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Everyone is rowing and I'm in the middle. I must be the worst wife and mother in the world. Please give me some advice.

Q.   I have been married for 22 years not happy and i have a boyfriend. my husband and i still live together just for financial reasons. I have 2 sons one 16 and another 13. the 13yr old has had severe anxiety problems that has resulted in him being a ...

A.   1 July 2008: what a box! Ye Gods! First off, congrats for having a boyfriend. It was unclear if your family knows about the bf, but as a human being you deserve a break from all the crud in your life. I too think you need to grab the kids and split. Not easy ... (read in full...)

How can I stay strong through these hard times?

Q.   I'm 16 and i'm having a bit of trouble. Well my best friend(lets call her A) was diagnosed with a brain tumor a few months ago and this news hit me really badly, i stopped eating started failing in some of my subjects at school etc. And i have ...

A.   1 July 2008: You've got a real problem here. "J" doesn't want to deal with "A's" upcoming death. Most of us don't really know how to deal with death. It's so damned final. I think if you turn your thoughts more to "A" rather than to your thoughts about your ... (read in full...)

How can I get him to initiate sex?

Q.   been with my boyfriend 4 years, and in the last 6 months or so have discovered it is mainly me that initiates sex, as soon as i touch him sexually or kiss him passionately he gets an errection so there is no problem with attraction (i dont think), ...

A.   1 July 2008: Interesting problem! He's not 18 anymore? Not the real answer. Maybe he's lost interest in you - not YOUR fault, it happens - and responds when you start something, because it's the "normal" thing for a guy to do. But that may be all - - - - - - ... (read in full...)

My boss and I are VERY attracted to one another, but he's married!

Q.   i met a guy a year ago, we clicked instantly, then i found out he was part owner of were i worked and was kinda my manager as well, i had no idea at the time, and had made a pass at him ...he responded , but not a full on response. because of his...

A.   1 July 2008: He's NOT considerate to his WIFE. Leave it alone!... (read in full...)

Did I cheat or did I not cheat? I'm so confused....

Q.   Ok, so the guy that I am dating (but he claims we are not in a relationship "JUST dating") stopped speaking to me for two weeks. I thought he was not coming back. History: Long story short, (about 3 years ago) I was married for a year and my no...

A.   1 July 2008: I doubt the two issuses are related. No you did not cheat on your EX. How could you have? He'd left you! And the other guy? A VEEEEEEEEEEEEry strange one. Shop around some more.... (read in full...)

Did I cheat or did I not cheat? I'm so confused....

Q.   Ok, so the guy that I am dating (but he claims we are not in a relationship "JUST dating") stopped speaking to me for two weeks. I thought he was not coming back. History: Long story short, (about 3 years ago) I was married for a year and my no...

A.   1 July 2008: I doubt the two issuses are related. No you did not cheat on your EX. How could you have? He'd left you! And the other guy? A VEEEEEEEEEEEEry strange one. Shop around some more.... (read in full...)

Dry spot and severe pain is putting me off sex! What's wrong?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 15 months now and at first the sex was great and just about every night! Now its hardly ever, which I guess is normal but recently I haven't been enjoying it as much and it has also become painful. I ha...

A.   1 July 2008: Buy some sex lubricant. And use it!... (read in full...)

I want my ex back but he won't talk to me! What do people think?

Q.   My problem is that I would like to get back with my ex but he won't even talk to me. We broke up 9 months ago-he said he wasn't ready for a relationship and broke it off suddenly after getting heavy, making long term plans for us etc. I texted him ...

A.   1 July 2008: He's gone. Move on. There's LOTS of fish in the sea. Try some other type. I know, easier said than done. Been there, lived through that.... (read in full...)

I'm a Highly Sensitive Person. How do I find the right girl?

Q.   I have a little problem, I recently learned that I am a Highly Sensitive Person, and that HPS people are sensitive to many things and I began to wonder, how can I find a girl who would be willing to deal with someone as sensitive as I am. Please ...

A.   1 July 2008: What is a Highly Sensitive Person?... (read in full...)

Is my ex just trying to keep me on strings while he sees what else is out there?

Q.   My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. I wanted to work things out but he didn't. He moved to another state to work and wanted no contact. Little by little, he keeps calling. Every day he'll either call or send an email about something in our...

A.   1 July 2008: He's lonely - not for you. He wants support. I suspect he's unable to establish a relationship at this time. Change your e-mail address & ignore him.... (read in full...)

Do you guys think 18 is a bad age for marriage and kids?

Q.   do you guys think 18 is a bad age for marriage and kids? i mean like if you find the rite person to be with, have a career and ur partner has a job to fall back on.....

A.   1 July 2008: waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too young. Don't be in a hurry.... (read in full...)

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