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My wife wants me to watch her with another man! What do you think?

Q.   my wife wants me to watch her with another man. It really turns me on, but I don't want to ruin things. What do you think?...

A.   12 June 2008: This can go either way to be honest, in my humble opinion. On one hand, if you have the trust, devotion and commitment that lasting relationships are based on, you've never had any problems with dishonesty and infidelity since you began said ... (read in full...)

He now says he has no feelings for me anymore - that I killed it all with my insecurities. Do I admit my defeat and let him go?

Q.   I met the man of my dreams, but was simply too afraid of expressing my true emotions due to lack of courage, fear of rejection and my insecurities. I asked him to go easy on me because I was so overwhelmed by his intensity, but he would not listen ...

A.   3 January 2008: I've experienced very similar feelings and situations in my current relationship. I'm a divorced father as well - my ex-wife had 2 children when I met her and we had a little girl together who I have full custody of, and which her mother isn't ... (read in full...)

Am I expecting to much after a physical and emotional affair?

Q.   My fiancee cheated on me with a co-worker in September '07. The night it happened her, the person with whom she cheated with and some of their mutual friends from work went out drinking. To make a long story short, after that night she started ...

A.   2 January 2008: Thank you for replying stem1981! She said she's stopped talking to him since the middle of October. Although I know she doesn't call/text him from her cell or IM etc. with him on the computer at home, I still wonder if she doesn't email/IM from work ... (read in full...)

Is she being honest with me?

Q.   To make a long story short, I an engaged to be married in March '08 after 2+ years. I am divorced, she's never been married. My fiancee started a new job 5 months ago, and made a male friend at work. They went out September 7, they both got re...

A.   28 November 2007: Another update - things have slowly gotten a bit better in our relationship. She finally did stop communicating with 'him' as far as I know - she could still email/call him from her work but I'm not going to go to jail just to find out that sort of ... (read in full...)

Is she being honest with me?

Q.   To make a long story short, I an engaged to be married in March '08 after 2+ years. I am divorced, she's never been married. My fiancee started a new job 5 months ago, and made a male friend at work. They went out September 7, they both got re...

A.   16 October 2007: Hi everyone - thank you so much for taking the time to reply to my question! Update - We fought again last night... I ended up calling *him* and he told me they never kissed, danced sexy or anything! Yet my fiancee still says they did so... it... (read in full...)

Is she being honest with me?

Q.   To make a long story short, I an engaged to be married in March '08 after 2+ years. I am divorced, she's never been married. My fiancee started a new job 5 months ago, and made a male friend at work. They went out September 7, they both got re...

A.   15 October 2007: Well - to all three answers - as I've said we did talk this weekend after the fight(s) and things seem to be okay thus far. I know, it's Monday but I always see the glass as half full. I've laid everything on the table with her, and she knows if... (read in full...)

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