Friend & I become very involved and now his g/f is upset. Should I try to intervene?
Q. Hi I'm in a strange problem.I'm a happily married woman immensely in love with her husband but was somewhere lonely.my husband switched his job to a foreign country and i had to stay here for one year. soon after reaching there, he got busy and had ...
A. 7 November 2009: Your welcome, you take care of your marriage that is all that matters now.
Gina... (read in full...)
Is this older man playing me?
Q. I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...
A. 7 November 2009: Best thing to do then is each take one another to meet the families see what happens, and deal with it accordingly.
Gina... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with a prostitute...What is the solution to my fixation?
Q. Hi i have been seeing a prostitute now for some time as i was quite upset about myself losing my girlfriend few years ago i decided this was my only option. I had visited the brothels on several ocassions seeing a multiple of girls and living my ...
A. 7 November 2009: I think you should seek help for your sex addiction and get clean, and hopefully you will see these places for what they really are and the women in them.
It is very hard to have a normal relationship with a sex worker because they get paid to have... (read in full...)
I have no friends!
Q. I'm a 30 year old girl, married for one year now. I have a strange problem of not having any good friends. When I was in school I used to have few very good friends with whom I used to hang out often. Later in Uni I never had any close friends whom ...
A. 6 November 2009: A Good way to meet new friends is through clubs, churches, etc: that way your meeting hopefully true friends in the long term.
If you do come across as being aloof try to work on that, go out your way to be nice to people, really get to know them... (read in full...)
Violent ex tricked me. Will this hurt me in court?
Q. My ex was arrested the following night of him attacking me. It was my friend who rang the police luckily she was there when he got in my flat, and pulled a knife on me. He wrecked my flat too, his bail conditions meant that he wasnt to come near me ...
A. 6 November 2009: Discuss all this with your Solicitor and ask what he thinks the court will make of this, you can ask many questions with your solicitor before you even appear in court, that way your well ready for anything that is thrown at you, always be prepared ... (read in full...)
Is this older man playing me?
Q. I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...
A. 6 November 2009: I think he is saying his family wont accept your relationship because of the age difference, but at the end of the day it is what you two fee that matters, yes we all need our families but if that is going to intervene with someone whom you love ... (read in full...)
The love of my life cheated on me...is he at it again?
Q. I have been cheated on 3 years after I was married, by the person whom I knew for more than 10 years and who showed me nothing but pure love, respect and trust. We had a beautiful love story that a lot of people envied and wished they would have the...
A. 6 November 2009: After he cheated on you the first time and saw the damage he caused not only with you but your marriage, i wonder why he thinks it is acceptable to go to another woman's house just for coffee, if that is the case why not invite her to your home ... (read in full...)
Why am I losing my sexual attraction for him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for several years. Things have been good between us. I think we have a pretty good relationship. There is only one problem. Lately I do not feel sexually attracted to him. I am usually a very sexual person ...
A. 6 November 2009: Has he gained a lot of weight? have you? are you under enormous pressure from work? do you have money worries? i am asking this and could ask a million more reasons as to why your not getting aroused with him.
Many factors need to be taking into... (read in full...)
I've cheated on my fiancee and I'm seeing him this weekend... Do I tell?
Q. I've got myself into such a mess. I'm engaged to the most amazing guy in the world, he means everything to me. We currently only see eachother at weekends as I'm at university now, and may way of coping with him not being here is to sort of push him ...
A. 6 November 2009: You say your engaged to the most amazing guy i the world who means everything to you, yet cheated on him?
I don't think blocking him out your head was something you did purposely, but by doing so in order to cope with not seeing him you have allo... (read in full...)
In a few more years do you think he would want a younger woman?
Q. I am 29 and my boyfriend is 19. He has been persuing the relationship with me for months, and its only been weeks since I have given in and allowed myself to fall in love with him. I do love him, and find this relationship to be by far the most ...
A. 6 November 2009: If you are happy with him that is all that matters here, your the one sharing a life with him and he you, that is all at this time that is important.
Yes i can see being an older woman why you would have doubts about the age further down the line... (read in full...)
Do you think our relationship will be a short or long one?
Q. I am dating a 26 year old, and i am 40 year old woman. We met 2 years ago when he turned 24. We are basically attracted to each other, love at first sight i may say, and really are like soulmate. During our 2 years life had been very rough. W...
A. 6 November 2009: I would be questioning his reason he is saying you cannot be together forever?
I would want to work on those reasons and then see if that can be resolved, if it can then fine your relationship has every chance of surviving if you put the effort and ... (read in full...)
Should I see my ex and finally find out if this is real?
Q. I got married last year, no babies yet... One day I looked for my ex on facebook, and happened to find him. I sent him a message and he responded back... we've been chatting since then. I don't know why I looked for him, he was my high school bf and ...
A. 6 November 2009: You got married last year and already your thinking of an ex? the answer would be NO you are playing with fire here, forget meeting up with him in fact he is a distraction to you as to regards your husband and that is wrong.
If you and your husb... (read in full...)
Why can't she see that her actions and lack of consideration are a huge cause of our problems?
Q. My gf did not come home last night. We live together. I called and left a message when I arrived home form work and then I waited until 10pm before trying to call her again. She would not answer my calls or return my texts. I texted her to ask her ...
A. 6 November 2009: Whatever the reason she felt the need to run away overnight fine but to turn that into 2/3 nights and you footing the bill sorry but that is not on, if it was her asking you to join her, her treat fine but why should you have to pay £300/£500 you ... (read in full...)
My b/f makes me feel complexed about my body, I used to be happy about it!
Q. When I'm watching movies with my boyfriend he is always pointing out which girls have better breasts or stomachs than me. If there is a topless scene he will immediately turn to me and tell me things like, "her's are much bigger than yours, they're ...
A. 6 November 2009: He is the one with the problems here as i see it he seems obsessed with woman's body shapes/parts?
I think maybe he has been watching too much porn!
I would make it perfectly clear to him that his rude comments about how your body is will eventual... (read in full...)
Help me cope with my worry about someone I care about deeply!
Q. Hey there. Umm, starting this is really hard so I'll start from the beginning and a bit of a backstory.. I've recently started university and I met a girl here on my first day, in fact she was the first person I met here. A few days later we open...
A. 6 November 2009: Your welcome, and good luck with everything.
Gina... (read in full...)
Is it normal to prefer sex during the first days of menstruation?
Q. I am curious. My wife tells me that she is most interested in Sex about the 3rd or 4th day of her period. Is this quite normal?...
A. 6 November 2009: I think having sex does relieve a little of the pressure from cramp, bur each woman is different and we all know what we like, so maybe it is something she is happy to have at this time, i would just enjoy what your getting for now.
Gina... (read in full...)
Is it normal to prefer sex during the first days of menstruation?
Q. I am curious. My wife tells me that she is most interested in Sex about the 3rd or 4th day of her period. Is this quite normal?...
A. 5 November 2009: Well they say your more looser down there during that time so maybe it is more comfortable, and not so dry!
How old is your wife?
Gina... (read in full...)
2 questions: My little brother searches for porn and I don't have my period yet!
Q. [MODERATOR NOTE: The same (13 year-old) poster has presented two questions, which has been combined into one post.] ok my little brother is on youtube serching on sex and i know cause i checked the search on my laptop what shold i do??? Also, why...
A. 5 November 2009: I agree with the other Aunts, speak to your parents and ask them to put the parental control on, mind you some of these kids now know how to unblock it, so it is maybe a good idea to tell them why?
As far as your periods are concerned don't be in a... (read in full...)
Can you get a urinary tract infection from anal sex?
Q. Can u get a uranary track infection from anal sex?...
A. 5 November 2009: Yes you can and it is also very important as Tisha has pointed out that anytime your having sex especially anal sex, condoms must be worn.
There is a lot of germs in the anus, just think faeces and that is enough to make sure you should be prot... (read in full...)
I'm depressed after my abortion.
Q. im 14 and i had an abortion in February, and know im depressed and want a baby. what do i do? please help me. i have never been this depressed in my life before please please help me ...
A. 5 November 2009: I would urge you to speak to your mum, and get her to help you to make an appointment with the nearest health clinic to you where they will have groups you can go to and sit in on them to talk.
I think it is important to understand why you had this... (read in full...)
Why do I find it so hard to approach women I am attracted to?
Q. Why do I find it so hard to approach females I like, particularly good-looking ones? Last night, I went to Pizza Hut and got my friend to ask the waitress out for me cos I didn't have the guts to do it? Is it because I am afraid of rejection, that ...
A. 5 November 2009: Some women are happy to be on their own, we don't know what is going on in some people's life to make them feel they just want to be on their own.
That's life as they say! give yourself a few goals tell yourself the next girl you like you will must... (read in full...)
Friend & I become very involved and now his g/f is upset. Should I try to intervene?
Q. Hi I'm in a strange problem.I'm a happily married woman immensely in love with her husband but was somewhere lonely.my husband switched his job to a foreign country and i had to stay here for one year. soon after reaching there, he got busy and had ...
A. 5 November 2009: I tend to agree with your husband it is the past now let it go, and the both of them have to work through this themselves now.
Gina... (read in full...)
How can I make the guilt of cheating in a past relationship go away?
Q. 3 years ago, I was in a long term relationship. she gave up everything for me, friends, family, just to be with me. We lived together for years, but I developed feelings for another woman and began an affair. I hate myself for what I did to this ...
A. 5 November 2009: Forgiveness gives us back a sense of worth, i think if we all forgive others that have made wrong judgements whilst making these mistakes we can go on to leave the guilt and the shame to be buried forever.
We learn from our mistakes and vow to spen... (read in full...)
Read this email message and tell me what you think!
Q. I found a message in my husband's email. It was from the owner of a company he has done some work for (who is a male), and he has an email address at that company i just became aware of. He has been hiding all of this from me. The message ...
A. 5 November 2009: Alarm Bells are ringing here time to talk this over, he is obviously hiding something from you, men do not speak to one another in this fashion, especially ones that are married.
Gina... (read in full...)
Would you believe a married man who......
Q. would you believe a married man, who is not having sexual relations with his wife is taking extenz only for his own self esteem (like you would lift weights or work out) as he claims. Or would you belive he is having sexual relations elsewhere? Wo...
A. 5 November 2009: No i would not believe him i would be questioning him further as to what he takes me for!
You both need to discuss this further, he is on dating sites looking to hook up, that is what they are for and if he has gone as far as this i would be talk... (read in full...)
He never feels sex!
Q. hi i want to know about my boyfriend, he never feels sex.when ever i try to seduce or if i come naked in front of him he is not aroused.i tried everything kissing hugging but he doesn't fell anything and his little boy is not erecting even after se...
A. 5 November 2009: Well glad to hear it is valid, and forgive me when you said little boy i assumed (child) sorry my mind was racing!
I would get him to see a doctor just to rule out any erection problems he may have, also if he is stressed out his head due to work... (read in full...)
Can I get him back? Or is it too late?
Q. I'm 25 years old and at my ropes end. I got out of a really serious relationship about 2 years ago. I gave it my all and when it ended I was devastated. I felt I couldn't get emotionally attached to anyone for a very long time. I dated randomly but ...
A. 5 November 2009: Has this been posted before?
Gina... (read in full...)
Why do I find it so hard to approach women I am attracted to?
Q. Why do I find it so hard to approach females I like, particularly good-looking ones? Last night, I went to Pizza Hut and got my friend to ask the waitress out for me cos I didn't have the guts to do it? Is it because I am afraid of rejection, that ...
A. 5 November 2009: I think it could be maybe past failures with relationships? could be anything but going by your age i think you need to try and ask them out for yourself, cause it does not look too good mates asking for you.
Maybe you need to look at self este... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 5 November 2009: Tisha answered your question brilliantly and all i would add to this is get your self tested asap.
Gina... (read in full...)
Raped by two men and troubled by porn
Q. [Moderator note: some spelling errors corrected, paragraphs added for easier reading] So to start off my question I'd like to say that I was drugged and raped by two guys a couple of years back. But My question is that the last thing I remember...
A. 5 November 2009: Please don't take the easy way out here, you have to think long term, regardless whether you stay with this guy for ever these issues need addressing, in order to help you come to terms with certain things and to make the person you are with ... (read in full...)
My wife refuses to give me oral pleasure because it's "degrading" but expects me to give it to her!
Q. My wife says that giving oral sex is degrading, so she refuses to do it. However, she expects me to give her oral pleasure every time we have sex. I have since stopped giving her oral sex. She says I am acting like a spoiled child. If that is the ...
A. 5 November 2009: Both my husband and i have degrees, and that did not stop him from doing certain things that were questionable for someone so clever, being clever or smart does not and should not come into this as a battle of words with each other, i always find ... (read in full...)
Everyone has his new number but me!
Q. hi, me and my guy are moving around for the past one year, it was all great initially, but now for the past one month things are getting worse, recently he said he needs a break for 3 months since he has some family issue and his exams are also ...
A. 5 November 2009: Only you will know that answer, good luck.
Gina... (read in full...)
Help me cope with my worry about someone I care about deeply!
Q. Hey there. Umm, starting this is really hard so I'll start from the beginning and a bit of a backstory.. I've recently started university and I met a girl here on my first day, in fact she was the first person I met here. A few days later we open...
A. 5 November 2009: Why don't you write her a letter? I am sure you can say all the things you feel you want to say but cant get the chance to in person, so put pen to paper.
The lovely thing about receiving a letter is it shows the other person you have took time out ... (read in full...)
I am struggling to keep up with my boyfriend's sexual appetite!
Q. I really need help with this problem so any advice would be greatly appreciated:) So my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and in the beginning we had XXX almost 3-4 times a day! He is very sexually active and so was I. Now that our...
A. 5 November 2009: No wonder your tired i am exhausted after reading this, 3/4 a day is excessive i feel, yes and i know your both young but even so i think for him to expect you to be doing this that amount of times each day every week is way too much.
I would disc... (read in full...)
She's on the fence, how do I get her back?
Q. So, she broke up with me because she felt emotionally drained. Drained, from feeling like she had to make all the decisions, was the strong one all the time, had to cater to me too much etc. Essentially, I was too needy, and that came through and ...
A. 5 November 2009: Why not ask to see her again like a date! you can talk things over with her and let her see how you have changed, you can stress to her that under no circumstances are you wanting to put any pressure on her, you want her to see first how you have ... (read in full...)
Why don't I trust him?
Q. my boyfriend and i met last weekend ,we had a great time together, despite the fact we have been dating for six months i just do not seem to build trust on him.. i do know know where the problem is am so insecure and afraid of loosing him.. what do ...
A. 5 November 2009: You need to address your issues of insecurity because whatever has happened to you maybe in past relationships that has caused this, you cant take it into other ones or the same pattern gets repeated.
Speak to someone about these issues, try to get ... (read in full...)
He never feels sex!
Q. hi i want to know about my boyfriend, he never feels sex.when ever i try to seduce or if i come naked in front of him he is not aroused.i tried everything kissing hugging but he doesn't fell anything and his little boy is not erecting even after se...
A. 5 November 2009: Fake Post Guys! I sincerely hope so after reading this.... (read in full...)
My period is SO much heavier than NORMAL!
Q. I am not sure if this is normal...so I will ask? I got my period yesterday(not for the first time,had it lots of times) and it has been really heavy, since yesterday around 3 pm and now I have gone through like 6 pairs of underwear. Also I have been ...
A. 5 November 2009: Good for you!
Gina... (read in full...)
It feels as though my wife isn't interested in fixing our marriage.
Q. Hi everyone My wife and i have been seperated for about 10 weeks now, of which the first 6 i moved out. i had no other option but to come home in the end. we have been getting on now for atleast 8 weeks with laughter, conversation, fu...
A. 4 November 2009: I agree with Tisha here and i also think there is something left out of what is the real cause of the split.
Your 1st year Anniversary is coming up and your already been through a split?
Whatever your issues you need to get them sorted and pronto, ... (read in full...)
Who does she want, her boyfriend or me?
Q. Ok recently she hurt me real bad, asked me to move on because she is in love with her bf. I told her I cant forget her and it still hurts me. She told me to concentrate on my studies for now and not talk about this for the time being. Then one day ...
A. 4 November 2009: It really is up to her what she wants and i also think she has to think very carefully about this boyfriend as well as been controlling, he is demanding her password to keep tabs on her she has to see this is an unhealthy relationship and she is ... (read in full...)
Everyone has his new number but me!
Q. hi, me and my guy are moving around for the past one year, it was all great initially, but now for the past one month things are getting worse, recently he said he needs a break for 3 months since he has some family issue and his exams are also ...
A. 4 November 2009: I think you need to seriously consider what is it your getting from him, he seems to be determined he will not give up certain friends for you or stop what he has now.
I think i would be thinking he is more than selfish and that is being polite to y... (read in full...)
Raped by two men and troubled by porn
Q. [Moderator note: some spelling errors corrected, paragraphs added for easier reading] So to start off my question I'd like to say that I was drugged and raped by two guys a couple of years back. But My question is that the last thing I remember...
A. 4 November 2009: Be open and honest with him, also i would ask him to support you in getting help from a trained therapist in rape counselling, if this is something you have never done i would urge you to do so now, rape victims are taking through slow steps to help ... (read in full...)
My period is SO much heavier than NORMAL!
Q. I am not sure if this is normal...so I will ask? I got my period yesterday(not for the first time,had it lots of times) and it has been really heavy, since yesterday around 3 pm and now I have gone through like 6 pairs of underwear. Also I have been ...
A. 4 November 2009: If your having irregular periods and sometimes not taking them for months at a time, i think that is why your experiencing this, all the blood is coming at one time.
I would go speak with your doctor about this i am reassured there is so much they... (read in full...)
Friend & I become very involved and now his g/f is upset. Should I try to intervene?
Q. Hi I'm in a strange problem.I'm a happily married woman immensely in love with her husband but was somewhere lonely.my husband switched his job to a foreign country and i had to stay here for one year. soon after reaching there, he got busy and had ...
A. 4 November 2009: No do not intervene this is their business now, you have left that life and need to concentrate on you and your husbands life now.
Some things are, well best left alone!
Gina... (read in full...)
My wife refuses to give me oral pleasure because it's "degrading" but expects me to give it to her!
Q. My wife says that giving oral sex is degrading, so she refuses to do it. However, she expects me to give her oral pleasure every time we have sex. I have since stopped giving her oral sex. She says I am acting like a spoiled child. If that is the ...
A. 3 November 2009: Your not teenagers anymore and i think the way your going about this is as if you were!
Talk this over with her, i am sure she can pleasure you other ways if not with oral, you cant expect her to do somethign she finds degrading can you?
Whils... (read in full...)
Everyone has his new number but me!
Q. hi, me and my guy are moving around for the past one year, it was all great initially, but now for the past one month things are getting worse, recently he said he needs a break for 3 months since he has some family issue and his exams are also ...
A. 2 November 2009: I don't know what his game plan is but one things for sure i think he has one that you are not aware of!
Does he seriously think he can go off for two years not see you and you both still be an item?
If i were you i would want to know the reasons ... (read in full...)
Everyone has his new number but me!
Q. hi, me and my guy are moving around for the past one year, it was all great initially, but now for the past one month things are getting worse, recently he said he needs a break for 3 months since he has some family issue and his exams are also ...
A. 2 November 2009: I dont know what his game plan is but one thigns for sure i think he nhas one that you are not aware of!
Does he seriously think he can go off for two years not see you and you both still be an item?
If i were you i would wnat to know the reasons ... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with a prostitute...What is the solution to my fixation?
Q. Hi i have been seeing a prostitute now for some time as i was quite upset about myself losing my girlfriend few years ago i decided this was my only option. I had visited the brothels on several ocassions seeing a multiple of girls and living my ...
A. 1 November 2009: It has been three years and she is still working the brothels? How are you coping with the fact she sees multiple men in a day over a month that figure could easily reach a few hundred a month!
Is this really the type of girl you want to set up h... (read in full...)
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
Q. HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
A. 29 October 2009: The problem here is he came into this relationship knowing he had this problem and failed to tell you, for me that would have the old alarm bells ringing, lies and more lies lead to misery in my experience!
Yes i would say he has a sexual addi... (read in full...)
Everyone has his new number but me!
Q. hi, me and my guy are moving around for the past one year, it was all great initially, but now for the past one month things are getting worse, recently he said he needs a break for 3 months since he has some family issue and his exams are also ...
A. 26 October 2009: I am well thank you, i am glad things worked out fine for your meeting, i would just like to add i think he comes across as a little controlling? the fact he is bringing up your choice in food and dress, would insult me and i would have thought your ... (read in full...)
Everyone has his new number but me!
Q. hi, me and my guy are moving around for the past one year, it was all great initially, but now for the past one month things are getting worse, recently he said he needs a break for 3 months since he has some family issue and his exams are also ...
A. 9 October 2009: Your welcome.
Gina... (read in full...)
Everyone has his new number but me!
Q. hi, me and my guy are moving around for the past one year, it was all great initially, but now for the past one month things are getting worse, recently he said he needs a break for 3 months since he has some family issue and his exams are also ...
A. 9 October 2009: Yes go and meet him sometimes when we are face to face with people we can see by their facial expressions and body language just exactly how they do feel about us, so by all means go meet him.
Loyalty is a must in any relationship without it i feel... (read in full...)
Everyone has his new number but me!
Q. hi, me and my guy are moving around for the past one year, it was all great initially, but now for the past one month things are getting worse, recently he said he needs a break for 3 months since he has some family issue and his exams are also ...
A. 8 October 2009: He is telling you he loves you and wants to be with you so i cannot fathom out why he would do this, unless it is for the reason your maybe pestering him too much on the phone?
I have no idea! what i would do is sit and discuss this with him mayb... (read in full...)
Everyone has his new number but me!
Q. hi, me and my guy are moving around for the past one year, it was all great initially, but now for the past one month things are getting worse, recently he said he needs a break for 3 months since he has some family issue and his exams are also ...
A. 7 October 2009: Try not to take your temper out on him i can see why you would want to but please don't rise to this.
If you have insulted his family i would apologise and wait and see what else he has to say on the matter, try and keep calm!
Gina... (read in full...)
Everyone has his new number but me!
Q. hi, me and my guy are moving around for the past one year, it was all great initially, but now for the past one month things are getting worse, recently he said he needs a break for 3 months since he has some family issue and his exams are also ...
A. 7 October 2009: He has told you he needs a break and i think he is trying to do this in a polite way but obviously you have gotten wind of this new number and i think that would tell me he really does not want you having it otherwise he would have given you it.
A... (read in full...)
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