving in together when she turns 18.(her parents aren't exactly happy with our ...

A.   8 April 2009: My girlfriend and i have the same mind set about the situation, we both hate the idea of aborting or adoption... (read in full...)

Worried my girlfriend is pregnant

Q.   you see my girlfriend turns 18 on May first while i turn 17 in August. We have been together for about 2 years and couldn't be happier. We are planning on moving in together when she turns 18.(her parents aren't exactly happy with our ...

A.   8 April 2009: we have only been using a condom, no matter how all of this turns out we will be more cautious and will use multiple forms of pregnancy prevention.... (read in full...)

Worried my girlfriend is pregnant

Q.   you see my girlfriend turns 18 on May first while i turn 17 in August. We have been together for about 2 years and couldn't be happier. We are planning on moving in together when she turns 18.(her parents aren't exactly happy with our ...

A.   8 April 2009: Since neither myself of my girlfriend want to go through with an abortion i believe the second most logical choice is adoption. At the same time i cannot see anyone other than myself and my girlfriend raising this child no matter how logical it may ... (read in full...)

Am I his girlfriend or sparring partner?

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago. Now everytime I see him on campus he picks a fight with me. We are in the same residence and it is awkward. Why is he doing this and how can I handle this...cooly...camly. Any replies appreciated....

A.   5 January 2008: it could be that he still has feelings for you or maybe was jsut really hurt by the break up. or it could just be that hes not a very nice guy its up to you to decide but those are the 3 common reasons for that type of behaviour.... (read in full...)

What does all this mean

Q.   i like this guy but he makes it hard for me to tell whether he lives me back. when we were alone and he hugged me, he kissed me lightly on my shoulder and rubbed my back what does this mean?...

A.   9 November 2007: i did the exact same thing to show my girlfried that i wanted to date her, take this as a sign that he LIKES you and wants to date you talk to him and take a risk. hope this helps pm if you wanna talk... (read in full...)

He is addicted to his computer... HELP

Q.   Well, I have another problem with my boyfriend. Ever since I have known him he has been into computer games big time. He doesnt work right now so lately (the past for months) all he does from the minute he wakes up to the time he goes to sleep, is ...

A.   9 November 2007: well this is a problem that has destroyed many of my friends relationships and to be honest we havent figured anything out other than to express your feelings to your boyfriend and tell him exactly how you feel and make sure he knows it bothers you. ... (read in full...)

Tips on giving a hickey

Q.   How do you give a hicky? Any tips? I'm in a new relationship and I really like him. I think that the time for this might come up. When he is giveing me one...can I do anything? Thanks so much....

A.   9 November 2007: Biting and sucking but not too hard and dont try to big of an area at once. hope this helps pm if you wanna talk... (read in full...)

I'm worried he may find someone better.

Q.   Ok a rephrase of my other question. My Fiancee and I dont get any alone time and im afraid they will find someone better like my last 2 boyfriends did and im worried that without as much time alone together we might grow apart and i dont know what ...

A.   14 October 2007: ok just to clearify im the fiancee on my boyfriends account just fyi thats why the title is like that... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and I fool around, but I'm not sure we're ready to take it further, any advise?

Q.   ok so heres the deal ive been dating a girl for a while and when we're together and alone we get VERY affectionate as in 3rd base and during that time when we are in the moment we talk about sex and how at the time we both really want to do it but ...

A.   25 August 2007: i am a male and i am dating a female im not quite sure why the admins put that title but whatever... (read in full...)

My ex girlfriend and her mates are going to try and ruin things with my new girlfriend and I by lying to her.

Q.   Me and My ex girlfriend have split up for about 3 weeks now and I dumped her because we started having arguments and we never really took off if you know what I mean? I had many people tell me she was cheating on me with work mates and so forth. ...

A.   13 August 2007: talk to the girl that your thinking about dating be clear with her about everything and if there is something that your ex. knows about that could be potentially heartbreaking to this new girl, its better she hears it from you then someone else. ... (read in full...)

What's the best reply?

Q.   whats the best response to a guy that says "i love you"? if you are not sure you are ready to honestly say that back to him??...

A.   5 August 2007: just be honest if he says i love you say something along the lines of "i really like you im just not yet sure if i love you and i dont want to say it unless i mean it" thats what was said to me and there were no hard feelings. hope it helps... (read in full...)

How can i convince my girlfriend to sneak out so we can be together at night?

Q.   how can i convice my girlfriend to sneak out so we can be together at night? we cant hang out to often on account of her parents not liking me to much for my past. i constantly sneak out to see her for a few hours but its always her inside and me ...

A.   2 August 2007: thanks i realize that i was being selfish in wanting her to do something that she just wasnt comfortable doing. and i've decided to not press the issue and just wait and see what happens and if it doesnt happen o well. but anyway thanks for the ... (read in full...)

How can i convince my girlfriend to sneak out so we can be together at night?

Q.   how can i convice my girlfriend to sneak out so we can be together at night? we cant hang out to often on account of her parents not liking me to much for my past. i constantly sneak out to see her for a few hours but its always her inside and me ...

A.   1 August 2007: it not like what you think her parents dont like me because of something that happened in my past before i ever met her i do care about her and i dont want her to get in trouble but at the same time i want to hang out with her (not fool around) we ... (read in full...)

24 hours after we split-he's in bed with a herpes infested girl! How could he do that?

Q.   I have been dating this guy for 6 months. We broke up late Friday night because he doesn't share his feelings with me.(he shares them with everyone else though...friends/family) On Monday, I went to talk with him to patch up the relationship and I ...

A.   1 August 2007: after a break up guys can be really easily taken advantage of (girls are the same way) or maybe he considers what he did with this girl a mistake the important thing to do is sit him down and talk with him about it be honest about how you feel and ... (read in full...)

Want to dump this guy I've dated for a month-how do I do this?

Q.   I'm going out with this boy who is a year younger than me and i dont love him anymore after a month of dating. I cant stop thinking about this other boy and he's giving me advice on how to act towards the boy i like not knowing it's him. Basically i ...

A.   1 August 2007: ok the most important thing is to be honest with him about how you are feeling so that there are no hard feelings. whatever you do make sure you break up with him in person otherwise rude and unkind words will be said and you will be called a bit@h ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has a suspicious mark on his neck; could it have been a girl, is he fibbing?

Q.   it may be nothing but a few days ago i saw three different marks on my boyfriend's neck and collar bone and he says that two of them are bruises from where a shelf fell on him and the other one is a pinch mark when he was drunk (rather silly thing ...

A.   30 July 2007: ask yourself if you trust him if the answer is yes you have nothing to worry about however if it appears again than confront him about it. if the answer is no then sit him down and talk to him about it tell him u dont care what the answer is just as ... (read in full...)

I love him but i'm not happy.

Q.   How do i break up with my boyfriend i love,but am not happy with?...

A.   30 July 2007: i kinda disagree with what has been said because it doesnt look as though it would help much. i would first say try to fix the relationship so that you are happy, however if that doesnt work and you still dont feel happy sit him down and talk to him ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and I fight constantly... about everything!

Q.   My boyfriend and I, fight constantly! It's about everything. No matter what I do, we must talk about it. When he does something wrong, we aren't allowed to talk about it. He gets mad at me for yelling at him at the big things he does, but he yells ...

A.   25 July 2007: personally it sounds to me like you need to end the relationship, if its really as bad as you say it is then theres no point in staying. however there is an alternative side simply sit him down and talk to him tell him about how you feel regaurding ... (read in full...)

He's a friend and we have sex. Should I wait and see if he wants to take this further or just give up?

Q.   I am really confused, I need everyone’s help. I knew this guy a few years ago and we just ran into each other a month or so ago. We have been messing around and I have been confused. He only calls me once a week, but he does little things when I am ...

A.   21 July 2007: i had a similar experiance and just be open with him about how you feel it sounds like he is hinting that he wants more than just sex just talk to him find out what he wants and make sure he is clear about what he says. hope this helps... (read in full...)

I want to know whether it is reasonable to ask him to have no further contact with this other girl?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and I feel, perhaps due to past experiences, that he doesn't really want to be with me, he say's he does and he has never really given me any real reason to doubt this. However a girl he was seeing before ...

A.   21 July 2007: im in a similar bind expect im the guy and its my current and ex. girlfriend it all depends on how they interact with each other as in if they are really physical with each other or if they talk passionately. i think you need to make it clear that ... (read in full...)

He asked me out but I turned him down because I'm nervous and have never kissed a guy before. Any advice?

Q.   Hey guys, I'm 14 years old and I really like this guy, he likes me too and has asked me out on a number of occasions. However I am a bit nervous and have turned him down, I have liked him for ages but I'm worried it will be awkward especial...

A.   19 July 2007: it sounds to me like you need to take a chance, it may be awkward but if you dont accept you'll spend your life wondering what could have been and dont be afraid t ask him out aswell, you dont need to kiss on the first date or the second for that ... (read in full...)

I told him we could only be friends. Now he's saying he can't do it anymore and that I've hurt him! Why is he being this way? What can I do?

Q.   Hoping someone can help me here. I dated a guy earlier in the year who...I thought wanted more than I could give. He wanted more and let me know it but I let him know that all I could offer was friendship. I thought he was ok with it but he phoned ...

A.   16 July 2007: well i think you did all you could do and theres nothing wrong with that give him some time and space, its a good thing that you said only friends because its honest and you wouldnt be leading him on. hope this helps message me if you wanna ca... (read in full...)

How can I stand up for myself more and say NO to sex?

Q.   I'm 17 and I've had sex with 5 diferent people. They were all "relationships" (or what I naivly thought would become one) but only one of them was serious. This was with my first boyfriend and I slept with him (and lost my virginity to him) after ...

A.   15 July 2007: it sounds like you just need to take things alot slower maybe dont go out partying as often or whenever you do go out make sure you have a friend there to keep you from doing something stupid. or just learn to say NO not i dont know just NO plain ... (read in full...)

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