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Should I dump uni' for a small screen role?

Q.   Hi everybody, I have a difficult decision to make. I am a student at uni studying accountancy. About half a year ago I suffered a nervous breakdown and was allowed to take break from my studies. I was experiencing a deep depression and took this ...

A.   2 February 2017: Thanks everybody for your opinions. I just came back from his office. Just wanted to let you know that I have actually rejected their offer as I felt they were objectifying women. The contract requires me to lose 6 kilos of weight before filming b... (read in full...)

Should I dump uni' for a small screen role?

Q.   Hi everybody, I have a difficult decision to make. I am a student at uni studying accountancy. About half a year ago I suffered a nervous breakdown and was allowed to take break from my studies. I was experiencing a deep depression and took this ...

A.   30 January 2017: I think I will go ahead with this acting gig and see how it goes. Just crossing my fingers. I hope the show does not get cancelled after one season, or my character gets killed off. My scenes might even be deleted in the final cut. If it turns ou... (read in full...)

Should I dump uni' for a small screen role?

Q.   Hi everybody, I have a difficult decision to make. I am a student at uni studying accountancy. About half a year ago I suffered a nervous breakdown and was allowed to take break from my studies. I was experiencing a deep depression and took this ...

A.   30 January 2017: Unfortunately, online courses are not offered. I know credit transfers might be possible between local universities. It is also possible to keep postponing my courses although not indefinitely. I forgot to mention, I am 100% sure that I no longe... (read in full...)

Should I continue a relationship with someone who doesn't want children?

Q.   I am currently at crossroads in my life. I found a guy I truly love and loves me for who I am. We seem to be made for each other. In fact, I feel that we are soul mates if not for one terrible flaw in him. He hates children! I have seen the wa...

A.   27 February 2016: I talked to my dad. He said before he met my mother he was sure to commit himself to a life avoiding marriage or any real responsibility. No... I wasn't a born a mistake. My dad found a woman he truly loved and decided to spend the rest of his l... (read in full...)

Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?

Q.   I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...

A.   3 December 2015: Why is everyone pointing fingers at him??? You don't know him just from the few words I described him. I don’t believe he could have done such a thing to hurt me. He really cares about me. I didn’t say this before, but I actually have developed ... (read in full...)

Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?

Q.   I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...

A.   3 December 2015: Well not all my friends were helpful. Some of them said I was stupid, I should just move on, and some of them even said I deserved what happened to me. They said very mean things to me. :-( It's times like this when you know who your real friends ... (read in full...)

Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?

Q.   I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...

A.   2 December 2015: Oh actually my photographer friend has been helping me as I am currently vacationning. He's been doing a lot for me including contacting a lawyer. He really blames himself for what happened :-( I have also got some of my close guy friends to help ... (read in full...)

Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?

Q.   I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...

A.   1 December 2015: Appreciate the concern, but my friend isn't the culprit here. :-) I have known him for more than 8 years, and he is a very good friend of mine. I wasn't being exploited either. I consider us business partners, I actually keep 60% of the earnings ... (read in full...)

I want to live a new lifestyle, but I'm afraid of not being accepted by my family and friends!

Q.   Hello everyone! I just want to say before I bring anything up, that this was a decision in the works for a long time, and it's set in stone for me. So, I'm 16 years old, and I have made the decision that I want to become a nudist. Or naturist, if ...

A.   12 November 2015: I can't advise you how to break it to your family but I can tell you where to start. Go to a nudist/naturist resort. There you will find similar minded people. Hopefully you can relate to them. Might be a better idea than going nude at your friends ... (read in full...)

I'm desperate for women to notice me

Q.   Hi, I am a 22 year old virgin and have spent years trying to make myself attractive enough to be able to have sex. Ive transformed the way I look, started going to school parties,even started drinking at them even though I dont like alcohol. Im n...

A.   12 November 2015: Hi OP, I didn't know it was you who posted the other questions. I really feel sorry that you are still conflicted over this. But judging from your posts, I have come to summarize this. You are an overachiever who is extremely conscious about how ... (read in full...)

Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?

Q.   I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...

A.   7 November 2015: @Ciar yes thanks :-) thanks for sharing the info... (read in full...)

Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?

Q.   I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...

A.   6 November 2015: There were reasons why I didn't get dressed. I wasn't an exhibitionist or anything like that. The main reason was that we were rushing to complete the whole syllabus of the workshop within a very short time, 6 hours to be exact. We the organizers ... (read in full...)

I've got a crush, but I don't know if he has. What if my friend misunderstood?

Q.   My bff that i have know for a couple of years gave me a number of a guy that has the same intrests as me (let's call him alex)... He is pratically a copy of my but a guy and on Halloween me and my bff and her friends went out around the town and ...

A.   6 November 2015: It's a bit hard to tell since there is not much information given. I guess that is why not many people have replied to your question yet. :-) Have you known him for a long time? I am guessing he's in the same class or the same grade as you, so maybe ... (read in full...)

I've got a crush, but I don't know if he has. What if my friend misunderstood?

Q.   My bff that i have know for a couple of years gave me a number of a guy that has the same intrests as me (let's call him alex)... He is pratically a copy of my but a guy and on Halloween me and my bff and her friends went out around the town and ...

A.   5 November 2015: Hey honey just to get a better perspective, can you tell us exactly how old are you and this Alex guy?... (read in full...)

Can you suggest for me a good way to go forward, so that this situation here gets little easier?

Q.   Hi, I am in a middle of a triangle love which is a deep one. I can't decide what should I do now. I love a girl, who is of my age. Some unfortunate things happened with her 5 years ago. When she was 15, she was committed to a relationship wit...

A.   3 November 2015: I don't understand. What you legally there is no registry or any legal proof that they are married? Also was she pregnant when she got married? Then she would have children. That would be complicated. Sorry I am not too familiar with Indian c... (read in full...)

Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?

Q.   I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...

A.   3 November 2015: Hi anonymous male, what college are you referring about? Sorry maybe what I wrote earlier was a bit confusing. I didn't say the unauthorised pics were taken at the art college. Ok, I might as well describe whole episode that took place: Basical... (read in full...)

Are my fears reasonable? Is my Bf, who is divorced, just too close to his ex and her parents, still? And why should I be a secret?

Q.   Hi, i really need an opinion from you guys. I'm 43 my bf is 50. i'm widow and he is divorced. We are now 5 months in relationship. We are not living together cos our place are 3 hours far distance, but we are always seeing each other, sometimes im s...

A.   3 November 2015: Hi I am sorry to hear about your problem. :-( I had a similar problem as you in the past. I had a boyfriend that I really loved. But like you, he never wanted his parents to know about me. His friends knew me, just not his family. I later found... (read in full...)

Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?

Q.   I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...

A.   3 November 2015: maverick494, thanks again :-) Ok will try your suggestions. Not so well verse about contracts stuff. I am good at numbers, really clueless when it comes to law related stuff. I get I would have to Google and read about employment law. What I ... (read in full...)

How do black people find positivity in a world that seems to hate them?

Q.   I'm black and every week I come across a video or article that commentators summarize as "black people are savage, Africans are worthless and the worst thing on the planet". I want to know how other black people find positivity in a world that hates ...

A.   3 November 2015: Hi I can related to your experience. Being a person of mixed raced (my father's ancestor were Welsh and my mom was originally from Taiwan), I probably experience it worse than you. I did not feel like I belonged to either group. I used to be bull... (read in full...)

Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?

Q.   I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...

A.   3 November 2015: http://www.oddee.com/item_98740.aspx I guess I have my answer already :-( I should brace myself for the day that will inevitably come. Part of wants to just come out and go public. Then I don't have to live in fear everyday for the day that wil... (read in full...)

Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?

Q.   I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...

A.   3 November 2015: @maverick, appreciate your feedback.:-) But sorry if my questions were not clear enough. I am actually concerned more about the legal complications, and also what steps I can do to help myself. I am in no way ashamed of my nude modelling. I don... (read in full...)

As a male inexperienced virgin who feels socially awkward - Should I pay a sex worker to have sex with me for my first time?

Q.   Hello I'm a male virgin who's never even kissed a girl nor have I been on a date or had a girlfriend. I'm not particularly good looking and I'm very socially awkward. I figure having no clue about the opposite sex would be a massive turn off....

A.   3 November 2015: Do you mean you would like be experienced in sex by the time you meet a girl and bring her to bed? But you mentioned you have never been on a date. I would say take it one step at a time. :-) If you want to pay a prostitute just to gain experien... (read in full...)

Why can't people just accept not everyone wants children?

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 2 years and have no children because we chose not to have any- we are both very happy with our lives and children are not for us. My cousin who got married 8 months after us has just revealed she is ...

A.   3 November 2015: Because society as a whole is conformist! If you deviate from the norm, people view you as weird. The world is full of bigots. I gave up doing things just to make people happy a long time ago. You should realize that you have the right to live YOU... (read in full...)

Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?

Q.   I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...

A.   3 November 2015: Do you think it is possible to request Google to exclude all results that are linked to me from its searches? I read somewhere that there exists some "revenge porn" laws, Google has to abide. You know, when jilted boyfriends post nude pictures after ... (read in full...)

Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?

Q.   I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...

A.   2 November 2015: Thanks for all your advice. Though I see that different people have different views. For the kind gentleman that says I should just say my face has been photoshopped, I don't think that will do. It's not just a couple or dozen of photos. There are ... (read in full...)

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