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Why do I feel so rotten when he hurt me so much?

Q.   I made a huge mistake, I've been in a relationship for many years, I have been hurt very badly. Yet I continued to go back time and time again. Long story short he is in a bad place and I tried to be nice and it back fired, now all the I'm sorry's ...

A.   15 March 2018: I need to be stronger then ever now, I am so physically and emotional exhausted, seems like our whole relationship has been dealing with his drama and the rotten things he did. Forgot about the emails, got to block that too. I'm getting emails about ... (read in full...)

I am exhausted and my boyfriend is no help.

Q.   I know I'm right but someone please knock some sense into me. I'm in a relationship, we don't live together but I spend a lot of time at his house. Work everyday and come home to him sitting on the couch everyday watching tv and has done nothing ...

A.   9 October 2017: I let some time go by without communicating with my boyfriend, and when I finally did go back to talk to him I realized I don't even want to be in the same room as him, so I handle things in the worst way possible, I was so emotional beat and among ... (read in full...)

I am exhausted and my boyfriend is no help.

Q.   I know I'm right but someone please knock some sense into me. I'm in a relationship, we don't live together but I spend a lot of time at his house. Work everyday and come home to him sitting on the couch everyday watching tv and has done nothing ...

A.   2 October 2017: Thanks everyone for your input, it was very helpful, My moms apartment is all cleaned out and my daughter is settled in her new apartment, last thing is taking her to Boston for her appointment, although exhausting, I haven't corresponded with him ... (read in full...)

I accidentally sent his ex a friend request and she accepted. I don't want to be friends

Q.   Here's my issue, I have been in a relationship for 6yrs, rocky sometimes, I found out he has been having chats with his ex, the problem now is I was on face book and came across her page I was curious to find out what she looked like but apparently ...

A.   28 November 2016: Dear Friends, Thank you for all responses and advice, should of listened sooner. Found out he is back to doing his drugs again and Saturday night he physically attacked me, he is more rotten and unstable than I ever imagined. I'ts OVER, moving ... (read in full...)

I accidentally sent his ex a friend request and she accepted. I don't want to be friends

Q.   Here's my issue, I have been in a relationship for 6yrs, rocky sometimes, I found out he has been having chats with his ex, the problem now is I was on face book and came across her page I was curious to find out what she looked like but apparently ...

A.   21 November 2016: Ok, the other night he told me he has closed his face book page, and said I'm glad you're here keeps me away from chats, I replied, "It's you that has to keep away from chat's. Got home from work tonight to find he opened his face book page again ... (read in full...)

I accidentally sent his ex a friend request and she accepted. I don't want to be friends

Q.   Here's my issue, I have been in a relationship for 6yrs, rocky sometimes, I found out he has been having chats with his ex, the problem now is I was on face book and came across her page I was curious to find out what she looked like but apparently ...

A.   17 November 2016: Dear aunt honesty, The answer to your question, Why is he mad at her? He said because she accepted my friend request and wanted to chat, the more I think about it, I think he was afraid of what she might tell me. I'm pretty sick of the whole dam ... (read in full...)

I accidentally sent his ex a friend request and she accepted. I don't want to be friends

Q.   Here's my issue, I have been in a relationship for 6yrs, rocky sometimes, I found out he has been having chats with his ex, the problem now is I was on face book and came across her page I was curious to find out what she looked like but apparently ...

A.   16 November 2016: Thanks everyone, I told him what I did, but she wasted no time telling him what I did before I did, I told him I don't want to hear about her anymore, and no more chats with her, he knows how I feel about it, I want to move forward and he says that ... (read in full...)

Why would he do this? I've been faithful while he's been cheating. What do I need to do?

Q.   This is not my first time on this site. Finally I made the decision to end a long term relationship that was awful. I had discovered my ex had been having online sexual chats with his ex, I left. After many ''I'm sorry's and she means nothing, I...

A.   3 September 2016: Thank you all for your responses. I have taken all the measures needed to prevent him from trying to contact me. I guess I will never understand why he would chose to do that when he had a relationship, but I will stay strong and move forward. I ... (read in full...)

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