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I am open minded very honest and i am your shoulder to cry on when and if you need me i have came through quite a few obstacles in my life have 3 great kids and feel i am well equiped to give good solid advice life is hard at times and when you have endured many ups and downs you become more abled and a better listener for others i have learned to give back to others in need is truly a blessing.
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Visiting America and VISA's??
Q. Ok. I'm planning on going to Philadelphia towards the end of summer for a week or so. Do I need a Visa of any sort? I didn't think I needed one as it isn't for a long time period however my mum told me differently. Help?...
A. 9 January 2009: Hi,
Your welcome enjoy that hol when you go!!!
Gina... (read in full...)
What build size do women prefer?
Q. This is more curiosity then a problem, In general as i know everyone has different tastes what do women prefer in a mans build, for example im 5 10" very broad shouldered with a large chest and a waist narrower then my shoulders with large strong ...
A. 9 January 2009: Russell Crowe in Gladiator did it for me pumped up full of muscle and a man who has it all in the right places Nice Height, Broad Chest, Strong sturdy legs, and strong arms to cuddle you and wrap you up in i'm away to look out my Gladiator ... (read in full...)
Warts on his penis and now I have them too. What is it?
Q. Im an 18 year old girl and ive been with my boyfriend for a good few years now. I noticed a few months back that he had developed some califlower looking lumps, like warts, on his penis. I know he hasn't or would.t cheat but i just dont want to ...
A. 9 January 2009: Hi,
It sounds like Genital Warts you both will have to go to your doctor's to have them removed here is a link for you to look at:
http://www.emedicinehealth.com/genital_warts/page2_em.htm
Gina... (read in full...)
We were together 4 years. How can she replace me so quickly?
Q. Dear aunts, I need help bad, I'm sick of feeling hurt all the time, split from a good/bad relationship in november, not had contact or seen my ex at all but my friends and family seen her a few times and they come and tell me that they seen her and ...
A. 9 January 2009: Maybe he is nothing more than a friend don't get caught into the how could she not care mode i am sure she does care 4 yrs is a long time to be with someone loads of memories etc; and i am sure she has not forgotten any of that.
As for you bank... (read in full...)
I can't wait to see him again when school starts, do you think he'll have forgotten about me?
Q. Hi well I know this guy really likes me but we're both really shy and I was wondering if he would still like me even if we haven't seen each other in almost 2 months, it's killing me and I can't wait to see him but do you think he has forgotten ...
A. 9 January 2009: No he won't have we all remember our school mates and he may well be like you can't wait to see you, fingers xxxxxxxxxxx
Gina... (read in full...)
Should I ask him out because he's too shy and all??
Q. I'm usually a confident borderling over confident lass. However, I have very deep rooted morals that somewhat are the major cause to this matter. Additionally being a girl, I do tend to prefer the whole "i'm laid back so i'll wait for you to ask me ...
A. 9 January 2009: Don't miss this one then! as your mum has done the ground work on your behalf why not turn up at her work and let your mum do her stuff she seems to have the balls for it go for it! Good Luck.
Gina... (read in full...)
Visiting America and VISA's??
Q. Ok. I'm planning on going to Philadelphia towards the end of summer for a week or so. Do I need a Visa of any sort? I didn't think I needed one as it isn't for a long time period however my mum told me differently. Help?...
A. 9 January 2009: Hi
Have a look at this:
http://www.usembassy.org.uk/cons_new/visa/niv/vwp.html
Gina... (read in full...)
My boyfriend pushes me away when I'm the one who can help...
Q. My boyfriend lives with his family (mother and sister) and everyone has to pay rent at their house. He recently had a birthday, took a week off, but requested vacation time. They didn't give him that, so he was unable to come up with his half of the ...
A. 9 January 2009: Hi,
Your more than welcome hope we helped you!
Gina... (read in full...)
I don't think I can forgive and forget his stag night to the strip club!
Q. I know I am not the first female in the world to have an issue with strip clubs but my boyfriend lied to me for 6 months and I had to force the truth out of him before he confessed to going to one on a stag night. I told him from the outset of our ...
A. 8 January 2009: You both need to talk this through you are clearly upset and i fully understand why i do not like these places either depending on what went on is a matter for both of you to discuss most men will lie about these places the very fact they have to ... (read in full...)
The boss's wife/daughter are pigs and I'm tired of cleaning up after them
Q. I work in a very small office, doing repairs. I work basically alone 9-5, I open and close the office every morning. I work sometimes with the owner, who is on the road working most of the day. His wife, who has a handicapped daughter, comes ...
A. 8 January 2009: Maybe you could set up some basic housekeeping rules most works have them and they work very well.
Rule board should read: Everyone to clean up after themselves and have your place of work clean and tidy, and also in the loo a notice should be pinn... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has just found out that he is father to a 3 month old baby!!!!
Q. Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend 6 months and he has just found out that he is father to a 3 month old baby. He had a brief fling with the mother last april and stupidly they were careless and ahd unprotected sex. The baby was born 3 ...
A. 8 January 2009: Hi Hun,
This is part of his life now and a child is for life it is not something he can just disregard i feel this is far too much for you to be coping with at such a young age the worry the stress of all of this will take it's toll on you.
Ca... (read in full...)
Why is he getting bumps on his penis?
Q. I just started shaving my pubic area about 4 months ago. While my boyfreind of 2.5 years loves it, the last 2 times we had sex he has gotten bumps on his penis. I have been tested for STD and have none. Is it possible from the shaving? Or maybe ...
A. 8 January 2009: Any bumps down there even if it is a skin rash should be medically checked by a doctor that way you get the right treatment right away.
Gina... (read in full...)
Losing the nerve to contact him
Q. Hey everyone! Met a guy over xmas, and we've been emailing everyday. We did swop numbers... and I really want to text him, but when it comes to putting his number in... I lose my nerve? Am I crazy? I just keep talking myself out of it! Any advice? ...
A. 8 January 2009: Be patient he will text back well done you!!
Gina... (read in full...)
Going skiing and don't want a tan! Please advise other skiiers!
Q. A question for skiiers: I am going skiing for the first time and have just booked everything. However I just read somewhere that you get tanned when skiing?! I do NOT want to get a tan and generally avoid the sun like the plague!! I am firstly alr...
A. 8 January 2009: Yes you do tan i tanned even in Scotland skiing!!Go into any of the big pharmacies like Boots/Lloyds and ask the
pharmacists to recommend a good sunblock for your type of skin i would imagine a total sunblock would be useful for you but they can ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has just found out that he is father to a 3 month old baby!!!!
Q. Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend 6 months and he has just found out that he is father to a 3 month old baby. He had a brief fling with the mother last april and stupidly they were careless and ahd unprotected sex. The baby was born 3 ...
A. 8 January 2009: He should have made it clear to you from the start that he was married even if he was separated because for you to find this out after 2 months i can imagine how shocked you where thankfully they are no kids here! To have this bombshell dropped on ... (read in full...)
I don't want to think he's cheating..but it goes through my mind
Q. Hey I have been in this relationship for two years with my man and we have a baby together. I love him and he loves me trust me if we didn't love each other the we both would have been gone. I have a hard time of letting go of the past and starting ...
A. 8 January 2009: I would be asking more about this female friend who calls him we can all have friends but if your having suspicions about the two of them then you need to delve more how often is she calling him? does he go out the room when she calls? how long is ... (read in full...)
Sexy Time?
Q. Hey, I have been on a weeks course of antibiotics, 4 250mg ones a day, and I stop taking them tomorrow. I am going to my boyfriends on Sunday and he'll probably want to have sex because it's been so long since we last did. I am really concerned as ...
A. 8 January 2009: What are the antibiotics for? as long as you have been taking the contaceptive pill and use condoms you will be protected but i am concerned you need to ask why are you not asking your doctor? If he/she has prescribed these antibiotics they would ... (read in full...)
What REALLY goes on at gentleman's clubs?
Q. Hello, Can anyone please please please tell me what really goes on at gentlemens clubs? I know there are dancers, but I have heard there are also side rooms, vips rooms, suites, hotel rooms, etc. that you can go and get blowjobs or sex from the ...
A. 8 January 2009: Not too sure in the State your in but here in Scotland most of the Gentleman's clubs are not for proper Gentlemen! They are basically whores dens! and anything goes you have the money to spend you can have the choice usually between 5/7 whores who ... (read in full...)
Am I just over reacting??
Q. Not sure if I'm just over reacting to something really stupid but it's another thing that's really upset me and just wanted other people's opinions. I gave blood yesterday and fainted afterwards (my first time). Got home having been told not to...
A. 8 January 2009: He sounds like a man who likes to be looked after and that is fine as long as it is shared both ways i think he was being very selfish by asking you to do it all i mean how easy is it to stop at one of these cash machines lift money and get the ... (read in full...)
Losing the nerve to contact him
Q. Hey everyone! Met a guy over xmas, and we've been emailing everyday. We did swop numbers... and I really want to text him, but when it comes to putting his number in... I lose my nerve? Am I crazy? I just keep talking myself out of it! Any advice? ...
A. 8 January 2009: Ok go to your phone type in the number, once done send a text and ask he got it ok? Done!!!
If you are e-mailing him every day this should be easy to do as your used to typing right?
Get your phone out as you read this and just do it!!
Gina... (read in full...)
Will he call in his own time?
Q. I met this guy like 3 weeks ago. He called me every day and me and him had a good vibe going at least I thought. He lost his phone on new years eve and he even borrowed his cousin's phone that weekend just so that he could talk to me all day. But ...
A. 8 January 2009: Good i am glad it has worked out well.
Gina ... (read in full...)
How to deal with my controlling mother?
Q. My mother is very controlling even though I am already married. She is a single mother and brought me up all by herself. She worked multiple jobs just to pay for my education. I feel like she really cares about me but her love goes too far. For ...
A. 8 January 2009: Your Mother has throwing herself into raising and caring for you both and in the process has forgotten about her life i think your mother epitomizes a lot of women who found their self in this position left with young children and raising them on ... (read in full...)
He's been with alot more partners than me yet he accuses my past!
Q. My beau has been with 48 women. I have been with less than 1/5 of that. I have never let my partner's past get in the way of the relationship, and I used to never let his past bother me... ...but he went through a period of 4 months or so whe...
A. 8 January 2009: Emotional Abuse will kill your self esteem do not allow him to do this to you if he has nothing good or positive to say tell him not to say anything to you!
You have to question his integrity here he does not sound a good person to be around you ... (read in full...)
Will he call in his own time?
Q. I met this guy like 3 weeks ago. He called me every day and me and him had a good vibe going at least I thought. He lost his phone on new years eve and he even borrowed his cousin's phone that weekend just so that he could talk to me all day. But ...
A. 8 January 2009: Could be he had to give the cousin back his phone and does not have another to call you on can you get in touch through MySpace again?
Gina... (read in full...)
My boyfriend pushes me away when I'm the one who can help...
Q. My boyfriend lives with his family (mother and sister) and everyone has to pay rent at their house. He recently had a birthday, took a week off, but requested vacation time. They didn't give him that, so he was unable to come up with his half of the ...
A. 8 January 2009: We all deal with stress differently and if he is wanting to deal with this his way then you need to allow him that, it was a lovely gesture from you to offer what you did and don't be offended at his refusal some men are very proud and he may not ... (read in full...)
How can you jump in bed with someone else after a break up?
Q. How can a guy , that is in a great relationship where both people absolutely love each other and have no big problems or fights and have plans for the future - just turn around in one week, break up the relationship after 2 years of dating and jump ...
A. 8 January 2009: I never understood why some guys could do this it seems so heartless and uncaring maybe for some of these guys it is immaturity on their part! I also think selfishness has a lot to do with it too many people nowadays are Me People! It is absolutely ... (read in full...)
Girls Girls Girls please help
Q. Question to girls, do you find guys that wear tight pants attractive??? I'm not talking about the super emo tight pants but something that hugs the body at least??? And why do you find it attractive???...
A. 8 January 2009: For me no tight pants don't do it i'd far rather see a man in a well fitted suit with shirt and tie nothing more smarter and sexier than this for me!
Gina... (read in full...)
Am I more than sex?
Q. So I've been having sex with this guy for over three months. At the beginning we both said we were okay with not having a relationship because neither of us wanted one. Recently we were away from each other for more than two weeks, and generally we ...
A. 8 January 2009: Well you could stop fucking him and see what happens? It is up to you if he wants more than that then he will make it clear but only if your on the same wavelength you both have to want more than sex to have a relationship but you both said at the ... (read in full...)
How can I keep strong and leave my abusive man once and for all?
Q. How can I keep strong and leave my abusive man once and for all. Two years ago my man asked if I would give him a 10 day excursion with his ex girlfriend because he said he loved us both (long story) and couldn’t decide which one to chose. I beg...
A. 8 January 2009: Sometimes we are attracted to the bad boy happens to a lot of women we see beyond what others see sometimes! if he had good qualities when you first met and you were blissfully happy for years i could understand why you cannot fall out of love with ... (read in full...)
Why do I get so upset?
Q. Hi there.... I need some advice, I have been in a 'relationship' with a divorced man, luckily he has no kids, his wife left him for another man. We have been very close, he means the world to me. Whenever he is working I bother him, he has his own ...
A. 8 January 2009: Ok hun you sound a bit better keep us posted.
Gina... (read in full...)
We have our problems but his In-Laws compound it
Q. I am meeting with the in-laws tonight for a "nice dinner" and dread it. My husband and I have had problems, stemming from drinking too much. Last Saturday, it culminated in a huge fight after he and a friend snorted a bunch of coke and drank a ...
A. 8 January 2009: You can vent on here whenever you want we are your listening ears hun none of us lead perfect lives or have perfect marriages and if we think we have we are only kidding ourselves! I can see where your coming from in all of this it is as if your a ... (read in full...)
My period was a week late, is there a possibility I could still be pregnant?
Q. I just wanted to know.... I slept with a guy and I was a week late on my period but I started it today. is there any way possible that I can still be pregnant even though I started? I'm never late ever have been in 4 years so I thought it was very ...
A. 8 January 2009: If you have took your period then i'd say your not pregnant you may have been late due to the stress of worrying about it if in doubt you can always buy a pregnancy test and do it at home if you feel you need something to satisfy you more.
Gina... (read in full...)
Is there some pill I could take to kill the egg?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom and he only did a quick in and out and he said for sure he didn't have pre cum and he normally feels it when he does. I'm still scared I'm pregnant, could I be? and if I could be is there some pill I ...
A. 8 January 2009: Yes go to your nearest Pharmacy and ask for the Morning After Pill you have up to 72 hours after sex to take it have a look at this website and next time please use protection!
http://w... (read in full...)
I get embarrassed because my nipples stick out too much.
Q. I have small boobs and my nipples seem to stick out really far. They stick out abut a centimetre. Is this a turn off for men, I get embarrassed by them!...
A. 7 January 2009: Why thanks Uncle Phil i am surprised you noticed my error seeing as you were all hot and bothered there!
Gina
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Was sex with me pre planned???
Q. Hi, I have been seeing a guy recently. We went on about 3-4 dates before I actually invited him over to my place. I prepared a small dinner for him (he got the wine) and then we cozied up and watched a movie. It was perfect, really. We ended...
A. 7 January 2009: Ok so this might have not went too well this time maybe next time will be different at least he was playing safe with you he did come armed with the Condom's!
I think you mentioning to him was this pre-planned floored him slightly! and maybe took... (read in full...)
I just want one occasion were he will see me for the first time the night and think.. ok she looks sooo much better than usual.
Q. I need a little help.. I've been with my boyfriend 16 months now.. and I know he loves me and he thinks I'm beautiful and is very happy with the way I look so that's not what this is about. We're going out for a meal this weekend, I've gone out...
A. 7 January 2009: Ok do you have long hair? if you do get it put up if you dont get extensions in curls so it folds down over your back very sexy!
You can also get the glittery eyeliner everyone was wearing at new year Boots, Claire's ,and Accessorise all sell it a... (read in full...)
Embarrassing noises after sex!
Q. ok.. this is a little embarrassing, but it's to do with when i have sex. Sex in every position is really good and fine.. what i am asking about is when i have sex doggy style.. i enjoy this style the most and so its my favorite to do. the thing...
A. 7 January 2009: It sounds like trapped wind! because it can't escape the other way it is coming out the front way that's what i think nothing to be worried about think if i recall they call it Queef!!(Vaginal Flatulence)
Gina... (read in full...)
I get embarrassed because my nipples stick out too much.
Q. I have small boobs and my nipples seem to stick out really far. They stick out abut a centimetre. Is this a turn off for men, I get embarrassed by them!...
A. 7 January 2009: Sorry i'm a women maybe the men can join in here after me and correct me if i am wrong!
I would say most men find this a turn on when you see all the wet t-shirt competitions nipples galore stick out and i think all the men think this is highly attr... (read in full...)
Are we too old to have children?
Q. Hi I'm new to this, I'm 37 and my girlfriend is a little bit younger. We have not been together long and I know one day she wants children. Are we too old to have children? I don't want to my children to think their dad is old, but I'm not...
A. 7 January 2009: Thirties seem to be the new age now for couples having children i had my second pregnancy (twins) at 33 and was perfect healthy i had all my health checks done to be safe as the older you get the more at risk you are of having down syndrome children ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my insecurities about her past sex life?
Q. I've been in a relationship for almost a year now and I'm trying to get some help dealing with the only real thing that bothers me about her. At one point early on in our relationship we happened to be sitting around with a group of our friends and ...
A. 7 January 2009: Well none of us are perfect sweetheart if we were would'nt that make for a dull world?
Gina... (read in full...)
We have our problems but his In-Laws compound it
Q. I am meeting with the in-laws tonight for a "nice dinner" and dread it. My husband and I have had problems, stemming from drinking too much. Last Saturday, it culminated in a huge fight after he and a friend snorted a bunch of coke and drank a ...
A. 7 January 2009: You did what you thought was right at the time are they going to condemn you for life? Tough for them they need to wake up and come into the times we live in think they have been coccooned in a world of their own!
Gina... (read in full...)
We have our problems but his In-Laws compound it
Q. I am meeting with the in-laws tonight for a "nice dinner" and dread it. My husband and I have had problems, stemming from drinking too much. Last Saturday, it culminated in a huge fight after he and a friend snorted a bunch of coke and drank a ...
A. 7 January 2009: Don't let them you both stick to your guns they have to realise they can't have it all their way all of the time and what about your husband close or not close he has to stick up for his rights and his wife!! Plan what your going to say next week go ... (read in full...)
We have our problems but his In-Laws compound it
Q. I am meeting with the in-laws tonight for a "nice dinner" and dread it. My husband and I have had problems, stemming from drinking too much. Last Saturday, it culminated in a huge fight after he and a friend snorted a bunch of coke and drank a ...
A. 7 January 2009: I can understand them wanting the best for their own but it is not as if your 16 the pair of you is it?
They are concerned though and rightly so about the drinking and the drug taking if your both committed to stopping these substances and work thro... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my insecurities about her past sex life?
Q. I've been in a relationship for almost a year now and I'm trying to get some help dealing with the only real thing that bothers me about her. At one point early on in our relationship we happened to be sitting around with a group of our friends and ...
A. 7 January 2009: Your more than welcome great minds think alike eh???
Gina... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my insecurities about her past sex life?
Q. I've been in a relationship for almost a year now and I'm trying to get some help dealing with the only real thing that bothers me about her. At one point early on in our relationship we happened to be sitting around with a group of our friends and ...
A. 7 January 2009: When it pops into your head go do something this is what i do when things come into my head for me i clean! i can iron, cook, etc: you find what it is you can do to switch off that thought before it becomes lodged in there! once you find the things ... (read in full...)
Why do I get so upset?
Q. Hi there.... I need some advice, I have been in a 'relationship' with a divorced man, luckily he has no kids, his wife left him for another man. We have been very close, he means the world to me. Whenever he is working I bother him, he has his own ...
A. 7 January 2009: When people have their own business they have to devote a lot of their time in to it to make it a success that is all he is doing i don't think you should pester him as much i can understand you may feel he is not giving you 100% attention but honey ... (read in full...)
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