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... Send GoffDolly a private message | | | GoffDolly's profile:I'm an 18 year old female, currently a gap year student in England. A lot of my friends say I give very good relationship advice, so I thought I would try to lend a hand to the people on this site!
I'm bisexual and have had relationships with both males and other females, and have also come out to my mother about this aspect of my sexuality, so I'm pretty good on this subject.
I'm currently in a relationship with my boyfriend of a confused amount of time; we've only recently got back together after he cheated on me, but I took the plunge and gave him another chance. We shall see how that pans out!
I'm interested in lots of things, especially culture and religion although I'm non-religious myself. I'm also an artist and writer when I get the chance, and enjoy reading and photography. |
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Should I tell him I am a virgin before we have sex or simply don't mention it?
Q. I have been going out with a guy recently but it is the first proper relationship I have been in. Therefore, I am still a Virgin. When the time comes, is it a good thing to tell the guy you are a Virgin before you have sex or should I just leave ...
A. 10 December 2007: You should definitely mention it. I didn't mention it my boyfriend the first time we had sex, although fortunately he is very gentle in bed when he needs to be, but I do regret not telling him.
Telling your boyfriend means he can expect you to b... (read in full...)
My gf smokes although she has asthma. Worried about her well being, so what can I do?
Q. ok.......my girl and I started going out like a week ago were both 17 and I absolutely love her. We get to hang around a bot and so on She smokes....I generally don't mind people smoking cause in my opinion if they wanna kill themselves thats th...
A. 10 December 2007: Honestly, please try not to badger this girl. It's clear that it worries you, and I can understand that, I've had asthamtic friends smoking 20 a day. However, I'm a smoker myself, and I know being told to stop irritates the hell outta me and just ... (read in full...)
Do we have hope
Q. My ex boyfriend and I were together for nearly three years. We broke up a couple of months ago when I found out he'd lied and cheated- not once, but many times. But now I am thinking about giving him another chance- things were good in the last ...
A. 10 December 2007: You're not at all crazy to consider giving him another chance. You obviously care about him a great deal, and these feelings cannot be turned off overnight.
It will be extremely difficult for you to trust him again wholly, and you need to make sur... (read in full...)
I'm not sur if my boobs are rite help!
Q. Hi i have 2 questions. 1 is that my one of my boobs is smaller than the other, i dont always notice it but sometimes there seems to be a big difference and i get rly paranoid that boys, if they look, mite c a difference to. and numba 2 is that i ...
A. 10 December 2007: It's said a lot that boobs grow at different rates to each other, and it's very common to have one bigger than the other (in a survey of 8 friends, 6 of us had bigger left boobs, lol) by the time you've stopped growing - which, for you, won't be a ... (read in full...)
Does there come a time when you say "enough is enough"?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm 41 and I've only ever had close friendships. Well, that's not quite true as there has been the occasional intimate encounter (and I do mean "occasional"!). I'm told I'm attractive. I'm no oil painting I know, but women seem to lo...
A. 10 December 2007: Well, I have to say that you shouldn't give up entirely. I am a relationship optimist, though, so bear that in mind.
I have a friend who's in a similar situation to you and is close to your age, and what I would suggest to you (as to him) is get o... (read in full...)
Should I tell her what I feel for her?
Q. I'm a 15 yr old girl and I kinda have a problem. Recently I found a girl that's bisexual like me and I get along with her very well. She has a personality like no other that I've met. One day she asked me If I ever had a relationship with another ...
A. 10 December 2007: This is a tricky one! Being bisexual does, of course, mean you'll find both sexes attractive. And, much like if you're just straight or gay, if you think someone you like is uninterested, chances are you'll move on to the next person you like (I ... (read in full...)
I want to have an affair with my boyfriend's friend, please help!
Q. hey,need help..my name is anna,been going out with my boyfriend john 4 over 1 year now and i loved him 2 bits but he has changed so much since i started college and he hates d amount of guys hitting on me and hes so very insecure now but i do love ...
A. 10 December 2007: I agree with J.
If you're having these strong feelings for another guy who's not your fella, then there is clearly something wrong in your relationship. I think your best bet is to cool it off with both of them for the time being until you can work... (read in full...)
I finally admitted to being bi...now what?
Q. ive just told my girlfreind of 4 years that im bi and we have a child togeather although this is somthing i did not know i was until nearly falling for a lad at work now im stressed out she said that she is happy i told her and says that we cant ...
A. 10 December 2007: I think that was such a brave step for you to take!
If your girlfriend feels she can't continue with you, then it may be best to accept this but continue a platonic relationship for the sake of your child. She may or may not come to terms with the ... (read in full...)
Should I stay married or go with my first love?
Q. I am a 22 year old married girl. i have been married for about 5 months. anyways i hate being married and a wife. i have been talking to the first guy i have loved and wanted to date the whole time i was married and before. we never stopped ...
A. 10 December 2007: Honestly, I think you've acted a little badly about this ... I know it's hard to refuse someone you adore (trust me, I've been there), but at the same time, you owe yourself more than being branded with the cheater iron. If I were in your situation, ... (read in full...)
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