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He's ignoring me, what do I do? He was my life!!!

Q.   please help me i really need help because i dont know what to do i feel so ill and sick. i have been texting a guy for nearly 3 months and we were getting on brilliant he was kinda my boyfriend! until 5.30pm today uk time. i messaged him saying what ...

A.   1 June 2010: exactly,let him reply dont let him be your everything even if he actually is if he doent reply go out and find yourself another one =D... (read in full...)

My husband is wearing me down soooo much... help!

Q.   See I've been married two years and my husband tells me I'm a dog that should be put down, or I should drown in a tub, awful wife. We fight a lot and maybe that's my fault but I wouldn't fight with him if he wouldn't back me in a corner. How so he ...

A.   1 June 2010: well ithink that this guy may be doing what you think he's doing the best the thing to do would to gwt a divorce if he really is how you say he is..... (read in full...)

Am I not good enough?

Q.   Heyy Peoples! Recently i started dating one of my childhood friends and everything is going great! I'm so happy! We both gave eachother our bebo passwords. One day i decided to check his private mail. I probly shouldnt have invaded his privacy...

A.   1 June 2010: the best thing would be to forget about reading what he said he proapbly just said it jut to say it you are good enough for him if he was willing to give you his password thats all you need to remember but yeah,next time no snooping please 8)... (read in full...)

18 year age difference!!!

Q.   I am 17 with a 36 year old. We have been together for 2 years now. everything has been great. Apart from having to hide from everybody. A few days ago my mom passed and i moved in with him. We finally told his parents because we could no longer hide ...

A.   1 June 2010: well ithink thats great and that if everything works out good for you to...then that would be fantastic also.. and if your very sure that he is iguess the one than who the hell cares what any1 else thinks as long as you are in love with this man ... (read in full...)

Can you really go from being bi curious to straight?

Q.   Right here goes x im 17, ive been with my boyfriend since we were 13 and i love him to pieces. the thing is, he's always been openly bisexual, and ive always accepted that as part of who he is and i love him despite that, i honestly have no...

A.   1 June 2010: well if he's been with you for that long and has not really experemented with other guys or girls since you two got together than maybe he is just saying he is straight becaus well he has no idea what being with an other guy or other girl is so,so ... (read in full...)

How can I open up to him more when he talks about sexy stuff?

Q.   im 19 and in my first ever relationship. my boyfriend always says sexy stuff to me and i never know what to say back. i look like an idiot and he gets a bit annoyed that he's the one that always does the talking in terms of sex. when he asks what i ...

A.   1 June 2010: tell him thaat your sorry you have nothing back to say because that is your first relation ship..make it clear to him that you at times have no clue what to say back to him ... (read in full...)

Am I a man whore???

Q.   Okay so people keep calling me these names and I'm just sick of it. I'm 17 and I'm gay. The think is I get turned on very easily and am very friendly and flirtatious. So I tend to flirt with a lot of guys... and some girls too. And even when not ...

A.   1 June 2010: you are not a man whore!!!! the thing is your a flirt,maybe even a natural flirt,like me im BISEXUAL and my friends and so on even tell me that im not a hore im just a flirt you cant stop it,it just happens ibet you dont even notice when your flir... (read in full...)

Totally confused about everything in my life...

Q.   So I'm a guy and I'm 15. I live a very boring life, in fact i have no life at all and no TRUE friends. It sucks. It's pretty lonely and sad. And lately I've been getting a real desire to find someone to call my own. To be in love, to fall in love, ...

A.   1 June 2010: maybe go on a few dates have some fun even maybe experement but were still young theres time lots of time... (read in full...)

My mom spanks me with a shoe, hairbrush and sometimes a belt. How can I talk to her about this?

Q.   Hi its a bit embarassing but I'm still getting spanked by my mom usually with her shoe or hairbrush sometimes with a belt. It hurts a lot and I sometimes have trouble sitting after. She wasnt always like this but after my Dad left she has no patie...

A.   1 June 2010: you should approach her calmly and tell her if she could please give you another punishment and not that one because obviousely that one is hurtng you as lot the best thing to do is try not to get get mad when your tellinig her this and be sure to t... (read in full...)

I just found out my bf was married but separated, yet JUST signed divorce papers!

Q.   Before anyone makes any assumptions, here's the background story: I've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years. The first few months he lived at home with his parents to catch up on debts. I would stay over all the time, and no one in his famil...

A.   1 June 2010: confront him and make sure to make it clear to him that you may understand why he never told you also ask his family why they never told youabout it..why they made you figure it out that way it would be ebest to have everything out in the open and ... (read in full...)

How does he really feel about me?

Q.   Four years ago I was very unhappy in my marriage and got involved with a man who was also in a relationship. This went on for 3 years and although we never talked about our feelings for one another it was obvious that there were very strong feelings ...

A.   1 June 2010: ithink that he proapbly feels obligated,you should proapbly be the strong one and tell him straight up and bluntly how you feel,maybe then things between you guys could be more clearer and work better-GOODLUCK ... (read in full...)

What's the best way to test if a guy is interested in me?

Q.   What's the best way to test if a guy is interested in me? in a subtle manner! so that if he isn't, i can walk away without a dented ego!?...

A.   1 June 2010: you should proably ask around the question like say who are you interested right now and that your just wondering (if he asks why) and yeah ask him to go somewhere with you like to a dinner or movies because none of your other friends are willing to ... (read in full...)

He's given me an STD, how do I talk to him about it?

Q.   I found out that my boyfriend has given me an STD and I'm so upset but i would like to talk about. I cheated once and he took me back, but i have no idea of how to start this conversation....

A.   1 June 2010: dont waste time with this the best thing to do would proapbly be to tell him as soon as possible... (read in full...)

How can I win over his mother?

Q.   Hi, I am 26 and my boyfriend is 31. He's Muslim and I'm Christian. I am learning Arabic and plan to convert to Islam. We have been together for over a year. We have been seriously discussing marriage recently. He plans to introduce me to ...

A.   1 June 2010: to win the mother over the first time you meet her dont wear anything that shows to much skin and know a lot about your future mother in law ex:what she likes to eat what she knows about you and last but maybe least get some info. on her-GOOD... (read in full...)

Input needed here! What can I do to make him trust me again?

Q.   Okay so the boy i lost my virginity to is acting kind of different now. First he says, that the sex wasnt good and now he has a girl. He hates me for lying to him(which iDidnt) He doesnt believe i Was a virgin. And he tells me all the time that he ...

A.   1 June 2010: kinda sorry to say this but the guy used you. he proably knows you like him as much as you do and he is saying that on purpose just to get you pissed off. ithink you should find some other guy someone less of an ass or maybe even you should have ... (read in full...)

Did I do something wrong here? How can I cope with all of this?

Q.   Hello I'm new here just looking for help, I have a constant cling onto hope, as long as im alive.. Anyways, my hometown is in oregon US. and i had a first love here and that didnt work out, it caused me to start having panic attacks and anxi...

A.   1 June 2010: ithink you should try to move on.. you should find some friends some family even and find or go somewhere and have a good time..try to forget about her even if its hard the best thing here would be proapbly to move on and find someone or somthing... (read in full...)

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