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Should I try now, later, or never to get back togeather with my ex?

Q.   My boyfriend of three months and I just broke up two weeks ago. For both of us it was our first real serious relationship. We pretty much broke up because I was upset by the fact that although his residents hall was a 3-5min walk away i only real...

A.   6 May 2009: We didnt just see eachother at meals, just mainly at meals. We hung out maybe once or twice a week, but sometimes not at all. he always said he had to study or write a paper....he was really just procrastinating and playing on the internet. When ... (read in full...)

What should I do? Wait till I'm 18 to move in with him or wait till graduation?

Q.   hey i dont really know how to put this.. but i am 17 years old, my bday is in november bout 2 months away and i just recently moved 1200 miles about a month ago. i left behind the only person who ever makes me happy and the only one i love most. hi...

A.   2 September 2008: maybe u can stay with a relitave in your old town like an aunt or grandparent.....it may not be wise to live with him.... (read in full...)

He's my best friend and I'm in love with him, but it seems that we will never be together!

Q.   Well i like this guy sooo much and he knows that i do but he dosent have the same feelings as i do and it kinda hurts when he tells me about his gf's cause i know that we will never be together but he is my best friend he is like my personal i guess ...

A.   1 September 2008: I went through the sxact same thign when i was 15.I actually didnt get over him till the begining of summer and it took a real reality check frommy friends to snap me out of lala land. It will be frustrating but the more he is a frfind to you the ... (read in full...)

How can I keep on flirting with him without getting too physical?

Q.   So i have compleated my fiesr week of college and their is an older guy who is very intrested in me. We have a lot in common and he is absoultly perfect. We tease eachother a lot (verbaly and physicaly). I was wondering if anyone knows anything i ...

A.   1 September 2008: well, i do want to have sex with him just not for a while. I only meet the guy last week. Its just I'm not very experenced when it comes to dating and flirting and i know he is. their are just these little things he does that drive me crazy (in all ... (read in full...)

I can't control when I cry and have tried everything...can anybody help??

Q.   Ok, I have a very hard situation to solve. I can't control when I cry. I remember that even as a kid, I cried a lot. My mom used to tell me to be stronger and not cry about everything. Sometimes I'd cry when it wasn't even something hurtful....

A.   1 September 2008: I'm sorry you have to go through this. As a person who has been severly depressed and also self injured i can feel what you are going through. Thepary didnt work on me either, cause i didnt like my counsler. You could try to go to another ... (read in full...)

What should I do? Wait till I'm 18 to move in with him or wait till graduation?

Q.   hey i dont really know how to put this.. but i am 17 years old, my bday is in november bout 2 months away and i just recently moved 1200 miles about a month ago. i left behind the only person who ever makes me happy and the only one i love most. hi...

A.   1 September 2008: Iwould wait till after graduation. A high school diploma is very important to have and it may be hard to find a job without it. it will also be helpful if you decide to continue your education. If you and your BF really love eachother thenyou ... (read in full...)

Why boys are interested in breasts so much

Q.   People wonder why boys are so facinated with girls' breasts. One reason is the peek-a-boo or hide and seek faxctor. In our culture, breasts are almost always covered, even with the skimpiest bathing suit. This doesn't prevent girls from teasing ...

A.   1 September 2008: Can you be any more close minded? Have you heard of survial of the fittest??? EARY humans would look for the best possible mates while the weaker ones died. Ofcourse today it is not like that but early homosapians, homoerectus, homohabilis, ... (read in full...)

I need a way to look older. It's ridiculous everyone who sees me thinks I'm between 12 and 14

Q.   So in the past year or so i have been constintaly mistaken as a being between the ages of 12 and 14. I am now 18 and about to start college. I find this so frustrating because i am convinced that this is keeping guys from talking to me. I sometimes ...

A.   31 August 2008: So i ended up just leaving my hair long and really havent changed anything but i just started college last week and their is a guy who is REALLY intrested in me. He is two years older than me and loves my height (so much for those heals i bought) ... (read in full...)

I need a way to look older. It's ridiculous everyone who sees me thinks I'm between 12 and 14

Q.   So in the past year or so i have been constintaly mistaken as a being between the ages of 12 and 14. I am now 18 and about to start college. I find this so frustrating because i am convinced that this is keeping guys from talking to me. I sometimes ...

A.   2 August 2008: funny, i just got my hair trimmed. its down to my bum i also have bangs and these japanese style side banng thinges that almost reach my chin. I have been wanting a short hair style but i was planning no selling my hair after it got longer. but i ... (read in full...)

Why boys are interested in breasts so much

Q.   People wonder why boys are so facinated with girls' breasts. One reason is the peek-a-boo or hide and seek faxctor. In our culture, breasts are almost always covered, even with the skimpiest bathing suit. This doesn't prevent girls from teasing ...

A.   1 August 2008: i think it goes a bit deeper than that. Historically, breasts have been regarded as fertility symbols, because they are the source of life-giving milk. Certain prehistoric female statuettes—so-called Venus figurines — often emphasised the breasts,... (read in full...)

My friend doesn't seem to fancy anyone. Is something wrong with her?

Q.   I have a question on behalf of a friend. She is 14 and last year she had a serious - I mean serious - love for a male actor (she is female btw). She often talked about wanting to bed him etc. However, now she has not mentioned a crush of any...

A.   1 August 2008: like everyone else said its normal. My sister is like that and she is 16. i actually wish i could be like that.... (read in full...)

Why did he ignore my text?

Q.   First of all,sorry for my errors,English is not my national language:) I have a big problem.There is a guy who seemed to like me,he smiled at me all the time and stared at me.So I asked him about his phone number.He gave it to me willingly. After ...

A.   1 August 2008: he might not have known what to say in responce, like he might not want to seem too intrested or something. or he could have thought that it was the end of the conversation and did not need to say anything in responce. I would try texting him with ... (read in full...)

I really like him, but he often seems quite distant. What to do?

Q.   I think i have a bit of a complicated question/story. But here it goes anyways. For the past for years i have had a crush on one of my best guy friends. We are both 18 now and will be going to different schools soon. Dispite our closeness in the p...

A.   1 August 2008: So my little sisters frind was hangin out with this guy about a month or so ago. I guess they were talking abt all the girls that he liked/dated. my name came up...not in a good way though. I guess he told her that he could tell i was always upset ... (read in full...)

Is my husband carrying on with a woman from his office?

Q.   I've been married for past 8 years. We dated for 3 yrs before getting married. In all these married years, my husband has always complained about me being overweight. I'm 5 ft 3 in and weighed 140lbs when i got married. Now I'm 155 lbs and I have a ...

A.   29 July 2008: im glad i could at least give alittle help and i just thougth of something thats really good when it comes to dieting. its the homemade yogart my mum makes. you can get the keifer grains online. heres some info on it. http:... (read in full...)

I'm 19, shes 17, we want to date, how can we tell our parents so they will let us

Q.   ok so there is a girl i like, i am 19 and a sophmore in college, she is 17 and a junior in high school. The trouble is the gap between our school grades is alot larger than our ages, but were afraid that wont matter with her parents. We want to date ...

A.   29 July 2008: well since the age gap is not too drastic its still leagal. Maybe you should hangout sround her house or houses rather (in a group of friends) so that her parents can get famillar with her. You could also stretch the truth slightly and sayyou are ... (read in full...)

Is my husband carrying on with a woman from his office?

Q.   I've been married for past 8 years. We dated for 3 yrs before getting married. In all these married years, my husband has always complained about me being overweight. I'm 5 ft 3 in and weighed 140lbs when i got married. Now I'm 155 lbs and I have a ...

A.   29 July 2008: It could be possible or just an oddity. Maybe try to be more insightful and gather info with outbeing snoopy (which my be hard to do). Just keep a look out for odd things that are out of the ordinary. But i am only a recent high school graduate so i ... (read in full...)

I really like him, but he often seems quite distant. What to do?

Q.   I think i have a bit of a complicated question/story. But here it goes anyways. For the past for years i have had a crush on one of my best guy friends. We are both 18 now and will be going to different schools soon. Dispite our closeness in the p...

A.   29 July 2008: I dont wanna seem i like im pushing it or anything. I did text him that day....he never even responded. I feel so upset right now. I am so frustrated. Several years ago i would just walk over to his (and other friends houses to see if they could ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my best friend and she tells me her sorrows. The pain just pierces my heart. I can't stand it any longer.

Q.   I'm in love with my best friend.she's dating someone else which really hurts me. But now her boyfriend went to another country, she told me about her sorrows which actually hurts me too. Now she's single and i don't wanna talk to her and meet her. ...

A.   17 July 2008: hmmm, i actually fell for the guy i like BECAUSE he was their for me when i was going through a lot and helped me talk things over with him and stuff. I dont know, from my situation i would suggest the opposite but i havent had much luck with him... (read in full...)

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