Was my friend hinting around that he's interested in me?
Q. I went out to lunch with a guy that I'm just friends with(but have suspected that he has deeper feelings for me). He started to ask me all sorts of questions, mainly about where I was going to find the guy of my dreams, and that prince charming ...
A. 27 October 2005: I think you know the answer to this question but just need someone else to confirm it for you. There might be other possibilities of course, but if he isn't interested, this could be construed as very strange behaviour. Consider the possibilities - ... (read in full...)
In four years, my boyfriend hasn't kept a job for more than 3 months!
Q. I have been with my bf for 4 years. He has not kept a steady job during this period. Every job he gets lasts no longer than a week besides one exception which lasted 3 months. I am 22, he is 23 and we have lived together for 2 years, after the ...
A. 12 October 2005: People tend to act (at least in the small things) how we expect them to act. Your boyfriend probably needs a lot of encouragement, and I'm sure you will have realised this and have been giving it, but if he is trying, and you want to stay with him, ... (read in full...)
I feel kind of trapped in this relationship where he has all the power...
Q. This is kinda a long one. My boyfriend of three months acts like he thinks I am emotionally weak because on several occassions I cried in response to some of his decisions/comments. He is not good at communicating so he holds things in and then ...
A. 16 June 2005: You are not being more needy than the average (intelligent) woman. When we're with a man we love we tend to feel closest to them during love-making. It's not that we need it more than they do, physically, but we do emotionally. Men tend only to do ... (read in full...)
My wife said admitted liaisons with 2 other men when we were dating. Now I feel like I was what she "settled" for...
Q. I have been married for almost 9 years, and I have known my wife for a little over 10 years. When we started dating, she wanted our relationship to be non-exclusive; at the time she claimed that she was too messed up mentally from her ex-boyfriend ...
A. 15 June 2005: Firstly, we are talking about something that happened a long time ago. You don't say how old you both are, but it is probably safe to say that both of you, and your relationship, will have changed over that time. Maybe you have concerns that your ... (read in full...)
Why are my boyfriend's mates allowed to bring their girlfriend's, but I'm not invited?
Q. My boyfriend's birthday is Friday and I am going to eat with him and his parents and we are hanging out together that night. Saturday we are also hanging out, but that night, he is going to hang out with his friends for his birthday. OK, so that's ...
A. 15 June 2005: When you choose a partner, you aren't only choosing him, but also his family and friends. Why do his friends not like you? Try to be objective. Ask yourself whether you may appear either possessive, or aloof, to his friends. You don't say much about ... (read in full...)
I cheated and now I'm pregnant. Don't know whether the baby is my boyfriend's or my one-night-stand's!
Q. Hi, my name is Rebecca. I have a huge problem that could wreck my life. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year and we have been trying for a baby for the past 7 months. I went on holiday about 4 weeks ago and on my last ...
A. 14 June 2005: I've thought about this one before, having almost done the same thing. In my case (and only you know how your partner would react) the only thing I could do (as abortion would not be an option for me) would be to finish with him as quickly as ... (read in full...)
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