Was I an asshole?
Q. One night came home after work and was horny as hell. I ended making love to my girlfriend. She's extremely self-conscious about her breasts because of a birthmark and won't take off her bra for me no matter how I beg. Anyway I couldn't take it ...
A. 19 January 2009: yes you were an asshole... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so weird when I walk past him?
Q. okay, well recently i got over this guy i liked for about 3 years the now were not talking but when i look up or turn around suddenly in his direction he is staring at me. It's been this way since August and some of 2007...I got rejected from hi...
A. 19 January 2009: when you have liked someone for so long and it didn't work there is going to be like tension or weirdness, but just ignore it, it will fade with time : )
peace
x... (read in full...)
I need you--I love you...the same thing?
Q. My boyfriend always says i need you is that close to i love you? he's never asking for sex or anything. Like he's just saying no i need you or something like that....
A. 19 January 2009: no no no no no no
it's not the same thing,
i need you is basically saying i like you lots, and cares about you
:)
peace x... (read in full...)
What exactly does "love" mean to you?
Q. heya, A friend of me asked me this, and i want to get some of your opinions on it... but can you tell me...? What exactly is love? I know... kinnda a big question... but i want to see what other people think it is :) And i dont really want the d...
A. 16 September 2008: love is something that can be explained really,
its when you look into someone;s eyes and they look into yours
and everything seems perfect, nothing matters but just that exact moment,
its when you cant sleep you cant eat you cant focus
unles... (read in full...)
How can I avoid being so clingy? It's annoying to my boyfriend!
Q. i love my boyfriend so much.. but i cnt stop bein clingy which is kinda annoying him. what can i do to myself to stop me doing tht? HELP SOS!...
A. 14 September 2008: my friend is like you,
she can be quite clingy,
just you need to snap out of it thats all,
just control it and all,
xo... (read in full...)
I am more attracted to naked men but want to date girls...will I grow out of this phase??
Q. I am 14 and i wanna know why am i attracted to naked men before naked women. I have absolutly now feeling for men at all i just get horny to sum of them, i look at gay porn and masterbate to it but after that gayness takes a left i don't have fee...
A. 14 September 2008: everyone questions there sexuality at one point,
it could just be a phase or not.
or maybe your bi ya'know?
nout to be ashamed of,
your young and all your just finding yourself,
xo... (read in full...)
If she trusts me then why is she all over my cell phone?
Q. We Need to grow up! Am I Right? my gf and i seem to have trust issues were exactly the same except i show how i feel and what im thinking and she keeps it all in. She tells me she trust me but then she signs into my cell phone account... (not tru...
A. 14 September 2008: yeah your right.
trust is what a relationship in any form is based on
and if you dont have that then the relationship is going to be shit.
so ya'know?
either find the trust between you,
or find someone where there will be trust,
xo... (read in full...)
How do I lose weight quickly to stop my friends from making hurtful comments?
Q. I'm 13 and one of my best friends has suddenly gone off with her old best friend. Me and a few of my other friends do something called Body Combat and my old best friend was there watching and taking the mick out of us with her two new best friends. ...
A. 14 September 2008: dude, like dont let her take control of you,
you know that they are weak and just insucure and all when they can come up with is insults on appearences.
you dont need to change your self for someone else, its the wrong reaosn too, its only if you w... (read in full...)
What do I do about inverted nipples?
Q. I'm 15 and have inverted nipples. HELP! I hate them so much. they make me self concious. what can i do to make them go away? ive heard you can get an operation but i dont want this....and also ive heard of something called breast shields...wha...
A. 4 September 2008: just leave them,
your too young to be messing around with your body,
they are actually really common,
and uys can actually get them too.
so they probably wouldnt be,
and if they cant accept all of you should they really be down there?... (read in full...)
Should I be angry or have mercy? My dad cheated on my mom.
Q. hey i dont know whats right anymore! ok so my father cheated on my mom... and then he is still living in our home but he is being insulted by my other relatives and others are saying he is a shame to our family...a part of me feels sorry for him i ...
A. 4 September 2008: do you what you feel,
you shouldnt feel certain tings becuase thats the way others act in the situation
its about what you feel ya'know?
it's a hard time for you,
it;s okay to act out on your emotions... (read in full...)
I'm so sick of being single! What can I do to change this?
Q. Haven't had a girlfriend since March, been looking since with no luck. Also, i'm not used to this, before then i was basically never single for 2 or 3 years. It's been so long now and i don't really have any confidence anymore, i haven't got any ...
A. 1 September 2008: dude, calm down,
having a girl on your arm isnt everything ya'know?
if you girl you might as well talk to them,
havent got much to loose,
just if you do get turned down, its about 10 miniutes on embarssment, if you don't then you have gained... (read in full...)
I thought he liked me, but stopped texting and has been asking abou my friend. Does he like her?
Q. i dont understand blokes..how can you tell if a boy likes you?? been friends with this boy for a while..recently started hanging out..he started coming out by himself with me n sometimes my mates..he usually texts me everyday but last two days he ...
A. 31 August 2008: he might just see you as a friend,
and feel comfortable tobe able to strip down with you,
because guys are really self concious.
if he like her i really dont think its wise to stand in there way,
xo... (read in full...)
Help! I think my boyfriend might cheat on me!
Q. Hi. Im 13 nd im im a relationship. Im scared that my boyfriend is going to dump me because on bebo he is calling other girls fit and sexy. I love him to bits but my friend was txtin him asking him why he said that to then girls and he turned it ...
A. 31 August 2008: im tempted to write,
make him jealous back,
but as well all know this does ends in diaster.
just play it cool,
your 13 so it cant be to overally serious ya'know?
afterall its you he is calling his girlfriend not them?
xo
... (read in full...)
How important are your school friends / your popularity at school?
Q. I am 15 at the moment. How important are your school friends/ your popularity at school? I have lots of friends at school and am sort of friends with everyone, yet I don't seem to really fit in anywhere? I am never inivited to particular gro...
A. 31 August 2008: popularity isnt everything.
its nice dont get me wrong.
but when your older would you rather have a nice job and house.
then to be able to say you were prom queen?
i think your better of having alot of friends
then one certain set then you... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I love her online or to her face?
Q. hi, i know a girl for 3 weeks and she lives near my house, i had a long conversation through one night and i got out with her one time and we walked through the city, i gave her flowers and she said that is very kind of you and she huged me. ...
A. 31 August 2008: i really think you should wait a while,
three weeks is abit short,
what if you dont actually LOVELOVE her and are just very fond ya'know?
but if and when you do face to face,
it shows you have courage and it is alot nicer ya know?
xo... (read in full...)
Does bleeding mean you broke your hymen?
Q. I think i lost my hymen because i bleeded when i made out with my boyfriend, i don't know if he did enter me all the way through or not but since i bleeded this means that i lost my hymen right ? ...
A. 30 August 2008: yeah sounds like you did,
:)
xo... (read in full...)
I'm 10 days late but the tests came negative. Am I pregnant?
Q. im 10 days late, i was supposed to start on the 20th but didn't. i had sex on the 15th. i took two pregnancy test(cheap kind $1)they both showed negative. could i be pregnant?...
A. 30 August 2008: probably take a better wuality of test or see your doc,
i mean they are cheap for a reason rigt? lol,
xo... (read in full...)
Should I stop masturbating?
Q. Masterbation is the best, but my girlfriend told me to stop because she said that it is like killing millions of babies, and one that could have had a chance to live, should I stop, or should I keep masterbating. she said she would dump me if I ...
A. 30 August 2008: what she doesnt know doest hurt her right?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's past is causing me pain!
Q. I'm currently involved in a serious relationship with someone.. I just can't seem to get over her past. It bothers me even more that i know every guy she's been with and see them around my town every once in a while.. It eats away at me and i'm not ...
A. 30 August 2008: i really think you should stop worrying, like its you who she has ended up with right?
and those guys are her past and the obv reasons for that,
... (read in full...)
I'm so moody! What can I do to change this?
Q. Hey!.well i have always been a moody type of person i try hard not to be but i just am...recently though i have noticed i go through long phases of real irratibiltiy...i feel so stressed,i cant deal with other people and i snap at them for the ...
A. 29 August 2008: you have to eat a balenced meal,
make sre you get your 5aday and
exercise regulary.
xo... (read in full...)
I told a serious lie four years ago to make friends, now I'm concerned they'll find out about it!
Q. Okay Basically when i started year 7 i found it hard to make friends. I told a serious lie at the time thinking it would make me more liked and get me more attention. I really regret it now. I am now going into year 11, and my closest friends still ...
A. 28 August 2008: whats the lie?
xo!... (read in full...)
Is it ok for us to masturbate together?
Q. Hi, I've been wandering whether it would be alright for me(male and my cousin(female) to masturbate together? We're both the same age and are really close. Please reply, Thanks...
A. 18 August 2008: ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
no.
just no.
find a girlfriend and have fun with her.
not your cousin.... (read in full...)
How can I overcome my nerves?
Q. im going on a date with my girlfriend this saturday and i really need help! im thinkng of kissing her . jus like a small kiss to show her that i love her but i am practically famous for my nerves and i need advice on what to do! someone plase ...
A. 12 July 2008: have a wank before
its supposed to relax you
... (read in full...)
Dating for a year, how do I get her to realize I want to kiss her?
Q. me and my gf have been dating for a year now. i am 14 she is 13 . we have have been huging and holding hands my question is how do i make her want to kiss me but she does not know i want to help please....
A. 9 July 2008: it would be kinda awquward going 'do you wanna kiss?'
so in all honesty do what my boyfriend done to me,
just walk straight up to me looking me in the eye and just kiss me, it blew me away im sure it willl her too
and it will seem spontanios a... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and really like him, but does he like me?
Q. I really like this guy. Every time i see him, I get a tingly feeling inside. It's makes me happy when I saw him. All my friends say that he stares at me all the time and once we were in town shopping, and he looked at me, checked me out, scratched ...
A. 9 July 2008: awh this is really cute
i think he likes you
go for it : )... (read in full...)
What should I do about my vile friend? She's getting mean!
Q. hello ! i have a freind and shes my best freind and she has started to be mean to me for no apparent reason. she comments on things i say even if they dont involve her she constantly has a little go at me for no reason.today a girl who i am not fon...
A. 30 June 2008: your a teenager girl these things happen
this phase will pass,
xo... (read in full...)
If I continue like this at 15, will it affect me when I get older?
Q. Im 15 and usually cum about once a day. If i continue this at this age will it affect me when I get older? Like when I want kids and that?...
A. 29 June 2008: your a teenage boy its what your best at,
and it will most deffinatly wont effect you,... (read in full...)
I'm confused about my feelings for a girl.
Q. There's this girl at school who i've known properly for about a year. I'm thinking about her constantly but none of my thoughts are sexual and i feel that i only want her as a friend. At the same time, whenever i see her i get this feeling deep down ...
A. 29 June 2008: what you could do is become proper good mates with her and see how that goes,
and if you still feel something is missing
why dont you give it a try,
but i wouldnt go commiting yourself into anythingthat you arent sure about it isnt fair on you... (read in full...)
Me and my girlfriend want to have sex, but we're unsure about some things.
Q. I am 12 and me and my girlfriend want to have sex but we don't know were or when....
A. 29 June 2008: dont mean to sound harsh but you shouldnt be having sex if your dont know your, where, wear, we're 's.
... (read in full...)
Texting tips needed!
Q. I have a simple question. What's the easiest and least obvious way to start a texting conversation with a teenage girl?...
A. 9 June 2008: 'hey, how are you?'
plain simple,
and a easy thing to respond to... (read in full...)
I have an issue with my confidence that holds me back from socialising...
Q. i really feel like the time is right for me to get a girlfriend but i have an issue with my confidence that holds me back. i simply dont have the courage to talk to anybody i like the look of but when they speak to me i again do not have the ...
A. 9 June 2008: i feel exactally the same,
but just hang about places where about of people your age do,
or if your passing a girl you like th elook of,
ask her the time or do you
know what time .... closes.
ya know like a question,
its always hard to ... (read in full...)
I had sex with my best friend's boyfriend and now I'm pregnant.
Q. i need help and quick. im 13 and about three months ago i had sex with my best friend's boyfriend. i regret it, because im pregnant. i dont know how to tell people. let alone my best friend. please help....
A. 9 June 2008: in all fairness its mean going behind your bestfriends back to have sex with her boyfriend, its proper out of order.
does the guy know?
i noticed in everyone elses comments they didnt mention how much on an ass this guy is do that to his girlf... (read in full...)
How can I make her see that we'd be perfect together as we share the same interests?
Q. I fell in love with the most beautiful, talented, amazing girl in the world and well she dosn't fell the same. I love her more than anything in the world. There was a time when I thought that perhaps she loved me and it was the best moment of my ...
A. 8 June 2008: dude, if she doesnt love you,
let her go.
she'll be happy and isnt that what you want?
... (read in full...)
If someone is acting like you do, does this mean this person is attracted to you?
Q. Hiya just need a bit of advice-when your sitting with someone and they mirror what you do i.e you pick up ure drink-they do it. You touch ure face or hair then they do it or you move you arm to another position and then they follow-does this mean ...
A. 6 June 2008: well if he does it automatically chances are he is doing it subconciosly, or he is just really really really good at miming lol. ... (read in full...)
If someone is acting like you do, does this mean this person is attracted to you?
Q. Hiya just need a bit of advice-when your sitting with someone and they mirror what you do i.e you pick up ure drink-they do it. You touch ure face or hair then they do it or you move you arm to another position and then they follow-does this mean ...
A. 4 June 2008: yeah,
if someone mirrors your action unconcoisly
means they are attracted to you
: )... (read in full...)
I miss her friendship! She stopped talking to me when she found out I liked her...
Q. I liked this girl for 2 yrs we were great friend. She found out n said no n we stopped talkin to me. Been 2 months! Tried talkin but its hard. I wana talk to her but how? Will it ever be the same? I reli miss her friendship but I can't say that ...
A. 2 May 2008: what has happend is she probably doesnt like you back,
and she just doesnt want to hurt you and seem like she leading you on, she probably just feels a bit awquward knowing tht you like her an all.
just make light general conversation,
just take... (read in full...)
Any tips to get rid of bags under eyes?
Q. Hi i'm just wondering does anybody have any tips to get rid of bags under your eyes? i'm only 13 and i've had them for ages, even though i get enough sleep! ...
A. 27 April 2008: I'm 13 too, and i have the exact same problem as you and even when i put make up on it doesnt help. I don't have time before school to put ice or cucumber on them but i brought this gel which you rub under your eyes morning and night and it seems... (read in full...)
Any tips to get rid of bags under eyes?
Q. Hi i'm just wondering does anybody have any tips to get rid of bags under your eyes? i'm only 13 and i've had them for ages, even though i get enough sleep! ...
A. 27 April 2008: im 13 too,
and i have the exact same problem ass you,
and even when i put make up on it,
it doesnt help;
and i dont have time before school to put ice or cucumber on them,
but i brought this gel,
which you rub under your eyes
morning and n... (read in full...)
Do girls make passes at guys with glasses?
Q. Do girls think guys with glasses are nerdy? Im tall, 6'2, im not horribly thin but i am not that muscular and i have glasses so basically i am the normal tall,skinny,nerd. I was wondering if getting contacts would make me more attractive, w...
A. 26 April 2008: no way man!
if you have the right typer of glasses that suit you,
and you confident with in yourself
then your unstoppable!
confidence is key, : )... (read in full...)
First time sex, how will I perform? Please help!!
Q. My girlfriend and I are ready for sex. This weekend is best as we'll be alone, but I'm nervous, will I get it up? What position? Will I get my penis in and orgasm? (with a condom on) I also want my girl to be happy. I know it's our 1st time, but tr...
A. 26 April 2008: if you are having all these worries and conserns you may not be ready, phyically you may think you are, but mentally and emotionally might not be.
and your girlfriend is probably just as nervous as you are,
just take it slow rerlax and enjoy it... (read in full...)
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