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He's not as affectionate... does he still love me?

Q.   Alright, I am back everyone! :) I have a question. What are the signs that your boyfriend is not as interested or in love with you anymore? In the beginning my boyfriend was sooo happy with me, always holding me close, telling me he loved me, ...

A.   19 June 2008: So I went to talk to him last night. i totally broek down crying. he held me for what seemed like forever. He said he is leaning towards me but needs to be 100% sure. He says he loves me, I'm not the problem. infact I was good to him, too good. He ... (read in full...)

He cheated and lied for two and a half year, and yet I slept with him again last weekend. Is there any point?

Q.   talking to a man who cheated and lied to me for two n half years, someone I made the mistake of sleeping with again last weekend when I knew it was just sex to him. I am going to be in his city again tomorrow and asked him if he wanted to meet for ...

A.   18 June 2008: Hello, it is better to cut all ties with this loser. I did the same thing years ago, allowed myself to be used since I was too weak to say no. You said you have nothing to say when he calls. Well, then there is nothing to say. You deserve better, be ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   18 June 2008: Hello, just to update everyone, we have broken up. If someone can't respect my feelings enough and care about what hurts me, then that is not a respectable relationship. I shouldnt have to compromise my morals and beliefs. I know I deserve better, ... (read in full...)

He's not as affectionate... does he still love me?

Q.   Alright, I am back everyone! :) I have a question. What are the signs that your boyfriend is not as interested or in love with you anymore? In the beginning my boyfriend was sooo happy with me, always holding me close, telling me he loved me, ...

A.   18 June 2008: Hello, i just wanted to re-cap and update. So i did some research and found some articles on how porn is harmful to relationships. I left these articles for my bf to read. Well, he read them and blew up. He askes me to leave and I did the next day. ... (read in full...)

He's not as affectionate... does he still love me?

Q.   Alright, I am back everyone! :) I have a question. What are the signs that your boyfriend is not as interested or in love with you anymore? In the beginning my boyfriend was sooo happy with me, always holding me close, telling me he loved me, ...

A.   9 June 2008: i dont think sex is a problem last night we did it, he was drunk, he came inside me, usually he doesnt. Im on birth controlpills, but he staretd freaking out saying he hopes im not oregnant and saying how mad he would be if i was. he kept ... (read in full...)

He's not as affectionate... does he still love me?

Q.   Alright, I am back everyone! :) I have a question. What are the signs that your boyfriend is not as interested or in love with you anymore? In the beginning my boyfriend was sooo happy with me, always holding me close, telling me he loved me, ...

A.   9 June 2008: So i dont know if I should be concerned or not. I just miss the feelings that were there a few months ago. I told him look, dont be afraid to hurt me, if youre not happy with me then let me know. He laughed when I said that, and said evrything was ... (read in full...)

He's not as affectionate... does he still love me?

Q.   Alright, I am back everyone! :) I have a question. What are the signs that your boyfriend is not as interested or in love with you anymore? In the beginning my boyfriend was sooo happy with me, always holding me close, telling me he loved me, ...

A.   9 June 2008: Well, he had told me he's always looked at porn, way before he met me. he said he never met anyone who thought it was bad or a big deal. I had a talk with him yesterday. He came home, looking bored, really quiet, went on the comp for a while and ... (read in full...)

He's not as affectionate... does he still love me?

Q.   Alright, I am back everyone! :) I have a question. What are the signs that your boyfriend is not as interested or in love with you anymore? In the beginning my boyfriend was sooo happy with me, always holding me close, telling me he loved me, ...

A.   8 June 2008: no, he doesnt go out a lot. He recently got drunk and spilled out his frustration about having no friends here and how much he misses his friends. See, He moved here from Ohio last July for a goverment job with the airforce. At first, he told me he ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   6 June 2008: Wizard of Waz, that response was rather rude. Anyways, I thank everyone for their input and responses to my dilemma. You have all, well, most of you, :) have been very helpful and nice.... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   5 June 2008: He is not a bad guy. I guess im just torn between if this is really a big deal to our relationship or not. I would nevr lie to him. I asked him last week if i could trust him with everything? and he nodded yes. but then he downloaded porn again. ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   5 June 2008: that last post was kind of confusing, should i confront him for lying about not doing it anymore? I am hurt he did it when he said he wouldn't. i want to know why he lied.... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   5 June 2008: yes,he did tell me he never met anybody that had things like this bother him and he found it baffling I guess. So i think i should talk to him about it one more time and see what he says. I dont want him lying to me. I dont hink its unreasonable for ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   5 June 2008: I just feel like he is crapping on my feelings when he continued to do it when he said he would stop. I cried and made it clear how it made me felt. doesnt that mean he doesnt really love me?... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   5 June 2008: I really really wish I could get it in myhead that he's not wanting these women but i think thats why guys do it, they wish their gf's looked like them. I saw some "big titty" girls and huge boobs videos. I asked him is that what what you want? am ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   5 June 2008: im not trying to control him. i asked him when we first started dating if he looked at porn and he said no. then i found out he did, not a lot, but at least weekly i see stuff downloaded on the comp. i live here, i dont know when he jacks off to it ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   5 June 2008: i even tried to going on sites of naked men so i could see if i get off on it and become aroused so i could maybe have a beter understanding of why he does it. I tried to tell myself that hey i can have fun too and its not a big deal. but it was ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   5 June 2008: what do you mean? that he will probably just do it more? should i write him a letter about this? he actually asked me if anything was wrong yesterday and kept waiting for me to say something but he was laughing about it like ok, what did i do today? ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   5 June 2008: The night went on and we had fun, yet i felt uncomfortable. We had sex that night and it was great. thats why i dont understand why he needs the porn! these women dont love him like i do, hey dont cook for him, do his laundry or take care of him, I ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   5 June 2008: old fool, thank you for the compliments, ive slept on this issue, actually i got a lil drunk last night. We watched the hockey game together and then played poker online together, he was teaching me. We had a great time, but I felt like bringing up ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   4 June 2008: do you really think if i bookmarked it he would get the point? i dont want to make this worse.... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   4 June 2008: I guess i just feel unloved now. I almost wish i were prettier or had bigger boobs so he wouldnt want to look at those videos. doesnt it mean im not enough to him?... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   4 June 2008: I am very confused now. I am very hurt by his need to look at other women, teens in sexual acts. I dont want to make it a big deal but it is to me. I guess i have my answer: He doesnt respect my feelings or values, I am not enough for him and he ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   4 June 2008: well i have issues with my dad leaving my mom and my firsy love leaving me, the last time we talked, i told him about these things being the reasons for my insecurities and that i needed to work on them. and i would. He listened, he doesnt ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   4 June 2008: well i know im attractive, as my boyfriend tells me i'm hot, and his friends think i'm "hot." then if I am, then why the porn? ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   4 June 2008: well the arguments were about me worying all the time, that he would leave me, if i could trust him, he's a good guy, dont think he would do anyting to hurt me serious.i was bothered that i frustrated him with my persistant need for re assurance ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   4 June 2008: man, now i am a litle confused. That one guy said i should get a new guy. Im trying not to make a big deal with this but i cant understand why he just couldnt stop. even he said it wasnt a big deal and he would stop. he laughed about that fact that ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   4 June 2008: well i already told him to be honest with everything since he told me he doesnt say some things to me cuz of my reactions. I'm very sensitive and get offended easily. He knows that. ive been working on it, I told him I would about making big deals ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   4 June 2008: Star 07, I find that your advice was comforting and logical. I guess i just feel insecure about not being enough for him. i am really hurt about being lied to. We just had a talk about being honest with EVERYTHING. thats what hurts too. I know if i ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   4 June 2008: I'm trying not to over react, i just dont get why he looks at it if we have an active and enjoyable sex life. I could do it any time of the day, however many times he wants! I've never turned it down. Does it mean he's bored with me? weve been ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   4 June 2008: I'm trying not to over react, i just dont get why he looks at it if we have an active and enjoyable sex life. I could do it any time of the day, however many times he wants! I've never turned it down. Does it mean he's bored with me? weve been ... (read in full...)

Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?

Q.   I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...

A.   4 June 2008: well, it bothers me because i think I should be the one to be his ultimate sexual fantasy. I dont need to look at naked guys to get off so why does he need to look at naked girls? It's confusing. If he really loved me wouldnt he stop? I guess he ... (read in full...)

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