How long does sperm live outside the male body?
Q. My girlfriend and I want to have a baby, She is the dominant one in the relationship, however she wants to have the baby. She also does not want to have sex to get pregnant, so we are trying to come up with other ways to get her pregnant. I want ...
A. 18 September 2009: Hi,
Seriously, I agree with Emily. Surely, you would want to make this baby by making pleasure with a woman you love.
I can't answer the question about sperm but i'd say only under a minute due to the temperature.
However, just think about ... (read in full...)
Argh, What am I doing to this guy? What should I do here?
Q. I want some opinions on what to do with this situation. I went out with this guy three times. He paid each time, was a total gentleman, didn't overstep one boundary and so on. I for some reason freaked out and told him I wasn't ready for more t...
A. 14 September 2009: Hi,
The past doesn't equal the future.
From what i can see here, you met a very suitable match for you. but, as you say, you made your past disappointments sabotage any possible other outcome for you. It wasn't his fault.
He has given you an... (read in full...)
Why do I have to wait hand and foot for this guy?
Q. I'm sick of loving my ex boyfriend. After everything he has done to me, I still wait hand and foot for him! He has broken every promise in the book. He has cheated on me, tried to control my life, broken up with me, and gotten back together with me ...
A. 4 September 2009: Hi,
You need to distance yourself from him with an Iron Will. Trust me, this will work for you. It will be hard at first but the more you keep away from him, the better you will be in the long run. Iron Will. Say no more and never doubt your deci... (read in full...)
I'm falling for him, but I'm afraid that being so much older I can't give him a child
Q. I am in a relationship with a much younger man, (he is 29 and I am 46). He thought I was younger and I thought he was older. We have been dating for 6 weeks and I am afraid of falling in love with him, since I cannot have children. I tried to break ...
A. 4 September 2009: Hi,
There are no rules. From what I can see....he is very much wanting you and you want him.
For the baby part, be clear and talk about this with him. This should not in any case be a basis to simply stop seeing each other. You need to speak to... (read in full...)
My girlfriend completely overreacted when I couldnt send her money! What should I do in this situation?
Q. Hi viewers. I have this problem. My girlfriend and I are in our relationship for six months and we have had our ups and downs. Until one day last week, she was robbed at knifepoint while she was in the Philippines with her family. When she told me ...
A. 28 August 2009: Hi,
Tell us...have you met this girl in person??
Don't send money to someone you haven't met. Also, if you haven't met, I'd question that you could love someone. (may be wrong though)
But California, I'm sure there are beautiful girls there.... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my son may not actually be mine
Q. I heard off a good friend of mine that my son is apparently not mine. When I met my girlfriend about 5 years ago she was a single mum, who had a 3-year-old son. Two years later, we moved in together, our life was good, we then decided to try...
A. 28 August 2009: Hi,
The way to settle your mind is DNA. As you now have a doubt, this would be the way forward for you. The doubt will fester and fester unless you find out for sure. For you, your fiancee's assurance won't help you. You will have to get the DNA ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend completely overreacted when I couldnt send her money! What should I do in this situation?
Q. Hi viewers. I have this problem. My girlfriend and I are in our relationship for six months and we have had our ups and downs. Until one day last week, she was robbed at knifepoint while she was in the Philippines with her family. When she told me ...
A. 27 August 2009: Have you met this girl at all? Do you live in different countries? Thank you, G. ... (read in full...)
He seems insensitive - should I dump him?
Q. Hi - I have been with my boyfriend 3 years but I am worrying we are just not compatible because every now and then he says the most insensitive things. Just one example which plays on my mind and still upsets me was before Xmas my 92 year old ...
A. 18 August 2009: Hi,
Oh dear! He dosen't look like a good long term future hope with this attitude. He may have been frustrated with things at Christmas and new year but he should have been clear to you about this and not channel his anger through your dist... (read in full...)
A wonderful b/f, vs. first love recovered?
Q. Hi, so this is long, but I need help. April 2006. I met someone - I didn't know then that he would change my entire life. How could I have possibly known? It started out easily enough, that much was true. We just talked online at first. It was so...
A. 18 August 2009: Hi,
Stay with Alex.
If Stephen hadn't have broken up with his girlfriend he wouldn't have bothered to meet you. Also, this is not fair on Alex who you claim you love. Best wishes, G xx... (read in full...)
The deadline for telling his wife has come and gone. How do I tell her anonymously?
Q. I have been carrying on an affair with a married man. He is going to leave his wife, I do believe that. The thing is, the original timeline for him leaving her has already come and gone. Circumstances have just naturally happened that have caused ...
A. 17 August 2009: Hi,
It's all been said. However, why would you want to tell his wife?
Surely, he will tell her because "he loves you and wants to be with you so much."
Iron Will....get out now before it destroys you and makes you look old!! Get out now with... (read in full...)
Will she resent me for my stance on smoking?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now. After several weeks of dating she left for winter break. At some point over the break she told me she had a confession - she was a smoker but was trying to quit. I am staunchly opposed to ...
A. 13 August 2009: Hi,
I'll be honest with you, smoking is not the worst thing in a relationship. However, if you can't stand it then you are with the wrong partner. The more you deny her, (yes, she will feel that) the more she will hate you and the cigarette beco... (read in full...)
She can't love me..but how can I make her love me?
Q. How can you make a woman you do love, love you?? Even though she already told you that she cannot love you?...
A. 11 August 2009: Hi,
In literature there is a potion that will work or there are love spells that can be chanted. But alas, this is not fiction it is real life and you cannot make anyone love you. You really can't you know!!!!! G. ... (read in full...)
What do I do about my affair with an older man?
Q. I am 26 years of age have 2 children aged 1 year and 4 years. Ive been with my husband since I was 17 and have been married 3 years.He is 33 years old. I started an affair 2 months ago with someone at my work he is 50+ he wont tell me his age.It is ...
A. 3 August 2009: Hi,
A lot has all been said.
My advice...end your affair, any which way you can. G. ... (read in full...)
Why is "No Contact" good for break ups?
Q. Yeah I know I am smart and intelligent and mature enough for my age to know the answer to this but my heart is contradicting it. I have been 3 months apart from my ex, obviously, I still love him as this gives me the reason to write here. I ha...
A. 31 July 2009: Hi,
How did you break up??
Is it really over? Can things be worked out at all? He texts you so he could still want you??? Take care, G xx... (read in full...)
Everytime I hook up with my girlfriend I feel sick and I hurt "down there"!
Q. Ok I have a girlfriend right? And we hook up or cuddle or whatever you want to call it, and when we do it gets really intense but, I havent had sex with her yet. Shes had it before but Im still a virgin. Now the thing is a couple of hours after ...
A. 31 July 2009: Hi,
i'm gonna guess on this but it may be what they call "blue balls."
The body is aroused and let's just say it aches to not relieve itself. After she has gone, try masturbatiing a little and this should help with relief for the moment. don't wo... (read in full...)
I still have feelings for my ex but I don't want to ruin things with his fiancee!
Q. im really confused at the moment. i have just got in contact with my ex and we have started talking. he has told me that he is engaged and is going to be a dad soon but that he still loves me. i still have the same feelings for him but i don't want ...
A. 29 July 2009: Hi,
There is not a lot you can do. I do hear you and understand.
But, you will break that other girl's heart and confuse your Ex and also upset his fiance's pregnancy.
Some things in life, however hard and heart wrenching need to be left in t... (read in full...)
My little boy has an air buble behind his belly button, can anyone help?
Q. hiya i am a new mum 2 a little boy, he is now just over 4 weeks old and i have noticed an air bubble behind his belly button which is raise and is squishy 2 press. can any body help? x...
A. 22 July 2009: HI,
We can't help here. You need specific medical information. Take him to A and E.
Take care G xx ... (read in full...)
She seems to have vanished since I let her know I loved her!
Q. ok so heres my problem, i met a girl last year around octoberish...we talked online and telephone for about a month until we met in person.she`s in the middle of a divorce at the moment and has been seperated for 2 yrs...so since then we ...
A. 22 July 2009: Hi,
From what i have read here with your situation, I think you are too intense, going too fast!!!!
She is going through a divorce, has her son and simply can't handle someone being in love with her. She is going through this divorce and sometime... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's blue balls.....he says if I don't give him head he will leave me!
Q. My boyfriend says every time we hang out he gets blue balls and is in pain for hours, even days. It causes him headaches and muscle cramps too. I do plenty of sexual things for him almost every time we hang out. He's tried masturbating beforehand, ...
A. 21 July 2009: Hi,
I don't believe that blue balls story. The way to relieve that is to masturbate. He knows that. That's why we call masturbation Relief.
Don't fall for it!!!!
Take care, G xx ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to a guy I hardly know and now I'm feeling guilty
Q. hi, i lose my viginity to a guy i barely know, we dated several times and he is expeienced he knows how to make me feel good, then that happened, i even didn't bleed a lot cause he is so good at it, now he is going to leave me cause he said he need ...
A. 20 July 2009: Hi,
I don't think you should feel bad about things. You enjoyed the moments and felt really good. OK, he is leaving now so perhaps put this one down to experience and keep the pleasant memory. You both enjoyed your time together from what you say,... (read in full...)
I don't love him
Q. help! okay so I just started dating this guy i met on facebook and he told me that he really love me, but i just realized i dont love him back. what should i do? I want to break up with him but I dont know how to cause I dont want to hurt him. He'...
A. 17 July 2009: Hi,
I think maybe it is very early to worry too much about if you love him. That can happen later when you least expect it. Probably, as you say, you still have feelings for your EX. This seems to be blocking any "new" love from developing.
If yo... (read in full...)
I think she still has deep feelings for her ex. Should I prepare for the worst?
Q. I've been dating this wonderful girl for about a year and eight months. She used to screw around with another guy before we got together, even occasionally when she was in a relationship. When we started dating, she said that was over. So did he...
A. 14 July 2009: Hi,
Just an idea......You are thinking what if she wants him, what if he wins her from you. Perhaps, deep down the real issue you have is...."I fear her leaving me."
It is probably nothing to do with this guy but really your own fears about lo... (read in full...)
A question about trust and lawnmowers...
Q. Once again this might not be the most appropriate site to ask this, but here goes! A family friend, whom I'll call Joe, does some work for my elderly mother, for pay. Joe is about 45 and while not the smartest fellow has always seemed honest. ...
A. 10 July 2009: Hi,
Thanks for posting this question! It's like a philosophy question I'm delighted to attempt.
Well, the main issue for you is the loss of trust. If you are SURE that he has touched those mowers, then that leads to Joe being dishonest. OK, you ... (read in full...)
Should I believe a Married Man?
Q. About a month ago I was out havin drinks with a friend of mine. we met two guys at a bar and started havin great convo. at the end of the nite we kissed and i got his number 2 days later i sent him a text and 2 days later i got a response. later on ...
A. 10 July 2009: Hi,
Just a little imnput from me.........just think, at the moment he has two women, a wife and a mistress. If he leaves the wife, he then only has one woman which is you.
There are a lot of experiences on this site, very heartbreaking, of peopl... (read in full...)
Do you think waiting is the right approach? Will ignoring him get him back?
Q. Hi everyone Thanks in advance for your advice. I am a 26 year old woman in the process of applying to medical school, and began dating a man, who recently turned 32. Our first date was in the first week of March, and it was quite possibly...
A. 30 June 2009: Hi,
Yes, don't do anything and wait to see if he contacts.
But, I don't believe the story about his mum and setting him up on match.com. All he needed to say was he had already met you?????? Also, the mum didn't make him active on the site eit... (read in full...)
We broke up yesterday, I want her back, how long should I wait before I text her?
Q. ow do i get back my ex-girlfriend? She respected me enough to talk about it in person. She sed she loves me as a friend, and isnt in love with me, what should i do? i would like her back, but i dont know how to go about it.... We broke up yesterday, ...
A. 30 June 2009: Hi,
Well I'm afraid the reality is...."friend." She may be politely letting you down whatever.
Your only real chance is not to be her friend. Don't settle for less than you want. You want her as a girlfriend so don't settle for friends. That wil... (read in full...)
I'd like to know how he feels but don't want to be pushy
Q. I initiated contact with a guy online and we've so far exchanged lenghty messages. I must admit that I have been driving the conversation a bit more than him by asking questions about which we both then talk. He does ask things but isn't very ...
A. 19 June 2009: Hi,
Why not say, "I've been enjoying our messages, how about we chat sometme on phone?"
If he is interested he will jump at that. Don't give your number, purely suggest and then he "has" to exchange numbers if interested!!
Best wishes, G xx... (read in full...)
My socially-retarded brother invades our privacy
Q. Anytime my girlfriend of 3 years comes over to my place (we usual go in my room), my brother/roommate likes to walk in on (he picks the lock) me and my girlfriend when we're making love, and splash us with a bucket of water (we're usually in our ...
A. 16 June 2009: Hi,
By socially retarded, does he have mental illness? Or, is he just immature? There is a difference. Mental illness is different.
However, if he is just being stupid, then you need to sit down with him and reason with him. Talk to your parents,... (read in full...)
I feel embarrassed we met on a dating website
Q. Me and my bf met through an internet dating website. I am dreading all the questions that will come from my friends and family when they ask "how did you two meet?". I feel a bit embarrased that thats how we met. People often associate sleezy people ...
A. 16 June 2009: Hi,
Simply say, "We met online." Lot's of people do and it is an option for meeting people. Nothing to worry about there. Include that you both enjoyed your conversations online and decided to meet and have been happy so far. Take care, G. ... (read in full...)
She has finally contacted me. Now what should I do?
Q. I've been talking to this girl a while and at first it seemed like magic then suddenly she started distancing herself from me. After a while it started to seem like I was the only person tring to make contact. I decided that maybe she just doesnt ...
A. 16 June 2009: Hi,
Well, what did the text say? Was it a formal, polite, friendly, potential gf type?
Please let us know! Thanks, G. ... (read in full...)
Who is the father of my baby?
Q. my 1stday of my last period is february 3,2009.i had sex wd a guy on the 15th of february.then i had sex again with my bf at 17th of february now im pregnant.and im confused who is the father of my baby.can you help me figure it out?...
A. 15 June 2009: Hi,
It's just too close. Yes, wait for your baby to be born. But please, look after yourself and your baby first. That's what you need to be doing right now. G xx... (read in full...)
Girlfriend of a year wants a break
Q. So me and my giirlfriend were together for about a year. About three weeks before school let out, we got into a small fight that was used to tell me that she wanted a break for the summer. She said it was for the best for both of us and that she ...
A. 15 June 2009: Hi,
Don't call her!!!! She asked for the break. That is so she can think things over.
Let her be and she will be in touch soon. She needs space so give it to her. Take care, G. ... (read in full...)
She wants a break but will it actually help or make things worse?
Q. My girlfriend of 5 months wants a break. At first I was ok with it and I knew it meant hooking up with other people. Her best friend is a guy also an old friend of mine. She has been hurting so she said she probably wouldn't have sex with him cause ...
A. 12 June 2009: Hi,
Agree to the break and don't contact her. Make your decision and stick to it. Move on in what you do in your life and if she is interested, she will come back. Take care, G. ... (read in full...)
Why do I love him but hate him at the same time?
Q. Im not sure why i want him around, but i want him to leave, yet i dont. Im in love with a guy (so i think) whom i would consider a friend, ive known him for almost 3years now and we've said 'i love you' many times but we're not together...
A. 12 June 2009: Hi,
Tell us a little of any past experiences....have you lost someone or something you loved? Parents? Family? Pets? Boyfriends? Did your parents divorce?
We need a little more info here. Take care, G xx ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to say I love you to her because I'm afraid she'll end things
Q. hi im needing help on a situation i have gotten myself into. i have been seing this girl now for a while and we have spent a lot of time together we have both have said we have feeling for each other and both said that its not love, but what i...
A. 12 June 2009: Hi,
In my opinion, I would carry on as you are. Don't speed things up. If you tell her, then I'd say it's over. She has already sub-conciously hinted that she broke with the other guy because he confessed. That seems to me as if she likes you and ... (read in full...)
Nice guy but incredibly quiet around me!
Q. I met a guy who was really sweet, but seemed a little bit awkward in a shy way. I thought he was nice and cute, so I left him my number. He started texted me almost every day to see what I was doing, usually later in the evening, but I was never ...
A. 12 June 2009: Hi,
This is a very difficult one to second guess. Your text relationship seemed to work well. Perhaps I'd say he was a little intense with the apologies and a little too much of a nic guy but that's not so bad. When you met, he may have been havi... (read in full...)
With her for 2 years, now she's changing, avoids me, what can I do about this?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 2 years, I am dreadfully attached. I have come to realize she doesnt want to see me all that much, she is very big on being together on birthdays.. but hers was today and she didnt want me to see her.. she keeps ...
A. 10 June 2009: Hi,
Sorry about this. From what you have said, I have to say that she isn't interested anymore. Sorry. It's a real killer but I'm telling you how it is. The birthday or non-birthday should tell you this. Don't make excuses, don't try to look for ... (read in full...)
If neither of us are committing to others but cannot commit to each other, where does that leave us?
Q. My perfect guy: He's smart and opinionated, good looking and not afraid to take control, the ultimate Alpha male but at the same time is sweet and sensitive, always making sure Im comfortable and happy......the one thing standing in the way of ...
A. 9 June 2009: Hi,
Maybe an idea...I can understand him not wanting to committ. It's not you, it's all part of his personality, life, upbringing, past experiences.
Do not keep mentioning this as it could make him withdraw slightly. An idea could be to simply t... (read in full...)
Does he have feelings for his ex gf..am I 2nd best?
Q. Im kind of a bit worried that my bf still has feelings for his ex? These are the reasons why I think so. When talking about there past relationship, he goes on about how they were so in love and how he made her so happy etc. They only broke up ...
A. 8 June 2009: Hi,
I'm not sure how long your bf has been split from his EX. From what you say so far, it could be that you are his rebound. I don't know, but it does sound like that.
Really speaking, if he is still hung up on his EX, then he is emotiona... (read in full...)
What underwear should I wear under my graduation dress??
Q. Stupid question that im to embaressed to ask anyone else .... Lol! Kind of has to do with guys but pretty much not!! What kind of underwear do i wear under my grade eight grad dress!!!???? Im only 14 i need an opinion !!!!! I know this may be funny ...
A. 3 June 2009: Hi,
Well, wear something comfortable that doesn't show!! G. ... (read in full...)
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