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Is it possible to find a boyfriend not into religion?
Q. Hey, I was wondering about this. I want a boyfriend, and one issue i was afraid would come up is that I'm not a religious person. (not that there's anything wrong with it) I know that LOTS of people are religious, and it would probably be really ...
A. 17 July 2008: I always thought it would be harder to find a guy who WAS religious! Whereabouts in America do you live? I know some states are very religious.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend became my stepsister!
Q. Ever since september 2007, my girlfreind and i have been together. She turned 16 last week and my B-day is in august. We've been happy and hav'nt had any big problems with each other, but what we didnt know up until feburary that year is that her ...
A. 17 July 2008: The legal age in Canada is 14 right? Well if you're both 14 or more, then I don't see why you shouldn't sleep together. I mean you both really love each other and are taking the necessary precautions, right? And if you're worried about you're folks ... (read in full...)
Scared for life, walked in on my mom and dad having sex, how do I behave now, also I think it affected me in a negative way, help me out?
Q. walking in on mum and dad.... HELP!!!...
A. 17 July 2008: Aw unlucky! But it's a good thing that your parents are in a stable relationship so be grateful for that.Uncle Phil is right - knock next time! And you won't be half as embarrassed as your folks are, so unless they say something, just pretend it ... (read in full...)
Does anyone know, if urinating in a woman's vagina is harmful, or would create a medical problem?
Q. dear cupid. i just want to find out if urinating close to or in my fiances vagina is dangerous. we have a good sexlife but we are carefull when it comes to extreme fetishes. i would like a medical review about it. thanx...
A. 17 July 2008: Eww why would you do that?! It's gross and disgusting! I don't know that it would do her any harm, but it certainly won't do her any good!... (read in full...)
Just how risky is the 'pull out' method?
Q. Hi, My partner and I have sex all the time without using protection. I am waiting for my next period to get an implamon though (maybe). I'm also more then aware of the invention of condoms so this is not the advice I am looking for. What I ...
A. 15 July 2008: The withdrawl (pull-out) method is very risky - even if he hasn't cummed, there can still be a sperm or two lurking down there and that is often enough to fertilise you. You sound really confused - surely having an abortion would encourage you to ... (read in full...)
Sex without Protection
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time in our whole life without protection and he just pulled out. I feel like he didn't pull out in time because we did leave it in a couple of times. He also had ejaculated the day before. Am I pregnant? ...
A. 14 July 2008: It is unlikely but still possible that you could be pregnant, as even if he didn't cum, you can sometimes get the odd sperm lurking 'down there.' A. you're not legal yet and b. more importantly you didn't use protection. Have you not thought of the ... (read in full...)
He asked me if I'd have sex without a condom and I would, but what are the risks of pregnancy?
Q. i am ready to have sex with this boy but he has asked if a would do it without a condom, i don't think i would but whats the chances of getting pregnant first time without a condom? and am a virgin just now btw...
A. 12 July 2008: HIGH.... (read in full...)
Views on condoms - sex more pleasurable without?
Q. I now feel ready for full sex-my boyfriend is too. We've talked about contraception and condoms.Some of my friends saythere's no difference in the pleasurable sensations for a woman whether a man wears one or not.Others say the feeling is much bet...
A. 12 July 2008: You MUST use a condom (unless you want a baby or a disease!) Remember that condoms are the only type of contraception that protect you from STIs.
If you want sex to be really fun, get condoms that are ribbed or dotted or both - this makes it... (read in full...)
About vaginal discharge before starting the periods...
Q. hi i am just wondering ppl say that u have vaginal discharge about 1 yr before ur peridos start is that correct? well i have been getting discharge for more than a year and my periods have not started yet i am 13 and need help thankz...
A. 12 July 2008: I don't know if there are any written rules regarding it, but I had discharge for a couple of years before I started my period.... (read in full...)
Do guys like it when girls 'squirt'?
Q. Hi there! Wondering if you could help me out here, last night my boyfriend and I were being intimate and he was giving me oral, all of the sudden I climaxed. The problem here is that as I was finishing I 'squirted', that's never happened before. ...
A. 11 July 2008: Some do, some don't. It's all personal taste. Ask him what he likes before you take action.... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant the first time you have sex?
Q. can females get pregnant when they have sex for the first time? ...
A. 11 July 2008: Of course you can if you don't take all the precautions! (i.e. use a condom, and ideally another kind of contraception as well. Don't wear two condoms as the friction between them can cause them to rip.)... (read in full...)
Where do I "go" when I have to pull out?
Q. This is kind of a strange question but here goes. When having sex with an unfamiliar partner, where do you "cum" when you need to pull out? Is there some kind of ettiquette with this kind of thing? Seriously I never know what to do when that moment ...
A. 10 July 2008: Sorry luvvy part of your answer wasn't true Korculan Queen, it is possible to get pregnant at any point in your cycle, just much more likely between days 14 and 18.... (read in full...)
Can my friend be pregnant from being fingered?
Q. my friend was fingered at a party but it wasn't like a typical party no alcohol or anything it was a barbeque and the guy that was there had been there for over 2 hours, shes freaking out because she hasn't had her period yet and she was supposed to ...
A. 9 July 2008: It's only possible to get pregnant by fingering if he had semen on his hands. It's probably late BECAUSE she's worrying - stress can delay your period! Also at this age your period can still be very irregular. But next time you or her get fingered ... (read in full...)
Is there a significant difference in relationships, when you are in love?
Q. Ok this might seem like a stupid question to anyone that is reading but how do people say a comment like "I've never felt this way about anyone before" meaning strong feelings in a relationship, when they have been in love before? I have been in...
A. 8 July 2008: I thought I truly loved my ex, and I currently love my boyfriend to pieces and mostly can't stand my ex! But I did feel strongly about them. It's very difficult to tell, but in the grand scheme of things, it's no big deal. As long as you truly love ... (read in full...)
I had sex and bled - have I lost my virginity?
Q. when i was 16 i had sex with a boy using condom i bleed that time , after two year again i did sex this time again i bleed, now i want to know that i am virgin or not...
A. 8 July 2008: If you've had penetrative sex, then you've lost your V-card, no question.... (read in full...)
I am small chested, and concerned with my image, any advice for me?
Q. Well this is going to sound akward, but anyways, we were on a school trip a while ago and everyone was wearing vest tops and obvoiusly you could see the shape of there breasts and stuff - okay so that sounded totally strange! but I dont have much of ...
A. 8 July 2008: Firstly, if a guy really cares about you he won't care how big yer tits are! I'm a B-cup and I've had four boyfriends, (I was only an A with two of those) and they really didn't care. My boyfriend now says I'm a perfect size.
Secondly, yer boob... (read in full...)
Is there a significant difference in relationships, when you are in love?
Q. Ok this might seem like a stupid question to anyone that is reading but how do people say a comment like "I've never felt this way about anyone before" meaning strong feelings in a relationship, when they have been in love before? I have been in...
A. 8 July 2008: Just don't say it. Don't just say stuff that sounds good - say what you actually feel!... (read in full...)
My Girl Wants Oral Sex
Q. im dating this new girl.. she asked me if i liked going down on girls.. and that she likes it when guys go down on her.. im not really expierenced with eating a girl out.. she also says she doesnt really like fingering, and if you do that you mine ...
A. 7 July 2008: Try out loads of different things with each other and work out between you which things turn you both on! The best way to learn how to please someone else and yourself is through experience.... (read in full...)
Is it ok the take the morning after pill if I'm not pregnant?
Q. Hello everyone, My problem is that im kinda scared that I might be pregnant again the 1st time was with twins by a man that was 10 years my senior when I was 15 and had been date raped. Now im in a loving relationship with my highschool s...
A. 4 July 2008: I'm so sorry I didn't get down to the bit where you said you'd been date raped - I only read the title. I just wanted to say how glad I am for you that you have found happiness that you truly deserve.... (read in full...)
Ejaculations problems! help!
Q. everytime i have sex with my girlfriend as soon as i enter i get the kinda tinging feeling in my penis like i'm going to ejaculate and then i do :S How do i stop this from happening so fast?...
A. 4 July 2008: Btw, anonymous reader, if you wear two condoms, the friction between them can cause them to rip - it's not a good idea.... (read in full...)
I am sick and I think I have drained my husband so I feel emotionally alone. What can I do?
Q. i have temporary nervous system damage that has left me bedbound and unable to walk. my husband carries me to the bathroom and back and helps take care of all my basic needs. he only gets out a few times a week when my mom watches me and our four ...
A. 4 July 2008: This must be completely awful for you! Your boyfriend does sound drained. This is obviously not your fault and I'm sure he realises this. Maybe he blames himself - it seems weird but some people do. It may just feel very strange to him - some people ... (read in full...)
What are the age limits to date a 16 y/o girl??
Q. Theres no real story behind this question but what would you say is the oldest and youngest age a man should be for dating a 16 year old girl?...
A. 4 July 2008: At 16 myself I personally wouldn't want to date anyone less than 13 or more than 19. And remember if you are dating a guy under 16, (at least in the UK) you are breaking the law by having sexual contact - this is anything between french kissing and ... (read in full...)
Is it ok the take the morning after pill if I'm not pregnant?
Q. Hello everyone, My problem is that im kinda scared that I might be pregnant again the 1st time was with twins by a man that was 10 years my senior when I was 15 and had been date raped. Now im in a loving relationship with my highschool s...
A. 3 July 2008: Well it is the morning after - and you can never know for sure if you're pregnant after one day! Of course it's fine, it's designed as a precaution.... (read in full...)
Is a curved penis a problem, or am I over reacting?
Q. my penis curves slightly to the left (about 9 inches if that means anything) is this normal?...
A. 3 July 2008: Completely normal! Somebody posted a similar problem and one of the aunts actually said some girls may find this more stimulating! So I wouldn't worry! =]... (read in full...)
Is there any chance of getting pregnant on your period?
Q. Hello, I have been wondering lately, if there would be any possiblity of geting pregnant on your period. Because last weekend my boyfriend came inside me. But he told me not to worry because i cant get pregnant on my period. He said theres like a o...
A. 3 July 2008: Although unlikely, it's still possible. ALWAYS make sure you are protected from pregnancy and STIs and such (condoms + pill is the best way to go about it I think.)
Personally I think having sex on your period is slightly gross to be honest, ... (read in full...)
We used durex condoms, is there any chance of my being pregnant?
Q. last night i had protected sex with someone who already has kids, could i be pregnant, the condom didn't break or anything, i'm not on birth control, we used durex condoms, is there a chance of me being pregnant???...
A. 3 July 2008: If it didn't break then it is practically impossible! So don't stress out. Just wait and see if your period is on time - I'm sure it will be. However it may be a good idea to go on the pill for extra protection, in case something does go wrong with ... (read in full...)
The condom came off inside me - is there any chance I could be pregnant?
Q. I had sex with my boyfrined on friday last and when we had finished we realised that the condom was off he said he is postive it didnt cme of until he pulled out and that he didnt even come he thinks...and the weird thing is when the condom came of ...
A. 2 July 2008: If he didn't cum it's less likely, although still possible. Has your period come on since you have sex? Because that means you're not pregnant. If you were on when you had sex then there is still a tiny chance you could be. Get a test to be sure ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my partner that its my time of the month??
Q. I am a very private and personal person. The dilema is that I'm not sure how to tell my lover when its that time of the month. I usually just avoid him for those few days but he's recently been away for a month and wants to be intimate but I ...
A. 1 July 2008: It's nothing to be embarrassed about as all women go through it so just tell him straight! What have you got to hide? Once you get it over and done with then you won't be nervous any more and next time you have to tell him will be a lot easier - if ... (read in full...)
Is it possible my girlfriend could know she is pregnant after only a week?
Q. me and my girlfriend had sex bout a week ago, and now she says she is pregnant already, is that possible to know that soon?...
A. 1 July 2008: Some tests I think can work as early as a week. Natural signs normally appear after about two weeks, and they can include morning (or in fact any time) sickness, sore boobs, fatigue, change in eating habits and many more. Also when is her period ... (read in full...)
My BF doesn't work and is immature, the new guy is a drug dealer. Who do I choose?
Q. ok i got a problem...ive been with my boyfriend for 1 year and i love him to death, but he dont work he is kinda immatuire and we fight about stupid things...well i met this other guy he is so sweet to me he is all i think about he does everything ...
A. 30 June 2008: Neither. Unless guy 1 gets a job, or guy 2 comes clean, you're better off with guy 3, whoever that may be. Aim high girl - you have nothing to lose =]... (read in full...)
He wants a threesome, I said no. Have you tried this and how did it work out?
Q. The guy I am seeing has asked me to do a threesome with me. I am not into it and have said no. I mean I know it is suppose to be every guys fantasy, but, I just wondered how many other girls have been asked to do them by guys they are seeing? ...
A. 30 June 2008: Some people like them, some people don't. If you're sceptical, it's not worth trying. Your boyfriend should respect your decision, if he doesn't then he's not worth keeping. It would also be unfair on the third person who gets involved =]... (read in full...)
Have I started my periods or just broken my hymen??
Q. hi! i am very worried! about a week a go my boyfriend fingered me! everything was ok ... then i started bleeding 4 a short while then it stopped.i have not started my periods yet but now there is this short discharge(marroon colour...
A. 30 June 2008: That sounds more like your first period. If your hymen breaks bleeding is minimal and doesn't last long. Some girls don't even have a hymen. I hope you've been using sanitary products otherwise things could get unpleasant! If your period doesn't ... (read in full...)
What are the chances I'm pregnant??
Q. i started my period on june 7 finished on june 11, has sex (unprotected,and he came in me) on june 13 and 18. i should have ovulated somewhere around june 21. we also had sex on june 28 and he came in me then as well. my boobs are a little sor...
A. 30 June 2008: No matter where you are in your cycle, there's always a chance you could get pregnant. Go take a test or see a doctor =]... (read in full...)
How concerned should I be about the chances of pregnancy?
Q. i could be a week pregnant but im not sure. but my question is what is the chance? i have the feeling that my worrying is delaying my periode from the stress so thats why i need an answer soon. me and my bf been having sex this past week and im on ...
A. 30 June 2008: As you're on the pill it's highly unlikely that you're pregnant. I'm glad to hear you're taking such care, because as I'm sure you know, pills alone won't protect you form STIs. Your stress could well be delaying your period, that's happened to me ... (read in full...)
We are in love, but her mother won't allow it. help me out please!
Q. I'm 15, and i'v fallen in love with my best friend. She loves me too, and we've been going out for 2 months now, but the problem is, when her mother found out, she freaked. My girlfriend isn't allowed to see me, but we go to the same school, so we ...
A. 19 June 2008: Actually you're not underage I don't think, you haven't mentioned anything to do with sex, and in the UK there are no laws concerning lesbianism, I don't know if there are any where you are!
'Coming Out' can be a big shock for parents, your gir... (read in full...)
Is it okay to date your sister's boyfriend's sister?
Q. Is it okay to date your sisters boyfriends sister...
A. 19 June 2008: Why wouldn't it be? It's not exactly incest.... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to ask him to show/tell me what he wanted to do during sex?
Q. hi i recently asked a question about whether i had a right to be upset at what my boyfriend said about his ex heres the link here for background info http://www.dearcupid.org/quest...
A. 18 June 2008: Of course not! That's how people get a good sex life - they learn how to satisfy each other! He ain't gunna know what to do to make you feel good unless you tell him! It's not wrong to tell him at all. In an ideal world, people just know what to do, ... (read in full...)
What is the possibility that I can get pregnant in the pool?
Q. I had sex in the pool. We used condoms when we were in the bedroom. My question is: Does sperm die in the pool and since he was inside me, what is the percentage rate on possibilities of me getting pregnant??? I am very fertile and I get pregnant ...
A. 17 June 2008: Well it was inside your body, so what's on the outside wouldn't make any difference. The likelihood of you getting pregnant is the same I'm afraid.... (read in full...)
I want to do something with my pubic hair, do I have to go to a salon to get a 'landing strip'??
Q. Hey - am having sex with my boyfriend next week and wanted to do something with my pubic hair. I have it trimmed as it is now, but was thinking of maybe getting it done in to a teardrop shape or a "landing strip". Is this something I can do at ...
A. 13 June 2008: If you go to a salon or a beauticians', it will look better, better care will be taken, but it will cost more. You can do it at home, loads of people do.
As for what to do, you could have a teardrop, a brazilian, any shape I guess. You could ev... (read in full...)
Known him for 2 weeks - is it too soon for a visit to his town??
Q. Hello everyone.. i have a question, and my friends are giving different answers, would be good to get some objective views! On a previous post, i mentioned my failing relationship. Well, it failed. To be honest, when it ended, i was devastated, but ...
A. 13 June 2008: I don't think two weeks is too long to go and see someone at all, particularly if you don't intend on dating them yet! I mean, I'd only known my boyfriend for three months when we started going out!
However, you never know who you can trust, s... (read in full...)
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