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Squeezing during sex?

Q.   I normally squeeze my vagina during sex,is it safe for me and does my patner feel it....

A.   16 August 2009: yep my guy loves it!... (read in full...)

How can I make sex better?

Q.   i lost my virginity and im happy with it but im kinda sad that now since i lost it i dont have the chance to live my first time again but actually i want to have more sex because it made me feel so happy with my boyfriend and we both enjoyed it but ...

A.   16 August 2009: hold off sex and masterbation for awhile at least a month, then wen u finally do have sex it will feel amazing. i also recomend sexy games and postions. it really works... (read in full...)

Perverts on the train!

Q.   Hi Im 15 and everyday i go on this one crowded train to go to a main public place that me and my friends like to hang out. i am always on the train alone (because none of my friends live near me). One day i was wearing a skirt(it was a mini ski...

A.   16 August 2009: try standing by women! they wont touch you and if a guy touches you again punch the perv or use pepper spray on him!... (read in full...)

Why would she want to have sex with me with a penis that size?

Q.   Ok. I'm really embarrassed. Have been all my life. It's just i have a really small penis. Its 10cm erect, and I HATE myself because of it. I recently got my first girlfriend, and i have done 'stuff' for her, but she hasn't for me, because i keep ...

A.   16 August 2009: it aint the size of the ship its the motion of the ocean!!! it dont matter if you're small its how you used it!... (read in full...)

How big or not big do ladies like him to be?

Q.   Yes this is a freaky question but I'm in the mood so here it goes, ladies, when it comes to the cut of a penis for you, what's your preference. Yea we got all these topics about "I'm too small" or "I'm too big", but not too much on " what she ...

A.   16 August 2009: honestly not many women care about size. its how its used! it aint the size of the ship, its the motion of the ocean!... (read in full...)

Ever since sex I've been bleeding!

Q.   ever since i've had sex with my boyfriend, i've been bleeding. does this mean i have a disease or anything? we used protection but not a condom, could he have anything too?...

A.   16 August 2009: well your hymen could have broken and sometimes sex could jump start your period. it happens sometimes go to the doctor and get checked... (read in full...)

Is underage sex something you agree with?! I want opinions please!

Q.   Ive decided to put myself out here after been severely infuriated by some 'adults' on this site who deem it appropriate for CHILDREN to be having sex from as young as 13! do you think its appropriate for a child of this age to be having sex?? they ...

A.   16 August 2009: i do think its wrong for children to be having sex but they still do! advise or not they will do what they want. i dont recomend having that kind of responsibility at that age but there are alot of children that do it regardless of what we tell ... (read in full...)

I think I'm too young to have sex with my boyfriend, but I keep thinking about it!

Q.   I am 15 and I have been dating this guy for almost a year. He's getting his license soon and I know when the time comes I'll probably want to have sex. But I'm too young and I know that. How do I keep from wanting to do bad things?...

A.   16 August 2009: i was 15 when i lost my virginity. i regret the guy i lost it to . just be sure if you are going to do it. make sure its what you want!... (read in full...)

I'm looking for kinky sex ideas!

Q.   I'm going out with a wonderful open minded guy. We have a great sex life which is quite varied and experimental but there's always more things to try which is why I'm posting here. Does anyone have any recommendations for kinky things to do toget...

A.   16 August 2009: crisco parties are fun but try playing games or watching dirty movies . this is what the internet is for! go to ask .com im sure u will find a butt load of ideas!... (read in full...)

How can I suggest to my girlfriend that she shaves down there?

Q.   Dear Cupid... Me and my girlfriend have just started having full sex, but before we started having full sex, i used to give her oral sex and she really enjoys it. The problem with the oral sex, is that she has NEVER shaved down there, and its...

A.   16 August 2009: trying talking to her. ask her about wat she likes sexually and then " I think it would be really sexy if you trimmed up a little down there! i find it really sexy!" make her feel comfortable about it first and ease her into the conversation. you ... (read in full...)

Ugly woman thinks I'm her b/f just because I'm nice to her!

Q.   Dear Cupid, There is this girl that lives in the room and board house I'm at who is very attracted to me, but I can barely look at her because she's so ugly. To describe just how ugly she is, not only is she horribly overweight, but she looks li...

A.   16 August 2009: well, ive had this situation before. this guy was a foot shorter than me and he looked like a troll. i didnt like him so i told him i was lesbo and my gf was butch! he left me alone!... (read in full...)

Do women like for a man to shave his pubes?

Q.   Do most women or any like it for a man to shave is pubes? or is that weird? i have asked a girl that and she said if women do men should too. but do you think men should shave their pubes? ...

A.   16 August 2009: if its super bushy where i cant see the bits and sticks then keep it trimmed! ... (read in full...)

How do I get a really smoooooooth shave in my genital area?

Q.   Im 16 When i shave my vagina it leaves red dots and when i run my hand over my vagina it feels like i havent shaved, its all prickly and hurts.. how can i make it feel and look like there's no hairs there. Also do guys get turned off by a little bit ...

A.   16 August 2009: ok first, if your hair is really long down there trim it down with a pair clippers os trimmers. if you want to use a razor, be sure its a new razor to reduce bumps and rashes. use a soap designed for sensitive skin because genital skin is very ... (read in full...)

Does boob size really matter in attractiveness to guys?

Q.   This sounds really silly, but...I'm 18 and I think my boobs are too small. All my friends a D's and big C's and I'm barely a C, probly closer to a B 1/2. I'm not a very big girl about 117lbs 5'6". So maybe it's normal for my size. Still my fr...

A.   16 August 2009: im a girl with smaller breasts. your breasts dont stop growing fully until your mid 20s . just remember that smaller boobs dont sag until way later in life!! so you wont have granny boobs at a younder age like some girls i kno!... (read in full...)

Is it just my pills?

Q.   ok I have been on birth control fir about 8 yrs now I have been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for two years. these last two months I spotted with my period for one day each month. I have taken 3 pregnancy tests all negative. could I be ...

A.   16 August 2009: i was on ortho cyclen which is the pill. i used to have horrible periods where i was bleeding really heavy! on my pills, i bled lighter and lighter. my periods usually lasted about 5-8 days but after a while, they got shorter and i also spotted! as ... (read in full...)

Am I a stupid wife or just an untrusting wife?

Q.   I recenty got suspicious of my husband. Normally following business trips over ten years he leaves me to unpack his case and now he empties it immediately and washes his dirty laundry that he never does laundry. Last week I was involved in a minor ...

A.   16 August 2009: honestly i would hire a private investigator. gather your findings after a few months and set the evidence infront of your husband and have him explain everything.honestly i think hes cheating because online service girls do not usually say i miss ... (read in full...)

Why does my sister flirt with me?

Q.   My sister and i are a year apart im 23 shes 22 we didnt gro up togather and dont have a close relationship. Im seeing her more often now becuse she moved to my state and stays with my other sister that i am close too. When ever i go around she be...

A.   16 August 2009: um im sorry but where im from that is wrong on every level, if you do not want to be with her then tell her!let her know that it is wrong. i understand that some places think its ok, but i think it is very wrong and im not trying to be mean but i ... (read in full...)

I'm a 20 year old woman and my sex drive is non-existant!

Q.   I just recently turned 20. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years but best friends before that for 2 years. Our relationship like most relationships in the beginning had a lot of affection and sex, but slowly they started to demolish on ...

A.   16 August 2009: i heard that diet has alot to do with yuor sex drive. if you are eating poorly , your sex drive will crash! so try eating healthy foods if you arent already, if you drink any alcohol then i would try cutting way back on that. and there are certain ... (read in full...)

I feel like my social life has been ruined by this guy!

Q.   I am 13 , recently i became friends with *J*. A guy who i ha been friends with in the past but he always dropped me for his other friends who dislike me . He apologized and seemed much nicer . All my other friends hated him and so they stopped ...

A.   16 August 2009: well , he dropped u for his friends so i would drop him for your friends, in no time more people will see that u r cool again and will want to hang out with u. try going to the mall or any after school hangouts. u will find a girl ... (read in full...)

My husband keeps taking money from our bank account and we're financially struggling!

Q.   My husband seems to be doing better as of this week. But as a general rule he is constantly getting into the bank account and taking money. He doesn't tell me this or include it on the ledger so we have bounced numerous checks and have had repeated ...

A.   16 August 2009: my best guess would be to open your own account! u seem to be the responsible one. many people who open joint bank accounts like this often have this problem! i would take what money you have left if there is any and open a new account and keep it ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm going to have a relapse with my eating disorder because of this insecurity toward my boyfriend!

Q.   I recently had a trust related issue with my bf of three years. I went camping with my family for the weekend and left him home. He told me that he stayed home and hung with some guy friends and whatnot. What he lied to me about was that he went to ...

A.   16 August 2009: ok i had a similar problem. u just need to get rid of yer man and find someone who loves u for who u r! u r just fine! if he makes you feel bad and makes u want to hurt yourself like that then he aint worth it! a man like that aint worth nothing!... (read in full...)

Is my semen safe enough for my wife to consume?

Q.   Am married man. My wife has fetish for oral sex.. she loves all time to sawllow my semen atleast 3-4 times in a week. as she like the taste and smell.. she often applies to her face and she believes its gives wonderful results on skind. what i...

A.   16 August 2009: semen is perfectly healthy i looked it up and found that there are essential vitamins in it! its very nutricious so your wife is very safe! this is going to sound gross but i had a small scar on my chest and i put semen on it and i have no scar ... (read in full...)

I lost my virginity to my now ex-boyfriend, but according to him I wasn't a virgin before him! What do you make of this?

Q.   I had my 1st sex last year when I was 20 wid my ex-boyfriend. But according to him, I was not virgin. I actually didn't understand what he meant. As according to him, I didnt suffer any pain much, and everything went so smooth. I got a lil confused ...

A.   16 August 2009: well theres not much u can do. you did stand your ground and you know whether you were a virgin or not! thats all that matters in the end. some guys are just jerks. i was best friends with a guy and we were dating for a long time, we lost our virg... (read in full...)

Can the size of your vagina change?

Q.   Can the size of your vagina change? Or, does it just stay "tight" if it is that way, or loose if it is that way? My guy sometimes will say that mine isn't tight, and it hurts my feelings....

A.   16 August 2009: well, in my opinion i think yer boyfriend is an arsehole! he is just saying that because he feels inadequate as a man, if thats what he calls himself. from the moment you lose yer virginity the size of your vagina barely changes unless you have... (read in full...)

What is an orgasm?

Q.   Hi, well my question is a bit stupid but its something I really wander about. What is an orgasm? When me and my bf are making out and doing stuff he says "Oh I'll try and make you orgasm" But the thing is I dont actually know what it is! Do you...

A.   15 August 2009: ahhh i remember my first orgasm! just so u know its like time has frozen and yer floating in heaven! u will know wen u have one! best of luck!... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and I had difficulty, having sex, as he is very large, and it is painful for me, now we are growing distance, because we cannot acheive, satisfaction in the bedroom, what can we do?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We had sex once 8 months into the relationship which was painful for me and resulted in cystitis. We tried to have sex twice since then but each time has been so painful we have had to stop ...

A.   15 August 2009: try an extreme lubricant, ive had the same problem and going with out it can tear your vaginal walls causing infection. full intercourse is not all important to some. try other things. play games and find more tips to keep the bedroom spark alive... (read in full...)

How can I let my boyfriend know, again, I am still uncomfortable with his mouth odour without hurting his feelings?

Q.   Ok.. so my boyfriend has this problem that his mouth has a bad odor sometimes. We have talked about it and he start doing some things to improve it (mouth wash and so on) and then he stops or it doesn't work too good (the effect lasts about 20 ...

A.   15 August 2009: that could be a bad case of cronic halitosis or tooth decay. i knew someone who had tooth decay and didnt kno it! their breathe stunk bad. they had the rotten tooth removed and their breathe no longer stunk. cronic halitosis is caused by too much ... (read in full...)

I've always been curious about deep throating. But I can't do it. Ideas?

Q.   Hi, I'm always very open to new ideas for bed and I always try to do new moves to surprise my guy. He does as well. Well he says I give great oral, and that makes me feel great. However, I've always been curious about deep throating. But I...

A.   15 August 2009: ok ive tried this and so far so good! train yer throat to relax. i had a sensitive gag reflex but not a bad as i used to. for safety reasons you should try drinks first. take a glass of water and try not to gulp. it will be hard but try to drink ... (read in full...)

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